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00:00I'm going to attempt to do something that no one else has ever done before.
00:08Get bonked for 24 hours straight.
00:11This is Lily Phillips, a 23-year-old adult content creator.
00:16Just about to get tested. Back here again.
00:20And currently one of the most polarising figures on the internet.
00:25I did 101 guys in one day.
00:28She first hit the headlines in 2024, following a stunt where she had sex with over 100 men in 24 hours.
00:39Lily, how would you feel if I was to do this with your dad or your brother?
00:44Literally disgust me.
00:46An act that ignited global debates about extremism on the internet, affecting our collective attitudes to sex.
00:53Any person with one brain cell can see that this isn't normal behaviour.
00:57This is the slippery slope of the sex revolution.
01:00It leads women to this point of believing that they're going to be empowered the more partners that they have.
01:06When in reality what they're doing is they're decreasing their prospects in the future.
01:10Some people will say, look, she's like the ultimate feminist, like she's doing things her way.
01:18She's a consenting adult. What's the problem?
01:20Other people are like, are you insane? Like this is hugely problematic.
01:25There are going to be consequences further down the line.
01:28Lily has continued to spark further controversy with more attention-grabbing publicity stunts.
01:33That have all directed custom to her subscription sites.
01:37Yo, you gotta lose your soul at one point, right?
01:39Like there's no way that this woman has a soul.
01:45She's been in and out of the tabloids, to be honest, fairly frequently.
01:49Her USP is like rage bait, like shock factor, very explicit content.
02:03And I get the sense that she's having to just keep pushing the envelope because she needs to stay relevant.
02:12This weekend, I'm hoping to find out what impact Lily's provocative and extreme sex work is having on herself and those around her.
02:22We are in Chelsea.
02:26She's got little flat shifts on her own.
02:29I am going to be staying over with Lily.
02:33Which, let me tell you, that would be a dream come true.
02:38To every single one of our subscribers, I suspect, there'll be a lot of lads very jealous.
02:51I hope the sheets are clean.
03:08Come on in.
03:11Thanks, love.
03:21Lily!
03:22How are you?
03:22I'm so unfit.
03:24That is so embarrassing.
03:25Nice to meet you.
03:26Oh, no, no.
03:27Them stairs fucking take it out.
03:28Yeah, yeah, no.
03:29That's embarrassing, Lily.
03:30Come on in.
03:32Good, thank you.
03:32How are you?
03:33Thank you for having me.
03:34So nice to finally meet you.
03:36So this is your bedroom.
03:37I love this room.
03:38There you are.
03:40This is so perfect.
03:43You can look at yourself while you're in.
03:44I can look at yourself.
03:45I haven't done anything exciting, I'll be literally fast asleep.
03:49It's a very small apartment.
03:51So this is my bedroom where the magic happens.
03:55I can only imagine the action this room has seen.
04:00It's seen it all.
04:01It really has.
04:02Yeah, this is like the perfect bachelorette pad.
04:05Yeah, there's not many 23-year-olds that I know that can afford to run a home in the centre of town.
04:13I guess there's not many 23-year-olds who are slotting it up like I am, so.
04:17So what's the plan for this evening?
04:21Right.
04:22Let me check the time because I have got a live OnlyFans.
04:25What time is that?
04:26It's at 8pm.
04:28How much am I allowed to see?
04:31You can see as much as you want, honestly.
04:33Great.
04:33Yeah.
04:34So you're happy for me.
04:35Free viewer.
04:35I know, I know, you're like, and I know that doesn't happen very often.
04:42What do you need to do?
04:43I need to get on like a little skimpy outfit.
04:47Yes.
04:47Some nice lingerie maybe.
04:49Okay.
04:50You know what?
04:51I'm trying to think of like what underwear I should wear tonight.
04:54I've never really worn this set maybe.
04:57What do you think?
04:58What tends to go down well?
04:59Crotchless or?
05:00You know what though?
05:01It comes off in five minutes so they don't really care too much.
05:04I used to have the loveliest little boobs and then I had a child and I breastfed for 14 months
05:10and now they're like two empty crisp pockets.
05:12I'm sure they're stunning.
05:14No, they're not.
05:15They're not.
05:16But the thing is, is that every guy is into different things so there will be so many men
05:23that appreciate that.
05:23There will be some fiber out there for me.
05:24Yeah, exactly.
05:26Good to know.
05:27I'll go and get changed in the other room.
05:30Okay.
05:31Give me a shout when you're ready.
05:33Well ready.
05:33Well done.
05:39First impressions like super warm, super accommodating, really up for the weekend, a very open book.
05:48The hurdle this weekend will be trying to get past the I love sex, there are no downfalls
05:54whatsoever.
05:57Am I all right coming in, Lily?
06:01Come on in.
06:02Where do you want me so I'll be at the shop?
06:04Take a seat.
06:05Oh, look at you.
06:06Make yourself comfy.
06:07Oh, I absolutely will.
06:09Oh, brilliant.
06:10Yeah.
06:11Let me, um...
06:12It's hot in here, isn't it?
06:14It's not too bad.
06:15No, it will get hot in a sec.
06:16I've been given a ringside seat to watch exactly what Lily has to do to make money on her OnlyFans
06:24site, the subscription-based platform that allows her to share content with her 33,000
06:29subscribers.
06:31I don't think I've ever had an audience for a live before.
06:33Really?
06:34No.
06:35Well, I feel...
06:36It's so funny, because I'm so used to, like, having sex in front of people, but doing this.
06:40Okay.
06:41Just press to start live now.
06:43Let's hope we've got everything.
06:45Hello.
06:47How is everybody doing?
06:51Ready for the weekend?
06:52Tim, thank you so much for $69 in tips. I love what you did there.
07:03What I hadn't understood is the tipping. So, the subscribers, they'll give a tenner, and
07:12she's got $33,000. So, let me take off this dress for you. So, that's $330,000 a month.
07:21Okay. We're going to put our next tip goal, because I really want to take this bar off.
07:29For every action, she's like, I'm going to need to tip. You know, they can't tip quick enough.
07:35Just making a fortune.
07:38Okay. I'm going to put the next tip goal.
07:43Oh, my God. My favourite porn star.
07:46Thanks, guys.
07:51I think we're about 15 minutes away from the end.
07:58I'm still dreaming of you sitting on my lap in my wheelchair.
08:02Well, thank you.
08:03I mean, she's super explicit and super graphic and, you know, there's nothing left to the imagination.
08:11But I think she needs to be that intense, because she's competing with so many other women.
08:18I'm sorry for the fucking morning.
08:23Is this empowering, or is this essentially exploitation?
08:29Sat here now, it does feel like she's safe, she's in a clean environment.
08:36What's so low is I can hear the ching, ching, ching, ching.
08:48It's all the tips going through.
09:03It's my first morning sleeping over in the spare bedroom of the provocative 23-year-old adult content creator, Lily Phillips.
09:12Morning.
09:13I slept so well.
09:15Really?
09:16Truly, I did, did it, yeah.
09:18Yeah, it was good, oh my gosh.
09:20When I got in that bed, Lily, and I thought, oh, this is so comfy.
09:23And then I thought, oh, my God, I wonder what shenanigans have gone on in this room.
09:27Oh, do you know what, Stacey?
09:28Don't worry.
09:29She eats some freshly washed.
09:30I know.
09:31I would actually love a cup of tea.
09:36I'm an iced coffee girl, or an iced matcha.
09:39I believe that, yeah, yeah, yeah.
09:43Lily grew up in a small village in rural Derbyshire and left Uni and Sheffields
09:48after only a few months to take up OnlyFans.
09:51But I wonder how this all played out.
09:53So, you are handsomely rewarded for these live streams.
10:00You're earning a fortune for arguably, some people might say, not much work.
10:09When I found out about OnlyFans, I was like, oh, this is great.
10:13I mean, within my first 24 hours, I had made two grand.
10:18Yeah, no, when I started that, I was like, wow.
10:21I found, like, a glitch in the matrix, because this is just perfect.
10:24I can make money doing what I love.
10:25And presumably, you had to have the conversation with your folks.
10:32Actually, I'm not going to continue with Uni.
10:34I really want to prioritise this.
10:36I described it to them as more like glamour modelling.
10:40Obviously, they were concerned at the start, as in, are you safe?
10:43You know, as long as it's only online.
10:46Only if it's online.
10:48We've progressed slightly.
10:49When I'm doing these stunts, I mean, I'm doing one on Saturday and I haven't told my folk.
10:55Right.
10:56So, this weekend, obviously, you've got an event tomorrow.
11:00Yes.
11:01That's the plan, is it?
11:02Yeah, yeah.
11:03I'm not 100% sure on numbers.
11:05You never really know till the day, you know.
11:07Could be 50, could be 15.
11:10But, yeah, it's going to be a ****.
11:12I don't know if you've ever been to one of them or had one of them done on you.
11:17I've seen a lot.
11:18I don't know if I've seen a ****.
11:21Am I even saying that right?
11:22Yeah.
11:23This is how vanilla I am, Lily.
11:25Am I pronouncing it correctly?
11:26Yeah, yeah.
11:28And essentially, that's a load of men finishing on your face.
11:32Yeah, yeah, yeah.
11:35You've got to be painted.
11:37Yeah, you are.
11:44Like a few bits.
11:45Who do you think's there?
11:47The security guards, do you?
11:49Oh, yeah.
11:50Hi.
11:54I've already seen that Lily's notoriety
11:57is driving droves of subscribers towards her OnlyFans.
12:00But I'm wondering what this means for her financially.
12:03We're going to pick up your new car, a fancy car.
12:08But you've just bought this outright?
12:10Yeah, yeah.
12:11So you don't need to get anything on finance?
12:14No.
12:15And so are you a multi-millionaire?
12:17What's your financial position at the moment?
12:22What are you happy to share?
12:24I mean, I...
12:25I...
12:26What are we talking?
12:28Yeah, I mean, yeah.
12:29Multi-millionaire?
12:31Does multi-millionaire mean, like, lots of millions in the back?
12:33Yeah.
12:34Yeah.
12:36Yeah, I'd say multi-millionaire.
12:37I know, you know, I'm someone so English.
12:40I find money so uncomfortable.
12:41You find this conversation quite awkward.
12:43Yeah, like, this is so intimate to me.
12:45I find it a little bit distasteful.
12:47Do you?
12:48Yeah.
12:48And you're like, Stacey, have some decorum.
12:49Yeah, yeah, you're so vulgar.
12:51I know.
12:56Wow!
12:59It's stunning, isn't it?
13:02Look at this, Lily!
13:04Now, I'm so excited.
13:05Let's go find some men.
13:07We're a damsel in show.
13:08I literally, I can't handle this.
13:10I absolutely can't handle this.
13:11Lily, I am not comfortable with...
13:13No, Lily, I can't.
13:16I can't just say you're lost.
13:17Hi.
13:18Yeah, are any of you boys available?
13:20Well, I'm doing an event tomorrow.
13:24Would you guys like to come?
13:25I mean, I'm not a prude, but I feel really uncomfortable.
13:29Free sex, you can do what you want.
13:32I've got a missing...
13:33Well, you guys are all very handsome, so feel free to come.
13:37So, I mean, do you know who Lily is?
13:39Yeah.
13:40What are your thoughts on what Lily does for a living?
13:42Yeah, it's our choice, love.
13:43She's going to make her money.
13:44Make her money.
13:45Yeah, it's our choice.
13:46If I was going to go out there.
13:47Would you?
13:48There's no sort of negative judgment.
13:50It's your body, your choice.
13:51Yeah.
13:51If you want to do it, do it.
13:53Could you date somebody like Lily?
13:54No, I'll be honest, no.
13:56Well, you'd struggle.
13:57Yeah.
13:58She's going to make double what you're making in a year doing that.
14:01Yeah.
14:02Depends on the way I look at it.
14:03If she looks after me, it depends on it.
14:05Yeah.
14:06Would you struggle with the power imbalance?
14:09I wouldn't say it's power.
14:10It's just the fact, like, sharing everything.
14:12Yeah.
14:13It's the fact knowing what's happening.
14:14Yeah.
14:15Yeah, I get that.
14:17Lovely to speak to you.
14:18Hope to see you again.
14:19See you, lads.
14:20Take care.
14:21Thank you for your time.
14:24Lol.
14:25Lily, you are bold as hell.
14:28But I suppose you have to be.
14:29Those are the good-looking boys that come to my event, so...
14:33The more the merrier for me.
14:40You won't believe this because you'll be like,
14:42Stacey, you haven't lived.
14:43I've never had sex with more than one person at once.
14:49Do you think I'm so dull?
14:50I don't think it's boring, but I think I'd feel unfulfilled if I did that.
14:56How many people have you slept?
14:58Would you feel comfortable saying that?
14:59Yeah, I mean, a handful.
15:02How many men do you think you've slept with?
15:04I would say it's in quadruple digits.
15:08Yeah.
15:15Would you say you're in a constant state of arousal?
15:20I don't want to make any of you feel uncomfortable right now,
15:23but I would say I...
15:26Probably 95% of my time I spend thinking about sex
15:30or some kind of something to do with sex.
15:33Really, Lily?
15:34Mm.
15:35I just look at people, what goes through my head is like,
15:38I wonder what they look like naked, how big their cock is,
15:41what it'd be like to have sex with them.
15:43Wow.
15:47Although Lily continues to tell me how much she loves sex,
15:51I really do wonder if this is the main driver behind what she's doing.
15:54Let me take a few.
15:56Yeah, I'm going to take them on my phone.
15:57Yeah.
15:58Just because I zoomed in.
15:59I feel like the camera's better.
16:01This evening, I'm joining Lily and her fellow OnlyFans content creator friend,
16:05Arabella, for dinner.
16:06How do you know one another?
16:08How did you meet?
16:10Well, we got introduced through friends.
16:13And I think it's good to have people around you who also know exactly what you're going through.
16:17So then if you're like, just having a day where you're like,
16:19oh, this is all like a lot.
16:21And then somebody's like, oh, I get it.
16:23I get it.
16:23I understand.
16:24So there's common ground really between the two of you.
16:27And what would you say is your motivation?
16:30I like the idea of making people happy.
16:33People having an outlet for that fetish where they would usually feel very embarrassed for it.
16:38I like being able to help people with that.
16:41I'm kind of similar.
16:42I like pleasing, even though maybe I had an orgasm that day, you know,
16:46to give someone else that is really nice.
16:48My ultimate goal is like, I do want to be a bit of a legend in the industry.
16:54I do want to explore my king, you know, and I want to make great content.
16:57Like, why could it not be all of these reasons?
17:00People put it down to you.
17:01You're doing this because of this or whatever.
17:04There's a lot of different factors that go into it.
17:07I suppose the reason I ask is because I think there's so many people who don't understand why
17:13women like Lily are involved in such extreme events.
17:20Yeah.
17:20I really don't see it as that extreme.
17:22Really?
17:22Yeah.
17:23The event that I'm doing tomorrow and stuff like that,
17:25that to me is just like another Tuesday.
17:28It really is.
17:29It has just become my norm.
17:31And even before I was doing sex work, I was having sex with, having a lot of casual sex,
17:37you know, in groups and with couples and this and that.
17:40And I just don't, don't see it as that extreme or that crazy.
17:46I think anything with women and sex and women who like sex is,
17:50it's still demonized to a certain extent.
17:52People can be all liberal, all progressive, as much as they want to be.
17:56But still, everyone deep down has that internalized misogyny of women don't like sex.
18:02Like, why are people even acting like they do?
18:04I mean, Arabella, you touched there on internalized misogyny.
18:10Are you, are you not complicit? Are you not part of the problem?
18:16When it comes to the patriarchy and the idea that women are commodities and men are there to be served?
18:23Um, we're very lucky in what we do and the fact that we can be
18:30people and we don't work in studios anymore.
18:32So it's not like people just see us as objects, like we are actual human people and we're creators.
18:37So like people do see that, you know, all these stereotypes that people have about porn stars are like
18:42objects or they've got no brain.
18:45They didn't finish school.
18:46Like you can really see that we are actually quite intelligent and we are real people.
18:53We need to stop blaming women for men's actions.
18:57And that is the crux of it.
19:00Do you find it patronizing when women, men just like fundamentally believe that you are broken?
19:09Some people just can't compute that people would be into this and still normal and not traumatized.
19:16Yeah.
19:16How old were you, Arabella, when you first watched porn?
19:20I think about 12.
19:21Stop.
19:22Yeah.
19:24That's young.
19:25It's crazy that you're surprised at that.
19:26Because I feel like.
19:27I'm sitting here like.
19:29How old, how old were you?
19:30I think, I think I was like 12, 13.
19:34I think like year seven at school or something.
19:37But we didn't go looking for it.
19:39We had boys show it to us.
19:40I had, yeah, I had a friend who showed it to me.
19:42And actually I have to kind of check myself and you know,
19:44because I would like, I would like to think that, you know, I'm very open-minded.
19:49But I do find the events, I'm like, when does it end?
19:52You'll see how like unseedy they are.
19:55Because I think in people's heads they think they're disgusting, like,
19:58very like shameful, seedy events.
20:00And it's not all that, it's just like a community of consenting adults,
20:05having a nice time together and a nice moment together.
20:20I'm curious of your skincare routine,
20:24because I think you've got such lovely skin.
20:26I really do think you have to keep it simple.
20:27You know what, a bar of soap and lots of smoke.
20:31That's what'll do it.
20:32Well, tomorrow you'll be, you'll be gloving.
20:35Oh yeah, no, no, I'm doing the artsy paint it tomorrow.
20:38How much do you know about the men that are meant to be coming tomorrow?
20:42There's absolutely nothing.
20:43I don't, I don't vet them, or ages, or, you know, ethnicities.
20:50Isn't that a bit terrifying?
20:51No, because we make it as safe as possible with security.
20:54I'm going, ugh, I won't be able to do it, Lily.
20:59I'm excited.
21:00It'll be fun, trust me.
21:02Sorry, me like, coaching you into it.
21:06Like, I'm like pimping you out.
21:07It'll be fun, trust me, like...
21:08Go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go!
21:11Right, I mean, best get an early night.
21:13Yeah, unless you better get an early night, yeah, yeah, yeah.
21:16All right, darling, see you manana.
21:18That's a good night.
21:21The thing is with Lily is she's great company, but, you know, there's a persona and there's
21:28a certain image she's trying to put forward.
21:33And I just, I don't, I don't believe that everything is as
21:41fantastic as, as she, you know, how do you believe?
21:48I want to take a picture of you, may I?
22:01Come on, thank you so much.
22:04It's the morning of Lily's stunt.
22:06Are you off work?
22:07Yes.
22:08I've got an event.
22:08You want to come?
22:09Yeah.
22:10Hell yeah.
22:11And she's still hustling for more men to attend her event.
22:16This is the place.
22:19Let me just take a picture.
22:24I'm going to get like a bunch of guys and I'm going to give them oral.
22:27No way.
22:28And you invited me.
22:28Yeah.
22:29Oh my God, it's such a pleasure.
22:31I will be there, I promise.
22:33Are you really going to come?
22:34I promise you, I give you my word.
22:35I don't lie.
22:37Are you a subscriber?
22:38Yeah.
22:39Oh, bless you.
22:40So how much are you paying a month to watch Lily's content?
22:43I don't know because it's from my mum's credit card.
22:48What a day.
22:49What a day, innit?
22:50What a day.
22:51What a blessing actually.
22:53What a blessing.
22:54What a great weekend for you.
22:55Exactly.
22:56There you go.
22:57All right, then I'll see you later.
22:59All right, bye guys.
23:01What's your name?
23:02Adria.
23:02Nice to meet you.
23:03I'm Stacey.
23:04Nice to meet you.
23:08Oh yeah, we're going to see you later.
23:10I'll bring him as well, yeah?
23:11Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
23:13Bye.
23:14Bye.
23:16Although Lily has been extremely open so far,
23:19I'm aware of her resistance to talk about any of the more difficult aspects of her job.
23:24And I wonder how much of her work and reputation impacts the people close to her.
23:29Are most of your pals now fellow OnlyFans girls?
23:32No, no.
23:33I'm friends with my whole friendship from school still.
23:36Do they feel like they have to sort of defend you?
23:39Yeah, I mean, some of them don't want to be known to be friends with me in case of job opportunities.
23:48If they went into job interview and they saw in the media that they were my friend,
23:55then that just might be the thing that sways them not to get the job.
23:59It's also as well, like, they get messages saying your friend s disgusting,
24:04you must be just as disgusting.
24:06And just because we're friends that then some people in their mind think my friends
24:11are exactly the same as me then.
24:13So the pals that are happy to be on your page, they're fellow OnlyFans girls?
24:21Yes.
24:22For obvious reasons?
24:23Yes.
24:23It's like a game of two halves, truly.
24:27Your friendship group.
24:29Half of them are like, don't tag me in a million years.
24:31Yeah.
24:31The others are like, please, can you tag me?
24:40Hello.
24:44Over the weekend, Lily has been keen to show me that if anyone is exploiting Lily Phillips,
24:49it's Lily Phillips.
24:50Hello, guys.
24:51Lily Phillips here.
24:53And this is another day in the life.
24:55And we are at another event of mine, where I'm doing a .
25:01And producing her own stunts, where she is the star,
25:04is the way she generates the most cash.
25:07Hello, hello, hello.
25:08Hiya.
25:09Oh, my God.
25:11Today, she's offering a real-life extreme experience to fans,
25:15which she will film and set online.
25:19Ready to get painted on the same.
25:24After all her hustling, around 20 men have turned up,
25:28the majority of whom have chosen to wear a mask to disguise their identity.
25:33Follow me.
25:34Come on, boys, into the bedroom.
25:36It's a huge bed, actually.
25:39So it's a really, really good size for all of us.
25:53With the event about to start, I'm still not entirely convinced if I'll be able to
26:10find it as wholesome as Lily seems to think that it is.
26:15When I was 23, I was like, don't tell me what to do.
26:18I was quite contrary.
26:19So I think the more that people say to her, are you sure this is what you want?
26:26Like, you know, there are going to be ramifications further down the line.
26:29It's a bit like she's digging her heels in and she's got to, she's got to keep a message now.
26:38Making my parents proud.
26:39Sorry?
26:54Do I have any lube?
26:56Do I have any lube?
26:58Yeah, they'll ask.
27:01How's it going?
27:04Not the best.
27:04Not the best.
27:05Not for you.
27:06Why?
27:07It's too hot.
27:08Oh, mate.
27:10Hi, how was it?
27:21Yeah, really good.
27:22You had a great time.
27:23Yeah, I did.
27:34Lily.
27:34How are you?
27:35I'm looking for a hug.
27:36How are you?
27:36Nice.
27:36Um, how are you?
27:40Good.
27:40Your eyes are so bloodshot.
27:42I know they are really red, aren't they?
27:44I'm like, look at them.
27:46Your team will put a video together and then you'll sell that video.
27:51Yeah.
27:52To who?
27:52For my fans to buy.
27:54And they can just, yeah, they can just buy it for how much?
27:57I think that'll probably go out for maybe $30, you know, 29.99, half an hour video.
28:03So you could make how much?
28:10Definitely like over a hundred grand and stuff like that.
28:12What's the most a video has ever made you?
28:15Maybe like seven figures.
28:17Stop.
28:18Really, Lily?
28:20About a million.
28:22Was that the, when you slept with a hundred men?
28:25Yeah.
28:27Yeah, I did all right.
28:31Are you quite surprised at how kind of nice and pleasant everyone is and how not
28:39shameful and dirty?
28:41I can't, I can't say I found it sexy in any way, but I can totally appreciate that there is such an
28:47appetite for you like this. It's you. You're the draw. Did any of them smell?
28:54Um, we've had some that maybe we could have asked for a shower before.
29:02Next time I'm going to get them all to shower before.
29:04Yeah. Mandatory showers, I think are totally fair enough.
29:08Like, you're well within your rights to...
29:09Yeah.
29:10Oh, that's crusty.
29:13Yeah.
29:13Do you want to help?
29:14No, babe, I have to listen.
29:16I've had a lovely weekend with you.
29:17Come on, put some legwork in a bit.
29:19I'm a girl's girl, but I think that's a step too far.
29:22Oh, that kind of hurts.
29:23Oh, shit, I am.
29:30Although I see the draw of Lily, I'm still unclear why so many men would be drawn to such an extreme
29:36scenario.
29:38And what is it about Lily?
29:39Why is she so popular?
29:42Because, um, well, because she's beautiful and she's got an incredible body, but also
29:47she's got a kind of girl-next-door quality about her.
29:50How was it for you?
29:51Yeah, really good fun. I really loved it. I don't understand the criticism.
29:55Yeah, because there's a lot of criticism.
29:56I think some people maybe might argue that she's part of the problem in terms of, like,
30:01peddling the idea that women are, like, commodities.
30:04She does the extreme stuff, I'd say.
30:06Um, but yeah, like, it's between consenting adults.
30:09If other women don't want to do it, that's fine.
30:11They don't have to and she doesn't, like, encourage people to do it.
30:14Adrian, how was it for you?
30:18Amazing.
30:18Really?
30:19It was amazing, yeah.
30:20Talk me through what happened.
30:21It was just a group of boys.
30:23We were all in a circle and then there was Lily in the middle, like a princess.
30:27It is a bit crazy. It is a bit crazy.
30:30I can't quite believe you're here because we just completely, coincidentally, like,
30:34totally randomly bumped into you.
30:36Yeah, I was in my break at work.
30:38I'm here.
30:40It is a bit of a journey, but I've got my Uber driver waiting outside for me.
30:43Stop.
30:43Yeah.
30:44He's out there waiting?
30:45Yeah.
30:45Well, you better go.
30:46You better go.
30:47That's going to cost you a full thing.
30:48Yeah, he's been waiting there for, like, an hour so much.
30:51Money well spent?
30:52Yeah, he had to.
30:54All right.
30:55And, I mean, is this what men want? I mean, lots of men chewing up.
31:00I would prefer it to be one-on-one.
31:02I don't want to share her with 20 different people.
31:06You know, people come to these events because they get to meet their fantasy.
31:12Yeah.
31:13The girl who won Koba, for instance, you know, and they get to fulfil that fantasy.
31:18I can't pretend to understand.
31:26These events, I think they're too extreme.
31:29I think it all feels, to me, a bit grim.
31:34It's a total juxtaposition. It's like, you know, she's got this little flat in Chelsea
31:38and she goes and drinks matcha and she's immaculate and she's beautiful and she looks the part.
31:43You know, that all feels quite pleasant and quite high-end and quite glossy.
31:46And then actually you realise that the event, this event certainly, feels entirely different.
32:07It's my final morning, sleeping over with Lily.
32:24The weekend has been eventful.
32:26Yeah, it's been pretty for long.
32:32I've had a small glimpse into the more shocking elements of Lily's sex work
32:37and I remain unconvinced by her approach to normalising her own exploitation.
32:41For me, there's a distinct difference between being empowered sexually and using yourself
32:54as a vessel to encourage men to participate in a scenario that just feels so degrading
33:05for the woman. It feels so sad to me. That's how I feel. That's how lots of people feel.
33:17And for all our chat about sex positivity, I wonder if her family feel the same.
33:22Hi, Lily. You OK?
33:28Before I leave today, I'm joining Lily on her regular Sunday catch-up with her parents.
33:34I'm nervous, to be honest.
33:36No, please don't. Please don't.
33:38Yeah, you're messing in our marriage a little bit because I haven't agreed to this for any of us.
33:43Oh, really?
33:45Oh, that's interesting.
33:46I would like to get her point over, but obviously she wants to use the way the royals work
33:54and they just don't comment on things as such and it goes away.
34:00I understand both approaches. Can you talk me through when you first learnt this is what's happening?
34:09We've known for years that she'd done OnlyFans, but I can honestly say I thought it was just
34:18posing in swimswear and lingerie. I thought that was it. I really did.
34:23Because when she announced that she was doing OnlyFans, we stood back because we want to continue
34:29our relationship with our daughter and we were pretty open with it. You know, it's what she does.
34:34But then when it took the next step, we were like, no, no, we didn't like that, did we?
34:40No, no, not at all. If there's anything that we could do that would change their profession,
34:46we'd do it overnight.
34:48Yeah, we'd do anything to stop her doing the extreme stuff.
34:52Yeah, it is the degradingness of it. And it's just making sure also that she's safe.
35:01Yeah, yeah.
35:02Sometimes you think, what have we done anything wrong with our upbringing?
35:06I don't think so.
35:08We've had, well, as far as I'm concerned, they've had nothing but nice times and love.
35:13Hmm. What was she like as a kid and a teenager?
35:19Be nice.
35:20She was a popular young girl that did everything normal. Like, we just ran around,
35:27taking her to clubs, just like every other parent.
35:30And I will say, Stacey, she's...
35:33She works so hard.
35:34She works so hard. And also, she's got a great work ethic as well.
35:39Because even when she was younger, she had jobs. She used to work for us. She used to go cleaning for us.
35:44We had a cleaning company.
35:45Yeah.
35:45She used to go cleaning.
35:47Found herself.
35:47I don't think Lily would like everybody to know that.
35:49No, no, but I'm just letting people know.
35:52Go on, took me a compliment in there.
35:55Given Lily a really good upbringing.
35:57Yeah.
35:57Oh, given both Lily and our son a really good upbringing.
36:01I wonder if that's what confuses people.
36:04You know, it's been a very sort of picture-perfect family set-up, if you like.
36:11So people are sort of head-scratching, thinking,
36:13well, why is this seemingly put-together girl doing such outrageous, extreme, degrading stunts?
36:26We've asked the same questions, Stacey. We've asked the exact same questions to Lily.
36:31Because we would- is it money? Because if it was money, we-
36:35We've offered to just-
36:36We'd sell our house.
36:37We could have whatever you wanted.
36:38You can have whatever you want, Lily, if you give it up now.
36:41You've said that, have you?
36:42Yeah, God.
36:43To hear your dad sort of be so candid and so gutted and so heartbroken about what you're doing, how do you feel now?
36:52I totally understand it and I respect that. And that's that.
36:56Is there a world where you would throw the towel in any time soon?
37:01No.
37:01You just love it too much.
37:05We do know that Lily knows how upset we are because she was upset as well, knowing how upset we were.
37:13She was upset at the fact that she's caused this for us.
37:18Yeah.
37:18Yeah.
37:18I know prior to Christmas, obviously, we had some long chat with regards to what she does.
37:27And obviously, I am upset.
37:28Are you all right, Lily?
37:29Are you okay, Lily?
37:31Oh, are you okay?
37:32Sorry, I just don't want to be on camera.
37:49I'll be back in a sec. I just need a moment.
37:51It's okay.
37:52No problem.
37:58Are you okay?
37:59It's difficult, thanks.
38:00I certainly didn't mean to upset Lily at all.
38:05She knows how we feel.
38:07Are you okay, Lily?
38:09Didn't mean to upset you then.
38:10Sorry, Lily.
38:12You're good.
38:14Are you going to kill me, Lily, when we come off camera?
38:16Yeah.
38:18I don't understand where all the hate comes from.
38:21We've had, obviously, we have messages, we've had emails, telephone calls,
38:28horrible, horrible things to be said.
38:31Dad very regularly gets a phone call of someone being like,
38:34your daughter's disgusting or something, don't you, Dad?
38:37Yeah.
38:38Yeah.
38:39How do you handle it when somebody phones up and says,
38:41I hope your daughter dies?
38:43I know why Lily's getting upset.
38:59Because we love each of her.
39:01Because she knows how much it upsets us.
39:05It's exactly that.
39:06I know why Lily's getting upset.
39:08I hate the fact that it affects them.
39:10Like, if I could do this and not have it affect them, like, I'd pay so much money.
39:15Like, that's just the hard part.
39:21I remember Lily saying to us, you guys must really love me to be able to put up with this
39:29and still care and love for me.
39:31And we do.
39:32We do.
39:34We'll take whatever's coming our way.
39:36Thank you, really.
39:40I'm really grateful.
39:42And I've really enjoyed our conversation.
39:44And take care.
39:45Bye.
39:46Lily.
39:49Such goodies.
39:50Can I take a minute?
39:51This is the first time we've really seen Lily as Lily.
40:11You know, not Lily Phillips, you know, sort of working her persona.
40:20This is...
40:21And there is a sweetness to her.
40:29I get it.
40:30You know, when somebody that you love, you know, your folks are going,
40:33this is breaking my heart.
40:37How can that not affect her?
40:39Her dad, I wanted to, I wanted to, I wanted to jump through the screen and give him a big hug.
40:52You know, he was so visibly exhausted and devastated by, by what's going on.
41:03I totally, I totally understood and I totally echoed when they were saying,
41:08what do you, what do people want us to do?
41:12Yeah.
41:14I'm so sorry.
41:16I get it.
41:18Sometimes I guess it just makes me feel quite selfish.
41:24To put my parents through that.
41:26I mean, ultimately it is selfish.
41:28Is it easier to just not talk about, yeah, it's just easier not to talk about it
41:42because then no one gets upset?
41:44Exactly.
41:45And so when I'm around my parents, it's so wholesome.
41:49We don't even talk about work.
41:50We're, you know, we're just back to, like...
42:07I'll give you a hug.
42:12It's okay to be emotional, it is.
42:18There is, there is such a sweetness to you.
42:20And I think, you know, it's just, it's because you just, you adore them, you love them.
42:25It's your parents.
42:28Is all of this worth it?
42:34I can't imagine what else I'd be doing.
42:36It just, it does fulfill me so much.
42:38It gives me such, like, drive.
42:39It gives me something to wake up in the morning and do.
42:41And this, this is something that isn't degrading for me.
42:45I still have to live my life like how I want to.
42:51Thank you, really, so much.
43:03I'm really grateful.
43:04I hope you enjoyed your stay.
43:05I smell like one of those men.
43:07I haven't had a shower.
43:08You don't.
43:08I can only apologise.
43:10As I leave, I wonder how long Lily will keep pursuing her controversial line of work.
43:15Bye, darling.
43:16But one thing seems clear.
43:21The demands for what she's supplying doesn't seem to be going away.
43:25The demands for what she's having done just now.
43:26Time for a sun that is, it doesn't seem to be PARACA,
43:29where as far as my leader is the High D 짝.
43:31If you don't keep pursuing your life,
43:33you will hear the trigger on October 24th,
43:35you will hear it now on December 23rd.
43:35They will be following February 24th.
43:38Or December 25th.
43:39I know when reading February 24th,
43:40they willull the odds of July 24th
43:42after having been disgruntled back on December 28th.
43:44Maybe 24th day.
43:45I'm in the case of the meteor,
43:46carefaith shaft by journaling
43:49joining Saturdays,
43:51Especially Instagram.
43:52Play 15th.
43:52During the Tages精灰,
43:53את'm dating arc incident masters.
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