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00:00I think I'm two different colors and two different arms.
00:25You see what I mean?
00:25This one's like more of an orange and that one's more of a red.
00:28That one's more pink.
00:29Yeah.
00:30The brownie brown.
00:31Where is the other one?
00:32How do you manage that?
00:33I don't really know.
00:34Why can't it always be like this?
00:39Why can't we just stand the moment together?
00:44Why can't it always be like this?
00:47Whoa!
00:48What the?
00:55Quick, catch it!
00:57Yeah!
00:58James wants to be the wicketkeeper because he doesn't want to run anymore.
01:04Oh!
01:05He's off!
01:06Oh!
01:07He's off!
01:08James, you're done!
01:09Yay!
01:10Don't hit it backwards.
01:11Oh!
01:12Guys!
01:13Guys!
01:14I think that's a homerun!
01:15Why never run it, friends?
01:16I think it's a homerun!
01:17Well done!
01:18Yay!
01:19Right here!
01:20How was the wedding?
01:21Oh my God!
01:22I had the best time!
01:23It looked so good!
01:24It was the most magical thing in the world!
01:25Imagine when one of us get married!
01:26I mean, I'm definitely not getting married, but...
01:27I always say to Elma, she's going to get to 19 and she'll be like, I'm ready to get married!
01:31How are you though, you've spoke to Sammy?
01:32Do you know what?
01:33All I wanted was for me to have a friendship with him where it's like, we can at least speak
01:46to each other and it's not awkward.
01:47She'll be like, I'm ready to get married.
01:49How are you, though? You spoke to Sammy.
01:51Do you know what? All I wanted was for me to have a friendship with him
01:55where it's like, we can at least speak to each other and it's not awkward.
01:58And I feel like we've finally got there.
02:00We're getting messages back and forth. It's not awkward.
02:03It just feels like it's flowing. If he messages, he messages.
02:05If I message, I message. If I don't, I don't. He doesn't, he doesn't.
02:08It's just nice. This is good.
02:10It sounds like you're both on the same page. I think we are.
02:13I see Freddie the other day. Oh, how was that?
02:15Erm, he buzzed my buzzer at my flat
02:18and there he was with a little bag with two lasagnas.
02:21Oh, no, that's hilarious. That is really funny.
02:24It's nice, cos he kind of, like, he come in, broke the ice.
02:26Yeah. He said sorry and I did appreciate it
02:29and I do think he was being genuine.
02:31I think you both handled that as well as it could have been,
02:33cos you didn't know how bad it was in Portugal.
02:34You've got to think that last night when we were all together on the terrace,
02:37that was so messy. Oh, it was shambles.
02:38It was messy, wasn't it? It was awful. Shambles.
02:40The annoying thing about all of this that's happened
02:42is that it stemmed from Freddie having a problem with me,
02:46me having a problem with Freddie,
02:47and now it's Saffron and Chloe that got a problem.
02:49And now, by the sounds of it as well, the other day,
02:51me and Saffron have now got a problem.
02:53And I'm just like, this all stems...
02:54What's happening between you and Saffron?
02:56So, me and Saffron had a conversation away from everyone
03:03when we was in Portugal,
03:05and she'd just said some things that I just didn't really agree with and like.
03:09Like what? Or you don't know what?
03:10She said, this is who I am,
03:12and if people don't like it, then they should leave.
03:15And then, after that, proceed to then go,
03:19was she crying?
03:21Was she crying?
03:22I back, Chloe.
03:23I thought, why do you keep asking me? Is she crying?
03:25Did you want her to cry?
03:26Like, was that the goal?
03:27Like, I just said to her, literally, I said,
03:30I didn't like it when you said that.
03:32Have you spoke to her?
03:33Yeah, so, obviously, for me,
03:34I'm friends with both Chloe and with Saffron,
03:36and I can see where both parties are coming from.
03:38I get it completely.
03:40It just feels like probably everyone now has turned their back on her,
03:43and I don't want it to seem that.
03:45It's everyone all at once.
03:47The problem is with us,
03:48and I think this is why we get the name we get,
03:49which is Mean Girls, Pack of Rules, whatever,
03:51because when you go at one, it's a domino effect.
03:54You're at all of us.
03:55It's a sisterhood.
03:56We're sisters.
03:57Like, that's just what it is.
03:58Yeah, and I'll get that for you.
03:59And I really like Saffron.
04:01I really do.
04:01I've had really deep conversations with her,
04:03and it's just put me in an awkward situation,
04:05because, obviously, if you didn't know,
04:06it's my birthday this week.
04:08Woo-hoo!
04:09I've obviously invited Saffron.
04:11I've got my nearest and dearest people coming.
04:13Like, it's not the event where people having arguments,
04:17people feeling awkward.
04:18So what's your thought process?
04:20I feel like something is telling me, like,
04:23Saffron needs to sit this one out,
04:25but I do want to say it to her face to face.
04:27Maybe you should do that,
04:28and I think maybe she would appreciate that,
04:30and then I think that way,
04:30I think it's better than sending a message.
04:32Maybe it's the end of the world, we're going to fall.
04:37We can just forget the pressure.
04:40So what if it's not?
04:43We're going to fall.
04:44I'll be saying, yeah, we could kind of...
04:46Oh!
04:47I'm sorry!
04:48Oh!
04:50Jump back!
04:53Rounders!
04:54I'm sweating.
04:56Oh, yeah, it's warm.
04:58That was a good game.
04:59Well done, gang.
05:00Well done, rounders.
05:01I've never played rounders since I was, like, in school.
05:04I think I'm pretty good at rounders.
05:05Beg to differ.
05:09Oliver!
05:11What's this?
05:11Oh, that's better, that's better.
05:13Go on for it, for it, for it, for it, for it, for it, for it, for it, for it, for it.
05:16Never comes back.
05:17What a game, man.
05:18I haven't played rounders since I was at school.
05:19Since I was, like, five?
05:21A couple of years ago, then.
05:22Yeah.
05:23It's often a game growing in play.
05:27What's been going on, guys?
05:28Update, update.
05:29How was Bear and Diag?
05:31Aren't they so cute?
05:32Yeah.
05:33I was saying, like, see with Diags, yeah, the only Diags I know is jokey, stupid Diags.
05:38Yeah, yeah.
05:38But, like, actually seeing them around Bear, I was like, do you know what?
05:41He's actually, he's a very good figure.
05:43Do you know what I mean?
05:44He is.
05:44He's really good with him, isn't he?
05:45He is. He's so good.
05:46I feel like we're a family now.
05:47Yeah, exactly.
05:48Like, I feel like I have that family and it, like, it's just, everything's worked out perfectly.
05:52It's lovely.
05:53Sammy.
05:53Love to hear it, Jodes.
05:55How's you?
05:55It's all territory I've never really been in before and I want to navigate it in the right way, but I don't really know what the right way is and I don't want to upset Omar, but I also need to look after myself.
06:07I want to be friends with her.
06:08Like, I've always wanted her in my life, but it's just so difficult right now.
06:11And I feel like you can be friends, but I feel like the best thing to do is, like, let this situation kind of fizzle out and not make it a thing where you have to talk and make everything really deep.
06:19No, I know. I know.
06:20The relationship has ended.
06:21You have ended on pretty good terms where you can talk to each other if you see each other.
06:25Elma is an amazing, gorgeous, lovely person.
06:28I don't think she's going to be extremely hurt by you not messaging.
06:32She'll understand.
06:33Yeah, no, I know.
06:34So I think as much as it's going to hurt and as much as she wants it to be friends, there's just got to be a little bit more time for you to heal.
06:41I think if you see her again, which you probably will, I think you just need to talk to her and, like, not avoid her and just be friendly or even just say hi and, like, give her a hug and, like, a kiss on the cheek or whatever.
06:49But then you've got to just sort of leave it at that.
06:51Yeah, I know.
06:52It's just difficult.
06:53I know it is.
06:54That's why I'd rather just, like, any relationship I've had in the past, it's like, I've completely cut her.
07:00But look, a lot of lads do that and it is weird.
07:03That's what's difficult.
07:03And you can be friends with your ex.
07:05You can, of course you can.
07:06Things do get easier and time is a massive healer.
07:10Yeah.
07:10But I think, you know, it's easy to get in your own head but you need to just try and talk to whoever you can.
07:15Like, we're always here for you, you know, you can talk.
07:17No, I appreciate that.
07:18So I think there's going to be a deal where you will be friends but for now it's just baby steps to getting there.
07:24Yeah, that'll be cool.
07:24You'll get there.
07:25You will get there.
07:26I know.
07:28I know.
07:32If not now, it's soon.
07:38And whatever is right for you will guide you through.
07:45Because if not now, it's soon.
07:52Whatever is right for you.
07:54The last time we was here, we was packing up your staff and now you're back here.
08:00I'm back here to see the dogs.
08:01I needed some, I need some R&R and just a bit of company with the dogs.
08:05Yeah.
08:05Do you know what, I'm gutted about Harry.
08:09Mm.
08:09Why has he got so involved?
08:11Like, you're not involved, you're not involved, Elmer's not involved.
08:14I think he's acting in anger and he's probably listened to the girls quite a bit.
08:18But I think he's got to remember, you and him go back a long way.
08:24But as it stands, I don't need people like that around me.
08:27Listen, regardless whether people are in the wrong or right, you will always support what's right, Saf.
08:32I think too many people are seeing too many things now.
08:36I mean, listen, the 30th, I've not heard a word.
08:40It would be.
08:41You was originally invited, though, wasn't you?
08:43Yeah, yeah, I've always been invited, because obviously there was a friendship there.
08:47As this stands, I don't want to go to a party where I've got a group of girls not talking to me in the atmosphere.
08:52It's her 30th.
08:53Yeah.
08:53But actually, while she's saying that, I've got a card for her, so I'm going to give it to one of you's.
08:58Oh, really?
08:58Just in case.
09:00Just in case.
09:00Honestly, what I don't...
09:02I know, I feel like I'm going to cry.
09:04Don't say so much.
09:04You are.
09:05A good fucking person, you know that.
09:07Because I haven't fell out with Courtney, so I'd still get her a card.
09:10Do you know what I mean?
09:10She might dislike me for something to have her best mate.
09:13Oh, that makes it upset.
09:13I feel sorry for you.
09:15Don't get upset.
09:16I know, no, it is.
09:17Because you don't deserve, like, loads of people saying, like, these things, because it's just not true.
09:22I get, like, you might have an issue with one person, but it doesn't warrant, then, three other people, then, having problems too much.
09:28And I weren't personal to her.
09:29No, I wasn't.
09:30I was saying to her, you were there.
09:31At all.
09:31I was saying to her while you were there, Sophie, you're a nice girl, Chloe.
09:34I know, I know.
09:35Yeah, and you thought, no, but this is what I said to Chloe, I went, Saffron has always spoke really highly about all you girls, hence why I speak to them girls now.
09:41It is what it is.
09:42Yeah.
09:43I can't beg a friend, do you get what I mean?
09:45No, I'm not, yeah.
09:45It's been made quite clear to me that that's the situation, but obviously it ain't nice that every...
09:52What's that now?
09:53Oh, the door.
09:54It's the door.
09:58Stay there.
10:00Oh, hello.
10:01Are you OK?
10:03How are you done?
10:04You all right, Colt?
10:05Yeah, I'm OK.
10:05How are you?
10:06Yeah, I'm all right.
10:07And I don't want to speak, so I carry the grief and the peace.
10:33You all right, Colt?
10:34Yeah, I'm OK.
10:35How are you?
10:35Yeah, I'm all right.
10:36I'm all right.
10:37Merry day, oh, merry girls.
10:42What should come long for, to invite her to the party?
10:45I just...
10:46What?
10:47I haven't wanted to do this, because I just feel like, if I had it my way, I'd want you...
10:53I'd want it all to be fine, but obviously, you know, my birthday's coming up.
10:56Yeah.
10:57And, like, the whole thing with you and Chloe, like, it's just...
11:00Yeah.
11:00I just wish it never happened.
11:02Yeah, I do as well.
11:03I mean, it's...
11:04Colt, what can I say?
11:06I know.
11:07If I was being selfish, I'd be like, I want staff to still come, like, I want the girls
11:12to be there.
11:12But, like, if I'm being logical, like, I don't want you to come and feel awkward.
11:16Yeah.
11:16I don't want Chloe to feel awkward as well.
11:19Have you come to tell me I'm uninvited?
11:21Not...
11:21I'm not saying uninvited, but I just don't want you to turn up and feel awkward around the
11:24girls, because, wait, you've not spoken to Chloe, you're not talking to Amber, you're not really
11:27talking to Harry.
11:28She's only fine.
11:30No, she's just been fine.
11:32But with you, I just think, what, now I don't have a friendship with four of us?
11:37No, no, but I don't want you to take this as me and you aren't going to have a friendship
11:40again, because that's not the case at all.
11:41Like, I do have a place for you in my heart, and I'm not going to ever speak to you ever
11:45again.
11:46I just think, just for my birthday in this situation, I just think we need to just leave
11:50it.
11:50Yeah.
11:50Like, I just think, leave this one out, and then hopefully you and Chloe can have a conversation
11:55after and just, like, I don't know, try and get to some sort of...
11:58Clear the air, yeah.
11:59Because all it is is, like, a miscommunication.
12:02Yeah.
12:02Like, Chloe loves you.
12:04She loves you as a person.
12:05She was just taken aback by the way how she was spoken to.
12:09I thought the friendship had more respect than that.
12:14Whether she's done with the friendship, at least tell me.
12:17It feels bitchy, because, listen, I don't get upset over no reason.
12:21I've been in tears.
12:22I care about Chloe, I care about you, and that is the bottom line to it.
12:25This is where I think they go wrong.
12:27Courtney should be inviting her and pushing them together.
12:29Breathe the silence, yeah.
12:30Rather than going, you're not coming, it makes it worse.
12:33She's been sitting here getting upset for days, and now she's got the knock on the door
12:36saying, you're not coming to my party.
12:38I don't like that.
12:39Whilst you're there, one sec.
12:43Are you OK?
12:44Better person than me.
12:46I'll give it to the girls to give you a chance.
12:48Oh, Saf, thank you so much.
12:49That's all right.
12:50Well, have a lovely day anyway.
12:52Can I have a hug?
12:53Yeah.
12:56I hope it all gets sorted out.
12:57I really don't want...
12:58I don't want this.
12:59I don't want this at all.
13:00I don't, but obviously, until I talk to Chloe, it's sort of getting worse.
13:04Yeah.
13:05Well, I hope it all sorts out.
13:06Have a lovely birthday anyway.
13:08Bye, Saf.
13:0830 ain't as bad as you think.
13:13Well, that's that.
13:15So, what the hell was going on?
13:16Did you hear it?
13:18A little bit.
13:18It was Courtney.
13:19Courtney's obviously come here trying to do the right thing.
13:22The right thing for our friend, yeah.
13:23I feel like it's only prolonging this whole situation and make it worse, making more of a divide.
13:28Do you know what it is for me is if it had been my big birthday or a normal birthday and I uninvited her, I'd mean business.
13:35Yeah.
13:35So, keep me out of your mouths now, because it's getting tiring.
13:46I'm in.
13:46Watch me toes.
13:48Woo!
13:48You see old geezers in the garden and you think, oh, that must be easy.
13:57No.
13:58I respect their green fingers.
13:59That was tough.
14:06Hello?
14:06Come round the side.
14:07Hey, come.
14:09Open the gate.
14:10Calm down.
14:15Oh, it's sabby.
14:17Oh, it's sabby.
14:18That calm, that calm, that calm.
14:20Be calm with him.
14:21Sackley, bro.
14:22Hello, Oliver.
14:23Nothing but respect.
14:24Down.
14:29Oh, it just takes time to get used to new people.
14:31It's like you two, innit?
14:32At first, like, I was trying to beat me up, because I spoke to Eleanor, and now he's got his head on my lap.
14:37Now look at us.
14:39Now it blitz.
14:40We're going to have a good times.
14:41We're going to go to Courtney's birthday party.
14:43I don't know if I'm going to be on the list.
14:46Don't think I'll be on the list somehow.
14:47I've got him, right?
14:49Well, obviously.
14:49Oh, you had an invite already?
14:50Yeah.
14:51You're...
14:52Courtfest, baby.
14:53Yeah, but you've always gone with fun, so...
14:55Courtfest.
14:57Freddie.
14:58Hey, assuming you're not invited or going to Courtney's birthday party,
15:03I'm inviting you to the NFI not freaking invited party.
15:08Love to see you there.
15:10Freddie.
15:12Unlucky.
15:14I really want to go to Optimus.
15:18Shall I get you invited to Courtney's?
15:19Shall I ring her up instead?
15:21To be fair, I don't really know what one's better.
15:25Oh, no.
15:28Let me guess.
15:28You're on the list, mate.
15:29Let me guess.
15:30NFI party, bitch.
15:31Oh, here's our little birthday princess.
15:49Sorry.
15:50Thank you for ordering my pasta.
15:52The pasta's just this second sat there.
15:54Mm.
15:54God.
15:55What's wrong?
15:57Oh, I just went to see Saffron this morning.
15:59Mm.
16:00Obviously, I went to her door and I was just standing at her door
16:02and I just saw, like, a lot of sadness in her eyes
16:05and we kind of spoke about your conversation with her in Portugal
16:09and I feel like she's sad that she's upset you.
16:13That's what she's saying.
16:14That's great.
16:15She didn't want it to get like that
16:16because, obviously, when she's upset you,
16:18it knows it dominoes onto me
16:19and it dominoes onto, like, our group
16:21because, obviously, when someone feels it in our group,
16:23we all feel it.
16:24Yeah.
16:25And I think that's where we get the mean girl.
16:26You upset one of us.
16:27You upset all of us.
16:28I think that's where we get, like, the whole mean girl name
16:30and then, yeah, I feel like she took it all right.
16:32Like, I didn't want to do it.
16:33I didn't.
16:34Like, in an ideal world, I'd have everyone there
16:36and everyone be happy.
16:37I didn't tell you to do that.
16:38I know, I know.
16:38I never said you did.
16:39I'm doing it because I don't want you to feel good.
16:41I don't want her to feel good
16:42and I don't want my day to be dominated by,
16:45oh, look, they're there.
16:46Like, oh, are they going to have a conversation?
16:47Are they going to argue?
16:48Yeah.
16:48I don't want that on my birthday.
16:50She would be welcome to come
16:51if the whole thing with Chloe didn't happen.
16:53100%.
16:53Like, 100%.
16:54It wouldn't have even been a thought in my mind.
16:57Yeah.
16:57And I did want to let her know, like,
17:00me saying for her just to, like, sit this one out
17:02doesn't mean I'm never going to speak to her again
17:03or I'm never going to be friends with her again.
17:05Could you say that to this one out?
17:05Yeah, I said that to her.
17:06Like, I said...
17:07Just sit this one out.
17:08What am I going to say?
17:09How do I word it?
17:11You're uninvited.
17:13No, you're in the worst.
17:15I'm joking.
17:16I didn't want it to be mean.
17:17I'm not funny.
17:18I don't know.
17:18I'm laughing.
17:19I didn't want it to be mean.
17:20I didn't want it to be, like...
17:20You're like, sit this one out.
17:21It's sore.
17:22Like, it's sore.
17:23Like, what are we meant to do?
17:24Like, the whole situation is sore.
17:26Do you know what I mean?
17:27I've heard from, like, multiple people now
17:28that, like, obviously she's been really upset
17:29and she's been crying
17:30and I wouldn't want her to be in a situation
17:32where she would feel, like, sad
17:36or, like, in a position, like,
17:37she's obviously, like, going through it at the moment.
17:39I think that she would want to come anyway.
17:42But, I mean, uninvited and sit this one out
17:44and not the words that I would have used.
17:46No, listen, what else are you going to say?
17:47What am I meant to say?
17:48As long as you said you were thinking of her and...
17:50I was, but that's the reason why I've done it.
17:52Like, I would hate her to walk into my party
17:54and think, like, oh, like, Chloe Amber...
17:56I just want to say, this just speaks fully
17:57about how much of a nice person you are
17:59because this girl has disrespected you.
18:01She's been so nasty to you
18:02and you're worried about how she feels
18:04because she's been uninvited.
18:05And this is just an example
18:07because it's, like, you're being portrayed
18:08to be this nasty person
18:09but even after everything
18:10you're still cautious of her feelings
18:12which I just think speaks volumes.
18:13Well, cautious of her feelings...
18:14And she should know this.
18:15It just frustrates me.
18:16She has been upset and stuff.
18:17Yeah.
18:17But also cautious that people do try
18:19and run with the narrative
18:20that we're mean girls
18:21and I just don't want...
18:22Listen, we're getting called mean girls
18:24because we have each other's backs
18:25not because we're being horrible to anyone.
18:27That's the difference.
18:28Yeah.
18:29But, listen, it's not...
18:29It wasn't, like, the best...
18:30I didn't feel great about it
18:31but I've done it now
18:32and now I can just try
18:34and enjoy my birthday
18:34and have, like, good vibes there.
18:36We're going to enjoy your birthday, honey.
18:38We're going to enjoy my birthday.
18:38We're going to enjoy my birthday
18:39and, like, I feel like
18:40it's not going to be a situation.
18:42Yeah.
18:42Oh, I'm glad you're staying.
18:59There you are, Scare I am.
19:01I'm not for no, I'm not for no.
19:02I know, it doesn't matter.
19:03It's all right.
19:03I don't mind.
19:04Oh, a little girlsy.
19:05You all right?
19:06Yeah.
19:07Great.
19:07Glad that we've come for a bit of, um...
19:09A bit of something.
19:10Yeah.
19:10How did you feel after seeing Cole?
19:12Yeah, no, it weren't great.
19:15It weren't great.
19:16For me, it's just, it's all a bit,
19:17it's got a bit out of hand
19:18and it's, it's, it's just looking a bit silly
19:21from, from every angle at the minute.
19:23It's really escalated.
19:24I mean, Harry.
19:26What, what, what?
19:27Well, you might hate me
19:28but I have invited Harry to come.
19:30Just because I feel like you still need to speak.
19:33He's got a few things
19:34that he wants to get off his chest.
19:35I'm going to let him do the talking.
19:36I don't want to speak on his behalf.
19:38He doesn't want to rap.
19:39Just to put that out there.
19:41He's said he doesn't want to argue with you
19:42and I feel like there might be a misunderstanding
19:45that maybe things might have been said
19:47and might not have been said
19:49but I think we just need to clear it up
19:50because it's getting, it's getting...
19:52Messy.
19:52It's messy, it's stupid, it's ridiculous.
19:54I just, I just don't want us to all have a rap.
19:57You all right?
19:57Hello.
19:58Hello.
19:59You okay?
19:59Yeah, good, thank you.
20:00Yeah?
20:00Yeah, good.
20:02So glad you could make it.
20:03Messy Jen.
20:04It's all right.
20:08I mean...
20:09I ain't seen you or heard from you.
20:11Yeah, I've not seen you since Portugal.
20:13Yeah.
20:13But obviously I know that you've been upset
20:15and there's a lot going on
20:16and that's the last thing I want to hear
20:17so that's why I wanted to come and see you
20:18because I don't want to hear you're upset.
20:22But I feel like enough's enough.
20:25With what?
20:26Just with the tone of the voice,
20:28the way it's the abruptness of talking.
20:29Oh, so you're coming to tell me about myself?
20:31I didn't know this.
20:31I'm not coming to tell yourself.
20:33I just want you to understand that.
20:34I don't know.
20:35I feel like I've been listening to Chloe
20:36and I feel very protected of Chloe
20:38because she's obviously been upset
20:40about a load of stuff.
20:41Harry, you've known me too long.
20:43I'm not a bad person.
20:44I might deliver things wrong.
20:46No one's saying you're a bad person.
20:47No one's saying you're a bad person.
20:48But you've just come in and said,
20:49well, there's enough.
20:50But enough, because I feel
20:51everyone's just getting a bit like,
20:53you know, we have conversations with you, Saffron,
20:55and it's just so heavy all the time.
20:58Who has conversations with me?
20:59Who?
21:01You've done it to me a couple of months ago.
21:03And do you know what it is?
21:04I've got to an appointment with you, Saff,
21:05and I really have,
21:06and I feel like you don't realise
21:08the amount of people I defend you in rooms.
21:11You don't realise that yet.
21:12People say, oh, she's rude, she's this,
21:15and I've always forever been going to people,
21:17oh, that's just, Saff,
21:17you need to just get,
21:18like, once you get to know her,
21:19it's fine, everything's going to be great.
21:20That's just, Saff, like, she's lovely.
21:22But my opinions weren't bad for you,
21:23was they, when I was sticking up for you,
21:25to Jo, to Freddie?
21:26They weren't bad then,
21:27when I was voicing and being loud.
21:28This has got nothing to do with Jo and Junaid
21:30and all that.
21:31But I've been a good friend to you.
21:32And you're...
21:33Do you not think I've been a good friend to you?
21:35No.
21:35You don't think I've been a good friend to you at all?
21:36No, look at this.
21:37Because, Saffron...
21:37Look at this shit.
21:39Out of anyone,
21:40you could have diffused this,
21:41but you've added to it.
21:42No, but because I feel like I've had enough as well.
21:45Oh, right.
21:45And this ain't me.
21:46I'm only trying to be your mate
21:47and I'm only trying to tell you
21:48exactly how people are feeling, Saffron.
21:49I don't need a justification
21:51of my personality from you.
21:55Listen, yous have got a friendship.
21:56You've had a friendship for 15 years.
21:57Do you want to throw away
21:58your friendship for 15 years or not?
21:59That is the bottom line of it.
22:00I've honestly come here
22:01to sort this out.
22:04Right.
22:04I didn't come here to be angry with you.
22:06But you are angry.
22:07And it's so...
22:07Do you know what, Hage?
22:08Listen, I can take it,
22:09but what I am saying is that
22:11please don't pull my character apart
22:13and sit here and go,
22:14enough's enough.
22:15I'm fine.
22:16I've had a hard time.
22:19Don't get upset.
22:22Don't get upset.
22:23Don't get upset.
22:24I don't want us all to get upset.
22:25I just want to...
22:26Please, can we just stop doing this?
22:28No, we're not leaving yet.
22:29You're not leaving
22:30because we're not finished.
22:31This is too much.
22:31We're not finished.
22:32It's going on for too long.
22:35Over fuck all.
22:36Are you just listening to yourselves?
22:37It's over fuck all.
22:38Over a fucking cup of tea.
22:40Over Saffron's house.
22:40That is stupid.
22:41This is too much.
22:43We're not doing it.
22:44I don't want you to be upset.
22:45I don't...
22:46This...
22:46I love you.
22:47Harry, I don't think you realise,
22:49because we're not around each other as much,
22:50how much I do defend you.
22:52And you want to see that.
22:53Yes, I know, but...
22:54I've defended you too.
22:55It's only since I've got home
22:56and I've just got upset with you.
22:57Well, of course you have.
22:58And listen,
22:58you've had a lot of people in your ear, Hage.
23:01And I didn't get no joy
23:02out of her being upset
23:02and I definitely ain't getting joy
23:04out of this situation.
23:05I know.
23:05Let me tell you this.
23:06I really ain't...
23:08Mm-mm, could be nice to us
23:11Oh, to each other
23:14What should we add?
23:27I don't know.
23:28What you fancy?
23:29Right, what do we want?
23:30Oh, wait, see, I'm Joseph Brick.
23:32It's on me.
23:32Yay!
23:33For one time only.
23:35Prosecco!
23:36Prosecco, Prosecco, Prosecco, Prosecco, Prosecco.
23:39Cut my honey, girl.
23:40Can I have four Prosecco's, please?
23:42Ooh!
23:43Ooh!
23:44Ooh!
23:45That big girl's here!
23:46Yay!
23:47Yay!
23:48Yay!
23:49Yay!
23:50Yay!
23:51Yay!
23:56Yay!
23:57Yay!
23:58Yay!
23:59Yay!
24:00Yay!
24:01Yay!
24:02Yay!
24:03Yay!
24:04Yay!
24:05Yay!
24:06Yay!
24:07Yay!
24:08Yay!
24:11Yay!
24:12Yay!
24:13Yay!
24:14Yay!
24:14Oh, Danielle!
24:15Oh, guys!
24:15Hi!
24:16Yay!
24:17Yay!
24:17I'm glad you come to the end, I am!
24:19Oh
24:27Daniel
24:31I'm glad you come to the
24:38Boys welcome to the party
24:40Can I ask you said was you invited to courtney's nah? Oh, I mean oh, I wouldn't be there
24:49Well, I would have a one to you live and I
24:53Why is this the boy?
24:57Are you happy to be here?
25:00Listen a few tequila's down you have the best time of your life. Did you get an invite if I want an invite today?
25:06Why do I have that mentality fuck him?
25:15It's actually good
25:19Oh
25:25Cheers to courtney's 30
25:27Cheers to courtney finally turning 30 and we can make her feel old because she's done it for us for years honestly
25:33How old are you?
25:3431, but still she makes me know it
25:36I know Josie's the baby of the courtney
25:39When are you 30?
25:41In four years
25:45Let's touch base in four years
25:47I'll literally be like 60 in four years
25:49If I'm not married with at least one baby by then I swear to god
25:51Do you know what elma said to tick tock into our group chat and it was like everyone in their 30s if you've not been married congratulations
25:57You've avoided your first of all
25:59I was like I've ticked that checklist
26:01That's how I feel I actually felt quite happy about that
26:03Chloe how are you feeling with the staff stuff and that
26:07I feel like I don't need it and that's so
26:09We're too old we had that when we were like early 20s
26:11Do you know what I mean?
26:12So Saff was invited to this but I felt like courtney felt like she's not uninvited to her
26:16So basically she went to Saffron's house and she basically said look like I don't want anyone feeling uncomfortable at my birthday
26:21It's where my like my friends my family obviously Chloe's her best friend and you don't want to be wondering like
26:27Is it gonna kick off at your birthday?
26:29Is anyone gonna feel awkward? Listen you'd feel awkward if she was there
26:31She'd feel awkward if she was there especially the fact that she thinks that no one really is her biggest fan at the moment
26:37Courtney was a bit like I just think the best thing for you to do is sit this one out
26:41I've heard that she's been very upset and so I just wouldn't think that she would want to be in this environment anyway
26:46And also it doesn't come from a place of malice
26:48No it doesn't it comes from if anything like a place of like thinking of her thinking of my feelings and just thinking of everyone's feelings basically
26:54It's just a shot
26:55Me and Saff obviously I know that we're obviously gonna have to see each other and talk but
26:58Courtney's birthday is really not a place for us to do that
27:01I'm unstoppable
27:03You like it but you will see
27:05I'm unstoppable
27:07Happy birthday to Saffron
27:11Yay!
27:12Yay!
27:13Yay!
27:14I'm not your imaginary candle
27:15Aw that's beautiful
27:16I'm not trusted with fire
27:18I'm not trusted with fire
27:20Wow
27:21I love that
27:24I take a look
27:26Know where I can go
27:28Know where I can go
27:29She's dancing!
27:30Oh yeah!
27:31Oh yeah!
27:32Yay Courtney!
27:33It's your birthday!
27:34Oh my god!
27:35Cheers!
27:36To being 30-30
27:37Happy 30s Cole
27:38When you turn 30 life is so different because you're like you're still young but you're an adult
27:53So like
27:54Yeah that's what I'm struggling with
27:55I don't wanna be an adult
27:56No I was gonna say that yeah how you finding that?
27:58My mum's like to me
28:00Now you're turning 30 you can't call me to book your appointment
28:03I'm not coming to the doctors with you
28:05Does she still do your washing?
28:06No I do my washing
28:07I actually enjoy doing my washing
28:09Same
28:10But like I'm just gonna struggle to have to be mature
28:14You look so well though like you look so young
28:17Looking at you you think you're like about 24
28:19I love that
28:20Are you enjoying it?
28:21I actually
28:23I actually got myself into a mindset going into my 30s single being like I'm enjoying my life
28:28Like I'm having fun
28:30Yeah
28:31I am having fun
28:32And I'm excited to like meet new people
28:33Cause
28:34Get out there yeah
28:35And I'm excited to like meet my future husband
28:36Just enjoy it
28:37Yeah
28:38How long are you celebrating this 30th for?
28:41All month
28:42Yeah I agree
28:43Why not?
28:44I think where I've got so much going on in my family
28:46Yeah
28:47And like in my life
28:48It's the one day that is a bit of attention on me
28:50Yeah of course
28:51Yeah
28:52And like I'm always celebrating my friends getting married, getting engaged, having babies
28:54Yeah
28:55And I'm always celebrating for other people
28:56And I just feel like it's the one day of the year that people celebrate me
28:59People celebrating you
29:00No I get that yeah
29:01Do you ever feel like sometimes all you're doing is keeping everybody else happy for the plans they're doing?
29:05Yeah always
29:06And I do that with friends and relationships and that's why I stay in things for longer than I should
29:09Because I put their feelings before mine
29:11Look you've got to enjoy your birthday now
29:13Get in the head space and know what to be in shit
29:15But you're only 30 once
29:17The next one will be 40
29:19Oh God that's sick
29:20So enjoy it cause you've got another 10 years
29:22Smile
29:23Smile
29:24And don't stop smiling all day
29:25Yeah
29:26And don't stop smiling all day
29:27Yeah
29:28This is for all my ladies who don't get hurt enough
29:30If you've been done wrong that it's your song so turn it up
29:34One time for all my ladies you're looking good as what
29:37So tell them bye bye cause it's your time to turn it up
29:41Big cheese to the NFI party
29:42Yeah
29:43NFI party
29:44Woo
29:45I think I just wanted to go to an NFI party
29:46I've never been to an NFI party
29:48How do you feel about Daniel being here?
29:51Since being back from Portugal I've only actually briefly seen him
29:54So today is going to be the first time that we're going to be in the same location
29:59This close to each other
30:00Do you get butterflies or is it more of like not an anxiety but is it an excitement?
30:05No
30:06Is it a weird feeling?
30:07I don't get that anymore
30:08You see it like numb feeling
30:09It is like a feeling of like oh my body's there like do you know what I mean
30:12It's awkward like I don't know where we're standing with each other
30:16Yeah
30:17I'm down on my knees
30:20I can't tell my soul another one
30:24Who's actually at Courtney's party today?
30:26Everyone but us for
30:27And Saf
30:28And Dan
30:29And Sammy
30:30I would love to be a fly on the wall
30:32Oh my god don't get me wrong I'd love to be in the little corner here
30:35I'd love to be a bean sting the bitches
30:38Oh don't know what happened there
30:42Well let's cheers to NFI
30:44I've had a bad time of it haven't I?
30:45No what's going on?
30:46What is the update?
30:47So I went breakfast with Elmer
30:48But I get there she went I've asked Harry to come in
30:49Oh great
30:50That put you right off your head
30:51Oh so
30:52So in he walks
30:53Oh do you know what I'm so livid
30:54All I can say is that it was Harry I didn't recognise it was Amber Turner with a crop back and sides
30:59No it was
31:00No it was
31:01No it was
31:02I have had a terrible week I feel like Harry has a point to prove to these girls
31:06I think he's in such an aura of being in their mates
31:07That's what I said Elmer
31:08So I said listen I said with relationships and friendships you've always been a follower and you don't want to rock the boat
31:13Well he starts crying then because it hit a nerve
31:20Yeah and anyway I left I couldn't I've left yes I've had a text on the way
31:28Go on
31:29From a harrow
31:30Oh for God
31:31Does he look like we had to leave off?
31:32It's not going to go
31:33Do you want to hear?
31:34Yeah read it Safi
31:35Go on
31:36Seeing you cry really upset me because you never cry well I do I say well you don't know me I've cried for a week
31:41I just wanted you to understand that sometimes your approach and words can hurt me
31:44It's not going to hurt you
31:45Yeah I know
31:47I've tried to let you say yes I know
31:48I can't wait for you
31:49I can't wait for you
31:50I can't wait for you
31:51I can't wait for you
31:52I can't wait for you
31:53I can't wait for you
31:54I can't wait for you
31:55you to understand that sometimes your approach and words can hurt people and last week i was angry
31:59at the way people was feeling so now he's become angry after portugal that's what he's saying my
32:05intention was to sort it out not make you feel worse honestly thought we might have laughed at
32:08the end because the roles have reversed and it was me giving you tough love this time so it's
32:13gone from me being an arsehole and this nasty person to now it's just called a bit of tough love
32:19that he now thinks he's giving me uh maybe they let the dust settle and let me know when you feel
32:24like you're ready to talk and i'll pop around and see you but you don't deserve to be crying as
32:28that's not fair you've been too late little too late darling but that's where it doesn't make sense
32:35because he's saying you don't deserve to be upset but he's actually the cause of this and he could
32:40have been the one to defuse it yeah and i said the best person out of it he's known me the longest
32:46he has thrown fire to them witches you would not believe it's bring me down ultimately listen you've
32:51cried too many tears the last week we've all been worried about you yeah we have you don't need
32:55that stuff you're a good person you've got people that love the death of you yeah love you so much
32:58enough why we're here today n-a-fi n-a-fi n-a-fi n-a-fi
33:05the mascot
33:17happy birthday thank you oh you know what 23 yeah 21 again you look 28
33:24how is everything what's going on because this is carnage it's it's been it's a lot
33:34i know it's been a lot and i don't know am i am i a little bit to blame i hate you i've been on the
33:41receiving end of it from saf more than once do you know what i mean we all have and she has held her
33:46hands up and is a second accountability for what happened in portugal with with chloe yes i know
33:51girl band were there for you but she she's your ride or die and i just want to say that to you
33:56and she's struggling with it and i know you don't like seeing her upset i don't like seeing her upset
34:00nah i don't like seeing her upset at all obviously i've had briefly had conversations with courtney
34:04today and even that situation i feel like courtney it must have taken a lot for courtney to not invite
34:13saffron do you think honestly honest opinion if amber was in dubai do you think saff would have still
34:17been it i don't think it's am's problem do you not think this has all been blown out of proportion
34:24yes 100 100 listen things have been said people don't agree with everybody makes mistakes we all
34:32make mistakes i've made mistakes listen i'm sitting in pure daylight making mistakes yeah
34:36yeah i mean i make mistakes we all make mistakes we all say things that we don't mean sometimes
34:41but how do we move this forward now because what's happening is it's getting messy yeah i've tried to
34:46see saffron i've tried to see her and and try and make this go forward and all it seems to be doing
34:51is going backwards yeah and listen you've knocked some sense into me because we have been friends
34:55yeah you just do but all i'm saying is listen i love girl band i've known girl band for so
34:59so many years so many years but you be harry yeah saffron's your friend and girl band should grant that
35:07whether they like it or not they they can't stop you from doing that you need to be harry here
35:11saff need y'all we need to have a get together a nice one and lift saff back up because she's low
35:16she would do it for you she would do it for me she'd do it for so do you know what i mean
35:28i'm not at this party i'm backing you back see you're pulling it over it's just
35:35i said you have a feeling i can't see me because i'm hearing you yell it's so good you know thanks
35:44hello my friend yo what's your mate you got no mates over there mr lonely
35:49mate get over here oh i'm leaving now all right i'll see you soon oh god sweet bye
35:53let me walk out of here
36:11we gotta go now
36:14let me walk out of here
36:19hi girls hi hi you okay you okay yeah yeah you okay
36:28court has just walked out yeah yeah she's really upset no don't say that you're actually upset i'm
36:33gonna text her i think she's just found out that there was an nfi party i think she's just found
36:38out through social media people are posting all balloons going there's a big nfi part and i feel
36:42she's a bit like a bit mugged off by it nfi what is it then not invited it means
36:47but honestly i feel sorry for like cultured most loveliest like loveliest girl ever i reckon
36:51maybe they've not thought about how that's going to come across no i i think what it was
36:55is i think i think freddie probably made that party as a joke uplift uplift stuff from so i think
37:00that was the concept of it but obviously from courtney's perspective when you've got people like
37:03jody and dyag's leaving naturally she's going to get upset you know what i mean like people are
37:07leaving her 30th birthday party to go to another party that's not even a party it is a piss take
37:13it's a liberty like i don't want this to be her memory of her 30 years this all needs to stop now
37:18because look this is what it's all come into it's affected everyone it's gone like a show
37:22it's a proper shit show the whole thing's a fucking shamble
37:41oh hello hello guys oh look who's jody and dyag all right what's happening guys
37:47i'll grab some grab some drinks this is the fair party welcome to the nr5 party
37:57don't ruin my balloon whoa left a 30th for here must have been
38:01shit my guys that's horrible what's happening brother my guys what was the theme anyone know safra
38:11guys to be reunited cheers what was it what's it saying describe it it was all right it was nice
38:23yeah it was a nice point it was it it was nice did they have did they have why'd you leave
38:28because he missed you did you miss me i don't believe that's the reason that you left
38:32oh and you oh sorry no dan yeah adios friends enjoy girl just gonna go to me uh other mate see ya
38:43see ya hi friends hey el okay what's happening yeah hot it is it's so i feel like i'm in a green ass
38:51it's totally goodbye though you've had a good time yeah lovely how you been all good yeah fine have
38:57you yeah i can't complain just i didn't get invited it's not invited by you but i thought i'll come down
39:01and see my friends whose party is it freddie's uh yeah fred's for saf why it's for saf oh because
39:07she's not invited she got uninvited what even happened no i i spoke to the girls and i don't
39:12think she was like uninvited i just think it was a better solution for her not to go yeah
39:17courtney went to the doorstep and said she's not coming my party yeah oh well that's that she wasn't
39:22ever pretty uninvited no because she wasn't invited in the first place is she not i don't think so she
39:28is oh okay i mean you kind of you have to be invited someone to them and be uninvited you know
39:33what i'm saying or else it wouldn't work yeah well i spoke to the girls earlier and obviously chloe's
39:38still really upset and i think she's made like a few people there upset and probably she wouldn't
39:43want to be there either right i think to invite someone and then uninvite someone i feel like it's
39:48quite mean well that's why i mean saf isn't a bad person i think saf's great but i think just sometimes
39:52her delivery can come across like a little bit just not very nice and i think chloe is quite
39:57quiet her for a long time to know which is why i think her point is why is it an issue now because
40:03it's never been an issue for the 15 years that we've been framed no but i think it was just a
40:07little bit unnecessary and i think that they didn't expect saf to go for her the way that she did
40:12no i feel like climate just needs to keep my mouth shut and stop making comments about people and
40:15then it probably wouldn't go that way this is why we have two parties guys should go solo to saf
40:20yeah come on right in a bit guys later on see guys see you in a minute jacket with me give her my love
40:29i will honky sir
40:43i just feel a bit weird i thought i just oh i think it would clash off this fucking decking
40:55i just feel like bad for colt like she's obviously just oh babe she's so upset she's really upset
41:00i didn't think that she'd take it the way she has courtney loves birthdays and she she doesn't
41:07like animal city she does it's not in her nature it isn't and i feel like this is just really just
41:12escalated into something but it probably didn't need to go as far as it did she was so upset going
41:16to saffron's and saying like sit this one out which is awkward for her because she didn't want
41:21to not invite saffron and she didn't even want to say like you're not invited because it just
41:24comes across as her being nasty but i just think for like in because of what's gone on it probably
41:28would make it easier for everyone but she's selfless she's so selfless i feel like she's just
41:32now getting a bit of stick and obviously they're doing a party that's like the nfi party i know i said and
41:37it's like taking the piss out of her birthday a little bit people are forgetting courtney has had
41:40the worst year of her life like she actually has so it's it's so it's so out of order that like
41:46people aren't seeing that and recognizing that and yeah it might have been a joke it's made it 20
41:50times worse to a point that we've got courtney leaving do you know what i mean and that is that's
41:54the bottom line of it for me it's not about staff anymore it's not about chloe it's it's about
41:59courtney yeah courtney's 30th birthday is because of everyone else and that's that's where it stands
42:17how's the pair of you i know how are you more like love no i'm good um dealing with it it's not ideal
42:25i still like think about i miss her quite a bit but like i'm not gonna sort of chase something that's
42:30not that i'm not getting back from do you know what i mean so it's that i'm just sort of dealing with
42:35it and cracking on really doing my thing so single life's fun is it yeah so-so you've been enjoying it
42:44have you i was asking you i didn't say anything
42:47the question was on you a lot uh yeah yeah yeah it's what it is ain't it yeah no focus on yourself
42:58you ain't got to think about no one else yeah yeah i'm gonna leave you too really good mates
43:09really good mates that's the word of the day even though it's three words see you later mate they're on
43:22all right yeah yeah i'm all right
43:29good as i can be here because you'll present different answers of the room eh
43:34yeah i'll come over and say hello and a spray tan
43:42been away
43:47you know i've been away
43:50oh god
43:53i don't really know what you want me to say like i don't know i just said you're all right
43:56you mean you had a spray tan yeah what's wrong with that i'm not being muggy
44:00i don't like i don't know what to say to be honest
44:07uh
44:09like we've spoke about it for about a million times so
44:13yeah there ain't really much too sir
44:16i don't know i've just i've i've spoke to you loads about everything i don't know what to
44:21i ain't come over to talk about the relationship it's dead in the water mate
44:24yeah i see it
44:29listen we need to be friends or like
44:34or not i think we should be associates
44:40this is not really working the friends is it well so far no no
44:44so should we cheers for being associates yeah
44:52cheers cheers
45:07next time so keep still hello
45:10just take what you want and leave i don't hear anything about a wedding here well i would love
45:15a ring i think someone's calling one though it's done give me this i love you i've got more of a
45:21problem with harry i don't want friendship anymore me friend and joe i don't think we really care
45:25about courtney i bet what they're trying to do now i'm just like fuck you it's making me gag
45:30it's a year since my name passed but i'm lucky that i had such a bond
45:34the last thing i needed was that whole nfi thing no one's laughing at you which i really struggled
45:39with
45:46the only way is
45:48baby for you and me now
45:53the only way is
45:58for you and me now
46:06oh
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