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00:00Previously on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
00:03While Nell was ragtagging me in LA,
00:06she know that boy had a baby on the way.
00:07Would you be open to having Destiny as a daughter-in-law?
00:11I can't honestly say that I feel that way now.
00:13If you want her there, I need to assess our relationship
00:16going forward.
00:17I told Trisha that I might try to have
00:19another conversation with my kids.
00:20Bruh, I have one conversation, then I
00:23start talking with Dee.
00:24Is the divorce final?
00:26Everything?
00:27Hold on a second.
00:29What we?
00:30I literally came and dropped my daughter off.
00:31I don't know what's going on.
00:33The day that I came over, it's automatic hostility.
00:35You came into my house uninvited.
00:38I called the courthouse.
00:40They said we waiting for a court date,
00:41because obviously you put on there and said
00:42we had no minor choice.
00:43Bruh, that's a lie, bruh.
00:44Look, it says it right there.
00:46Hey, stop playing.
00:47Relax, bruh.
00:48Hey, Marquez, sit down.
00:49Just sit down.
00:50Or you're going to get the out.
00:53We keep it moving all day, all night, yeah.
00:59Ain't no stopping us.
01:00Drop that.
01:01We ain't stopping.
01:04You know, you know.
01:07We keep it moving all day, all night, yeah.
01:16Yeah.
01:17All day, all night, yeah.
01:20Ain't no stopping us.
01:27Are you going to get out?
01:29I'll put you out.
01:30It's black and white.
01:31We can do it that way.
01:32Are we moving forward?
01:33That's right.
01:33We can't move forward if we're going to get behind.
01:35What did you say, dude?
01:36Worst of all, you were disperable by walking in my house.
01:38Ken, come on.
01:39Are we moving forward or not?
01:40You just did it again.
01:41Hey, y'all better, bro.
01:42Y'all better do what?
01:43Better do what?
01:44Get out.
01:45Get out.
01:45Get out.
01:46Get out.
01:47Get out.
01:48Get.
01:49Get.
01:50Stop.
01:51Come in my house, dude.
01:52Oh my gosh.
01:55Y'all got me up.
01:56You told me so.
01:59Because that's exactly what happened.
02:01You definitely told me that it would happen.
02:03Yeah.
02:04I didn't want to believe it.
02:05I thought that I could be super saver and make things, you know, work.
02:10But I told you it wasn't going to last so long.
02:13It'd be me an ass.
02:14Definitely.
02:15Todd being disrespectful.
02:17I don't give a what y'all do.
02:19Don't keep being disrespectful.
02:21Make me be the bad guy you want.
02:37Hello?
02:38Hey, T.
02:39Hey, girl.
02:40How are you?
02:41I'm good.
02:42You had a busy week?
02:43Girl, yes.
02:44I don't have mercy.
02:45And I'm up here trying to work on some numbers right now.
02:50Um, listen.
02:51I wanted to try to get everybody together.
02:53Like the ladies, anyway.
02:54Not, you know, the dudes right now.
02:57OK, I'm down.
02:58Just send me the information.
02:59I'll be there.
03:00OK.
03:01OK, sounds good.
03:02Thanks, dear.
03:03This is my annual effort at gathering the ladies
03:06and kind of do a check-in, do a temperature check.
03:08We haven't seen each other since we were in L.A.
03:11And the streets say that these women got a lot going on.
03:16And now that that's in order, it's date night with the hubby.
03:21Got us some blankets.
03:22Thank y'all.
03:23Just in case.
03:24We're going to have fire and blankets.
03:25No, it's not going to be just in case.
03:26It's going to be for sure.
03:28What you made?
03:29I made some tea.
03:30Because I don't want to be cold.
03:32You know what?
03:36We're going to do some date nighting around the fire.
03:41I like it.
03:42Yeah.
03:43But all we have is tea, though.
03:46Yeah, I just made tea.
03:47You made some dinner?
03:48I didn't make nothing but tea.
03:50Oh, word.
03:51Nothing but tea.
03:52Oh, this one I brought for you.
03:53Oh, thank you, sir.
03:54It's hot.
03:55It's not.
03:56It don't feel like that.
03:57OK.
03:58It might be cold out here.
03:59Then the hot tea will help.
04:00Did you have a good day?
04:01Did you have a good day?
04:02Yeah, man.
04:03It's been busy.
04:04Grinding.
04:05Grinding.
04:06A lot of work.
04:07Little bit of time.
04:08I know.
04:09I did run by Jaylen's house, though.
04:10You did?
04:11Mm-hmm.
04:12I haven't been over there just kind of chilling in a while.
04:14Mm-hmm.
04:15I told him, I said, you're like my bestie,
04:17like my little friend.
04:18You know what I'm saying?
04:19Like, our relationship changed a lot after college.
04:23Mm-hmm.
04:24Listen, I was telling Jaylen about us doing business together
04:27and the family business.
04:29Me, you, Monster, and him.
04:31Mm-hmm.
04:32And you know, the kids got reservations.
04:37Yes, Maurice.
04:38Why?
04:39Because you do this whole dictator-type thing.
04:41Y'all don't even want to work with me because of rule.
04:44No, it's not.
04:45It's because you talk a lot.
04:46Oh, that's what it is.
04:48Yeah.
04:49Work little, talk lot.
04:52Nobody wants that.
04:53We want hands-on and get the work done kind of thing.
04:57That's it.
04:58What?
04:59Yeah.
05:00And so I was talking to Jaylen about that,
05:02and he felt like, you know, there were maybe some missteps.
05:06As far as him growing up with father figures,
05:11he said he didn't really look at you like a father figure.
05:15He just never felt like a father figure.
05:20It was always more just the homie.
05:24He never made me feel like, you know, a son.
05:28As the years went on, I kind of looked at Marcel as like the father figure.
05:37I can tell that.
05:38He said he felt your relationship with you was more homeboy, like mentor, homeboy.
05:45He actually said he looked to Marcel more of a father figure than you.
05:51The fact that Jaylen said that he looked up more to Marcel as a father figure, you know, felt like a little gut punch.
06:00I think that no parent wants to hear that they're not doing as well as they think that they should be.
06:06I would have liked to have that kind of impact on Jaylen.
06:12Yeah.
06:13I don't want it to ever feel like I don't adore you as a human,
06:19and I don't want the best for you emotionally, spiritually, physically, financially, right?
06:24And I want you to chase, you know, chase your dreams too.
06:30I want to talk to Jaylen.
06:36Oh, look at you getting down on the red air.
06:56Well, we're gonna eat some wings.
06:58I'm cheating today.
06:59Oh, well, I guess we're both cheating.
07:01They're gonna run on the ground.
07:02We're not gonna worry about that.
07:04So, um, how was class?
07:06Class was actually interesting.
07:09We have a lot to cover and a lot of work that I need you to do.
07:15Oh.
07:16We talked about you spiffing up some things at the daycare center for us.
07:21Okay.
07:22So we can get these four stars.
07:23Oh, we need the stars now.
07:25Yes.
07:26We need to get that certification going for the daycare.
07:28That would be excellent.
07:29Well, right now we have a real estate company.
07:31We also have a daycare center, Growing Smiles.
07:34And we do have a cleaning company, Crystal Clear Cleaning.
07:36So I've been taking classes for my quality stars for the daycare, for Growing Smiles.
07:41With having quality stars, the more stars you receive, the more funding you receive.
07:46I have to take this serious.
07:47Gotcha.
07:48There's, like, money involved in it.
07:51And then, of course, you know, it's very educational for the kids.
07:55Okay.
07:56As well.
07:57Sounds great.
07:58All right.
07:59Yep.
08:00Sounds great.
08:01So what else is going on?
08:03What else you get done today?
08:05She may, like, call me.
08:07Called you for what?
08:09To ask me out.
08:10Like she said, we hadn't talked.
08:12We need to catch up.
08:13Actually, probably being like the girls, because I really don't talk to no one.
08:18You haven't talked to Letitia?
08:19I have not talked to Letitia.
08:21She was really quiet in L.A.
08:23She was very quiet.
08:24I want to know where we stand.
08:26Like we've spoken with Destiny?
08:28Um, she called.
08:30And I want to say, I do think Destiny missed me.
08:33Called you Miss Nell?
08:35Because I'm Miss Nell, of course.
08:37Mm-hmm.
08:38And I'm very level-headed when it comes to other people's problems.
08:41I have counseled Destiny.
08:44Long conversations, long sit-down.
08:48I spent a lot of time with her.
08:50So when she made the statement, I got to reevaluate our friendship.
08:53I do not like what Sonny did.
08:57But I have to judge for myself.
08:59If you want her there, I understand.
09:01Um, but for me now, I need to assess our relationship going forward.
09:06Would you reevaluate, boo?
09:09I've been there for you, too.
09:12All because I invited Sonny to a bachelorette party?
09:17Or was it really because of your relationship with Lance?
09:21I don't know.
09:22My relationship with Destiny right now is kind of shaky.
09:26This is the reason why I did not want Destiny to get involved with our son Lance.
09:33We don't do size.
09:35That's my son.
09:37You've been just as wrong as he is.
09:39It is what it is.
09:41If she feel like she got to reevaluate her friendship, then hell, I can reevaluate mine.
09:47Do you think I should say something to her?
09:50Because I was planning on saying something to her.
09:53Well, I mean, if she's asking you to come out with the girls and this, that, and the other,
09:59and you feel like you need to pull her to the side and ask her about it,
10:03then yeah, I would love to hear her response.
10:08Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
10:11So we all had a sit down.
10:12You, Ken, and Marquez.
10:14And my friend.
10:15So Ken started getting mad.
10:16And next thing I know, they got to touch them.
10:18Are you serious?
10:19What?
10:20What the hell?
10:21Did you feel difference in love?
10:24Like I love Monster more or differently than you?
10:27Well, I mean, of course.
10:29He's your son.
10:30I'm not your actual son.
10:51Hey, beautiful.
10:52How are you?
10:53Fine.
10:54I think I have a table for what?
10:59I like to eat.
11:00Everybody knows that.
11:01I decided to gather up the ladies.
11:08Hey, girl.
11:09Smoke.
11:10Hey, you.
11:11Hey.
11:12So this whole dinner is two-fold because I kind of want to hang out with the ladies, get the download.
11:19But I really kind of want to get to know Trisha and Elle better.
11:28Hey, sweetie.
11:29Of course I invited Destiny because I wanted all of the ladies to get together and download.
11:36But Destiny's out in those TikTok streets.
11:39She couldn't make it.
11:40Oh, hi.
11:41Hey.
11:42Look at y'all looking all sick.
11:43How are you?
11:44Country guard.
11:45Hi.
11:46I see.
11:47You coming out.
11:48Y'all looking all sick.
11:49No.
11:50It's not a squeeze.
11:51How are you?
11:52How are you doing, beautiful?
11:53Awesome.
11:54Awesome.
11:55It looks just like it.
11:56Yes.
11:57Yes.
11:58Uh-uh.
11:59You got your boots on?
12:00No.
12:01I got on some boots, but that's some regular boots.
12:03I'm glad all of y'all came.
12:05Well, I'm glad you invited me.
12:07And it was pleasant calling everybody.
12:09Yes.
12:10Like, literally.
12:11I called Nell.
12:12She said, hey!
12:13I was like, I need to call more often if I'm gonna get that kind of recognition.
12:18And so I wanted us to be able to kind of talk about how we get to know each other better,
12:23what that looks like.
12:24I think just being around each other more.
12:26I think that's how you get to know each other a little bit better.
12:29Mm-hmm.
12:30I definitely feel like I need to grow my relationship with the ladies.
12:34We're not really transparent.
12:35We always have that block of, we're only gonna go so far in getting each other's opinions
12:40and just venting to each other.
12:42So Ken and Marquette's been on this friendship thing.
12:47Oh, that's good.
12:48Well, no.
12:49Let me tell you the beginning of it.
12:51So he came to the, he brought Zari to the house.
12:54And he walked straight in the house.
12:57That's disrespectful.
12:58So we all had a sit down.
13:00You, Ken, and Marquette.
13:01And my friend.
13:02So then he started talking about the divorce papers and how I didn't have the kids on there.
13:07And that's why he contested it.
13:08So, well, they got the papers, brought it to him.
13:11And he started getting mad and disrespectful after that.
13:13Just like going crazy.
13:14Except towards you?
13:15Everybody.
13:16So kids started getting mad.
13:17And next thing I know, they got to touch them.
13:19Are you serious?
13:20What?
13:21Oh, man.
13:22What the hell?
13:23I hate that for y'all.
13:24The look.
13:25Well, that just like set you back like 10 steps when you're trying to make marriage.
13:28It was.
13:29That's a lot.
13:30Right.
13:31Well, I don't have like a bunch of drama in my house.
13:33But I did find out one thing.
13:35Jaylen told me that he felt like his relationship with Maurice was more of a homie, like mentor relationship.
13:43He actually said he felt like Marceau was more of a father figure to him.
13:47A father figure?
13:48Oh, wow.
13:49Maybe because he worked with Marceau.
13:50He worked with Marceau at Monaco.
13:52He worked with Marceau at Black.
13:54He's had more time, one-on-one time with Marceau.
13:57And I mean, Marceau be like, Jaylen's his oldest son.
14:00You know, he does that, too.
14:01So, dang.
14:02I feel like Maurice felt the way.
14:04But Maurice is very hands-off.
14:06Like, he is very hands-off.
14:09Um, and so I think Jaylen, in that time of his life, he gravitated to people who gravitated
14:14to him.
14:15Mm-hmm.
14:16It was a tough conversation.
14:17Jaylen and Kimmy, they was together for so long just the two of them.
14:21So with Marce coming in, Jaylen has to also embrace Marce as a father so he can have those
14:29conversations with Marce and not just have it with Kimmy, and Kimmy related to Marce.
14:34I think that as comfortable as Jaylen is talking to Kimmy, he also should be comfortable talking
14:39to Marce as well.
14:40You did stress in LA.
14:41You didn't hang out with us at all.
14:43Not this year.
14:44You sure I did.
14:45I didn't really have a chance.
14:47You know, normally we don't leave early.
14:48We hang out with everyone.
14:50Lance had mentioned wanting to hang out with Kim.
14:53But, uh, he had got a call saying he needed to get back.
14:57He had a baby on the way in labor.
14:59I saw that on social media.
15:01Me too.
15:02Yeah, we all did.
15:03It was like, what the hell?
15:06Oh my god.
15:07That's when you found out?
15:08While you were in LA?
15:09Yeah.
15:10So you didn't know beforehand.
15:12So he didn't know she was pregnant the whole time frame either?
15:18So she didn't tell him.
15:21I mean, he's dealt with her for what, five years?
15:24Oh.
15:25Oh.
15:26Oh.
15:27So he spun the block.
15:28Oh.
15:29Chris had a baby too.
15:30Yeah.
15:31At the same time.
15:32So you got two great kids at the same time?
15:34I have two.
15:35Same time.
15:36Well, I don't have them at the same time.
15:37We're like a month.
15:39They're five months apart.
15:42Wow.
15:43Oh.
15:44How are you feeling about everything?
15:45How are you doing?
15:48I'm doing better.
15:49At first, it took a toll on me.
15:51Yeah.
15:52I can imagine.
15:53That's a lot.
15:54I'm putting on the table because when I saw that on social media, I would side on you.
15:57I was like, not Neil having him and Destiny dating.
16:01He had a whole girl pregnant the whole time.
16:04No, I didn't know.
16:05Even though it didn't have nothing to do with me.
16:07OK.
16:08Because I can't tell him who to go in the wrong way.
16:09Right, right, right.
16:10But I was like, you was for him and Destiny dating.
16:12That's what's between him and Destiny.
16:14Tisha felt like you were for the relationship.
16:17Yeah, with him and Destiny.
16:19For him and Destiny?
16:20Yeah.
16:21At first, I was.
16:22I was at first.
16:23And then once you found out he was having a baby, you changed your mind?
16:27It was before the baby.
16:28Oh, why?
16:29What happened?
16:30I think me and Destiny kind of had on on it.
16:32Some things we went through.
16:34And it was like, uh-uh, red flag for me.
16:37So, yeah.
16:39So I thought I was coming to a girl's dinner.
16:42But Letitia Scott Esquire seems to have a lot of questions tonight.
16:46So got a lot for her, too.
16:48Kimmy and Letitia.
16:50Mm-hmm.
16:51So how do you two ladies feel about what Martell said about your husbands?
17:00And envy.
17:01Mm-hmm.
17:02Mm-hmm.
17:05Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
17:07Did you feel a difference in love?
17:09Like, I love Monster more?
17:10Or...
17:11Uh...
17:13If I have a problem with any of you all, you will know it.
17:16Okay.
17:18Because I was telling Kim, I was like, I don't know about the flexions.
17:21I ain't gonna lie.
17:22I ain't gonna lie.
17:23You mentioned to the whole thing?
17:24I said, me neither.
17:26I said, this ain't the fake-est ghetto, backwoods, looking I've ever seen in my damn life.
17:42I was blown back.
17:43Me too.
17:44I was like, whoa.
17:46That's a lot.
17:47I ain't gonna lie.
17:48I said, me neither.
17:49I said, this ain't the fakest ghetto,
17:51backwoods, looking I've ever seen in my damn life.
17:55So I feel like Latisha is deflecting,
17:58trying to take the heat off of her,
18:00asking me how I feel.
18:03It really wasn't no way for me to feel
18:05I'm not married tomorrow, so she is.
18:07As soon as I saw it, I laughed.
18:11Me too.
18:11Because if he was going to make an effort
18:13to make that believable, that was the worst depiction,
18:19even if it was believable.
18:20I'd be like, yeah, no, bruh.
18:23Not that.
18:24That and that.
18:25No, ma'am.
18:26OK.
18:27Well, you know why he did it?
18:29It was terrible.
18:30Because Tisha's live with Carlos had me dying laughing.
18:33No lie told.
18:34No lie told.
18:36Did you and Tisha have a conversation with Marcel
18:38and Martell about it?
18:39Me and my husband did a live, and we absolutely
18:41discussed how we felt about it.
18:43I know.
18:44So if you want to know how I feel about it,
18:45I'm going to watch the live.
18:46I'm telling you.
18:47She's not going to create my story
18:48anymore for me.
18:49Yeah.
18:49I'm done with it.
18:50I think I was very direct and honest about how I felt,
18:54me and Marcel together on our IG page.
18:56I feel like I'm an open book.
18:58So I don't even know if Nail is being transparent.
19:01Like, there's some things going on in the streets about her
19:03that she don't speak on.
19:04And I'm not calling her out on it.
19:06Like, girl, do you.
19:08Speak on what you want to speak on.
19:10If we have a problem with somebody that's here,
19:13then we have to make sure we're talking to that person
19:15about it.
19:16And not talking, like, about it to other people,
19:18and then to get back to that person.
19:20I'm not holding a grudge with anyone at this point.
19:29I have released every damn thing.
19:32Now, do I may have a choice of words to say?
19:34Come here.
19:35Uh-oh.
19:36Yeah.
19:37But I'm good.
19:39If I have a problem with any of you all, you will know it.
19:43I'm not good at holding how I feel.
19:46I'm glad.
19:47OK.
19:48Because I was telling Kim, I was like,
19:49I don't know about the Fletchers.
19:53I don't know.
19:56Even with Chris, I told Marceau, I said,
19:58you need to talk to Chris.
19:59Because when Chris made that statement.
20:01That sound more like Maurice or some Marceau
20:04to sign an NDA.
20:06I cannot.
20:07That's my husband.
20:09I'm going to stay in.
20:10I'm going to stick by his side.
20:12Right.
20:13No, I get that.
20:14Because that's my significant other.
20:15But I cannot control everything that comes out of his
20:18Yeah.
20:19Out of his mouth.
20:20Right.
20:21Mm-hmm.
20:22Well, Maurice felt away.
20:23He felt away because he feels like he's been cool with Fletch.
20:26And even for information that is common knowledge, you know,
20:31you are speaking on your infidelity and that kind of thing.
20:34Maurice says he's never made a joke.
20:35He's never, like, put nothing out there.
20:37He's never said anything, like, on toward.
20:40So he kind of felt the way that his name was put in that.
20:45When Kimmy tells me that Maurice felt a certain way,
20:48that Fletcher made that statement,
20:50it did actually bother me.
20:53Because I don't have no ill will feelings towards Maurice.
20:57And I didn't think Fletcher does neither.
20:59So it's just something I have to speak with him about.
21:04Mm-hmm.
21:05I had no idea.
21:06Woo!
21:07Hopefully that's...
21:08Only girls have.
21:09That's in 2024.
21:10We're leaving it back there.
21:11Right.
21:122025 is a new year.
21:13So what are we gonna do next?
21:15Birthday party.
21:16To get all the girls together.
21:17Oh, yeah!
21:18I am having a Western-themed birthday party.
21:21You gonna come?
21:22Of course!
21:23You gonna come?
21:24Of course!
21:25Absolutely, absolutely.
21:26This is not my cowboy hat.
21:28It's got the little feather on there.
21:30It's a Western hat.
21:31I'm gonna have on a cowboy hat there.
21:33How about that?
21:37Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
21:39What are you gonna do when Marquez pops back up?
21:41You can't get away from this guy.
21:42Hey, so here's the thing.
21:43I'm not dealing with it.
21:44But you do, though.
21:45You guys keep trying to talk and then...
21:47No, no, no, it's not.
21:48I'm trying to cater to his emotions and his feelings
21:51and trying to...
21:52I'm almost treating him...
21:53Why?
21:54You ain't trying to marry him.
22:13I feel like it's really important that I talk to Jaylen.
22:16One of the things that you never want to do as a parent
22:18is disappoint your children.
22:20And I kind of want to get Jaylen's side of it.
22:22You know, gotten some feedback from Kimmy
22:24and it's, you know, concerning.
22:31How you been doing, man?
22:32Hey, man, chilling, working.
22:34That's what's up.
22:35Working, trying to get this rental property going
22:37on the side as well.
22:39How's it coming?
22:40It's coming along good.
22:42We got stuck with the...
22:43Dang.
22:44HVAC.
22:45So now I got somebody putting in the HVAC today.
22:48I'm actually supposed to be meeting up with them.
22:50How's the transition going?
22:52I know that you were talking about getting into cyber.
22:56Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
22:58Uh-huh.
22:59You know, I'm doing IT work now.
23:00Uh-huh.
23:01IT specialist.
23:02But I've been, you know, applying to a bunch of different jobs,
23:06you know.
23:07Mm-hmm.
23:08And one job actually reached back and said they wanted to do an interview.
23:14Mm-hmm.
23:15And the job is actually in Colorado.
23:18Yeah, Kimmy was telling me about it.
23:20She was like, you're really considering leaving.
23:24Yeah, man.
23:25Yeah.
23:26I kind of want something a little, a little new.
23:30I've been here my whole, my whole life.
23:32Mm-hmm.
23:33Been here with my mom my whole life.
23:35So trying to figure out, uh, I don't know, a new path.
23:41And you feel like leaving helped you do that?
23:44I don't know.
23:46I'm trying to figure out what's going to help.
23:48Uh-huh.
23:49Like, honestly.
23:50You know, figuring yourself out, that's important too, you know.
23:55I was even thinking about, um, because I talked to Kimmy about the family business.
24:01What was your thoughts about that?
24:04Uh, I was a little hesitant.
24:11Mm-hmm.
24:12Mm-hmm.
24:13I was a little, I was a little hesitant just because I feel like I've come to know the
24:20Scots very well.
24:21What does that mean, man?
24:22What does that mean?
24:23Both of y'all's tendencies are, especially, like, towards me, it's just like, hey, look,
24:29get out there and figure it out.
24:33Everybody has their hands in?
24:36Or is it going to be, like, Maurice at the top pointing to us, talking about, hey, look,
24:42handle this.
24:43I need you to pick Monster up, take him here so he can do this.
24:46This is...
24:47Take him here so he can do that.
24:49I don't think y'all give, well, not y'all, you give Monster the same leash.
25:00Or, uh, not leash.
25:02I can't think of a word.
25:03I know what you're saying.
25:04I know what you're saying.
25:05Like, the leniency.
25:06Yeah.
25:07Growing up, uh, when me and him were both in the house, you would always come ask me to
25:14do stuff.
25:15Mm-hmm.
25:16And I'm sitting here, like, your son's sitting right in there playing the video game just
25:21like I am.
25:22Like, I mean, I didn't really like that, you know, too much.
25:26Mm-hmm.
25:27You parent each child differently.
25:29Did it work?
25:31And right now, it seems like it worked.
25:34Did you feel a difference in love?
25:36Like, I love Monster more or differently than you?
25:39Well, I mean, of course.
25:41He's your son.
25:42I'm not your actual son.
25:45You're not?
25:46No, I'm saying I am.
25:48But you would have more love for your actual flesh and blood.
25:56This is the thing.
25:57When Kimmy told me that you said that Marceau was more of a father figure than I was, at
26:04first, it's like a kick in the stomach.
26:06Then you start thinking about, like, dang, man.
26:09As a parent, the whole time you're like, okay, if being too hard doesn't work, you want to loosen up some.
26:17Your formative years, parents are busy trying to make sure they get it right.
26:22Because they always want their children to do better than them.
26:27Where did I fail?
26:29You did help me, like, change the first toilet, change the first dishwasher, change the first tire.
26:39And so, I'm forever grateful for stuff like that.
26:43Mm-hmm.
26:44But you were more like a mentor to me.
26:46But as I got older, when I started working with Marceau, I kind of gravitated more for the father figure aspect.
26:56It wasn't mainly, like, you per se.
27:07It was definitely me trying to, you know, hide myself and not trying to, you know, I guess get hopes up.
27:17You were with my mom.
27:19I just chose not to, I guess, in a way, not to gravitate towards you because I didn't want to get, you know, I guess, attached.
27:29Disappointed if it didn't work out.
27:31This is the thing about children that you marry into and decide to be a parent to.
27:43They're actually your kid by choice.
27:45Yeah.
27:46Right?
27:47You actually choose that relationship.
27:49Mm-hmm.
27:50You choose that situation.
27:56Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
27:59I was actually talking to Jaylen.
28:01He came by.
28:02Did he actually fail?
28:03He's not asking me for help.
28:04He thinks of me like a dad.
28:29Yeah.
28:30What up?
28:31What up?
28:32What up?
28:33What brings you to this side of town?
28:34I'm over at my boy Will's shop to fill him in on all the craziness that's been going down.
28:39Hey, man.
28:40How's it going?
28:41How's it going?
28:42Get up in this town.
28:43Oh, yeah.
28:44This is members only, baby.
28:45Baby mama proof.
28:46Oh, baby mama proof.
28:47I invited Chris Fletcher over because, one, I want him to get to know Will.
28:51You know, Will's my boy.
28:52And I kind of wanted to get some feedback from somebody who's, you know, outside of the situation,
28:57not too aware of what goes on and within my family dynamic.
29:01And Chris is a lot older and he's been through, you know, a 30 plus year marriage.
29:06And I think he can give me some good insight on my relationship.
29:09We're going to get you in the gym one day, right?
29:11Uh, hey, I don't mind.
29:12I'll get in the gym.
29:13Let's do it.
29:14I heard you painted it.
29:15No, Lance.
29:16That was my son.
29:17Yeah, yeah, yeah.
29:18Oh, your son.
29:19He did a great job.
29:20Yeah, it was nice.
29:21Tell him he did his thing.
29:22Yeah.
29:23It looks good.
29:24Well, that's good, man.
29:25It looks good.
29:26Like, I literally hit him up on, like, and I think within a couple days he had my gym painted.
29:31Like that?
29:32Yeah, it was like that.
29:33That's good.
29:34I wish he could do that for his mama.
29:36Hey, I mean, I guess when money talk, you know.
29:38Yeah.
29:39You move.
29:40Money's still talking.
29:41Money talking over here, too.
29:43He seem to be able to get everybody else's done.
29:46Oh, man.
29:47We're not going to get on.
29:48We're not going to get on my boy.
29:49I feel good.
29:50You know what I'm saying?
29:51You ain't the only one.
29:53He gets everybody else's done, but getting his mama's tasks done.
29:57Listen.
29:58He good, though.
29:59Yeah?
30:00Yeah, oh.
30:01He definitely got me together.
30:02We definitely needed a gym for a more mental stimulation, too, because, man, Buddy's not
30:08making this situation any tougher.
30:10I mean, what's going on, man?
30:12Marquez walked in my house, and Marquez just decides because, you know, I'm bringing
30:18my daughter home, and me and Ken cool now, I can just walk in his house.
30:23Maybe your daughter walked in.
30:24Maybe the daughter walked in with her.
30:25Right, right.
30:26He just walked in with her.
30:27What'd you do when he walked in the house?
30:28I wasn't there.
30:29I was actually on the road.
30:30Oh.
30:31Who?
30:32So it was just Trish then?
30:33It was Trish and her friend.
30:34Ah.
30:35You know, him and Trish and Sharon done got into it, and they done had all this big fallout.
30:40I invite him over again because I'm like, hey, dude, we need to have a conversation.
30:44Okay.
30:45Y'all know I'm the most gentlest big person you probably know.
30:50Like, I will literally give somebody a million chances to poke me before I actually wake up.
30:56And it's like, dude, it's like you're constantly trying to, I think you're playing on my niceness.
31:02You're playing on the kindness now because, oh, Ken, he's soft.
31:05He ain't gonna do nothing.
31:07Well, no matter how you look at anything else, this is my home, and you have to respect me
31:12and everybody inside this home.
31:15So I stand up, and I'm like, hey, boy, just go.
31:18Get out of my house.
31:19He don't move.
31:20He's still da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da.
31:22So I'm like, dude, I'm getting more and more pissed off.
31:26And then, like, it kind of feels good.
31:31Oh.
31:32So I'm like, man, I told you to get out of my house.
31:34Once you put him out the door, what happened after that?
31:37We haven't heard from him.
31:38What are you gonna do when Marquez pops back up?
31:40Because he gotta pop back up.
31:41So you can't get away from this guy.
31:43So here's the thing.
31:44I'm not dealing with him.
31:45But you do, though.
31:46You guys keep trying to talk, and then you get upset.
31:48No, no, no, it's not.
31:49I'm trying to cater to his emotions and his feelings and trying to...
31:52Why?
31:53You ain't trying to marry him.
31:55Why deal with what you're dealing with going through what you're going through?
32:01Because that's the only way we can go to the next step.
32:03Exactly.
32:04But it's not her hindering it.
32:05It's him hindering it.
32:06And most people move on first, and then they get divorced.
32:09Because it's just typically how the situation goes.
32:11But it don't generally take seven, eight years, though.
32:13We have no issues outside of Marquez.
32:17Since Marquez hasn't been around since the incident, bro, we've been perfectly fine.
32:21We have no issues.
32:22Everybody's happy.
32:23We don't argue.
32:24Like, I've done all the things that I'm supposed to do to take care of that family
32:28and make sure I put my family in the best position possible.
32:31You think this whole thing is just a challenge to you?
32:33That's why you don't leave?
32:34You trying to figure out how to solve this puzzle?
32:36No, because I...
32:37You just won't let the puzzle go?
32:38To be honest with you, I haven't been trying to solve it.
32:40I just now recently...
32:41Yes, you have.
32:42You just been telling me this whole time.
32:43Yes, you have.
32:44Literally, as you've been saying, this whole...
32:45Everything you've been saying...
32:46You know what I'm saying?
32:47In the beginning, I didn't give a to try to make it work.
32:49But when I saw that it was a fake...
32:50Once he started coming...
32:51Man, y'all have to understand.
32:52I didn't have to do it because he wasn't around.
32:55I don't know why y'all don't understand that.
32:56He wasn't around for me to have to do it.
32:57I'm not talking about just him.
32:58I'm talking about everything is a puzzle.
33:00Everything, the puzzle...
33:01I mean, that's life, that's relationship, that's everybody.
33:04You don't think that this whole puzzle...
33:05Because this is a very, very difficult puzzle right here.
33:08You don't think you just accept taking it as a challenge, and I'm gonna figure this
33:11out.
33:12No, challenge is just life.
33:13Your life going...
33:14You got puzzle pieces that you gotta...
33:15Everybody goes through it.
33:16Yeah, but sometimes you gotta...
33:17Well, I'm supposed to wake up one day and be like, damn.
33:19Nah, sometimes you gotta put the puzzle back in the box and get another puzzle.
33:22Yeah, but that's if the puzzle is not mentally put together.
33:26Maybe the puzzle don't have all the pieces.
33:28You know, ours does.
33:29You know, it's an extra piece, and it's Marquez that don't need to be there.
33:33That's the problem.
33:34He just don't need to be there.
33:35If he's not gonna do right, what is his purpose?
33:37Outside of him, we don't have a problem.
33:40From what I can see, when I lay it all out, and I bounce it all out, it's not really easy.
33:47So at this point, it kind of becomes your fault.
33:53Sometimes people don't know how to see themselves out of an uncomfortable situation.
33:57You get used to it.
33:58But that's where...
33:59That's where...
34:00You're just kind of stuck.
34:01But this ain't my first time seeing you beat the punching bag though, bro.
34:03You tend to put up with a whole lot of , dog.
34:06And I feel like I'll be wondering, like, why are you so...
34:10in being that guy?
34:11Like, I'm just gonna take it.
34:12At some point, I'm just...
34:13It's gonna be, hey, one, two, three.
34:16Right.
34:17Or get as far away from my can and just breathe.
34:20You know what I'm saying?
34:21I'm not with Trisha because I love her.
34:22And I know that the things that we have put in place are going to work.
34:26It's just him.
34:27What would you do if you was in this situation?
34:30The whole situation?
34:32This whole situation?
34:34Trish would have been a thing of the past.
34:37From my conversation with Jalen, I learned that he feels that he was treated differently than monster.
34:54From my conversation with Jalen, I learned that he feels that he was treated differently
35:05than a monster.
35:06I want to have a conversation with Maurice about this because it's a very concerning
35:11thing as a father.
35:12You know, you're not going to be perfect, but you definitely don't want your children
35:17to feel that you favored one over the other.
35:19How them kids doing?
35:21They just got his National Honor Society information.
35:26I know.
35:27I was so proud.
35:28That's my little honey bunny boy.
35:29Can I update my...
35:30He's almost now I can update my application with Michigan.
35:32I said, you sure can update all the applications.
35:35Has it not heard from Michigan yet?
35:37No, girl.
35:38It got pushed back.
35:39That's a shoe in, ain't it?
35:40I believe because of everything that's dealing with the whole DEI situation.
35:45I feel like that's...
35:46Really?
35:47Yeah.
35:48This is a little merit-based thing.
35:51Well, first of all, he's merit-based.
35:53But everybody wants a...
35:54DEI is just an idea to say, oh, the Negroes are ruining the country.
35:59And personally, I don't care if they think that.
36:01They cannot accept anybody to anything in the world.
36:03That's why we even started to come back through.
36:05That's true.
36:06Because we don't need that.
36:07And if you think you can go it alone, go it alone.
36:10It's working the system so that we can provide those things for people
36:13instead of having to depend on the government to provide them.
36:15That's bottom line.
36:16So, Jalen came by the office the other day.
36:21And I was walking with him, and we were talking about construction.
36:24Did he ask you for help?
36:26Um, he's not asking me for help.
36:28He asked me for a contractor.
36:29Do I know this guy and stuff like that?
36:30But he knows.
36:31But our relationship is different.
36:33I look at you like a father figure.
36:37So, what do you consider Reese?
36:39I consider him more like a big brother.
36:43The other part of it is me and Monster are treated a little bit differently.
36:49Monster, you just can do no wrong.
36:54He's like, you know, he knows that I'm in this business.
36:57I mean, he used to work at Skolt.
36:59No, his relationship is different because he thinks of you like a dad.
37:03No, Moise, he had his conversation with me, by the way.
37:08He didn't say I think of you as a dad.
37:11He said a father figure.
37:12He said he's a father figure.
37:14Yeah, but I'm saying, well, a father figure is kind of like a dad, right?
37:17I think a father figure is a little different than a dad.
37:22At the end of the day, I just, I don't know, it's kind of a little concerned.
37:26He was talking about you guys working together?
37:28Yeah, yeah.
37:29We were talking about a family business.
37:31Who's we?
37:32Me, Kimmy.
37:33I wanted Jalen and Monster in there, too.
37:36Yeah, the Jalen and Monster thing.
37:39Yeah, that's, that's, that's what you're talking about?
37:42It's concerning?
37:43That, yeah, a little bit.
37:45I'm not sure why Marceau was bringing up this whole, you know, family business and Jalen and those concerns, considering that I talked to Jalen and I think we had a pretty good conversation.
37:55He kind of knows where I stand.
37:56Jalen was like, he felt like I was harder on him than I am on Monster.
38:00I'm not treating you differently because you're a child that I chose to father, right?
38:08I'm saying that at the end of the day, Jalen, I'm treating you differently because the way we grew up, it was like the older kids were like next in line as far as parents are concerned.
38:18And we also know younger siblings, they look up to the older siblings.
38:22So, of course, I'm going to treat you differently than I treat Monster as he's coming along.
38:27Growing up, there was a hierarchy in our family and it meant something that your older brothers or older sisters, they were like the parents when the parents were gone.
38:38And there's a level of expectation that you get from that next level.
38:43I think that Jalen was an excellently raised child.
38:47You don't give correction until correction is needed.
38:53So, if I'm giving Jalen correction, that's probably when he's feeling like, you know what, now he's coming down on me or whatever.
39:02Maurice and I have had these conversations, I felt like he treated Jalen different too.
39:08And I told him that before Monster ever even got here.
39:13I said, let's see when Monster gets here if you're going to do this same kind of thing, you know, because he seemed harder on him.
39:19And I think when you're blending a family, when you're getting to know each other, I think that was hard for Jalen.
39:24I mean, I think people gravitate to people that they feel like they like him.
39:28And I think that he felt like Marcel actually liked him more. He talked to him.
39:34He didn't seem like he was always getting in trouble or fussed at or something.
39:39Well, Jalen.
39:40Maurice, if you're going to start your sentence off after we say something with a but, I think that you're defending your position.
39:46No, you didn't even hear what I said.
39:48I know, but you started off with a but.
39:49Okay, what was I going to say then?
39:50I know, I don't know what you're going to say, but what I'm just going to say is that it's hard enough as it is to talk to you sometimes.
39:56I'm delivering information to you. I think that that is concerning, right? Because I know you don't want this.
40:03I grew up with the golden child and Jalen sees monster as the golden child 2.0.
40:09Dang.
40:10So I understand it.
40:11I don't even know where you're getting this from.
40:13You sound like Chris Fletcher.
40:15You sound pathetic.
40:16You know what you can do? You can tell me the truth.
40:18What, you saying lying?
40:20Oh yeah, you do lie. It's all the time.
40:26Next on Love and Maritonsville.
40:30The more and more we talk about it, it doesn't sound like a family thing. It sounds like a dictatorship.
40:39I felt like the other day at the dinner, Letitia Scott was very standoffish when I asked her about Martell saying something about you all's husband.
40:48And maybe that was a touchy situation.
40:49I don't know. A of mine is touchy, but I talk about it. Everyone is not going to be trustworthy, but who knows?
40:54We shall soon find out at my party.
41:04I feel like you two are not transparent.
41:06I'm very transparent about my life.
41:08I felt like you just blew me off.
41:09But you must be transparent about your infidelity.
41:12It's been coming to me. My guy, Fletch, has been going around saying, Maurice and Martell told Martell to get chicks to sign NDA.
41:22Oh, no, no. You got the whole story rolling.
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