00:00Who in the world doesn't want to belong? Who in the world doesn't want love? Who in the world
00:16doesn't want a valued social role? Who in the world doesn't want to feel respected? And if
00:22you look at all of this, a valued social role, respected, being able to have a conversation,
00:28being able to trust. That is freedom. I think there's a lot of hope that we saw. There was
00:35another thing that we learned is also to give people agency like how you guys do it at the
00:41Banyan. We also realized that sometimes we become very self-centered and want to do everything
00:47ourselves. But we also tried and asked people to write their own stories. We met this lady
00:53in Kobalam and she just agreed to write her story and she sent a story beautifully written,
00:59very simple. And I thought that was also freedom to be able to get to a point of that agency
01:07where you have no shame talking about how you felt when something happened to you.
01:14Hi, we are with Vandana Gopikumar of the Banyan and we have collaborated with the Banyan for
01:21the Independence Day issue. And we have been wanting to do this for a long time and we wanted
01:27to take mental health as the issue. And here she's the guest editor also for the issue along
01:34with others, Sanjeev Jain and Dr. Lakshmi Narasimhan. And they have kind of given us access to
01:43all their projects and we have sent reporters everywhere to write the stories. And we just
01:50want to talk about how grave the issue is, what can be done and how she goes about doing things
01:56and also our own stories. Along with many others like Samya, Vicky, you met many of them, Preeti,
02:02who are all in their own way forming a support group for other children. Because often what
02:08happens when the mother is unwell and there are ups and downs and of course the mother is
02:13also playing the role of the care provider. Completely. Everybody with a mental health issue
02:17is also a caregiver. I'm a caregiver, right? I may be living with a severe mental illness but
02:21I am a caregiver. And that happens in most cases. The extent may vary. So in this particular
02:26case, it's lovely that this group of kids, these kids have gotten together and they're
02:31using various ways in which they can reach out to other kids who are going through similar
02:35situations where their parents, the family, there's a lot of, I mean they're seeing violence
02:41sometimes, they're seeing the way in which their mother is being treated, they're seeing the
02:47mother's ill health in some cases can be really bad. But they're rising about that and are holding
02:51on. Yeah. Not just that they're holding on, they're sharing their stories. Of course
02:55there's on the one hand material success, but on the other hand they're sharing their stories.
02:59And that material success also comes with education. Education, all these things in the role that
03:04they play in mental health. But the fact that we have people like Ibu. And look at how brave
03:09he is to even write that story. I was reading it and I was like, oh my god, will I ever be
03:14this brave to talk about it. It was amazing, isn't it? Very. So this issue is for the Ibu's,
03:21for the Amlis, for the Jacqueline's and for all of us to just make the world a safer kind of place.
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