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  • 3 months ago
Dear Chixie,

Please hide my identity. Naa koy uyab nga seaman. Three months na ang among relasyon. I met him during sa birthday party sa akong amiga. Naa lang koy namatikdan sa akong uyab. Whenever mag-picture mi, pirmi gyud ko niya sultian nga dili ipost sa social media ang among photos kay matud pa niya, ganahan siya og lowkey nga relasyon. Ug matud pa niya, dili basehan ang social media sa among relasyon.

As a woman, Chixie, nakasabot raman ko sa iyang rason. But as a woman, ganahan sad baya ko nga iflex sa iyang social media. Honestly, nagsugod nako og duda if naa ba syay gitago kay hapit nasad ni siya mosakay og balik sa barko.

Liz
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07:30Anyway, don't forget to use the hashtag, hashtag social media, dear chicks, hashtag social media.
07:35If you want to engage, mga ka-sunstar, mga mga nagtanaw ka roon sa itong live, I cannot, okay.
07:40There, there, there we'll be right back.
08:10Good afternoon, dear Chixie.
08:21Please hide my identity and just call me Liz.
08:28I am 25 years old.
08:30I have a problem with my hair that I've got in my name, Will.
08:37Will is 30 years old.
08:39I'm going to go to the Osaka birthday party.
08:46Happy birthday Candice! Here's my gift.
08:51Hello! Wow!
08:53Thank you to Annie Liz.
08:55Sweet bunny mo.
08:57Liz, here's your plate.
09:01Pamili na lang ginug foodie.
09:02Medyo daghan ba yung bisita karun?
09:05Time sa. Wait lang. Speaking of bisita.
09:07Ikaw raman lagi. Asa manday si Rox?
09:10Maung lagi. Nag-text siyang di siyang madayun.
09:13Gilantan daw yung baby.
09:16Maung. Ako rang ni Annie karun.
09:18Ay.
09:19Sige lang, sige lang. Ayaw ka goal.
09:21Okay?
09:22Ani na lang.
09:24Tawagun sana ako akong friend.
09:25Wait lang ha. Wait a minute lang.
09:27Anak na joke ka din ha?
09:28Okay. I can manage.
09:30Hindi, hindi, hindi, hindi, hindi. Pakuyuganti ka. Para di po ka mabored.
09:34Will! Will!
09:36Will, dali sa good bye?
09:39Ano saan mo na, bye?
09:40Ah, bye. Dali, sa good.
09:43Nakoy pa ila-ila ni mo.
09:44Um, bye.
09:46Moni si Liz. Ako di siyang workmate.
09:48Pretty, no?
09:49Ah.
09:51Hi, Liz.
09:52Ah, Liz.
09:54Si Will di ay akong kababata.
09:55Kibaw ka.
09:56Siman be any.
09:57Wag ko pa may siyang dunggu.
09:58Ah, ha. Hi, Will. Nice to meet you.
10:03Ah, bye. Will.
10:05Uban isa si Liz, ha?
10:06Kay, asika, sunsan ako itong ubang mga bisita.
10:09Kibaw na ka. Karoon pa na ubot sila, Lola.
10:11Um, Liz.
10:13Anasaka, ha?
10:14Anasaka ni Will.
10:15Don't worry, we're friendly ra.
10:16Magin na siya kung kababata.
10:17Harmless pa na siya.
10:19Sure.
10:20Ako na bahala ni Liz, bye.
10:22Sige. Thank you, bye.
10:24Sige, sige, ra, kandis.
10:25Uy, I can manage regid bitaw.
10:27Ah, Liz.
10:30Dalik, dalik.
10:31Kayo ganti ka.
10:32Sa buffet, ha, toy.
10:33Ah, ha.
10:34Thank you kayo, Will.
10:35Maigog mga punta ni Moe.
10:37Bisita, podbiak ka, ha?
10:39Sus.
10:40Ayaw kagulih.
10:42Sama si, sama sa giingun ni kandis.
10:45Magkababata.
10:46Minso.
10:47Wura na po kagpamilya na po.
10:49Amung pagtagad sa usaha ba?
10:50Ah, ikaw rito iyang gipasabot nga kababata niya.
10:55Maudi ay.
10:57Ah, dalik, dalik.
10:58Tilawin ni mga luto.
10:59Sa mga manikan nandis, oh.
11:01Nami, biya.
11:01Wala akong mag-expect nga gikan sa simple nga birthday party, magkasood mi ni Will.
11:12And eventually, nagkakamigyod.
11:15Pero, adun ako'y namat ngunan ni Will every time nga mag-date mi.
11:21Naagi na siya'y permi nga ihangyo na ako.
11:24Wow, babe, ka nice din eh, oh eh.
11:30Di ba, gingin nang tika nice kayo ni Dreyong view Drey?
11:33Ah, I'm happy you like it.
11:35Maulagi, babe.
11:37Dali, dali, dali.
11:38Pictures ata din eh, oh.
11:40Sige, babe.
11:41Pero, babe.
11:42Ayaw lang pag-pose ang mga picture na tundo, ha?
11:44Sa social media, ha?
11:46Kanang solo, raka.
11:48O, kera?
11:49Ay, nga naman, babe.
11:51Ay, kabaw, bitaw ka nga low, kera ko.
11:54Dali naman pa ko kinahangnan nga magsigitagpo sa anang itong dua, tagway, babe.
11:59Sa itong tagway da social media ba?
12:01Importante, real atong relationship.
12:04Hmm.
12:06Maumagid na ang rason, babe.
12:08Or, nakagitaguan, no?
12:10Taguan ba, eh?
12:12Hala, babe.
12:13Tungod lang sa dali ko ganahan mag-post,
12:15imo na kong dudahan?
12:17Babe, pwede din lang tayo maglalis tungkod ng ana.
12:20Besides,
12:21di lipa siya ang pag-post sa social media sa usaka relationship, eh?
12:25So,
12:26please, babe, enjoy the view.
12:28Pwede radyo din ka mag-post din na sa inyong mga photos, di ha?
12:31Basta,
12:32ayaw lang ko ipost, ha?
12:34Aware naman, pwede ka,
12:35na di ko kayo into social media, ba?
12:38Diba?
12:38Yus disrapod?
12:40Hmm.
12:43Okay.
12:44Mauman ka, ha?
12:44Mauna niya nga kong gidudahan ka ron, Shixi.
12:49Nga naman gini akong uyabui,
12:51nga dili magid musugot,
12:53nga ma-post among picture sa social media.
12:57Napakahani siya'y gitaguan?
12:59Or maybe,
13:01tungod kay bago palang me sa among relasyon.
13:04Mag-three months pala manggid me.
13:07Dilisab na ko kalikayan ang magduda.
13:09Kay next month,
13:10baya,
13:11musakay na siya'y balik sa bar ko.
13:14Maunga,
13:15nagsugod na ang akong pagduda nga,
13:17what if,
13:18na siya'y makailas sa laing lugar,
13:21o'tungod kay,
13:22wala ko niya gipo sa social media,
13:24basin magtuo nga,
13:26single pa siya.
13:27Nag-overthink na bagid ko,
13:29Shixi.
13:31Or,
13:32nabakahibasihan ang akong pagduda?
13:34Loki lang bagid kaha ang gusto ni Will,
13:37or,
13:37he is hiding something from me.
13:41Please,
13:41tambagikot Shixi.
13:44Daghang salamat,
13:46Liz.
13:46Thank you so much.
14:02Magpagkansan na to si Chary,
14:04si Eric.
14:04Tagsana na sila ka,
14:05dung mga mupakpak.
14:06Nga live.
14:08Thank you,
14:08Chary and Eric,
14:09for bringing life to the story,
14:11and to me.
14:12Mga video ko.
14:14Thank you so much.
14:15You've heard the story,
14:17no?
14:18And sa mga Gen Z ka ron,
14:19o,
14:20usumakan ni ang My Day,
14:22ang,
14:22ansan ni,
14:22My Day,
14:24mga,
14:24ansan ni,
14:25mga IG stories,
14:28mga TikToking,
14:29and everything,
14:30no?
14:31Um,
14:33hashtag social media
14:34because most,
14:35if not all,
14:36are flunting the relationship
14:37sa social media.
14:39Diba?
14:40Most,
14:40if not all.
14:41Some people decided to
14:44post their
14:45kanabitang status
14:46sa social media
14:47because that's how they
14:48tell the world
14:50that they are in love,
14:51no?
14:51And sometimes,
14:52apart from posting,
14:53they also share photos
14:55of them
14:56being together,
14:57celebrating anniversaries
14:59and month series
15:00and even weeksary.
15:01Wow, weeksary?
15:03How about kung single ka?
15:04Di, self-sorry.
15:05I'm so sorry.
15:07Wale,
15:08bitaw eh,
15:08pero,
15:09well,
15:09I have here the interns
15:10that we talked
15:11the last time
15:12and they will also
15:13give their opinions.
15:14But of course,
15:16reintroduce yourself
15:17because as I've told you,
15:18we close mga names.
15:19Anyway,
15:21sa tanan ng mga
15:22naadin hikarun
15:23and of course,
15:25natanaw siya tong live,
15:26good afternoon.
15:28Ingun si Toto,
15:29nice.
15:30Uy, hi Toto.
15:31Ingun si,
15:32ano naman ito si?
15:35Si Mila.
15:36Hello everyone.
15:38We are live across
15:39social media platform
15:40asa ta makastream ka ron.
15:42So I'm not,
15:43I think I'm gonna be,
15:45kind of bitaw mentioning
15:46the one app
15:47because pwede na ni siya
15:48on TikTok.
15:49Pero ang usa din ako
15:50ma-mention.
15:51So na ko sa blue app.
15:52Di ba kayo,
15:53parang din mga flag atong live.
15:54But anyway,
15:55hello everybody
15:56and thank you so much
15:57sa mga nagtanaw ka ron.
15:59Just a quick recap
16:00of the story.
16:01It's a story about,
16:03obviously,
16:04relationship
16:05and the story
16:06nga giproblema,
16:07judka ni siya karun
16:08sa itong letter sender,
16:10ang iyahang boyfriend
16:12nga dili kayo
16:13into posting pictures.
16:15Dili siya ganahan.
16:17Oo,
16:17ma-flunt
16:18into social media.
16:19It's our letter sender
16:23nga si Liz
16:24na siya yung karelasyon
16:26nga seaman.
16:27Three months na sila
16:28sa ilang relasyon
16:29and nakiila lang niya
16:30sa usaka birthday party
16:32tungkol siyang amiga.
16:33Naalang siya na matikdan
16:34sa iyang uyab
16:35whenever mag-picture sila.
16:37Permit siyang sulitian
16:39sa iyahang uyab
16:40na dili ipost
16:41sa social media
16:42ang ilang photos
16:43kay Matod Paniya.
16:44Ganahan siya
16:45o glokey nga relasyon.
16:47O Matod Paniya,
16:48na dili basihan
16:48ang social media
16:49sa ilang relasyon.
16:51Matod Paniya,
16:52as a woman,
16:52Shixi,
16:53makasabot raman ko
16:54sa iyang reason
16:54but as a woman,
16:56ganahan siya
16:56ako nga ma-flex
16:57sa social media.
16:59Honestly,
16:59nagsugod na ko
17:00ugduda
17:01if naaba siya
17:02gitago
17:03kay hapit na sa niya
17:04musakay balik
17:05sa barko.
17:06Okay,
17:07raise your hands
17:08if nagduda mo
17:09kung naabaylain
17:12si Will.
17:14So,
17:14nabi rin ang mga
17:15mga interns.
17:16Raise your hands.
17:17Sa mga nagduda.
17:19Moduol ang mga nagduda.
17:21Moduol.
17:21Moduol din rin
17:22ang mga nagduda.
17:23Dool na.
17:25Come on,
17:26let's go.
17:27Tapos,
17:27dool na ang nagduda.
17:29So,
17:29ang umalwa,
17:29nagduda.
17:31Wala mo nagduda.
17:32Sure na ha.
17:33Final answer ha.
17:34Very comfortable.
17:35Very comfortable.
17:35Very comfortable.
17:36comfortable.
17:37So,
17:37here are the interns
17:38that we've had.
17:39They samtang na pa sila din.
17:40Let's expose them
17:41sa camera.
17:42Say hi to the camera.
17:43Hi fans.
17:44Karim.
17:45Hi mama.
17:46Say hi mama.
17:53Alright.
17:54We have the interns here.
17:56Si Beyonce.
17:56Beyonce.
17:56Hindi ko makalimut
17:57sa pangan.
17:57Kai Unique
17:58ang pangan.
17:58Hello.
17:58Tinood vedo
17:59Beyonce ang pangan,
18:00guys.
18:00Si Beyonce,
18:01ano nagduda man kang
18:02anailain si Will?
18:04Kai,
18:04katopalang ng lag sila.
18:06Inasad sa
18:07kuhan,
18:07gistorya sa laki nga.
18:09Nga na siya nga.
18:10Ikaw lang,
18:10ikaw lang ipagpicture.
18:11Aya lang pang post.
18:12Marag,
18:13makaduda sad.
18:13If basin na,
18:14ano siya gitago.
18:16Kai,
18:18makasabot ratang,
18:20bago pa sila.
18:21Pero,
18:22like the way siya
18:22mohangyo,
18:23pamuraglay na.
18:24Anong sa may mong feeling?
18:26Like,
18:27anong feeling nimo?
18:28Anong sa may thoughts nimo
18:29about it?
18:29Like that?
18:31Makaduda dyan siya.
18:32Duda nga.
18:32Duda.
18:33Kanang overthink nga.
18:35Anong kaya nga,
18:36dili siya gano'n magpost
18:39something sa social media.
18:40Siguro,
18:40makasabot ko sa point nga,
18:42dili siya into social media.
18:44Pero kung explainin ko nga,
18:46siguro.
18:47But,
18:47but deep inside,
18:48na kay doubts nga,
18:49sabad,
18:50possibly nailain
18:51or something like that.
18:52Okay.
18:53Sige,
18:53next si Ian ba no?
18:54Yes.
18:54Okay,
18:55finally,
18:56I remember.
18:57Ian,
18:57okay,
18:58Ian,
18:58your thoughts?
18:59As a guy,
19:00ha?
19:00Ikaw,
19:00lalaki man ka,
19:01kato female perspective.
19:03Ikaw,
19:03nga no'ng nagduda man ka.
19:04O nga sabi mo,
19:05gitudahan?
19:06Nga no'ng nakaino makang,
19:07ay,
19:07I'm doubting the gesture,
19:09the intention of not posting
19:11sa social media.
19:12Well,
19:12nagduda ko sa part
19:14kay,
19:14nga noong ni Hangyo siya sayang
19:16uyab,
19:17nga dili siya i-post.
19:19Makasabot man to nga,
19:19ang guy,
19:20dili sila ka ng,
19:21siya tawag ganit,
19:22dili sila into social media.
19:24But,
19:25makasabot ko,
19:26if si Yara mismo
19:27ang dili mag-post,
19:28pero ni Hangyo,
19:29ang mga gudan siya sa girl nga,
19:31ang girl mismo,
19:32dili mag-post sa iya hapong naong.
19:34So,
19:35makaduda,
19:35makaduda siya yun.
19:37So,
19:38maragpiling ni mo,
19:39nga noong,
19:39kay kung siya lang,
19:40dili siya take post,
19:41o kera.
19:42O kera,
19:42o siya ra.
19:43Oo,
19:43pero nga noong pati siya,
19:44di pwede i-post.
19:46Artista,
19:46siguro siya doon,
19:47no?
19:49But,
19:49pero,
19:50so for you,
19:51as a guy,
19:52dili in a prison.
19:53Ikaw,
19:54lalaki man ka,
19:54I don't know if you're extrovert
19:56or introvert,
19:56kung sa maka ganang,
19:58paan baka,
19:58shy type baka,
19:59or dili,
20:00kung ma-mysterious baka,
20:01or dili.
20:02Pero,
20:02kamo ba nga guys,
20:03if you like somebody,
20:04or you're in a relationship,
20:05say for example,
20:06ha na mong uya,
20:06panangilitan lang,
20:07do you really plant them
20:08sa social media,
20:09sa inyong generation,
20:11karoon?
20:11Sa ako ha,
20:12is,
20:13oo,
20:13eh,
20:13kung ano dyan ako,
20:14either a story ba ron,
20:16pero,
20:16ideally,
20:17matya ko in to post,
20:18more on stories mo,
20:19so yung ma-apil siya sa story,
20:20cute caption,
20:21or not necessary?
20:22Wala yung caption.
20:23Wala yung caption,
20:24basta naa siya dito.
20:25Present na siya dito.
20:27Bito,
20:27sabagay po.
20:28Why not?
20:28Diba?
20:29Low-key lang.
20:30Nga nakatawa man mo,
20:31kailan mo.
20:33Oo,
20:33nangatawa eh.
20:35Pagod mo na,
20:35nga nakatawa ron.
20:37Thank you, Ian.
20:38Papagkat sa rin si Bion6,
20:40si Ian,
20:40further thoughts.
20:41Pero,
20:42kanyang ubandiri,
20:42wala sila nagduda?
20:43Atong patanong niya,
20:44ilang other side of it,
20:45no?
20:46Kaya nga nung mga sila nagduda.
20:47But,
20:47ako,
20:48ako,
20:48honestly,
20:50Bito,
20:50it's like,
20:50kind of strange for a guy.
20:53Except na lang,
20:53ako,
20:54actually,
20:54the reason is valid.
20:55It's valid if,
20:57number one,
20:58artista yung uyab.
20:59Oo.
21:00Kaya makontra ni mo ang fans,
21:02dahi.
21:02Makontra ni mo ang fans,
21:03dahi.
21:04Wala yung sabag din sa mga kaho,
21:05ayo!
21:07You know why fans are possessive?
21:09Ako,
21:09I'm a fan girl eh.
21:10So,
21:10I know that fans are possessive.
21:12Fans have the tendency to like,
21:14overpower the,
21:16kanang,
21:17koan Bito,
21:17nga kala mo naman,
21:18best friend ni mo,
21:19or anak ni mo,
21:20or so on ni mo nga.
21:22Di kina pwede maka uyab,
21:23basta dili.
21:23Di kina pwede maka uyab,
21:24basta dili.
21:25Di kina pwede maka nagod ang mga fans,
21:26but,
21:26makasabota if artist sila,
21:28artista,
21:29or,
21:30yeah,
21:30artist as I've mentioned,
21:32no?
21:32Pwede.
21:33Makasabota.
21:34Pero kanang,
21:35dili ka,
21:36an siya man?
21:37Or dili,
21:37or dili a person na ka.
21:38But why are you hiding
21:40in that shell?
21:41No?
21:41What's the point
21:42of not flanting?
21:44Siguro di siya ganang masuhong,
21:45kahit three months pa,
21:46pwede sad,
21:47kabago pa ilang relasyon,
21:48but,
21:50kind of weird,
21:50honestly.
21:51Nung,
21:51dili siya into it.
21:54Though,
21:55makasabot,
21:55pwede ko nga naging mga tao
21:56nga diligod bitaw
21:57ganang social media bitaw.
21:58Naging mga tao nga
21:59toksikan sa social media,
22:01sa mukan.
22:02And 30,
22:03she mentioned,
22:0430 years old,
22:05na ay mga inana.
22:07When you reach
22:07at a certain age,
22:08magkapoy,
22:08man uwi,
22:09more stressful
22:09man sa social media.
22:10I mean,
22:11it's rare though,
22:12kainan naman tanang halos.
22:13Kainan yung mga bagong panganak,
22:15gilingaw na mga ganyan na ito
22:15sa social media.
22:17Gilingaw na mga ganyan
22:18yung mga bagong panganak
22:18sa mga,
22:19mga,
22:20di ba?
22:21No?
22:21Sa mga cellphones,
22:22sa mga gadgets,
22:23but,
22:23na ay mga tao,
22:24you know,
22:24who prefers,
22:25no?
22:25Not to engage so much,
22:27siguro,
22:28on stuff like posting online,
22:31and just being there,
22:33quiet,
22:33no?
22:34Wala na sila,
22:34quiet na sila,
22:35scroll up,
22:35scroll down,
22:36but not necessarily
22:37mag-update,
22:38nga buhi pa ko.
22:39Anay mo lang,
22:40kainan na ba,
22:40no?
22:41Maalala sila din,
22:42they're around,
22:43but not necessarily
22:44kind of life-update guys,
22:45here's what I ordered,
22:47here's what I ate,
22:49no?
22:49Dili,
22:49dili siguro,
22:50but anyway,
22:52so we've heard the other side.
22:53Now,
22:54how about the other side?
22:56Ingun sila nga,
22:58kadungog ta sa opinion
22:59ni Biancio ni Ian,
23:00ingun sila nga,
23:01makaduda.
23:02Katong mga wala nagduda,
23:03do'y order eh.
23:04Oo,
23:04dali na.
23:05Oo.
23:07Oo,
23:07alo nga naman,
23:08sa save,
23:08ano-ano,
23:09classy ni.
23:11Hawa kong color o,
23:13moragsay yung teacher.
23:15Sige,
23:16dool na,
23:16dool na sila.
23:17We have to ask them
23:19because this,
23:20Gen Z magot ka sa
23:21garanser mark
23:22into social media.
23:23Though,
23:24I believe na
23:25si 30 years old
23:27is millennial
23:27ni si 30 years old.
23:29Ang Gen Z
23:30ni si 25 years old.
23:31Ang millennial,
23:33ang iyan boyfriend.
23:34Millennial,
23:3430 years old.
23:35So anyway,
23:36sige go.
23:37Maayong hapunin day.
23:39Sige,
23:39makalimut ko sa name.
23:40From this.
23:41I'm Shane.
23:42Ah,
23:42Shane,
23:42Shane,
23:42Shane.
23:43Okay,
23:43Shane.
23:44Shane,
23:45your opinion,
23:46your thoughts.
23:46Because you mentioned,
23:47wala,
23:47dili raman makaduda,
23:48ang gibohat.
23:49So,
23:49gano'n na kayong
23:50kailangan,
23:50dili raman makaduda,
23:51si you do already girl.
23:51For me,
23:52lahat kay,
23:53morag,
23:54kanang understand,
23:55ay,
23:55kanang makasabutrasad ko sa kanang,
23:57koan sa lalaki kay,
23:59basin ka nang,
23:59give value jud niya,
24:00iya hang koan ba,
24:02iya hang privacy din.
24:03Mung,
24:03dili kay siya mag post post din.
24:05Usapasad kay,
24:06bag upasad sila,
24:07bag upasad na kita.
24:08So, morag,
24:09dili pad jud kayo,
24:10kanang,
24:10dili pad jud ka siya,
24:11need na ipost ba.
24:13Yeah,
24:13basin ka nang,
24:15na iposibol niya.
24:16Usapod kay,
24:17kanang,
24:17koan nasad siya sa barko,
24:19bitaw.
24:20So,
24:22parang ako kayo,
24:22dilira kayo,
24:23patututututu.
24:24Pero,
24:25pero as a girl kay,
24:27kanang morag,
24:27morag,
24:29nasa jay park niya,
24:30kanang malain sal ka kay,
24:31kanang,
24:33sa 3 months ninyo,
24:34ngakuyug kay,
24:34morag,
24:35wala dyan ka na post,
24:35bisag ka isa,
24:36wala ka na flex,
24:37morag,
24:37malain sal ka mo eh.
24:39So,
24:40medyo nakasa,
24:41tunga-tunga,
24:42but more on,
24:42nakasabot ka sa lalaki.
24:44Are you a private person?
24:46Personal,
24:47introvert ka?
24:47Ay,
24:48usapay.
24:49Uh-oh.
24:50So,
24:50kasi,
24:51with introvert,
24:52I cannot understand,
24:53I'm an extrovert person,
24:55I turn out to be an ambivrit,
24:57kay?
24:58As you age,
24:59ambivrit ka,
25:00meaning to say,
25:00you're in the middle or dirty.
25:01As I age ha,
25:02pero when I was young,
25:03oh my gosh,
25:04hyper kong hyper girl,
25:06extrovert kong extrovert,
25:08ayan,
25:08pero,
25:09of course,
25:09I get the point,
25:11because I have friends who are introvert,
25:12most of my best friends,
25:13mga introverts,
25:14hirang.
25:15So,
25:15gusto kong mamuta na,
25:16kung ano nga,
25:17as an introvert,
25:18what's your purpose of keeping it low-key?
25:22Kaya,
25:22para wala kaayoy ka nang maka-judge,
25:25or wala kaayoy makahiba,
25:27unsanay ka nang,
25:27koan,
25:28unsanay kahimtang ni Musa ka nang imhang life.
25:31Love life,
25:31or no.
25:32To be specific,
25:33ang love life,
25:33dun,
25:34no?
25:34Mas quiet,
25:35mas peaceful,
25:36kaya wala yung mangilabot,
25:37no?
25:37Sa bagay.
25:38So,
25:38to the point,
25:39okay,
25:39rin lang kung mag-like niya sa social media,
25:41ka,
25:42but for as long as we like each other in real life,
25:43you can never tell.
25:56Okay,
25:57sige,
25:57go.
25:58Next naman,
25:59introduce you.
26:00I love the idea,
26:03because she's an introvert,
26:04mangod,
26:05so coming from somebody who really know how it feels,
26:09na they want to keep a safe space for themselves,
26:12di ba?
26:13Okay,
26:13sige,
26:14ikaw,
26:14ah,
26:15ah,
26:15si ninay,
26:16idari.
26:17Awala,
26:18dyan.
26:19Ako,
26:20si Zildayv.
26:21Oh,
26:21limo din niya,
26:22alisod nga,
26:22ilitong kanim.
26:23Sa nickname ni mo.
26:25Dive,
26:25si Dive,
26:26si Dive,
26:27di ay,
26:28oh,
26:28Dive,
26:29un sa may imong opinion,
26:30anak,
26:30Dive.
26:31Kuan,
26:32kanang,
26:33iloki,
26:34kuan,
26:35o,
26:35kera man sa ko,
26:36iloki kay,
26:37dili yaman ni mo ma-measure ang love through social media,
26:40niya,
26:41kuan,
26:41dahi,
26:41kanang,
26:42ang lucky day ato,
26:43kaya nakasuhay di siyag social judgment,
26:45dahi,
26:45muna ang dili siya ganahan mag,
26:46kanang post post,
26:47o mga social media,
26:48sa mga inana.
26:50Wait lang,
26:51big word,
26:52social judgment.
26:54Sige,
26:54pabala.
26:54Wow,
26:56what a word,
26:57okay,
26:57I'm loving it,
26:59I'm loving it,
27:00yun,
27:00natin mga inters nilis,
27:01Sir Mark,
27:01marag mubatag yun,
27:02kundiriba.
27:04Because,
27:04mungata nila ko,
27:05what is social judgment,
27:07but what,
27:08the term is social judgment,
27:10why?
27:11Your honor,
27:12nga nung na-judge,
27:13dive,
27:15nga nung na-judge,
27:15nga nung na-judge,
27:16nga nung na-judge,
27:16na nagpost siya niya,
27:20kanang,
27:20atagang siya negative nga,
27:23criticisms,
27:24gani,
27:24moto na,
27:25masyag na siya,
27:26trauma na,
27:27nga dili na siya,
27:28mo post,
27:28na yung mga judgment nga tao,
27:30ah,
27:32so mga negative comments,
27:34that could lead to what,
27:36insecurities,
27:37feeling bullied,
27:39okay,
27:39possible,
27:42oo,
27:42I can pass,
27:43thank you for your social judgment,
27:45pagpaka na to si dive,
27:46I love the word,
27:47the word today is,
27:49hashtag social media,
27:50hashtag social judgment,
27:52okay,
27:52bito,
27:53pero actually sir,
27:54mag may point,
27:54kanabambasin ka nang,
27:56maana pa lang sila nga,
27:58wapara kay ka,
27:58para ikaw akong mauyab,
28:00oh,
28:01make sense,
28:01make sense,
28:02guys,
28:03come on,
28:03oh,
28:04it makes sense,
28:04but,
28:05okay,
28:06naamanggi ka na,
28:07bitong sides,
28:08no,
28:08two sides of the story,
28:10okay,
28:10number one,
28:11it's just that,
28:12ang atong letter sender,
28:13because,
28:14maybe,
28:14it's her relationship,
28:16of course,
28:17sakto tong giingon ni Shay,
28:18no,
28:19though,
28:19kasabot siya nga introvert,
28:20ang boyfriend,
28:21that the boyfriend wanted to,
28:23keep a relationship private,
28:25but,
28:26as a girl,
28:27naasad you kay tendency,
28:28of one thing,
28:29bisag kausa lang,
28:31to be flex online,
28:33bisag kausa lang,
28:34you wanted people,
28:35to know that,
28:36hey,
28:37I exist,
28:38in the life,
28:39of this person,
28:40like,
28:41hey,
28:42uyab din ako,
28:43come on,
28:43ganaan mas si Diyos,
28:45gag ingon ana,
28:46I mean,
28:46plastic na lang po,
28:47kayo tanong,
28:48adi taganahan,
28:49no,
28:49to be flexed,
28:50or to be,
28:51mentioned somehow,
28:53there are ways of,
28:54nanagin na yung ways,
28:55karoon sa social media,
28:56of,
28:57actually,
28:57flexing low-key,
28:58your partner,
28:59nanak mo na sila,
29:00yung mga little ways,
29:01of,
29:02posting like,
29:03dilim uya,
29:04but you are actually,
29:05technically together,
29:06so,
29:06na yung mga ingon ana,
29:07makasabot na,
29:08kung artist ni siya,
29:10honestly,
29:10ako,
29:10cute,
29:11kung artista ni,
29:11makasabot siya ko,
29:13bitaw,
29:14makasabot ko,
29:15artista ni,
29:16singer,
29:17bani,
29:17performer,
29:18makasabot ko,
29:19daghanig fans,
29:20makasabot ko,
29:21but,
29:21he's an ordinary man,
29:23no,
29:23aside sa siman siya,
29:25but,
29:25ordinary,
29:26I believe,
29:26di man siya,
29:27siguro,
29:27politiko,
29:28to protect,
29:29no,
29:30di sa siya,
29:30anak sa kontraktor,
29:31siguro,
29:32para maano,
29:32but,
29:33but the point is,
29:34I love the word,
29:35no,
29:35ni Dive,
29:36social judgment,
29:37no joke,
29:38no kidding,
29:40when he mentioned,
29:41social judgment,
29:43kay naamanggui,
29:44hala si Fea,
29:45kay naamanggui,
29:46ano,
29:47namugay mga tendency,
29:48ang mga tao,
29:48jud,
29:49nga,
29:50morag mo ingon na,
29:51ay,
29:51muni uyab ni Koan,
29:52or,
29:53ay,
29:53muni uyab ni Sampon,
29:54muni uyab ni Liz,
29:56mora lagig tiguan,
29:57di ba takabaw,
29:58no,
29:59I mean,
29:59muni uyab ni Liz,
30:01nga naman na,
30:01bugasun lagi na siya,
30:03oo,
30:04di ba,
30:04di ba,
30:05ano yung mga inana,
30:06kagets ko sa point,
30:08I love the point,
30:09papaka na to si Dive,
30:10uy,
30:10I mean,
30:11Dive,
30:12you're the dash,
30:13grabe dyan,
30:15no,
30:16si Fea,
30:16parang yung komplex sa comment ni Fea,
30:18Fea,
30:19I miss you,
30:20negawas ang comment ni Fea,
30:21ako basta akong balik,
30:22kasi kanat,
30:23okay,
30:24need guru nila magstorya,
30:25para magkasinabtanay,
30:27ugadunay common ground,
30:29bitaw Fea,
30:30sakto jud,
30:31oo,
30:32uy,
30:33nga naman ni si congressman diri,
30:35na congressman,
30:36congressman man ni sa,
30:37sa tiktok,
30:38maunay sakto,
30:39girl,
30:39saptasan ninyo,
30:40usahay ming mga boys,
30:42saptasan ming usahay,
30:45well,
30:46ako kasabot result ko,
30:47kayot rumampo ko,
30:48what,
30:49no,
30:49I don't,
30:50I don't,
30:50honestly,
30:52I don't flex so much of my relationship,
30:54sa social media,
30:55little lang,
30:55and if I flex,
30:57I don't show the person,
30:59weird lagi,
31:00are you not proud of your boyfriend,
31:02I am,
31:02but,
31:03I prefer not to,
31:04because,
31:05less is more,
31:06charis,
31:07yes,
31:07pero,
31:08pero,
31:09pero,
31:09na-i app nga,
31:10pwede ko mo share,
31:11no,
31:11na-i app,
31:12depending na sa app,
31:13if I think,
31:14oo,
31:15yeah,
31:16yes,
31:16I do share,
31:17but lately lang,
31:18I realize,
31:19even if namin pictures together,
31:20di naging ko tapula na kumuprove,
31:22what is it to prove,
31:24diba,
31:25what is it to prove nga,
31:26mag-post with me,
31:27every month,
31:28sorry,
31:29every anniversary,
31:31diba,
31:32maybe anniversary,
31:33that's a milestone,
31:33but,
31:34huh,
31:35sawadikate,
31:36sawadikate,
31:36na siya sa Thailand,
31:39fea sawadikate daw,
31:40yung si Sir Mark,
31:41alright,
31:42okay,
31:43so,
31:43yung si Shari,
31:44correct,
31:45diba,
31:45I mean,
31:47anini siya,
31:48no,
31:48honestly,
31:48ako nang gisabot ba,
31:50na yung mga tao,
31:51who are really,
31:52into social media,
31:54most,
31:55if not all,
31:55those are,
31:57I'm not saying,
31:58nga tananggidha,
31:59nga,
31:59nga,
32:00tanang nga mga,
32:01extrovert na sa social media,
32:02because,
32:03I'm extrovert,
32:04but,
32:04I rarely post stories,
32:06okay,
32:07extrovert na ko,
32:07ha,
32:08imagina ninyo,
32:08extrovert na ko,
32:09pero,
32:10diligid all the time,
32:11that I do post,
32:12for some reason,
32:13like,
32:13wala,
32:13gitapo lang ko,
32:14I mean,
32:14it's not necessary for me,
32:16if it's not my interest to post my personal life in there,
32:19it's fine,
32:20no,
32:20it's my personal life,
32:21it's not your life,
32:22pero,
32:23nasa times nga,
32:24you really wanted,
32:25at least a glimpse of what,
32:26what is it now,
32:28no,
32:28asan nakakaroon,
32:29like,
32:29ako,
32:29what is,
32:30glimpse lang,
32:31status,
32:31nagkikilig ka,
32:32happy,
32:33like,
32:33things like that,
32:34of course,
32:35because,
32:36at the end of the day,
32:36mutuo mo,
32:37Ani,
32:37na-i word,
32:38yung kitawag ka rin na usuro,
32:39evil eye,
32:40have you heard about that,
32:42I think,
32:42uzo ni sa mga gen zero,
32:43evil eye,
32:45some people just want to see you,
32:46and then they want to criticize,
32:47and they want to wish you bad luck,
32:49pero,
32:50I'm not saying,
32:51no,
32:51100%,
32:52there's no,
32:53there's nothing,
32:54wala'y dapat ipalabaw sa pagtuos sa kahitasan,
32:56it's always God,
32:57but what I'm trying to say,
32:58is nagkikilig mga tao nga,
32:59they just wanted to,
33:00like,
33:01criticize,
33:02sakto ka,
33:02social judgment,
33:03they just wanted to,
33:04magbuwagra na,
33:05you know what I mean,
33:07some people will,
33:08after that,
33:08especially,
33:09kung di sila ka-uyun,
33:10di ba,
33:11hala,
33:11sikwan,
33:12nakauyub,
33:12ano,
33:12magbuwagra na,
33:13o,
33:13ano'y mainalaga,
33:15magbuwagra na sila,
33:16you know what I mean,
33:17I'm not saying,
33:18negative,
33:19but,
33:19naagay mga tao,
33:21who have that tendency,
33:23no,
33:23to,
33:24wala'y lang,
33:25wala sila kalipay,
33:26so,
33:26ganahan sila nga,
33:27magbalipay yun,
33:28ang uban,
33:29no,
33:30but,
33:30ha,
33:31manamay,
33:33oo,
33:33pero,
33:34reality check,
33:35kanang,
33:36naagay mga tao nga,
33:37hilig yun ka,
33:38ayaw mo,
33:38sakto ka,
33:39criticize,
33:40sakto ka,
33:41basin makitaan sa parenti niya,
33:42mo,
33:42ano,
33:42mo ni uyab ni Koan,
33:44mo ni uyab ni Liz Karun,
33:46mo ni iyang uyab,
33:47oh,
33:48pero nito ba,
33:48sag-sag trabaho,
33:49basin baka nang,
33:50kay Kayon,
33:51nabitaw palabi,
33:52ah,
33:52di rin rin nagpuyuhin mo,
33:53uyab,
33:54niya,
33:54inyong reunion ninyo,
33:55ah,
33:55kibaw ko ni Modong,
33:57koan ka ni,
33:57apu ka ni Silia,
33:59ha,
33:59ha,
33:59ha,
33:59kanang sobraan,
34:00sobraan,
34:01nag-investigate ba,
34:03no,
34:03kanang grabe nadyo,
34:04kaysa ngatanan ba,
34:05I mean,
34:06yes,
34:06because some people wanted to just keep it to themselves,
34:09the little moments,
34:10and especially,
34:12sakto sa niha,
34:12bag-upaman mo,
34:14so why,
34:15what is,
34:15why is it necessary to prove to the world,
34:18no,
34:18what if,
34:19mo work,
34:20oh,
34:20oh,
34:21wow,
34:21kay buwag da yun,
34:22di ba,
34:23kaget ko,
34:24di ba,
34:24merong,
34:25wow,
34:25sadani,
34:26buwag manday yun,
34:27pagani,
34:28no,
34:28I mean,
34:29ay,
34:30monigitawag nga,
34:30it's really balanced yun,
34:32no,
34:32which is nice,
34:33kung nai open conversation,
34:34so thank you,
34:35I appreciate you guys,
34:35give yourselves a round of applause,
34:38si Kun,
34:38walang panikomments,
34:39si Jose,
34:42R,
34:43Jose R,
34:43okay,
34:45napad rin itago sa usas sa TV,
34:47yung kamuha,
34:48kamuha,
34:49kating klases mo,
34:49ha,
34:50but anyway,
34:52thank you so much,
34:52kayo sa Ilahang Opinion,
34:54because,
34:55it brought us,
34:56an enlightenment,
34:58when it comes to,
34:59the different side of the story,
35:02okay,
35:02anyway,
35:03moving forward,
35:04mag-showbiz niyo sa ako,
35:05sir Mark,
35:05nalingaw ko sa ito,
35:06ang conversations,
35:07no,
35:08at pasmas naman di kayong oras,
35:10di ba,
35:11papakit yung kaugal yun,
35:12it's worth discussing,
35:14pitaw,
35:16it's worth discussing,
35:17kung ipost ba ka sa my day,
35:18sa story,
35:19it's really worth discussing,
35:20ganahan ba dyan mo din ha,
35:21or premier ba siya mo comment sa imuha,
35:23or delay na siya mo comment,
35:24pero ikaw ang nag-inusara,
35:26ah,
35:27di ba,
35:28kita ko si mong post ganina,
35:30love,
35:30ah,
35:31pero walang ko nilike,
35:32masakpan yata,
35:34eh,
35:34di ba,
35:35oh,
35:35anyway,
35:36sige,
35:36go,
35:37padayan na ito sa itong showbiz news,
35:39once ay chika,
35:42oops,
35:43let's go,
35:44uy,
35:49speaking of,
35:50no,
35:50kanis si Maris Racal,
35:52muna yung isa sa mga,
35:53uy,
35:53nag-trending gini sa social media,
35:55let's admit it,
35:56in connection with our social media topic,
35:59she's one of the most nga,
36:01kanabitaw na kadawat o criticisms online,
36:04because of all her past issues,
36:06di ba,
36:07she's one of those nga,
36:09nahimong vulnerable online,
36:10but nonetheless,
36:12her acting stood out,
36:13meaning to say,
36:14natabunan ang kontrobersiya,
36:16tungod siyang kamaayong mo arte,
36:18o say,
36:18ang pagka-actress,
36:19tungod ni Anna,
36:21from one action series to another,
36:23gigan sa incognito,
36:25na,
36:26kanang yung character dito,
36:27nga action po siya dito,
36:29nga,
36:30usun siya ka,
36:31ex-military,
36:32ni sulod po siya ka ron,
36:34sa teleserye ni Coco Martin,
36:36nga batang kiapo,
36:37wow,
36:37so she is part of the,
36:41kanibitaw na,
36:41new characters,
36:42nga masulod sa one of the longest running series,
36:45ni Coco Martin,
36:47nga batang kiapo,
36:48and she said she's excited,
36:50no,
36:50matod pa,
36:51niya makainguntag action star era,
36:52naging si Maris,
36:53muna kitawag,
36:54o ngayon po ba,
36:55agad ni siya,
36:55no,
36:55kaya na,
36:56kamaugud siya,
36:57makaingunt sa judgo niya,
36:58kung beday ni si Maris,
36:59no,
37:00Bisaya,
37:00muna din niyang roots,
37:01si Buwan,
37:02si Buwan,
37:03yung parents di ay,
37:04so,
37:05grabe makaingunta nga,
37:06ka nang,
37:07koan jud,
37:07ka nang,
37:09well,
37:09go,
37:09go,
37:09go girl,
37:10muna kitawag nga,
37:11if there's criticism,
37:12one day there will be redemption,
37:14no,
37:14pabarugun na sa didgi hapon ka,
37:16after all the,
37:18kanabitaong,
37:19mga bati nga,
37:20mga nahitabo,
37:20because,
37:22talented,
37:22talent wise,
37:23good,
37:23kung talent lang o talent,
37:25bongga ka day,
37:26diba,
37:26muna itong showbiz noon,
37:27so congratulations ni Maris Racal,
37:29sa iyang new role,
37:31sa Batang Kiapo,
37:32moving forward,
37:34balik lang sa itong story ha,
37:35dinatamu palayo,
37:36kanay,
37:37saan tama ni,
37:39kapoy delete,
37:40ay,
37:40naiingun si Shari,
37:41diri sa,
37:42ano,
37:42sa online,
37:43sa TikTok siya,
37:44kapoy delete sa post,
37:45basta magbuwag na good,
37:47tamo,
37:48correct,
37:49bitaw no,
37:50kapoy yung niya,
37:51mugawas medyo nasa memories,
37:53mugawas nasa memories,
37:55nga ka lang,
37:55no,
37:56nagdate din,
37:56may diri,
37:58diba,
37:58niya,
37:59musu din na music,
38:00may no,
38:01multo na,
38:01kung ulang na,
38:02diba,
38:04kagets kap,
38:06whereas,
38:06kung wala mo i-post,
38:07wala kang i-delete,
38:08kung magbuwag mo,
38:08wala,
38:09wala kang,
38:09memories mo gawa,
38:10salay mo pa,
38:11wow,
38:12mental health,
38:13dude,
38:14diba,
38:14mental health,
38:15diba,
38:15marap,
38:16well,
38:17anyway,
38:18diba,
38:19ayan,
38:19uy,
38:21yungan diri si Shari,
38:22ba,
38:22ni-comment siya,
38:23Shari,
38:23Shari,
38:24siya,
38:24number one ba,
38:25na mga parenti mo,
38:26criticize,
38:26buyag,
38:28bitaw no,
38:28kanang,
38:29unay mo,
38:29uyabday,
38:30hulang,
38:31walagi na siya,
38:32day no,
38:32kanang,
38:32in fairness,
38:34pero,
38:34Shari,
38:35na,
38:35jokana,
38:35monajud na,
38:38diba,
38:38tinuod,
38:39nga,
38:39tawaman mo,
38:40diba,
38:41social,
38:41judgment,
38:43tinuod,
38:44yun,
38:44dabu,
38:45yun,
38:45oh,
38:46mutinimu,
38:46yun,
38:47sumnopo,
38:47mormano,
38:48yun,
38:48sumnoy,
38:50diba,
38:51naagid na,
38:52naagid na,
38:52and that's,
38:53that's,
38:53that's how it is,
38:55sorry,
38:55you're in the Philippines,
38:56nga,
38:57everything is an issue,
38:58nga,
38:59ultimo'y mong silingan,
39:00makapangutan na,
39:01uy,
39:01Marie,
39:02muna,
39:02iyahang uyab,
39:04so good,
39:04nadyo ka,
39:04na,
39:05mga muna gin na,
39:05diba,
39:06naagid,
39:07naagid,
39:07naagid,
39:08mga inanan mo,
39:08raglupig pa CCTV,
39:10lupig pa dyan sa tanang lupig,
39:12but,
39:12of course,
39:13as we go along to this story,
39:15I'm,
39:16I mean,
39:17I get the point of both sides,
39:20however,
39:21parang ako,
39:22nice adyud if,
39:23mumit halfway ta,
39:25ayan,
39:26mumit halfway dyan ta,
39:27kanang,
39:28naatay,
39:29common ground,
39:31naatay,
39:31common denominator,
39:34naatay,
39:34understanding,
39:35nga,
39:37kanang,
39:38this is what I like,
39:39this is what you don't like,
39:40this is what I don't like,
39:41and this is what you like,
39:42but,
39:43pwede man siguro nga,
39:44bisa gamay lang,
39:45no,
39:45bisa siguro,
39:46usal lang ka po,
39:47po,
39:48no,
39:48but,
39:48grabe naman po,
39:49hihikaw pa dyan,
39:51no,
39:51kanabang,
39:52bisa kusa lang dyan,
39:53ha,
39:53ayaw lang dyan,
39:54kaya,
39:54panoslip ako,
39:56kaya magparito kayo pa ako,
39:58welcome to parito kay Go,
40:00kung nakibadjet,
40:00why not,
40:01diba,
40:01I mean,
40:01I don't see,
40:03that is,
40:03enhancing your beauty,
40:05is an issue,
40:06para nako,
40:06okay lang,
40:07because if that's,
40:08your way of loving yourself,
40:10is taking good care of yourself,
40:11go ahead,
40:12pero,
40:13of course,
40:13sa kanina,
40:14nga thing mangon,
40:15ang yamang gudahan,
40:16nga nung dili man maka-proud sa ako,
40:19nga nung dili man maka,
40:21what's that,
40:21nga nung dili man,
40:23kung ma,
40:24masabwag sa kalibutan,
40:26nga,
40:26kanang,
40:27uyab ko,
40:28diba,
40:29mura kong walay right,
40:30no,
40:30mura kong,
40:31kung saka ko de redecor,
40:33no,
40:33mura bag,
40:34it seems like,
40:35the boyfriend is so free to,
40:37what,
40:37mingle and talk to anyone,
40:39kaya,
40:39ano ba yun ang ubang girls,
40:40i-check ba yun ang social media,
40:42kung makik-chat,
40:42kataon sa tubig,
40:43wala ba yung uyab,
40:44ay,
40:44wala,
40:44ramadi ay,
40:45say for any,
40:46okay,
40:46pwede may mag-undi niyo sa convo,
40:47di ay to,
40:48daghana mo,
40:50okay,
40:50I'm not giving you,
40:51a situation to overthink,
40:55but,
40:55what I'm trying to say,
40:56it's important also,
40:58to have healthy discussions,
40:59with your partner,
41:00and imog yung isulti,
41:01and be honest na lang,
41:02sa tinuun lang,
41:03mogi na akong duda,
41:05because,
41:06as early as now,
41:07if you think that,
41:09as early as now,
41:09wala lang na,
41:12ganaan ka nga,
41:13magsikilang kagduda,
41:14all the time,
41:15it's important also,
41:16to share your thoughts,
41:17and of course,
41:18you listen to him,
41:19pwede ka mong tanangan,
41:20na social judgment,
41:21naka,
41:21ah,
41:22tinuun bitaw,
41:23kaya nga,
41:24word of the day,
41:26instead of social media,
41:27hashtag social judgment,
41:29kaya,
41:30we'll never know,
41:32we cannot,
41:33how do you call this,
41:35we cannot judge him,
41:36po dayon,
41:37nga nasailain,
41:38just because,
41:39he wanted to keep,
41:40things privately,
41:41because there are some people,
41:43who tend to,
41:45just wanted to,
41:47have this,
41:48own safe space,
41:49no,
41:50own,
41:50ah,
41:51bubble,
41:51ilang own private life,
41:53na away from work,
41:54away from everything,
41:54this is just my life,
41:56my personal life,
41:57includes you,
41:57my lover,
41:58and that's it,
41:59no,
42:00so,
42:00if we go out,
42:01in public,
42:02as kita,
42:03we're not hiding it,
42:04however,
42:05in photos,
42:05I don't like it,
42:07and I think,
42:08naagyo yung mga inana,
42:09nga mga tao,
42:10naamagyo yung mga inana,
42:12but,
42:13importante po,
42:14ang grabe na po,
42:15nabisag-usa lang yun,
42:16wala yun,
42:16kaya na po,
42:17maduda po po,
42:17na,
42:18nabisag-usa lang yun,
42:19nabisag happy anniversary,
42:21happy month,
42:21sari,
42:21wala lang yun,
42:23I don't think,
42:24koan po,
42:25righteous,
42:26no,
42:27except,
42:27again,
42:28exception to the rule,
42:29if,
42:30on sa ilang trabaho,
42:30depende sa career,
42:32either politician,
42:33either artist,
42:35singer,
42:35kaya na pwede na,
42:36because,
42:38prone to criticism,
42:40pero,
42:40kanang imo,
42:41I'm not saying,
42:42ordinaryo ang,
42:43si Ferrier,
42:43ha,
42:43grabe,
42:44kataas na itong respetar,
42:45anong mga OFW,
42:46mga si Ferrier,
42:47but,
42:47given pag yun,
42:48nga,
42:48oh,
42:48true na,
42:49naghapag yung uban,
42:50nga mo,
42:50na,
42:51nga,
42:52I'm not,
42:52I'm not against,
42:54because I have a lot of friends,
42:55and family,
42:55and relatives,
42:56pero,
42:56kanang old saying,
42:57bitaw nila,
42:58nga,
42:58every port,
42:59report,
43:00kanang bitaw,
43:01so,
43:01muna nga,
43:02mahalo po siya,
43:02siguro po,
43:03adika ba si,
43:04eh,
43:04landing nga nito,
43:05sa lain na po na lugar,
43:06lain na po,
43:07ila-ilahon,
43:07of course,
43:08kasabot tanong,
43:09mag-overthink siya,
43:10because,
43:10bago pa sila sa relationship,
43:11and it takes a lot to trust your partner,
43:14so,
43:15open discussion is encouraged,
43:17if you think,
43:18nga,
43:18mo alam po,
43:19yunay basis nga,
43:20kailangan dyan ka mapaw sa social media,
43:22para maingon nga,
43:23ganap ka ng girlfriend,
43:24murag,
43:24I don't think so,
43:26kay,
43:27sa una,
43:27bitaw,
43:27may social media,
43:28I mean,
43:29mo pa ka-honest nga ba,
43:30inyong parents,
43:32sa una na,
43:34the social media,
43:35para maingon na uyab,
43:36wala man,
43:38wala man,
43:38maingon nga sila nga uyab sila,
43:40kung mag-uban sila for me,
43:42kung mag-date sila,
43:43mag-holding hand sila,
43:44kung happy sila,
43:45na pictures,
43:46yes,
43:47but you don't plant it sa social media,
43:49pictures before are being placed in the albums,
43:51photo albums,
43:52diba,
43:53muna siya,
43:54pero wala sa social media,
43:56kaso lang,
43:57karun,
43:57maingon gil sila nga sa social media,
43:59naging tanan ibutang,
44:00kahit naging masakpan,
44:01kung nabay lain,
44:02or naapay gicharcharan lain,
44:05kahit naman makitaan kung nabay uyab,
44:07diba,
44:08okay,
44:08pwede po na,
44:09and that's a very valid reason,
44:10however,
44:11nasa kayo yung mga tao,
44:12nga diligid ganahan,
44:13ana,
44:14so we have to,
44:15kanilis,
44:16akong advice ni mo,
44:17simple lang,
44:19number one,
44:20open up your worries to your boyfriend,
44:22before siya mo larga,
44:24be honest,
44:25and tell him,
44:25tinuod gini,
44:26nagdudagid ko,
44:27wala ko nagiglalis ni mo,
44:28ako nagigawain ni mo,
44:29because,
44:30babae ko,
44:31and because,
44:32I wanted to be sure,
44:33that ako lang giyod,
44:35okay,
44:36pwede raman with friends only,
44:38di man nesisaring nga public,
44:39di ba,
44:40di man nesisaring nga public,
44:42you know,
44:42take this as an example na lang,
44:45gina,
44:45I will take it personal na lang,
44:46jud,
44:46like ako,
44:47I am not really,
44:49a sharer of my love life,
44:51usually,
44:52but because,
44:53this is,
44:54this is a sunstar mo,
44:55share yun ko,
44:56ana,
44:56because this is based on experience,
44:58but,
44:59but sa radio scene,
45:01I don't really talk that much about my love life,
45:03because why,
45:04is there a need,
45:05no more like,
45:05there's no such thing,
45:07I don't plan so much about,
45:09photos of relationships,
45:10because I feel like,
45:12what's important is,
45:13un sa me karun,
45:15and,
45:16we don't have to,
45:17please,
45:18everybody,
45:20we don't have to please,
45:20our social media friends,
45:22na happy me,
45:24every time mo post me,
45:25because,
45:26some people,
45:27tend to share happy photos,
45:29and then right after the photo shoot,
45:31dili sila okay,
45:32if you know what I mean,
45:34daghan kay sa social media nga,
45:35tanaw na yung mo happy,
45:37magtuo ka,
45:37mali pa yun,
45:38inig hong monday ay to,
45:39man sa after,
45:41nagbuwag na,
45:42diba,
45:43this,
45:43I'm not saying nga,
45:44inanatanan ha,
45:45I'm saying,
45:45naghan yung happy relationship,
45:46but what I'm trying to say is,
45:48common po na,
45:49nga na yung mga uban nga,
45:51just to prove a point,
45:53nga they're happy in the relationship,
45:55magsikis lang post,
45:56but ila po na,
45:57diba,
45:57I'm not against it,
45:58kailaha po ng expression,
46:00ila po ng way,
46:01of telling everyone,
46:02that I'm proud,
46:03that I'm with this person,
46:05and that's fine,
46:06pero na si uban na,
46:07nga ang downside,
46:08mo laging na kong iing,
46:09o na si uban,
46:09nga dilipod yun,
46:10tinuuday giyod,
46:12no,
46:13napoy uban,
46:13napoy uban,
46:14nga lahila,
46:14lahila yung mana,
46:15napoy uban sad nga,
46:16di giyod big post,
46:16for the very reason nga,
46:17di lang sad giyod,
46:19kanang kapuyan lagi sila,
46:20no,
46:21what is it to prove,
46:22when everybody knows,
46:23when the family knows,
46:25when,
46:25when the friends knows,
46:26and that's important,
46:27mo nalang giyod,
46:28no,
46:29napoy uban nga,
46:30kani,
46:31napoy uban nga,
46:32nga nga nga mo share,
46:32kay mo laging,
46:33kanudaduda,
46:34basin nga,
46:35daghan ponog,
46:36gicharchara,
46:37so muna nga,
46:40honest nalang Liz,
46:41lay down the cards,
46:42and just tell him,
46:43this,
46:43okay,
46:44I'll be honest with you,
46:45Will,
46:45nag overthink yung ko,
46:47kay nga nung dili,
46:48mangyunin mo,
46:49mahimu,
46:49bisag kausa,
46:50di ba,
46:51and when,
46:52after that communication thing,
46:54and Will decides to share you,
46:55and post you online,
46:57then maybe,
46:58makampante na siyukana,
46:59no,
47:00but if he will not,
47:01then,
47:02girl,
47:04is it worth it?
47:05Tsara,
47:06di ba,
47:06parang ako,
47:07kung dili,
47:07ganyan yung mabuhat niya,
47:08inani pa lang ka early,
47:09na nakay duda,
47:11mga babae na,
47:12ay gitawag,
47:12og,
47:14unsa,
47:15woman's,
47:17instinct,
47:18na ay gitawag,
47:19woman's instinct,
47:20so,
47:21sometimes our guts,
47:23our guts,
47:23our instincts,
47:25will tell us,
47:26no,
47:26which way to go,
47:28so,
47:28kung na nakay pagduda,
47:29na nakay doubts,
47:29dihang napita,
47:31then,
47:31you have to start,
47:33no,
47:34nga observing,
47:35kung unsag yun,
47:36and you can ask,
47:37Candice,
47:38kay total,
47:38may gumon sila,
47:39ang sabi na Candice ka nang,
47:40babayro ba ni,
47:41ang sabi na,
47:42dili ba ni babayro,
47:43judging with the way,
47:45I see things,
47:45pas-pas pag yung kailahang,
47:47pag-develop sa usag-usa,
47:48di ba,
47:49nagkailah lang sila sa party,
47:51then nagka-uyab,
47:51di ba,
47:52nagka-uyab lang sila na yun,
47:53tapos three months pa,
47:55I mean,
47:56honeymoon stage,
47:57supposed to be,
47:57diha ka,
47:58grabe ka proud,
47:59when you're in the honeymoon stage,
48:00muna kita huwag honeymoon stage,
48:02in relationship,
48:03three months,
48:03may nana,
48:04muna happy kay ka,
48:05sige mo po,
48:06sige kung mag-date,
48:07di ba,
48:08sige mo ka,
48:08muna happy,
48:09padjukin na muna,
48:09mga early stages,
48:11pero,
48:11imagine na sila sa honeymoon phase,
48:14dili nila ma-flunt ang usag-usa,
48:16or because,
48:17she wanted to flunt him,
48:18but he cannot,
48:19because,
48:20because dili lang ko,
48:21I'm shy type,
48:22are you serious?
48:25That's a valid thing,
48:26if again,
48:27imuhang trabaho is,
48:29public figure ka,
48:30or politician ka,
48:32okay ra,
48:33pero if,
48:34dili,
48:35then that's not a valid thing for me,
48:37no,
48:37I'll be very honest with you Liz,
48:39I'm on your side on this,
48:40but,
48:41somehow you also have to understand,
48:43kung unsang na type of character,
48:44ang imuhang uyab,
48:46unsa man siya,
48:47introvert ba siya?
48:48Same as giin mo ni Shane,
48:50na she's introvert,
48:51so it's nice to,
48:53have private moments,
48:55that you want to cherish,
48:56being private,
48:57with that person,
48:59again,
49:00it's not necessary,
49:01that this person,
49:02will always like what you post,
49:03will always share what you post,
49:05because,
49:06why do you have to prove to everybody,
49:08ngayon na relationship mo,
49:09when you know that,
49:10you are,
49:11in a real,
49:13relationship,
49:15however,
49:16assurance,
49:17mo na ang term,
49:18assurance,
49:19run somehow,
49:20could also be test,
49:21through social media,
49:23because,
49:23once you are being flaunted,
49:25once you are being shared,
49:27makayon siya,
49:27proud,
49:28di ba?
49:30So,
49:30at least,
49:31bisag once,
49:32no,
49:32once every one month,
49:33okay na na,
49:34oy,
49:34it's not,
49:35is that heavy?
49:37No,
49:38is that heavy to share,
49:39once every one month,
49:40or,
49:41hey,
49:41I'm proud of you,
49:42or mag-like ka lang din,
49:43or mag-heart ka lang din,
49:44ha?
49:44It's not,
49:45it's not heavy,
49:46for sure.
49:48Mag-like-like,
49:48kasi mong amigo,
49:49amiga,
49:49kasi mong huyab,
49:50din mo mabuhat,
49:51di ba?
49:52Okay,
49:53so,
49:53I think,
49:54to cut the long story short,
49:57before siya,
49:57mularga,
49:58lay down the cards,
49:59and if may mo siya,
50:00nga,
50:00numurag yun,
50:00basihan sa relationship,
50:01what if,
50:02oh,
50:02kayo mo yung akong basihan
50:03for assurance?
50:05And if he will do it,
50:06and he will assure you,
50:07then,
50:08wala kayangay ka problema.
50:11Investigate ka na, girl.
50:13Di ba?
50:13Tinong,
50:14I mean,
50:15I'll be honest,
50:16di lisi ko kampanti
50:17sa thought nga,
50:17never,
50:18unless I understand the job,
50:20or the kind of job
50:21my boyfriend is in.
50:23If,
50:24example,
50:24ako niya,
50:24akong boyfriend,
50:25artista,
50:26musabot,
50:27jud ko,
50:27kaya nga nung,
50:28merisi na ako,
50:28nga nung artista
50:29kong giuyab.
50:30Di ba?
50:31Example lang,
50:32oh,
50:33example,
50:33ako,
50:34itago ako sa kong uyab niya,
50:35kong uyab,
50:36politiko,
50:37merisi na ako,
50:37kaya nga nung niuyab,
50:38jugog politiko.
50:40Di ba?
50:40Nakagets mo,
50:41pero if,
50:42in any,
50:43ordinary lang sa jud siya,
50:44po,
50:45di ligid kong merisi,
50:46dapat na dyan ko yung assurance.
50:48Bisa kusa lang kapikture yun.
50:50Oh,
50:50i-profile lang ka di ang kausa,
50:51i-edit na lang na,
50:52dagang na mga editor ka roon,
50:53AI.
50:54Ano?
50:55Di ba?
50:56Di ba?
50:57Kung na-head look siya,
50:58kaya di siya hammies,
50:59ma-social judgment siya.
51:01Oh, di ba?
51:03Oh,
51:03i-kick koan lang na din na,
51:04at least once lang naman.
51:06I'm not saying,
51:07you have to really flank
51:08all over social media,
51:09every day,
51:09every night,
51:10every hour,
51:10every minute,
51:11nais kang makita,
51:12di isa't pwede.
51:13Oh,
51:13every hour,
51:14every minute,
51:14masikag-planted to nga,
51:15this is my boyfriend,
51:16di isa't o eh.
51:17I mean,
51:18just once.
51:18And once is enough.
51:19Di ba?
51:20Sakto ba?
51:21Once and once every month,
51:23siguro every month,
51:23sorry,
51:24okay na yan.
51:25Pero ka nang everyday,
51:26everyday,
51:27over-over,
51:29nabod dyan na o eh.
51:30Grabe naman,
51:30masigin na unsan eh.
51:32Ka nang teleserya ni,
51:33nga masigin,
51:33may update sa kada chapter,
51:34sa unsan yung ibuhat,
51:35karungan lawa,
51:36manag-uyab.
51:37Di ba?
51:38Kagets mo?
51:39Nga nang,
51:39nasa kiin na,
51:40I'm not,
51:40sorry kaya,
51:41if ma-ego mo.
51:42Pero naging ubahin nga ka nang,
51:43everyday naman,
51:43janis nila,
51:44sigi post.
51:45Uy,
51:45sige,
51:45kulang naman nga,
51:46puyo nung Miss Inuvie.
51:49Di ba?
51:50Yan naman,
51:50grabe naman,
51:52grabe naman sa nyo.
51:53Uy,
51:53pag-live kaya mo.
51:55Nakita nga,
51:56nag-date mong doon.
51:57Di ba?
51:58Nga nga,
51:58di ba,
51:59honestly,
51:59nga yung mga inanapon,
52:00kung unsan,
52:01na yung mga,
52:01na yung mga relationship
52:02nga very quiet,
52:03nasa yung mga relationship
52:04nga over-over.
52:06Di ba?
52:07Di ba?
52:07No.
52:08Na nga,
52:08alam.
52:09Eating with baby.
52:13Dinner with baby.
52:15Movie with love.
52:16Lovey.
52:17Tara na lang.
52:18Lahat na lang.
52:20O,
52:20di ka muna na,
52:21na-relation.
52:23Di ba?
52:24Pero,
52:25of course,
52:25again,
52:26para na kumutuod dyan ko,
52:27ano eh,
52:28balance is important,
52:30less is more,
52:32dili na si saring
52:33over-over sa social media
52:34because,
52:35honestly,
52:36social media is not
52:37the gauge of relationships.
52:39Additional lang
52:40ang social media.
52:42Back in the days,
52:43our lolos and lolas
52:44and even their great-grandfathers
52:45and grandmothers,
52:46wala may social media.
52:48They prove their love
52:49to what?
52:49Deli status.
52:51Letters.
52:52Di ba?
52:53They write love letters
52:54and that's how they show
52:55their genuine feelings.
52:57Di ba?
52:58And the love letters
52:59are intentionally for what?
53:00For one person only.
53:02Pero ang love story ka roon,
53:03o mga love letters ka roon,
53:05ipost sa
53:05social media.
53:08For everyone to
53:09see.
53:10Di ba?
53:11But,
53:11o sa rata,
53:12dyan na ka tao.
53:13And so,
53:13anyway,
53:15ang point being
53:17is,
53:18I get you Liz,
53:18and your feelings
53:19is valid.
53:21Valid,
53:22walay invalid.
53:24Sakto,
53:25o okay,
53:26rajud nga,
53:27na'y doubts.
53:28Especially,
53:29when you are
53:30in a very young
53:31relationship.
53:32Starting pa.
53:33Three months pa man.
53:34So,
53:35before siya mularga,
53:36set the record straight.
53:37If he cannot do it,
53:38then that's the gauge
53:39of weight back off.
53:40I think,
53:41it's enough for me to know that
53:43you cannot be proud of me
53:45in such a way
53:46nga,
53:47isag usalang kapos,
53:48walang yun.
53:49Di ba?
53:50Usalang naman sad,
53:52grabe naman sad.
53:53Di it yun makaya?
53:54Ikka,
53:54oh,
53:54jukunin mo.
53:54An'y saman diyan?
53:55Di ko guapa?
53:56Makala ba yun ka?
53:57Di ko guapa?
53:59An'y saman?
54:00Mag-uparing ko.
54:02Di ba?
54:03Makakuan po bea ka.
54:04It's like,
54:05it's like,
54:06your confidence
54:07is being,
54:09makaing ka questions
54:10at kung,
54:10hindi li ka proud
54:11akong uyab na ko.
54:12Di ba?
54:13So,
54:14muna.
54:14At the end of the day,
54:16social judgment pan o wala,
54:17balance is important.
54:19You can post your
54:19relationships online,
54:21but always,
54:22also know that,
54:24di li po over-over.
54:25Just glimpse of it.
54:27Because at the end of the day,
54:28kung mag-away mo,
54:30kanihan,
54:30I will give this as a sample.
54:32What's funny,
54:33is,
54:34sa una,
54:34when we are in a younger,
54:35bago-bagong relationship,
54:37mag-post,
54:38mag-iintop every mansari,
54:40di ba,
54:40namang yung mga inana,
54:41update, update.
54:42Later on,
54:43when you are in a
54:44kind of long relationship,
54:46you don't post that much anymore.
54:47Even magkatawa na lang mukhang,
54:48magkalim,
54:49tanay na mo sa inyong mga mansari.
54:51So,
54:51one time,
54:52ako ni Cher,
54:53it's a personal story.
54:54I have a friend,
54:55nangkata na siya siya,
54:56ate,
54:56ka maghihapon ko.
54:58Oo,
54:58nga nga di,
54:59ay siya.
54:59Oh,
55:00kikibaw ko,
55:01wala nakakita nga,
55:02nag-seek ko po sa social media,
55:03no?
55:03So,
55:04oo,
55:04see?
55:06Because some people are thinking,
55:07wala na mo,
55:08okay?
55:09Wala na kayo post po sa
55:10social media.
55:12Kung alam nyo lang.
55:13Diba?
55:15Pero mo nag-itawag nga,
55:16well,
55:16I don't see the point of
55:18proving it to social media
55:19for as long as what is there
55:21is real.
55:23Okay,
55:23so,
55:23dito ko nakarealize,
55:24ah,
55:24mag-post na sa deko,
55:25balik.
55:26Okay,
55:27life update,
55:28okay pa mi?
55:29Life update,
55:30ay,
55:31magkabalang ako,
55:31mag-menu ko,
55:32di ba mo invited?
55:34Diba?
55:35Diba?
55:36Parang,
55:37just,
55:37it might sound funny,
55:39however,
55:40that's how it should be.
55:41No?
55:41Do not force people,
55:43by the way,
55:44do not force people
55:44to always flaunt
55:45their relationships
55:46in social media
55:47because,
55:48for the sake of your satisfaction.
55:50At the end of the day,
55:51it's always their personal choice
55:52as a couple.
55:53And of course,
55:53as a couple,
55:54you should also meet halfway.
55:56Kung extrovert yung mong uyab,
55:57yung introvert ka,
55:58pagsabot po mo,
55:59nga mag-ambivert
55:59sa dmong duha sa relationship.
56:01Bitaw,
56:02it's not always,
56:03ang introvert nalang
56:04permium masunod,
56:04and it's not always,
56:05nga ang extrovert nalang
56:06permium masunod.
56:07You should always balance
56:08your characters.
56:09Diba?
56:10Dahil ay,
56:10mong good na mag-iuban.
56:11Opposite attracts yun.
56:12Extrovert ka yung uyab,
56:13introvert ka yung uyab,
56:14nanshalant,
56:15oay,
56:15pwede rin yun.
56:16Pero of course,
56:17at the end of the day,
56:18kailangan sila mag,
56:19mag,
56:20ako ano,
56:21sila mag combination
56:23na ilang mga desisyon.
56:24Combined.
56:25Kinangalan nga,
56:26mag-meet halfway
56:27for a healthy relationship.
56:28Because ang tendency mong good
56:29nyo yung two opposite,
56:30dagansan mong mga lalis.
56:32Hindi mo mo pareho.
56:33Diba?
56:34Lahil mo mga pinanginindigan.
56:36Pero,
56:37carry lang.
56:37If love jud ninyo,
56:38ang usag-usa.
56:40Tando siya o nga naman,
56:42extrovert.
56:43Eee!
56:44Extrovert siguro niya siya,
56:46introvert.
56:46Eee!
56:48No!
56:50Extrovert na gino.
56:51Ha?
56:52Katandoon.
56:53Diba?
56:54Extrovert ba ito si Kuan?
56:56Eee!
56:56Di ako introvert.
56:57Eee!
56:58Diba?
56:59Pero,
56:59that's how it is.
57:00You know?
57:01And nowadays,
57:02again and again,
57:03do not rely on what you see
57:05in social media.
57:06Because not everything you see in there
57:08is what it is in real life.
57:12Okay?
57:12What is in real life,
57:15sometimes people don't flaunt it
57:16on social media.
57:19Diba?
57:19Kagets mo?
57:20Ang uban,
57:21mga tao,
57:21ganahan mo po sa social media
57:23to impress people.
57:24But at the back of that,
57:27dagahan pa nang mga
57:28unsa-unsa chaotic pa kayo na.
57:30No?
57:30So,
57:31yun.
57:32And I hope that you learned something.
57:33Have you learned something
57:34this afternoon?
57:36Thank you so much.
57:37I also learned social judgment
57:38this afternoon.
57:39Thank you, Dave.
57:41And to everyone
57:42nga nagtanaw ka rin,
57:43I hope you get my point.
57:44And Liz,
57:44don't worry.
57:45Just open up your worries.
57:47Just ask for assurance.
57:48And if it is given,
57:50then kalma ka na lang,
57:51diha, girl.
57:51Kung ipailaila naman
57:52sad ka sa ginikanan,
57:53okay na na.
57:54Diba?
57:55Kung ipailaila naman
57:55sad ka sa mga amigo,
57:56samot nga okay na na.
57:58Pero kung wala pagidgani,
57:59kulba na na.
58:00Okay?
58:01Anyway,
58:01thank you so much.
58:03And palapak ko naman, guys.
58:06Ano sa ako to
58:07yung internship?
58:08Kaya ako to na ganda.
58:09Napam mo next week?
58:10Okay, very good.
58:11Thank you so much.
58:12Ano yung mga magulguhani nila
58:14kay we relearned something
58:15from the kiddos here,
58:16from the Gen Zs.
58:18And once again,
58:19dagang salamat sa mga nananawang
58:20medyo na overtime tagamay.
58:22Kaya katabihan,
58:22kaya ko,
58:23kaya ko katabi.
58:24Can you see?
58:25DJ Chixie,
58:26before I go,
58:26don't forget to follow us
58:27on our socials.
58:29Everybody,
58:30please do follow us
58:31at Sunstar Cebu
58:32across social media platforms
58:34and on our official website,
58:37www.sunstar.com.ph.
58:40Until next week,
58:41if you have stories to share,
58:42nga ito ang patambagan,
58:43nagtagaan na ito live
58:44sa itong live drama,
58:46there is a Dear Chixie.
58:48PM lang sa akong
58:49official Facebook page.
58:50That's DJ Chixie,
58:52spelling over there.
58:53Thank you so much
58:54and God bless you all.
58:55Till next Tuesday,
58:57bye!
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