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00:00How many times have you found yourself deciphering mixed signals from a girl you like every message?
00:08It becomes a puzzle but we often look for interest where there is none today I will give you a checklist for
00:15understand when it's time to stop looking in the wrong place ready let's start
00:20The eyes are the mirror of the soul and often tell much more than words can.
00:28expressing in every interaction the gaze is the first bridge that is created between two people a simple
00:35crossing eyes can convey interest and curiosity or, on the contrary, distance and closure when there is
00:44when we find ourselves faced with someone who avoids our gaze, the message we receive is often more
00:50eloquent of a thousand speeches sometimes the eyes clearly say do not disturb even if the lips
00:57they smile or the words are kind is a silent but powerful language that we all learn to decipher
01:04from an early age when a person looks away he is often trying to protect the
01:10own personal space or to avoid an emotional involvement that she does not want if she
01:16He constantly avoids eye contact. It's not just a matter of distraction or shyness.
01:22passenger is a clear sign of disinterest an invisible barrier that rises between you and her
01:28in these cases the body speaks even before the voice, the shoulders close, the gaze gets lost
01:36elsewhere and communication becomes cold and distant it is not shyness it is a scientific escape the mind
01:44human in fact tends to avoid what does not interest her or what makes her feel uncomfortable if a woman is
01:51he shows impassively and looks away he is simply choosing not to invest energy
01:57in conversation it is an instinctive strategy to maintain distance and not create false
02:04expectations if his eyes wander everywhere except on you he is communicating that his attention is not
02:11she is captured, maybe she observes the environment, checks the phone or gets lost in her thoughts at every turn
02:19if his interest is elsewhere this behavior is often accompanied by short smiles and responses
02:28circumstance and a posture that tends to close in on a group if you are the only one not receiving a glance
02:35the message is loud and clear, glances meet among others but not with you, it's like
02:43if you were invisible excluded from the flow of conversation this kind of visual exclusion
02:49It is one of the most obvious signs of social or personal disinterest. You are not transparent but she
02:57he chooses not to look at you it is a conscious decision a way to communicate without words that he does not want
03:04deepening the relationship, even if it may seem like a small gesture, is actually a precise choice
03:11which says a lot about your intentions a conversation without eye contact is like talking to a wall
03:18the connection is missing, the reciprocity is missing, the words bounce around without finding a true listening and dialogue
03:27eye contact is what makes a conversation authentic without it.
03:34everything becomes superficial, take note, the fleeting glance is a clear sign of disinterest
03:42Learning to recognize it will help you understand when it is time to insist and when it is better instead
03:50turn the page and dedicate your energies to those who truly look you in the eye
03:55In the digital world, signs of disinterest are written in black and white, just a glance at them is enough.
04:05our chats to understand how involved or distant a person is from the messages
04:12cold ones are like digital fossils, silent witnesses of an enthusiasm that is not present in an era
04:19where we communicate more with our fingers than with our voice, every word, emoji or silence tells a story
04:26history and often the story we read between the lines is that of an interest that is dying out
04:33short responses like ok that's fine or a simple thumbs up are unmistakable signs of
04:40little interest no matter how long or heartfelt your message was if the response is small
04:47to the bone it's like receiving a business card without a name these minimalist messages are the way
04:53easier to keep your distance without having to have a real conversation is a
05:00cold, almost automatic form of courtesy that only serves to close the conversation without leaving room for
05:06further questions when a person is really interested the conversation flows naturally
05:13and spontaneous the answers come quickly, they are detailed and often accompanied by questions
05:19or comments that demonstrate attention and curiosity create a rhythm and energy that makes every exchange
05:26pleasant and engaging in these cases time seems to fly and the words flow effortlessly like
05:34if there was a real connection beyond the screen if instead it is always you who does all the
05:40questions to propose topics or to try to keep the conversation alive the risk is that
05:46turning you into an interviewer rather than a potential partner this imbalance is a
05:52clear signal the other person is not investing energy in the relationship you find yourself walking on a
06:00arid land where every attempt at dialogue seems to fall on deaf ears is a dynamic that in the long run can
06:07become frustrating and exhausting cold and delayed responses are often a passive way
06:13aggressive to communicate I don't feel like talking to you the time that passes between one message and another
06:20it becomes a deafening silence an invisible wall that rises between you and the other person every wait
06:27prolonged each monosyllabic response is a small piece that builds the emotional distance it is as if
06:35the other person wanted to make you understand without saying it openly that your presence is not a priority
06:41If your chats seem like a monologue interrupted by digital grunts, the diagnosis is clear.
06:48talking to someone who has no interest in building a real dialogue every message you send
06:54It becomes an attempt to revive a conversation that is actually already dead. It is important to recognize
07:02these signals and do not insist further so as not to waste time and energy in a one-way relationship
07:09unique in the end if a person does not dedicate more than a few seconds of his time to it the message is
07:16clearly you are not a priority in his thoughts in a world where communication is at your fingertips
07:23lack of attention is the most eloquent answer recognizing these signals allows you to turn the page
07:30and seek more authentic connections where the dialogue is truly reciprocal and heartfelt
07:36If you are always the ones suggesting to meet up, there is an obvious problem that should not be underestimated.
07:44a relationship is a two-way street the initiative must be shared by both parties
07:51If she never suggests seeing you, the idea of spending time with you is not a priority.
07:58Really accepting invitations out of politeness or boredom does not mean true interest try not to propose
08:05nothing for a while if she doesn't get in touch you already have your answer phrases like ci
08:12we organize are the cemetery of missed and forgotten appointments the interest is manifested with
08:18concrete actions not just words if she constantly talks about other guys you are in the
08:26friendzone is telling you that you are not a romantic option you are the confidant not
08:32Your partner has downgraded you to a member of his support team when he asks you for advice on others
08:38Don't make the mistake of thinking that this is a way to make you jealous, he's putting you on a shelf.
08:44different from that of friends
08:46Humor creates complicity but if your jokes fall on deaf ears it's a devastating sign.
08:54if she never laughs at what you say there is no spark the interest amplifies the meaning
09:01of humor if your jokes crash against a wall of indifference it is not your fault
09:07repertoire is that it's just not the right audience
09:11If she comes up with creative excuses for not seeing you, it's a clear sign to cancel a date.
09:21It can happen sometimes but if it becomes a habit it is a choice the apologies accompanied by we recover
09:28very soon they are smoke in the eyes an interested person proposes an alternative if the apologies
09:35they pile up and alternative proposals are lacking the signal is fixed red
09:40who starts the conversation if it's always you there is an imbalance when a person interests you
09:51It comes naturally to you to seek it if your interaction exists only thanks to your effort it is not a good thing
09:58sign take a step back and see what happens if your phone goes silent the connection between
10:05you probably never existed sometimes life puts us in front of situations that we would never have
10:14never wanted to face finding out that a person doesn't care about us or that our feelings aren't
10:20reciprocated can be really painful it is a feeling that affects us deeply making us
10:26feeling vulnerable maybe even a little lost in those moments it's normal to ask yourself ok and now what
10:34I'm telling you the truth is that we can't please everyone and that's okay, each of us has our own tastes and preferences.
10:41and different sensitivities not being someone's choice does not mean that we are worth less or that we
10:48it's something wrong with us, in fact it's precisely this diversity that makes human relationships so
10:55interesting and unpredictable when we accept that we cannot be appreciated by everyone
11:01we free ourselves from a huge weight we can finally stop chasing those who don't want us and start
11:08Investing time and energy in those who truly appreciate us is like closing a chapter in a book
11:14and start a new one full of possibilities and authentic encounters make room in your life
11:21for the people who make you feel good who welcome you for who you are without conditions
11:27Don't take it personally, it's often not a question of value but simply of compatibility.
11:34Authentic connections happen when two people meet at the right time with the
11:39right energy if it doesn't happen it's nobody's fault it's just life that guides us towards who is more in
11:46tune in with us so shrug your shoulders take a deep breath and let go of what you don't
11:53every experience belongs to you, even the ones that hurt, it teaches us something and prepares us for
12:01something better walk with your head held high with the knowledge that your value does not depend
12:08from the opinion of just one person remember the sea is full of fish and somewhere there is that
12:16just for you don't rush don't settle for less than you deserve every day is a new
12:24opportunity to meet people who will truly appreciate you, who will be able to see your value and who
12:30they will be happy to have you in their life if you want to learn to recognize who they really are
12:36interested in you I recommend you take a look at the other videos on the channel you will find lots of advice
12:42useful for better understanding the signals, improving your self-esteem and building healthier relationships
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13:07for watching this video till the end remember every ending is just a new beginning
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