00:00hi my name is Alicia if this is your first time visiting my channel welcome so the first version
00:20of this is kind of a booper and so I'm going to rerecord this
00:25I haven't decided I'm going to upload that version or not yet we shall see so this is unofficially part
00:35two or take two whatever you want to call it inspired by Michael Jinray you got to realize
00:42if a toxic person can't touch who you become they bring shovels and they try to dig up who
00:47you used to be they can't touch the healed version of you they try to dig up the damaged version of
00:52you can't break solid ground have you ever had people from your past or people who know you
00:59they want to try to bring you back to the person you used to be or they see you doing something or
01:04you're being successful they start to act jealous or start to backstab you and talk about you to your
01:11friends and want to pretend to be friends in your face I've learned that you have to really have
01:17thick skin and sometimes it's just hard to find day one the people who really want it as bad as you
01:25do and sometimes people the only way they have a taste of success is to take a bite out of you
01:33and I actually have a quote by B Mark Fittigan your trash mindset is holding you back and I have been
01:44following him for a while he says he don't tolerate a weak work ethic you have to think different to
01:49get different results the most powerful thing you do in this game is to train your mind for success
01:54and there here's his three tips of advice throw out the BS the world doesn't want to see you win
02:01your friends don't always understand why you're choosing this path your family thinks you can get a
02:07real job with Benny's so stop engaging with them all change your environment I get messing this word
02:14up proximity is powerful be around winners learn from them create an optimal environment to train
02:23your mind for success go work in a place where the wealthy are so for acting I definitely find that
02:30leaving Indy is one of the best thing I could ever done you know sometimes you have to put on for your
02:36city in another city and same thing for entrepreneurship they say Indiana's good and it is but
02:42I find for me like keeping my distance is the key that's been a difference maker for me just
02:48keeping my distance and not telling people what I'm going to do but show them
02:52examine their behavior and listen to your vision daily record yourself talking about your goals as if
03:03you already achieve them listen to it every day and change your thoughts to change your mindset shift
03:08the entire trajectory of your life so this initial like thoughts I had to build a resilience and thick
03:20skin from childhood because I really couldn't trust people around me and so I sort of had the mindset
03:27from early age you're either going to figure it out or not and why you have to trust somebody at some
03:33point I initially had to take matters into my own hands like I do have people that I talk to my friends
03:41that I talk to but there's just sometimes writers don't tell anybody anything I just kind of do it
03:46number two you can't let people talk you out of your dreams that goes for family and friends I've
03:51mentioned this in several of my videos don't tell people your dreams don't tell people your dreams
03:57don't tell people your dreams don't tell people your dreams don't tell people your dreams don't
03:58airplay it again
04:07mosquitoes keep biting me man like having old blood is cool but man I think they're right
04:13and another thing I always think about when I'm going for my dreams tomorrow isn't promised and
04:28I just go for my dreams without fear and sometimes if you are afraid you have to learn how to do it
04:33afraid because I've had a lot of friends pass away and they don't get to do their dreams or pursue their
04:39dreams or accomplish their goals anymore so I look at that way I still have a chance they don't and
04:44there's a lot of people afraid to do things because of what others think you can't let people put put
04:51their insecurities and project their fears on you you just have to go for it so those are my thoughts
04:59I'm gonna go ahead and get going thank you for watching and I will talk to you all later oh by the
05:07the way have a great day see ya make sure you're smoothed out
