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00:00I've just fallen in love with someone from a different country.
00:20Everyone thinks it's our holiday romance, but he's so hot.
00:25I'm about to fly out to Brazil for love.
00:30In the Gambia, it feels romantic.
00:33When I'm in England, then reality hits me.
00:37What the?
00:38This girl.
00:41I don't know how to show affection the way that you want.
00:45You need to grab the gold.
00:49I'm an evil genius.
00:53No more anymore.
00:54Someday she will come back.
00:56I now pronounce you husband and wife.
01:00Hallelujah.
01:01We are now married.
01:04It's just a dream come true for me.
01:07I don't think our family will accept you.
01:10You're not convincing us.
01:12She would like you to go back with your ex.
01:17You don't have to worry about my ex.
01:19I'd like to talk to Heloise and explain.
01:21This is how I feel.
01:22I don't want you to talk to her.
01:26I'm in Albania.
01:28I'm so happy that Adnan is acting warmly towards me.
01:33Our first night together was amazing.
01:35Good morning, my love.
01:37One thing led to another one.
01:42Hopefully, a proposal is on the horizon.
01:44I love you so much, so I want you to be my wife.
01:52Will you marry me?
01:54said, chapter 2,
01:55go.
01:57Oh, my God.
01:59Bye.
02:01Bye.
02:02Bye.
02:03Bye.
02:04Bye.
02:04Bye.
02:08Bye.
02:15Bye.
02:16Bye.
02:16Bye.
02:17Bye.
02:22Bye.
02:22if I hands down on one knee and he's asking me to marry him it's a lot to take
02:30in yes that was my surprise thank you for accepting you're very well I'm the happiest
02:50man Zena is going to marry I'm your fiance now yeah I really love it thank you so I'm very happy for
03:01you thank you so much that's really really kind and lovely lovely thank you I'm engaged and I love
03:08the ring I really love it and I'm overwhelmed with love from Ibrahim I'm very happy that's my happiest
03:16day ever easy I'm lost the words at the moment once I get over the shop and I sit down okay you
03:26know I'll come to it I love you so much you go ahead are you of you too from my heart okay let me take
03:35you to the next part of your surprise it's this way Ibrahim's got another surprise for me and I'm
03:47very excited welcome man I have to be a hundred percent sure that he's not just wanting to marry
04:00me to get out of the Gambia because he thinks he might have a better life in England babe today I'm
04:07very very happy as you accept my proposal I love you so much oh that's really nice what do you expect
04:17for the future I want to marry with you in the UK and where would you prefer to live I prefer in the UK
04:30yeah in your house they can do it there what would you do if you eventually came to the UK from there I
04:42can have any job there then very good the war is talking about the UK the more I'm getting worried
04:52just because Ibrahim wants to get to the UK doesn't mean that he doesn't love me I don't know oh thank
04:59you oh I say thank you all right enjoy your dinner thank you this is nice this is our engagement meal
05:09the nicest one so when I'm going to tell your family I'm judging it okay because they're not gonna
05:21like it hey why not they're worried that you are only wanting to marry me to get to the UK I don't mind
05:33anywhere Gambia or UK I'll be happy wherever I live so you just don't want to come to the UK you'd be
05:45quite happy if I stayed in the Gambia you don't mind oh that's really lovely initially Abraham said
05:57he'd like to move to the UK but now he's changed his tune a bit I don't really know Abraham really
06:04wants you stay in Gambia having more time with my family I'll be very happy yeah yeah of course yeah
06:10all right give me a little kiss babe okay I don't really think he's a con man or anything like that
06:18but my mind's all over the place at the moment I'm having a lot of reservations about the engagement the
06:26marriage and I'm gonna sleep on it and see how I feel in the morning thank you so much you're welcome
06:35you're welcome oh cool best company me and then we're having such a great time in Albania we were
06:58flirting with each other things were going in the right direction but we had a argument so I've left
07:05I just need some time to reflect and get my head around things so I've put myself in a hotel to get
07:15some space hey how are you babes oh not so good at the moment
07:33where do I start we were having a great day today we went out we were driving back home and I saw this
07:42hospital I said to him I think oh did you see that guy he had a hair transplant the taxi driver said oh
07:49yeah I had one done I'm like I know someone that wants to get it done so I took the cab driver's number
07:55I messaged him say hi this is Shauna when I get back he started acting a bit agitated he says to me oh you didn't ask my permission if you could take his number
08:05I took his number right in front of you I haven't got anything to hide so I said to him listen I do
08:12apologize if you felt that disrespectful and maybe it's like a culture difference he says to me oh I don't
08:18want to hear it fuck off yeah he says to me you can go and do whatever you want with this guy now I said
08:24he's married all right there's nothing intentional I don't know he was just acting weird yeah I think so
08:36I said to him I've seen a different side to you what's wrong with you he said I'm stressed I'm like
08:40if you're stressed like talk to me let's have that conversation maybe I can help you
08:46I do think this is the culture
08:48because the man is very chauvinist
08:51yeah
08:52but I'm so sorry I have to go through this this is just not really idle
08:56it's painful but I'm all pain for us to have a conversation
09:01when he's calmed down I'm hurting but I'll get over it I'll survive
09:06so sorry
09:07yeah I know
09:08me if you need me
09:09thanks babe I'll message you later as well
09:11all right take care bye
09:13bye bye
09:14he says unavailable that's been blocked it's not going through
09:23he just messaged say don't call me anymore
09:30a bit hurt like someone can be so nice loving and then act this way oh he's he's messaging now
09:40I can offer to meet up with him and see what he says I just don't know what to think my head's
09:44all over the place
09:45wow didn't realize something so small could cause someone to react the way they reacted
09:53we've been together for two years and I don't feel like I should give up just like that
10:00I can't
10:01it was just an innocent chat between me and the taxi driver
10:05and I don't feel like we should give up over something so silly
10:08back in the day
10:38I'm from the UK now this time as a married man but I've had to come back without my wife
10:43Ara and I are waiting for the visa to be approved so Ara can move to the UK
10:50it feels like everything's on hold
10:53we were told that the visa would take up to six weeks
10:57I got an email through just now from our immigration lawyer
11:03I haven't opened it yet I'm a little bit scared to to be honest
11:09there's no way it can be a decision yet we only put it in two weeks ago
11:15hopefully it's the case officer being assigned or yeah something like that but I don't know
11:23I hope they haven't rejected us
11:25this is all feeling very real now
11:31please find attached decision letter for your entry clearance application
11:35this is it
11:38I'm kind of nervous but also very very skeptical
11:41whatever's in this attachment could
11:44decide what happens next in mine and Ara's relationship
11:47your application for the United Kingdom visa has been successful
11:55no way
11:58it's real
12:00Ara's going to lose her mind
12:03all the things we've talked about doing and living together and being together we can actually do now
12:10I better call Ara
12:12I better tell her the good news
12:14hi ma
12:17good morning
12:18I got an email through
12:19I am just at home and I saw my phone ring
12:24my heart stopped
12:26because I realised that it could be the visa
12:30what email is that?
12:33it's from the lawyer
12:35okay
12:36and it's a forwarded letter from UK immigration
12:40what does it say?
12:45you've been given a visa
12:46really?
12:48yeah
12:49are you joking?
12:51no
12:51is it true?
12:52100% true
12:52the visa got approved and I am so happy and excited
12:57this is what we're dreaming for
13:04before I can be with you forever now
13:07yeah
13:07you ready to come over here?
13:10I am so ready to be with you
13:13good
13:14I'm happy
13:15I'm happy
13:15and I'm scared
13:17I'm going to be leaving my family
13:19but
13:20yeah
13:20I'll be with you ma'am
13:22I better get those flights booked and come and pick you up
13:24yes
13:25book it please
13:26I feel like I'm excited because
13:29finally I'm going to see my husband again
13:32but at the same time
13:34I'm going to be sad
13:35because Andy coming here in the Philippines means that
13:41I'll be leaving soon
13:43I think it's just become really real for her and her family
13:49like
13:50obviously we knew she was going to move over here
13:52but
13:53she's only ever
13:54really known living in the Philippines and living with her family
13:57I think there's a lot of pressure for me to
14:01make her feel comfortable here
14:04because it's not going to be easy for her to settle in
14:07you've got to find little ways to remind her of home
14:09and make sure she feels like this is her place
14:11it needs to feel like a family home
14:14so how are you feeling?
14:31really?
14:34a little bit tired
14:36a little bit tired
14:37yeah
14:37today
14:38I'm taking Sandra to see my mum
14:41I'm really looking forward to today
14:42but I can't stop thinking about this barbecue that Heloisa is having
14:47it's
14:47it's just really on my mind
14:49today's going to be a good day
14:55yeah
14:56definitely
14:58you're not going to have any argument about what Missy said
15:03right?
15:05no
15:05no
15:06we're certainly not going to have an argument about it
15:09yeah
15:10but I think I would like to call her
15:12just to air the view and say look you know
15:15what's been going on and I feel a little bit upset that you know
15:19the barbecue that you're having
15:20or had with me
15:22you're also now having with your ex
15:24Sandra's my partner and I love her
15:28but to be honest Sandra's ex
15:29he's been a massive part of her life
15:32so I'm not convinced there's nothing to worry about
15:35and then it means nothing
15:36I just think it's not the right time to call her
15:43who are you?
15:52how lovely to see you Sandra
15:54good that you're now in England to stay with Finn
15:56so I've been trying to persuade Sandra to move here
16:00Sandra does not like the UK as much as I'd hoped
16:04it's cold
16:06it's dark
16:07it's expensive
16:09people are rude
16:10yeah because it's some huge readjustment
16:13plus all your commitment
16:14well it's yeah
16:15she's got two kids
16:17a boy and a girl
16:19yeah so great
16:20it's better for him to move to be busy
16:22yes
16:23see
16:24yes
16:25lots to think about first though
16:28I'm trying to work out how I'd live there
16:30so are you going to start learning Portuguese?
16:34see
16:34your mum is in my mind
16:36yeah you can teach me
16:37right then
16:37I'm going to go and make another cup of tea
16:39I will see you in a bit
16:41we'll see you in a little
16:42the timing is right
16:45Sandra's having a nice time
16:46with my mum
16:47chatting to her
16:48so if she's talking to one of my family members
16:51maybe I could talk to one of hers
16:53I need to know if Heloisa is plotting to get Sandra back together with her ex
17:00how are you?
17:10I'm good
17:11and you?
17:12yeah not too bad
17:13I want to talk to you
17:17really?
17:18what happened?
17:19what's been happening with her ex-partner?
17:22I don't know
17:23I understand the question
17:24why are you asking this?
17:25so Sandra mentioned the other day
17:28that you guys were going to have a barbecue
17:30with him
17:32and it made me really sad
17:35because I then thought
17:36wow
17:37Heloisa doesn't really want me to be with Sandra
17:40I thought all of this
17:42I was talking with my husband
17:45and they met
17:47and they invited each other to have a barbecue
17:49what did you want me to do?
17:52say no to my husband?
17:54a friend
17:55and I think that you're jealous
17:56are you?
17:58not jealous
17:58no
17:58I think it's the emotion I felt
18:00when I heard that
18:01was I felt sad
18:03and I thought
18:04wow
18:04he's still
18:06getting inside her mind
18:08getting inside her family's mind
18:10how can he not be
18:12if he's going around
18:13having barbecue
18:14at your house
18:15he's still a big part
18:17of your whole family
18:18I'm not going to say anything about you
18:21I'm not going to say anything about you
18:22what this feels like
18:25is
18:26Heloisa's
18:28sabotaging our relationship
18:30do you want
18:35Sandra
18:36and him
18:37to get
18:38back together
18:39I don't want her
18:41to go back to him
18:42definitely not
18:43because she says
18:44she loves you
18:45but
18:45you are not going to get married
18:47with my sister
18:48wow
18:50because I doubt a lot
18:52if you're coming to Brazil
18:54really
18:56I don't think you're going to
18:57leave your country
18:58and come here
18:58to live here
18:59I don't believe it
19:03I don't think you're doing anything
19:05well
19:13the proof is in the pudding
19:15and I'm a spotted dick
19:17how are you doing?
19:21we at all at lunch
19:21hi
19:22hi
19:22I just called your sister
19:25why did you call?
19:29I just wanted to have a conversation with her about
19:34but we talk about this
19:35yeah
19:36and I thought it was
19:38you're not ready
19:39no
19:40but it was on my mind
19:41and I thought the time was right
19:42why did you phone?
19:43she is having a barbecue
19:46with Sandra's ex-partner
19:47and I wanted to understand why
19:50it's quite upsetting
19:51because if the shoe was on the other foot
19:53and you were having
19:54some wine and cheese
19:56with my ex-partner
19:57Sandra might feel
20:00betrayed
20:01is the word I'd use
20:02and that's quite a strong word
20:06and it's not a word
20:06I was comfortable saying
20:07to your sister
20:08and I didn't say that
20:09I just said I felt hurt
20:11but why
20:12this is going to change something for you?
20:14and I did ask her
20:15do you want
20:16them to get back together?
20:17and she said no
20:18yeah
20:18I told you meet on time
20:20but she still has doubts
20:21about our relationship
20:22and
20:23I'm going to prove her wrong
20:24that was
20:25not the right time
20:26to talk to my sister
20:28can we move on?
20:31you're not going to talk about this anymore?
20:32no because it's resolved in my mind
20:34it's all finished
20:34I think she'll see
20:35I've said
20:37and now I just need to show
20:38today's my last time
21:08and Ibrahim proposed to me last night
21:11and I did say yes
21:12but really
21:12I do have a lot of reservations
21:14about the engagement
21:16oh that's it
21:19lovely
21:19and before I go home
21:22I do need to be honest with him
21:24I can't believe it
21:26the last day
21:28it's gone by in a flash
21:30I hate this day man
21:32I hate this day as well
21:33I really do
21:35fish and chips?
21:36yes please
21:37ladies first
21:38yes of course
21:39lovely
21:41lovely
21:41yeah thank you brother
21:42enjoy your meal
21:43the last supper
21:46I hope to see you very soon man
21:51yeah I hope so
21:53I really need to tell Ibrahim
21:58about how I'm feeling
22:00it's only fair
22:02to be honest with him
22:03I don't want you to take it the wrong way
22:07or be upset
22:08but
22:09I've been thinking overnight
22:12about the worries that I have
22:15about our engagement
22:16I know we're engaged
22:20I know we're engaged
22:20but
22:21I don't know
22:24if I can commit to marriage
22:27there's a lot of things stacked against it
22:33at this moment in time
22:35like
22:35the suspicions that I had about you
22:38when I thought your sister was your wife
22:40then your nephew was your child
22:42I'm not happy about all
22:44what's happened
22:46no
22:47these things go over in my mind
22:50I still love you
22:54but it's very very difficult for me
22:57and I can't commit
22:59when I have nagging feelings in my mind
23:02you look upset
23:04are you?
23:06yeah of course
23:06I look upset man
23:07yesterday I was the happiest man
23:13but
23:13things are going from
23:16backwards now
23:18Ibrahim
23:20hold my hand
23:21it's not a no
23:24but I'm going to go home
23:27and speak to my family
23:28and see what my family have to say
23:31about the whole situation
23:32I understand you
23:34I have to explain to your family
23:38and see what they're going to say
23:39so
23:40I'm upset but
23:42I already love you
23:44so you are already on my heart
23:46so
23:46I can go back
23:49I don't know what's going to happen
23:52I think I better go now
23:57and start packing
23:58all right
24:02see you back in the room
24:03I don't know what's going to happen
24:08I don't know
24:08I don't know
24:15I don't know
24:16I don't know
24:28you
24:28I decided I'm going to meet Adnan.
24:44Maybe if we meet each other, we can get things back on track.
24:54Thanks for coming.
24:57You will sit.
24:58I've come all this way, and I have to see it through.
25:05I'm going to give it one more push and try and talk through what happened.
25:11Are you OK?
25:12I'm good.
25:15That's good.
25:18You have something to say?
25:21OK.
25:24Just to recap, yesterday when I exchanged numbers with the driver, I was helping my friend back in the UK.
25:34He wanted a ear transplant, and I said, I'll give him my number, and then he can get in contact, and they can chat.
25:43We left the band.
25:45You became upset.
25:46Yes.
25:47I was shouting, telling me to F off because I didn't ask you permission.
25:53Everything was going great, but something happened that I can't accept.
26:00It made me realize we are not for each other.
26:03This conversation here is not a conversation where it's going to be agitated.
26:09So I appreciate you to be a bit more mindful in the way you're speaking to me.
26:16You know, Adnan, I think that's very disrespectful, because I've been in your life for two years.
26:31We have ups and downs.
26:34Go.
26:35You can't tell me to go.
26:37Go.
26:39The fact that there's no consideration, there's no love, there's no sympathy, shows me that this relationship is done.
26:49You can hate me, but there is a way that you can speak to someone without being disrespectful, because I don't wish you bad.
26:56I always wish you well, but the relationship has run its course.
27:01You go your way, and I go my way.
27:04At the end of the day, Adnan, I'm here just for us to part amicably.
27:08It's not to get back together.
27:10That ship has sailed.
27:11We both understand.
27:12You wish, but you can't.
27:15I don't want to be with you, Adnan.
27:16Are you listening to me?
27:17Are you wish?
27:18Are you listening to me?
27:19It's your wish.
27:21I, I, are you...
27:22Don't dream.
27:23Are you listening to me?
27:23Don't dream.
27:24I said...
27:27Comprehend and listen.
27:29The ship has sailed.
27:30Do you know the meaning?
27:32Ship, sail, gone.
27:34Gone.
27:34Bye-bye.
27:36It's over between us.
27:37I catch, I catch a fish in the sea.
27:40I, I catch a fish in the sea.
27:42You understand?
27:46I was fishing in the sea.
27:48So is this your anger coming out then?
27:50I was fishing in the sea.
27:51I was fishing.
27:52You caught a fish, and what happened?
27:54Just no substance to you.
27:55Is that it?
27:56I'm so happy that I've seen this side to you because I've been living into a bubble, and
28:04that bubble is popped.
28:08And I've seen the real Adnan, the one that fake, pretends.
28:17You're a user, you pretend that, that, that...
28:20What, what I use you?
28:22For what I use you?
28:23You're so immature.
28:24Don't whistle at me.
28:25I'm not a cat or a dog.
28:26Anaconda.
28:27How am I a snake?
28:28A snake goes behind your back, and take his number without you knowing.
28:30There you go, whistling.
28:31Is that, is that the way the Albanian men treat the women in Albania?
28:46He's so immature.
28:48This is a revelation.
28:50I'm seeing the true Adnan, and I don't like it one bit.
28:55To be fair, I'm always a bigger person, so I'll give you a hug, Adnan.
29:01We can part ways on a hug.
29:03I don't, I don't want a fake hug.
29:06Fake?
29:07Adnan, why do you call me fake?
29:09Am I fake?
29:10I can't talk anymore.
29:12You are fake.
29:15You are fake.
29:19I am done.
29:22See you little boy, have a great life.
29:26You deserve it.
29:28What's fake?
29:33There's no consideration, there's no love, so I can't be with someone like that.
29:39I can't.
29:40Fake.
29:41It's calling fake.
29:43Fake.
29:44It's calling fake.
29:46It's calling fake.
29:47Say goodbye to the skimpy bikini top.
29:57Until next time when it comes back.
29:58I'm just packing to go home, and I'm feeling really sad to be leaving the Gambia, because
30:07it's so lovely and I'm going to have to be leaving Ibrahim, but I have to go sometime.
30:22Passport.
30:23Money.
30:24I think that's about done now.
30:25My head is just, I want to know what my family are going to say when I tell them that Ibrahim
30:39wants to marry me.
30:42My England coat.
30:45Look, this is what I'll look like when I get to the airport.
30:50I should have got a scarf, really.
30:54Horrible England, cold weather.
30:56I have a message for you about your family.
31:01So when you go, you have to try to convince them they can accept our marriage.
31:08Mm-hmm.
31:09I have to talk to them and...
31:11I will.
31:12I promise.
31:13In a couple of days, once I'm home settled, and I'm counting all the icicles on the window,
31:17and then I'll go out, and then I'll go to my family and see them.
31:20Wow!
31:21Shall we head off?
31:22Yeah.
31:23Yes.
31:24It's very, very difficult to say goodbye to someone you love.
31:39Come, bud.
31:40You all right?
31:41Yeah.
31:42You don't know when she will be coming back.
31:48Oh, Ibrahim, the end is nigh.
32:03It's time to go.
32:05I don't know what the future holds, but I'm going to speak to my family.
32:09OK.
32:10I don't want you to be upset because it's not the end.
32:12No.
32:13It could be the beginning.
32:14Don't be upset.
32:15OK, greet everyone for me.
32:17Love you.
32:18Love you, babe.
32:19Love you.
32:21I'll FaceTime you when I get in.
32:22OK.
32:23Bye.
32:24OK.
32:25Bye.
32:26I'm going again.
32:27I'm hoping for Jenna to call me as soon as possible to tell me that her family agreed to be married.
32:37Yeah.
32:38I'll be the happiest man on Earth.
32:43I always get emotional when I say goodbye to Ibrahim
32:50because I just love him so much.
32:54But there's been a lot of ups and downs on this trip
32:57and I need to get home and think about it
33:00and make a decision on what the future holds.
33:13I'm back in the Philippines, but this time when I go home,
33:19Ara's going to be with me and that feels amazing.
33:23Okay, so we're going to the cemetery today to see my dead relatives.
33:27She's going to see the tomb of my grandmom as well as my uncle.
33:31On Halloween?
33:32Yeah.
33:33Spooky.
33:33It's also today, Mahal, of course.
33:35It's very important to Ara that I take part in her cultural traditions.
33:40She's made it very clear from the start.
33:41And I'm kind of enjoying it.
33:44It's so different from what we do in the UK.
33:46We're going to sleep there.
33:49In the cemetery?
33:50Yes.
33:51Ara has just told me that we're spending the night in the family mausoleum.
33:57It's a bit weird.
34:03All Souls Day is kind of the Filipino equivalent of Halloween
34:07or like the Day of the Dead.
34:09It's a day where they go to the cemetery and celebrate their dead relatives.
34:24Wait, this isn't the...
34:25Yeah, this is the mausoleum!
34:28And it looks quite surprised because we do have a big resting place
34:33for the dead ones in our mausoleum.
34:35But it's normal here in the Philippines.
34:39It's a house!
34:40I told you, in the first floor, there are all graves on the second floor.
34:43This is where we sleep usually.
34:46At least the dead get their own floor.
34:48That's reassuring.
34:48Okay, this is not what we get in the UK.
34:53This place has blown my mind.
34:55When Ara said we were going to go to the cemetery to spend the night in the cemetery,
34:59I was expecting gravestones and like, you know, like creepy, like Adam's family stuff
35:03with like the fog rolling in.
35:04It's like a little festival here.
35:06It's about a celebration of life, not a celebration of death.
35:09It's kind of beautiful.
35:10It's kind of made me realize I need to make more of a conscious effort with my family when I get home.
35:14You just kind of get caught up in everyday life.
35:16Now I'm bringing Ara back.
35:17I know she's going to want to have some kind of family around her.
35:20And if it's not her family, then it should be mine.
35:26It's a good thing that you witness our tradition.
35:31Now that you're getting my daughter away from me.
35:35Oh, you make me feel guilty now, don't you?
35:37I'm going to miss her.
35:39So I'm asking, what is your plan?
35:42I think my mom will going to ask Andy about starting a family.
35:49Give me my grandchild.
35:54I don't have two minutes to eat my food and I'm already getting grilled about having kids.
35:59It's a lot of pressure for me.
36:01And little me.
36:04Yeah, I mean, hopefully we're going to start a family at some point when we get back, right?
36:08Yeah.
36:08We are planning to have kids, like we're planning to have a basketball team.
36:14You're going to do that?
36:16Yeah.
36:16I am joking.
36:19I love teasing my mom about having grandchildren.
36:23And I know she loves it.
36:25When I move to the UK, I hope Andy and I are going to build a spicy hot Asian kids.
36:30That's the biggest responsibility of a wife, to annoy a husband, right?
36:35And you do so well at it.
36:39I'm going to miss this kind of celebration we're in.
36:42Andy will not be having a good life if he's going to stay here in the Philippines.
36:47You need to separate yourself from your family to build your own.
36:51This is the life that I chose.
36:57So if I like it or not, I'll be staying in the UK to be with Andy.
37:01it's finally the day we're leaving the philippines to move to the uk
37:25i think the reality is really kicking in now farah
37:31i feel so emotional saying goodbye to my family and friends i tried to stop my tears
37:54i don't want to cry i'm going to north pole that's why i'm wearing pants
37:59i cried three times in my life one two three and one of them is leaving my family at the airport
38:13it's hard it's really really hard for me to leave my family behind
38:22she's crying a lot she's very emotional bye bye mama i don't think i've seen her like this since the
38:32wedding and it's kind of hit home for me how much i'm asking her to do
38:39oh lord thank you for having my best day
38:55oh lord thank you for having my best day pay for me to discuss my worries and my problems
39:12i'm back in the uk and it's really hard for me to move on from what has happened in albania
39:18at least i can turn to my church sister b how are you doing oh it's just love highs and lows
39:25it's enough now and it's come to an end i'm sure there is a lot of heartache i had it all planned
39:32out you're going to get married he's going to come to the uk i was adamant that he was the one
39:36so i wanted to do anything to keep that relationship going so there was time where i struggle
39:40should i stick with my face should i stick with him yes exactly it's not easy i think if adnan
39:48really truly loved me he would have made an effort to resolve the situation and i don't think that the
39:53love was there in the first place it was easy for him to just walk away i haven't got no regrets
39:58going to albania i've got closure i said to myself why didn't you spot this why didn't you see the red
40:06flags don't be too hard on yourself i know but it's so difficult my friends always had a problem
40:12with admin and my daughter think that it was a holiday romance from the start but i wanted to
40:17prove everyone wrong so he maybe this one was for you to just enjoy a little bit of fun maybe not too
40:24much maybe not too much yeah i'm glad she is okay i think that's the main main important thing is that
40:32she's okay greatest thing i've taken away is i have to find someone that's like-minded like
40:38myself someone that's in the church someone that understands my faith someone can relate to me
40:44and guess what no you told me about the church dating app i'm on it yes okay good next
40:52yes i'm on the dating app i'm not ready but i've learned my lesson i will never ever ever date a 25
41:04year old again
41:05no more toy boys for me from now on
41:11at least i've got one person that would never let me down and that is god
41:17last night after we got home we have a huge argument
41:44i want to call with luisa and tell her what happened
41:51hi hi how's everything
41:57ah here is amazing as always what about you
42:04uh so last night when we got home from finn's mom's we have a huge argument because i didn't like
42:18that he called you uh without saying anything to me and right now we're not talking
42:25and he went to work i'm really sad he is so obsessed with my ex and i i really don't know why
42:36since since the beginning of your relationship i saw him very incompetent with your ex if you
42:44cannot try to solve this problem i think you're not going to be together to come back here and stay
42:51here you know break half this relationship what do you think yeah maybe right now i just want to fly to
43:00brazil
43:06i try a lot i i did a lot um for this relationship to work and
43:18and i don't know what i can do anymore
43:28so today he invited me to go to the radio station where he work right so i'm gonna meet him there
43:47you're listening to asian star it's finn with you on your drive home coming up to 10 to 5 i'm
43:59talking about bucket lists in the final hour sandra and i had a massive argument last night but i've
44:05got a plan to make things better i'm gonna let you in on something i've got a big surprise for you in
44:10the final hour of today's show i'm gonna propose to my long distance girlfriend live on air so stay
44:15tuned for that asian star see you soon right so that's done out to the listeners done and dusted
44:22um i'm nervous about it a lot could go wrong but i think a lot could go right there's chaos underneath
44:28there's chaos inside but on the outside i'm swimming like a swan there's ever a place to do
44:34it in my head it's right here the great michael jackson said that the only place that he felt
44:39comfortable was on the stage and i can relate to a little bit of that
44:48i hope he thought about our argument and he will apologize me
44:55come on come into the office it's where all the magic happens
44:59how are you i'm fine this is really weird i'm sitting here i listen to him making radio show
45:10and for westbound junction 8 junction 10 also another broken down vehicle has caused a lane
45:16closure there and he's acting like nothing happened so we're talking about bucket lists
45:21i really need something from you would you like to do a quick thing on the radio he wants me to speak
45:29on live radio i really don't want to be here right now well you won't have to do a lot of talking i'll
45:35do most of the talking as i do in this relationship but he's asked me about my backing list right now my
45:43back-end list is going back to brazil bucket list is what we're talking about so what is on your bucket
45:51list well mine is varied for a while now i've been as you know in a relationship with someone from afar
45:59she's actually joining me in the studio right now
46:06sandra good evening how are you i'm fine
46:09you're going to sound you sound nervous do you sound worried yes well i'm the one that's nervous
46:14because i'm about to do something on my bucket list something that's probably never been done on
46:20radio before yeah i'm just going to go for it i just wanted to ask you one thing
46:28will you marry me are you sick there it is it's never been done before this is live on the radio
46:42and i'm holding a ring out to my girlfriend and she's just asked me the question are you sick so
46:47there it is this is a proposal ring what's your answer i think today was not a good day to ask that
46:55she's looking at the ring now is she putting it on her finger because i can't reach over which is
46:59what you should do traditionally but i'm married to the microphone before i'm married to the actual
47:03person what's your answer this is awkward it's the people of slough
47:11what's your answer it's not been a show of laughs we can't continue i think this is over i've just
47:26landed in the uk for the first time with arrah what's next yeah we're gonna try for a baby oh we're
47:35obviously trying to do it as often as possible it's just like a dead fish like what i'm telling
47:42you that we have to decide when to get married you really need to talk to him i don't want you to
47:48just do things because you're trying to please someone else so how is the gambi then then
47:54why do you think he wants to marry you because he loves me said oh you don't seem very happy babe
47:59i'm not too pleased i've been doing a lot of thinking
48:13so
48:32so
48:36you
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