Love & Marriage Huntsville Season 10 Episode 3

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00:00Previously on Love and Marriage Huntsville.

00:03While Nell was ragtagging me in LA,

00:06she know that boy had a baby on the way.

00:07Would you be open to having Destiny as a daughter-in-law?

00:11I can't honestly say that I feel that way now.

00:13If you want her there, I need to assess our relationship

00:16going forward.

00:17I told Trisha that I might try to have

00:19another conversation with my kids.

00:20Bruh, I have one conversation, then I

00:23start talking with Dee.

00:24Is the divorce final?

00:26Everything?

00:27Hold on a second.

00:29What we?

00:30I literally came and dropped my daughter off.

00:31I don't know what's going on.

00:33The day that I came over, it's automatic hostility.

00:35You came into my house uninvited.

00:38I called the courthouse.

00:40They said we waiting for a court date,

00:41because obviously you put on there

00:42and said we had no minor choice.

00:43Bruh, that's a lie, bruh.

00:44Look, it says it right there.

00:46Hey, stop playing.

00:47Relax, bruh.

00:48Hey, Marquez, sit down.

00:49Just sit down.

00:50Or you're going to get the out.

00:53We keep it moving all day, all night, yeah.

00:59Ain't no stopping us.

01:00Drop that.

01:01We ain't stopping.

01:04You know, you know.

01:07We keep it moving all day, all night, yeah.

01:16Yeah.

01:17All day, all night, yeah.

01:20Ain't no stopping us.

01:23Yeah.

01:28Are you going to get out?

01:29I'll put you out.

01:30It's black and white.

01:31We can do it that way.

01:32Are we moving forward?

01:33That's right.

01:33We can't move forward.

01:34We're going to get behind.

01:35What did you say, dude?

01:36Worst of all, you were displeveled by walking in my house.

01:38Ken, come on.

01:39Are we moving forward tonight?

01:40You just did it again.

01:41Hey, y'all better, bro.

01:42Y'all better do what?

01:43Better do what?

01:44Get out.

01:45Get out.

01:45Get out of here.

01:46This is going to be dangerous.

01:47Get it.

01:48Get it.

01:49Get it.

01:50Get it.

01:51Stop.

01:52Oh, my gosh.

01:54Y'all got me up.

01:56You told me so.

01:59Because that's exactly what happened.

02:00You definitely told me that it would happen.

02:02Yeah.

02:03I didn't want to believe it.

02:04I thought that I could be super saver and make things,

02:09you know, work.

02:10But it bit me.

02:11I told you it's only going to last so long.

02:12It bit me an ass.

02:13Definitely.

02:14I don't give a what y'all do.

02:15Don't keep being disrespectful.

02:16Make me be the bad guy you want.

02:17I better not talk, chat, interact like good old friends.

02:18Oh, you know we're not right when you close my mind.

02:21Hello?

02:22Hey, T.

02:23Hey, girl.

02:24How are you?

02:25I'm good.

02:26You had a break.

02:27You had a break.

02:28I'm good.

02:29You had a break.

02:30I'm good.

02:31You had a break.

02:32I'm good.

02:33I'm good.

02:34You had a break.

02:35I'm good.

02:36I'm good.

02:37I'm good.

02:38I'm good.

02:39I'm good.

02:40I'm good.

02:41I'm good.

02:42I'm good.

02:43I'm good.

02:44You had a busy week?

02:45Girl, yes.

02:46Long have mercy.

02:47And I'm going to try to work on some numbers right now.

02:50Um, listen, I wanted to try to get everybody together, like the ladies anyway, not, you

02:55know, the dudes right now.

02:57Okay, I'm down.

02:58Just send me the information.

02:59I'll be there.

03:00Okay.

03:01Okay, sounds good.

03:02Thanks, dear.

03:03This is my annual effort at gathering the ladies and kind of do a check-in, do a temperature

03:08check.

03:09We haven't seen each other since we were in LA.

03:11And the streets say that these women got a lot going on.

03:16And now that that's in order, it's date night with the hubby.

03:20Got us some blankets.

03:22Thank y'all.

03:23Just in case.

03:24We're going to have fire.

03:25No, it's not going to be just in case.

03:27It's going to be for sure.

03:28What you made?

03:29I made some tea.

03:30Because I don't want to be cold.

03:33You know what?

03:37We're going to do some date nighting around the fire.

03:41I like it.

03:42Yeah.

03:43But all we have is tea, though.

03:46Yeah, I just made tea.

03:48I didn't make nothing but tea.

03:50Oh, word.

03:51Nothing but tea.

03:52Oh, this one I brought for you.

03:53Oh, thank you, sweetie.

03:54It's hot.

03:55It don't feel like that.

03:56Okay.

03:57It might be cold out here.

03:58Then the hot tea will help.

04:00Did you have a good day?

04:01Yeah, man.

04:02It's busy.

04:03Grinding.

04:04Grinding.

04:05A lot of work.

04:06A little bit of time.

04:07I know.

04:08I did run by Jaylen's house, though.

04:10You did?

04:11Mm-hmm.

04:12I haven't been over there just kind of chilling in a while.

04:14Mm-hmm.

04:15I told him, I said, you're like my bestie,

04:17like my little friend.

04:18You know what I'm saying?

04:19Like, our relationship changed a lot after college.

04:23Mm-hmm.

04:24Listen, I was telling Jaylen about us doing business together

04:27and the family business, me, you, Monster, and him.

04:31Mm-hmm.

04:32And you know, the kids got reservations.

04:37Yes, Maurice.

04:38Why?

04:39Because you do this whole dictator type thing.

04:42Y'all don't even want to work with me because of rule.

04:45No, it's not.

04:46It's because you talk a lot.

04:47Oh, that's what it is.

04:48Yeah.

04:49Oh, okay.

04:50Work little, talk lot.

04:52Nobody wants that.

04:53We want hands on and get the work done kind of thing.

04:56That's it.

04:58Yeah.

04:59And so I was talking to Jaylen about that and he felt like,

05:03um, you know, there were maybe some missteps.

05:06As far as him growing up with father figures.

05:12He said he didn't really look at you like a father figure.

05:17He just never felt like a father figure.

05:20It was always more just the homie.

05:24He never made me feel like, you know, a son.

05:30As the years went on, I kind of looked at Marcel as like the father figure.

05:37I can tell that.

05:38He said he felt his relationship with you was more homeboy, like mentor, homeboy.

05:45He actually said he looked to Marcel more of a father figure than you.

05:54The fact that Jaylen said that he looked up more to Marcel as a father figure,

05:58you know, felt like a little gut punch.

06:00I think that no parent wants to hear, um,

06:02that they're not doing as well as they think that they should be.

06:08I would have liked to have that kind of impact on Jaylen.

06:12Yeah.

06:13I don't want it to ever feel like I don't adore you as a human.

06:19And I don't want the best for you emotionally, spiritually, physically, financially.

06:23Right.

06:25And I want you to chase, you know, chase your dreams too.

06:30I want to talk to Jaylen.

06:37Oh, look at you getting dinner right there.

06:40Well, we're going to eat some wings.

06:41I'm cheating today.

06:42Oh, well, I guess, I guess we're both cheating.

06:43Oh, they got one on the ground.

06:45Oh, we're not going to worry about that.

06:46So, um, how was class?

06:47Class was actually interesting.

06:48We have a lot to cover and a lot of work that I need you to do.

06:52Oh.

06:53We talked about you spiffing up some things at the daycare center for us.

06:54OK.

06:55So we can get these four stars.

06:58Oh, we talked about you spiffing up some things at the daycare center for us.

07:01They got one on the ground.

07:03We're not going to worry about that.

07:05So how was class?

07:07Class was actually interesting.

07:10We have a lot to cover and a lot of work

07:14that I need you to do.

07:16Oh.

07:17We talked about you spiffing up some things

07:19at the daycare center for us so we can get these four stars.

07:24Oh, we need the stars now.

07:26Yes.

07:27We need to get that certification going for the daycare.

07:29That would be excellent.

07:30Well, right now we have a real estate company.

07:32We also have a daycare center, Growing Smiles.

07:35And we do have a cleaning company, Crystal Clear Cleaning.

07:37So I've been taking classes for my quality stars

07:40for the daycare, for Growing Smiles.

07:42With having quality stars, the more stars you receive,

07:45the more funding you receive.

07:47I have to take this serious.

07:49Gotcha.

07:50There's like money involved in it.

07:53And then, of course, you know, it's very educational

07:55for the kids as well.

07:58Sounds great.

07:59A wrap?

08:00Yep.

08:00Sounds great.

08:02So what else is going on?

08:03What else you get done today?

08:06She mean, like, call me.

08:09Called you for what?

08:10To ask me out.

08:12Like she said, we hadn't talked.

08:13We need to catch up.

08:14Actually, probably being like the girls,

08:16because I really don't talk to no one.

08:20You haven't talked to Leticia?

08:21I have not talked to Leticia.

08:22She was really quiet in LA.

08:24She was very quiet.

08:26I want to know where we stand.

08:28Like you've spoken with Destiny?

08:30She called.

08:32And I want to say, I do think Destiny missed me.

08:35Called you Miss Nell?

08:36Because I'm Miss Nell, of course.

08:39And I'm very level-headed when it comes to other people's

08:41problems.

08:42I have counseled Destiny.

08:46Long conversations, long sit down.

08:49I spent a lot of time with her.

08:51So when she made the statement, I

08:53got to reevaluate our friendship.

08:54I do not like what Sonny did.

08:58But I have to judge for myself.

09:00If you want her there, I understand.

09:03But for me now, I need to assess our relationship

09:06going forward.

09:09What you reevaluating, boo?

09:11I've been there for you too.

09:13All because I invited Sonny to a bachelorette party?

09:19Or was it really because of your relationship with Lance?

09:22I don't know.

09:23My relationship with Destiny right now is kind of shaky.

09:27This is the reason why I did not want Destiny

09:30to get involved with our son Lance.

09:35We don't do size.

09:36That's my son.

09:38You've been just as wrong as he is.

09:41It is what it is.

09:42If she feel like she got to reevaluate her friendship,

09:46then hell, I can reevaluate mine.

09:48Do you think I should say something to her?

09:51Because I was planning on saying something to her.

09:54Well, I mean, if she's asking you to come out with the girls,

09:59and this, that, and the other, and you feel like you need to pull it to the side

10:02and ask her about it, then, yeah, I would love to hear her response.

10:06Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.

10:12We all had a sit down.

10:13You, Ken, and Marquez.

10:15And my friend.

10:16So, Ken started getting mad.

10:17And next thing I know, they got to touch them.

10:19Are you serious?

10:20What?

10:21What the hell?

10:22Did you feel a difference in love?

10:25Like, I love Monster more or differently than you?

10:28Well, I mean, of course.

10:30He's your son.

10:31I'm not your actual son.

10:52Hey, beautiful, how are you?

10:56Fine.

10:58I think I have a table for what?

11:00I like to eat.

11:02Everybody knows that.

11:03I decided to gather up the ladies.

11:10Hey, girl.

11:11Smoke.

11:12Hey, you.

11:13Hey, son.

11:14So this whole dinner is two-fold because I kind of want to hang out with the ladies,

11:19get the download, but I really kind of want to get to know Trisha and Elle better.

11:28Hey, sweetie.

11:30Of course, I invited Destiny because I wanted all of the ladies to get together and download.

11:37But Destiny's out in those TikTok streets.

11:40She couldn't make it.

11:42Look at y'all looking all six.

11:44Hello, country girl.

11:46Hi.

11:46I see you coming.

11:48Y'all looking all six.

11:50No, it's not a queen.

11:51Give me a little squeeze, actually.

11:52How are you?

11:53How are you doing, beautiful?

11:54Austin, awesome.

11:55It looks just like it.

11:56Yes, yes.

11:57Yes.

11:58Uh-uh.

11:59You got your boots on?

12:01No.

12:02I got on some boots, but that's some regular boots.

12:04I'm glad all of y'all came.

12:06Well, I'm glad you invited me.

12:07And it was pleasant calling everybody.

12:10Like, literally, I called now.

12:11She said, hey!

12:12I was like, I need to call more often if I'm gonna get that kind of recognition.

12:19And so I wanted us to be able to kind of talk about how we get to know each other better,

12:24what that looks like.

12:25I think just being around each other more.

12:27I think that's how you get to know each other a little bit better.

12:30Mm-hmm.

12:31I definitely feel like I need to grow my relationship with the ladies.

12:35We're not really transparent.

12:36We always have that block of we're only gonna go so far and getting each other's opinions and

12:42just venting to each other.

12:43So Ken and Marquez been on this, um, friendship thing.

12:48Oh, that's good.

12:49Well, no.

12:50Let me tell you the beginning of it.

12:52So he came to the, he brought Zari to the house and he walked straight in the house.

12:58That's disrespectful.

12:59So we all had a sit down.

13:01You Ken and Marquez.

13:03And my friend.

13:03So then he started talking about the divorce papers and how I didn't have the kids on there.

13:08And that's why he contested it.

13:09So, well, they got the papers, brought it to him.

13:12And he started getting mad and disrespectful after that.

13:14Just like going crazy.

13:15So, everybody.

13:17So Ken started getting mad.

13:18And next thing I know, they got to touch them.

13:20Are you serious?

13:21What?

13:22What the hell?

13:23I hate that for y'all.

13:24The little.

13:25Well.

13:26That just like set you back like 10 steps when you're trying to make friends.

13:29It was.

13:30That's a lot.

13:31Right.

13:31Well, I don't have like a bunch of drama in my house.

13:33But I did find out one thing.

13:36Jaylen told me that he felt like his relationship with Maurice was more of a

13:41homey like mentor relationship.

13:44He actually said he felt like Marceau was more of a father figure to him.

13:48A father figure?

13:49For what?

13:50Maybe because he worked with Marceau.

13:51He worked with Marceau at Monaco.

13:53He worked with Marceau at Black.

13:55He's had more time.

13:56One-on-one time with Marceau.

13:58And I mean, Marceau be like Jaylen's his oldest son.

14:01You know he does that too.

14:02I feel like Marceau felt the way.

14:04But Marceau is very hands-off.

14:07Like he is very hands-off.

14:10And so I think Jaylen in that time of his life, he gravitated to people who gravitated to him.

14:17It was a tough conversation.

14:18Jaylen and Kimmy, they was together for so long just the two of them.

14:22So with Marce coming in, Jaylen has to also embrace Marce as a father.

14:29So he can have those conversations with Marce and not just have it with Kimmy.

14:33And Kimmy related to Marce.

14:35I think that as comfortable as Jaylen is talking to Kimmy,

14:38he also should be comfortable talking to Marce as well.

14:41You did stress in LA.

14:43You didn't hang out with us at all.

14:44Not this year.

14:45You sure I did.

14:46I didn't really have a chance.

14:47You know, normally we don't leave early.

14:49We hang out with everyone.

14:51Lance had mentioned wanting to hang out with Kim.

14:54But he had got a call saying he needed to get back.

14:58He had a baby on the way in labor.

15:00I saw that on social media.

15:02Me too.

15:03We all did.

15:04It was like, what the hell?

15:07Oh my god.

15:07That's when you found out?

15:09While you were in LA?

15:10Yeah.

15:11So you didn't know before him.

15:14So he didn't know she was pregnant the whole time frame either?

15:19So she didn't tell him.

15:22I mean, he's dealt with her for what, five years?

15:25Oh.

15:27So he spun the block.

15:30Chris had a baby too.

15:31Yeah.

15:31At the same time.

15:33So you got two great kids at the same time?

15:34I have two.

15:35At the same time.

15:36Well, I don't have them at the same time.

15:38We're like a month.

15:41They're five months apart.

15:43Wow.

15:44How are you feeling about everything?

15:45How are you doing?

15:48I'm doing better.

15:49At first, it took a toll on me.

15:52Yeah.

15:52I can imagine.

15:53That's a lot.

15:54I'm putting on the table because when I saw that on social media,

15:57I would side-eye you.

15:58I was like, not Neil having him and Destiny dating.

16:01He had a whole girl pregnant the whole time.

16:05No, I didn't know.

16:06Even though he didn't have nothing to do with me.

16:08OK.

16:08Because I can't tell him who's going to work with.

16:09Right, right, right.

16:10But I was like, you was for him and Destiny dating.

16:13That's what's between him and Destiny.

16:15Letitia felt like you were for the relationship.

16:18Yeah, with him and Destiny.

16:20For him and Destiny?

16:21At first, I was.

16:23I was at first.

16:24And then once you found out he was having a baby,

16:25you changed your mind?

16:28It was before the baby.

16:29Wow, what happened?

16:30I think me and Destiny kind of had on with it.

16:33Some things we went through.

16:34And it was like, uh-uh, red flag for me.

16:38So, yeah.

16:40So I thought I was coming to a girl's dinner.

16:42But Letitia Scott Esquire seems to have a lot of questions tonight.

16:47So we got a lot for her, too.

16:49Kimmy and Letitia.

16:51Mm-hmm.

16:51So how do you two ladies feel about what Martell said?

16:57About your husbands.

17:01And envy.

17:06Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.

17:08Did you feel a difference in love?

17:10Like, I love Monster Moor.

17:11Uh-uh.

17:14If I have a problem with any of you all, you will know it.

17:17OK.

17:18Because I was telling Kim, I was like,

17:20I don't know about the flexions.

17:24So how do you two ladies feel about what Martell said

17:28about your husbands in the interview?

17:37How'd you feel about it?

17:38How did I feel about it?

17:40Mm-hmm.

17:42I was blown back.

17:43Me, too.

17:44I was like, whoa, that's a lot.

17:46I ain't gonna lie.

17:48You mentioned to the whole thing?

17:48I said, me neither.

17:49I said, this ain't the fakest ghettos,

17:51backwoods-looking I've ever seen in my damn life.

17:55So I feel like Latisha is deflecting,

17:58trying to take the heat off of her,

18:00asking me how I feel.

18:03It really wasn't no way for me to feel.

18:05I'm not married tomorrow, so she is.

18:07As soon as I saw it,

18:10I laughed.

18:10Me, too.

18:11Because if he was gonna make an effort

18:13to make that believable,

18:16that was the worst depiction.

18:18Even if it was believable,

18:20I'd be like, yeah, no, bruh.

18:23Not that.

18:24That and that.

18:25No, ma'am.

18:26Okay.

18:27Well, you know why he did it?

18:29It wasn't terrible.

18:29Because Tisha's lying with Carlos

18:31had me dying laughing.

18:33No lie told.

18:34No lie told.

18:36Did you and Tisha have a conversation

18:37with Marcel and Martell about it?

18:38Me and my husband did a live,

18:40and we absolutely discussed

18:42how we felt about it.

18:43I know.

18:43So if you wanna know how I feel,

18:44while they're gonna watch the live,

18:45keep telling me.

18:47She's not gonna create my story

18:48anymore for me.

18:49So, yeah, I'm done with it.

18:50I think I was very direct

18:52and honest about how I felt,

18:54me and Marcel together,

18:55on our IG page.

18:56I feel like I'm an open book.

18:58So, I don't even know

18:59if Nail is being transparent.

19:01Like, there's some things

19:02going on in the streets

19:03about her that she don't speak on,

19:05and I'm not calling her out on it.

19:07Like, girl, do you.

19:08Speak on what you wanna speak on.

19:11If we have a problem

19:12with somebody that's here,

19:14then we have to make sure

19:14we're talking to that person

19:16about it and not talking, like,

19:17about it to other people

19:19and then to get back to that person.

19:21I agree.

19:22Me too, Hale.

19:23You said, me too, Hale?

19:24Me too, Hale.

19:25She's so funny.

19:26I'm not holding a grudge

19:28with anyone at this point.

19:30I have released every damn thing.

19:32Now, do I may have a choice

19:33of words to say?

19:34Come here for a moment.

19:36Uh-oh.

19:37Of course, of course.

19:38But I'm good.

19:39If I have a problem

19:41with any of you all,

19:42you will know it.

19:43I'm not good at holding

19:45how I feel.

19:46I'm glad.

19:47OK.

19:48Because I was telling Kim,

19:49I was like,

19:50I don't know about the flexors.

19:53I don't know.

19:56If even with Chris,

19:58I told Marceau,

19:58I said, you need to talk to Chris.

20:00Because when Chris made

20:01that statement...

20:02That sound more like Maurice

20:04or some Marceau

20:04to sign an NDA.

20:06I cannot...

20:08That's my husband.

20:09I'm gonna stay in...

20:11I'm gonna stick by his side.

20:12Right.

20:13No, I get that.

20:13That's my significant other.

20:15But I cannot control everything

20:17that comes out of his mouth.

20:19Right.

20:20Well, Maurice felt the way.

20:22He felt the way

20:24because he feels like

20:25he's been cool with Fletch.

20:26And even for information

20:28that is common knowledge,

20:31you know, you are speaking

20:33on your infidelity

20:34and that kind of thing.

20:35Maurice says he's never made a joke.

20:36He's never, like,

20:37put nothing out there.

20:38He's never said anything,

20:39like, on toward.

20:41So he...

20:42He kind of felt the way

20:44that his name was put in that.

20:46When Kimmy tells me

20:47that Maurice felt a certain way

20:49that Fletcher made that statement,

20:51it did actually bother me

20:54because I don't have

20:56no ill-will feelings

20:57towards Maurice.

20:58And I didn't think

20:59Fletcher does neither.

21:00So it's just something

21:02I have to speak with him about.

21:03Mm-hmm.

21:05I had no idea.

21:06Woo!

21:07Hopefully that's...

21:08Only girls have.

21:09That's in 2024.

21:10We're leaving it back there.

21:11We're leaving the back of this year.

21:13So what are we gonna do next?

21:16To get all the girls together.

21:17Oh, yeah!

21:19I am having a Western-themed

21:21birthday party.

21:22You gonna come?

21:23I'll get the wedding?

21:24Of course!

21:24Do you want me to come?

21:25Absolutely, absolutely.

21:27This is not my cowboy hat.

21:29It's a Western hat.

21:32I'm having a cowgirl hat there.

21:38Coming up on

21:39Love & Marriage Huntsville.

21:40What are you gonna do

21:41when Marquette's pops back up?

21:42You can't get away from this guy.

21:43So here's the thing.

21:45I'm not dealing with it.

21:46But you do, though.

21:47You guys keep trying to talk

21:48and then...

21:48No, no, no, it's not.

21:49I'm trying to cater to his emotions

21:51and his feelings

21:52and trying to...

21:52I'm almost treating him.

21:53You ain't trying to marry him.

21:55I feel like it's really important

22:15that I talk to Jalen.

22:16One of the things that you never want to do

22:18as a parent is disappoint your children.

22:20And I kind of want to get Jalen's side of it.

22:23You know, gotten some feedback from Kimmy

22:25and it's, you know, concerning.

22:31How you been doing, man?

22:32Hey, man, chilling, working.

22:34That's what's up.

22:35Working, trying to get this rental property going

22:38on the side as well.

22:39How's it coming?

22:40It's coming along good.

22:42We got stuck with the...

22:43Dang.

22:45HVAC.

22:46And so now I got somebody putting in the HVAC today.

22:49I'm actually supposed to be meeting up with them.

22:51How's the transition going?

22:53I know that you were talking about getting into cyber.

22:57Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

22:59You know, I'm doing IT work now.

23:02IT specialist.

23:03But I've been, you know, applying to a bunch of different jobs,

23:07you know, and one job actually reached back

23:11and said they wanted to do an interview.

23:15And the job is actually in Colorado.

23:19Yeah, Kimmy was telling me about it.

23:21She was like, you're really considering leaving?

23:25Yeah, man, yeah.

23:27I kind of want something a little, a little new.

23:31I've been here my whole, my whole life.

23:34Been here with my mom my whole life.

23:35So trying to figure out, uh, I don't know, a new path.

23:42And you feel like leaving helps you do that?

23:46I don't know.

23:47I'm trying to figure out what's going to help, like, honestly.

23:50You know, figuring yourself out, that's important too, you know.

23:56I was even thinking about, um,

23:59because I talked to Kimmy about the family business.

24:01What was your thoughts about that?

24:03Uh, I was a little hesitant.

24:13I was a little, I was a little hesitant just because I feel like I've come to know

24:20the Scots very well.

24:21What does that mean, man?

24:23What does that mean?

24:24Both of y'all's tendencies are, especially like towards me, it's just like, hey, look,

24:30get out there and figure it out.

24:32Everybody has their hands in?

24:36Or is it going to be like Maurice at the top, pointing to us, talking about, hey, look,

24:42handle this.

24:43I need you to pick Monster up, take him here so he can do this.

24:46This is, take him here so he can do that.

24:49I don't think y'all give, well, not y'all, you,

24:57give Monster the same leash or, uh, not leash.

25:03I can't think of a word.

25:04I know what you're saying.

25:05I know what you're saying.

25:05But the leniency growing up, uh, when me and him were both in the house,

25:12you would always come ask me to do stuff.

25:15Mm-hmm.

25:16And I'm sitting here like, your son's sitting right in there playing the video game,

25:21just like I am.

25:23I mean, I didn't really like that, you know, too much.

25:27You parent each child differently.

25:30Did it work?

25:31And right now, it seems like it worked.

25:34Did you feel a difference in love?

25:37Like, I love Monster more or differently than you?

25:40Well, I mean, of course, he's your son.

25:43I'm not your actual son.

25:46You're not?

25:47No, I'm saying I am.

25:49But you would have more love for your actual flesh and blood.

25:54This is the thing.

25:58When Kimmy told me that you said that Marceau was more of a father figure than I was,

26:04at first, it's like a kick in the stomach.

26:07Then you start thinking about, like, dang, man.

26:09As a parent, the whole time you're like, okay, if being too hard doesn't work, you want to loosen up some.

26:18Your formative years, parents, they're busy trying to make sure they get it right.

26:22Because they always want their children to do better than them.

26:26You did help me, like, change the first toilet, change the first dishwasher, change the first tire.

26:39And so I'm forever grateful for stuff like that.

26:44But you were more like a mentor to me.

26:47But as I got older, when I started working with Marceau, I kind of gravitated more for the father figure aspect.

26:57It wasn't mainly, like, you, per se.

27:07It was definitely me trying to, you know, hide myself and not trying to, you know, I guess, get hopes up.

27:18You were with my mom.

27:20I just chose not to, I guess, in a way, not to gravitate towards you

27:26because I didn't want to get, you know, I guess, attached.

27:30Disappointed if it didn't work out.

27:35This is the thing about children that you marry into and decide to be a parent to.

27:43They're actually your kid by choice.

27:46Yeah.

27:47All right, you actually choose that relationship.

27:50You choose that situation.

27:57Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.

28:00I was actually talking to Jaylen.

28:01He came by.

28:02Did he actually fail?

28:03He's not asking me for help.

28:04He thinks of you like a dad.

28:06What up, what up?

28:13Yeah, what up, what up?

28:32Hey, what up?

28:33We're bringing you to this side of town.

28:35I'm over at my boy Will's shop to fill him in on all the craziness that's been going

28:39down.

28:40Hey, man.

28:40You're making doorbells.

28:41How's it going?

28:41Get up in this town.

28:42Oh, yeah, this is members only, baby.

28:44Baby mama approved.

28:45Oh, baby mama approved.

28:48I invited Chris Fletcher over because, one, I want him to get to know Will.

28:51You know, Will's my boy.

28:53And I kind of wanted to get some feedback from somebody who's, you know, outside of the

28:57situation, not too aware of what goes on and within my family dynamic.

29:01And Chris is a lot older.

29:03And he's been through, you know, a 30-plus year marriage.

29:06And I think he can give me some good insight on my relationship.

29:10We're going to get you in the gym one day, right?

29:11Uh, hey, I don't mind.

29:13I'll get in the gym.

29:13Let's do it.

29:14I heard you painted it.

29:15No, Lance.

29:16No?

29:17That was my son.

29:17Yeah, yeah, yeah.

29:18Oh, your son.

29:19All right.

29:19He did a great job.

29:20Listen.

29:20Yeah, it was nice.

29:21Tell him he did his thing.

29:22Yeah.

29:23It looks good.

29:24Well, that's good, man.

29:24It looks good.

29:25Like, I, like, the whole process, like, I literally hit him up on, like, and I think within a couple

29:31of days, he had my gym painted.

29:32Like that?

29:32Yeah, it was like that.

29:33All right.

29:34That's good.

29:34I wish he could do that for his mama.

29:35Hey, I mean, I guess when money talk, you know, I didn't know.

29:39Yeah, you move.

29:40Money's still talking.

29:41Money talking over here, too.

29:44He seem to be able to get everybody else's done.

29:46All right.

29:47We're not going to get on.

29:48We're not going to get on, my boy.

29:49I feel good.

29:50I'm sure.

29:52And you ain't the only one.

29:53He gets everybody else done, but getting his mama's stuff, Tass, done.

29:57Listen.

29:58He good, though.

29:59Yeah?

29:59Yeah.

30:00He definitely got me together.

30:02We definitely needed a gym for a more mental stimulation, too, because, man, Buddy's not making

30:08this situation any, any tough.

30:10I mean, what's, what's, what's going on, man?

30:13Marquez walked in my house, and Marquez just decides because, you know, I'm bringing my daughter

30:19home, and me and Ken cool now, I can just walk in his house.

30:23Maybe your daughter walked in.

30:25Maybe the daughter in the house.

30:25He just walked in with her.

30:27What'd you do when he walked in the house?

30:28I wasn't there.

30:29I was actually on the road.

30:30Oh.

30:31So it was just Trish, then?

30:32It was Trish and her friend.

30:34Ah.

30:36You know, him and Trish and Sharon done got into it, and they done had this all, this

30:40big fallout.

30:41I invite him over again, because I'm like, hey, dude, we need to have a conversation.

30:45Okay.

30:46Y'all know, I'm, I'm the most gentlest big person you probably know.

30:51Like, I, I will literally give somebody a million chances to poke me before I actually

30:56wake up.

30:56And it's like, dude, it's like you're constantly trying to, I think you're playing on my, my,

31:02my niceness.

31:03You're playing on the kindness now because, oh, Ken, he's soft.

31:06He ain't gonna do nothing.

31:08Well, no matter how you look at anything else, this is my home, and you have to respect me

31:12and everybody inside this home.

31:16So I stand up, and I'm like, hey, bro, just go.

31:19Get out of my house.

31:20He don't move.

31:21He's still, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da.

31:23So I'm like, dude, I'm getting more and more pissed off.

31:26And then, like, it, it, it got kind of physical.

31:31Oh.

31:32So I'm like, man, I told you to get out of my house.

31:35Once you put him out the door, what happened after that?

31:38We haven't heard from him.

31:39What are you gonna do when Marquez pops back up?

31:41Because he gotta pop back up.

31:42So.

31:42You can't get away from this guy.

31:44So here's the thing.

31:45I'm not dealing with him.

31:46But you do, though.

31:47You guys keep trying to talk, and then you get upset.

31:49No, no, no, it's not.

31:50I'm trying to cater to his emotions and his feelings and trying to, I'm almost training.

31:54You ain't trying to marry him.

31:57Why deal with what you're dealing with going through what you're going through?

32:02Because that's the only way we can go to the next step.

32:04But it's not her hindering it.

32:06It's him hindering it.

32:07And most people move on first, and then they get divorced.

32:10Because it's just typically how the situation goes.

32:12But it don't generally take seven, eight years, though.

32:15We have no issues outside of Marquez.

32:18Since Marquez hasn't been around since the incident, bro, we've been perfectly fine.

32:22We have no issues.

32:23Everybody's happy.

32:24We don't argue.

32:25Like, I've done all the things that I'm supposed to do to take care of that family and make sure

32:29I put my family in the best position possible.

32:31You think this whole thing is just a challenge to you?

32:34That's why you don't leave?

32:35You're trying to figure out how to solve this puzzle?

32:37You just won't let the puzzle go?

32:38To be honest with you, I haven't been trying to solve it.

32:40I just now recently...

32:41You have?

32:42That's what you've been telling me this whole time.

32:43Yes, you have.

32:44Literally, as you've been saying, this whole...

32:45Everything you've been saying is...

32:46You know what I'm saying?

32:47In the beginning, I didn't give a to try to make it work.

32:49But when I saw that it was a fake...

32:51Once he started coming up...

32:52Man, y'all have to understand.

32:53I didn't have to do it because he wasn't around.

32:55I don't know why y'all don't understand that.

32:57He wasn't around for me to have to do it.

32:58I'm not talking about just him.

32:59I'm talking about everything is a puzzle.

33:01Everything, the puzzle...

33:02I mean, that's life, that's relationship, that's everybody.

33:04You don't think that this whole puzzle...

33:06Because this is a very, very difficult puzzle right here.

33:09You don't think you just accept taking it as a challenge...

33:11And I'm going to figure this out.

33:12No, challenge is just life.

33:13Your life going...

33:14You got puzzle pieces that you got to...

33:16Everybody goes through it.

33:17Yeah, but sometimes...

33:18Well, I'm supposed to wake up one day and be like, damn.

33:20Nah, sometimes you got to put the puzzle back in the box...

33:22And get another puzzle.

33:23Yeah, but that's if the puzzle is not mentally put together.

33:27Maybe the puzzle don't have all the pieces.

33:29You know, ours does.

33:30You know, it's an extra piece and it's Marquez that don't need to be there.

33:34That's the problem.

33:35He just don't need to be there.

33:36If he's not going to do right, what is his purpose?

33:38Outside of him, we don't have a problem.

33:41From what I can see, when I lay it all out and I bounce it all out, it's not really easy.

33:48So at this point, it kind of becomes your fault.

33:52Sometimes people don't know how to see themselves out of an uncomfortable situation.

33:58You get used to it.

33:59That's where...

33:59You're just kind of stuck.

34:01But this ain't my first time seeing you beat the punching bag though, bro.

34:04You tend to put up with a whole lot of s***, dog.

34:06And I feel like I'll be wondering, like, why are you so in being that guy?

34:12Like, I'm just going to take it.

34:13At some point, I'm just...

34:14It's going to be, hey, one, two, three.

34:17Or get as far away from my can and get as breathe.

34:20You know what I'm saying?

34:21I'm with Trisha because I love her and I know that the things that we have put in place

34:25are going to work.

34:26It's just him.

34:28What would you do if you was in this situation?

34:30The whole situation?

34:32This whole situation?

34:35Trish would have been a thing of the past.

34:37From my conversation with Jalen, I learned that he feels that he was treated differently

35:05than a monster.

35:06I want to have a conversation with Maurice about this because it's a very concerning thing

35:12as a father.

35:13You know, you're not going to be perfect, but you definitely don't want your children to

35:17feel that you favored one over the other.

35:19How are them kids doing?

35:21MJ just got his National Honor Society information.

35:25That's so dope.

35:26I know, I was so proud.

35:27That's my little honey bunny boy.

35:29Can I update my...

35:29He's almost now I can update my application with Michigan.

35:32I said, you sure can update all the applications.

35:35Has it not heard from Michigan yet?

35:37No, girl, it got pushed back.

35:38That's a shoo-in, ain't it?

35:39I believe because of everything that's dealing with the whole DEI situation.

35:45I feel like that's...

35:46Really?

35:47Yeah.

35:47I feel like that's so close.

35:48This is a little merit-based thing.

35:51Well, first of all, he's merit-based, but everybody wants a...

35:54DEI is just an idea to say, oh, the Negroes are ruining the country.

35:59And personally, I don't care if they think that.

36:01They cannot accept anybody to anything in the world.

36:03That's why we even started to come back through.

36:05That's true.

36:06Because we don't need that.

36:07We don't need acceptance.

36:07And if you think you can go it alone, go it alone.

36:10It's working the system so that we can provide those things for people

36:13instead of having to depend on the government to provide them.

36:15That's bottom line.

36:17So, Jalen came by the office the other day.

36:21And I was walking with him, and we were talking about construction.

36:25Did he ask you fail?

36:26Um, he's not asking me for help.

36:28He asked me for a contractor.

36:29Do I know this guy and stuff like that?

36:31But he knows.

36:32But our relationship is different.

36:33I look at you like a filing figure.

36:37So, what do you consider Reese?

36:39I consider him more like a big brother.

36:43The other part of it is me and Monster are treated a little bit differently.

36:50Monster, you just can do no wrong.

36:55He's like, you know, he knows that I'm in this business.

36:58I mean, he used to work at Skolt.

36:59No, his relationship is different because he thinks of you like a dad.

37:07No, Moise, he had his conversation with me, by the way.

37:10He didn't say, I think of you as a dad.

37:12He said a father figure.

37:13He said he's a father figure.

37:14Yeah, but I'm saying, well, a father figure is kind of like a dad, right?

37:18I think a father figure is a little different than a dad.

37:22At the end of the day, I just, I don't know, it's kind of a little concerned.

37:26He was talking about you guys working together?

37:29Yeah, yeah.

37:30We were talking about a family business.

37:32Who's we?

37:33Me, Kimmy.

37:34I wanted Jalen and Monster in there, too.

37:37Yeah, the Jalen and Monster thing.

37:40Yeah, that's what you're talking about is concerning?

37:44That, yeah, a little bit.

37:45I'm not sure why Marceau was bringing up this whole, you know, family business and Jalen

37:49and those concerns, considering that I talked to Jalen and I think we had a pretty good conversation.

37:55He kind of knows where I stand.

37:56Jalen was like, he felt like I was harder on him than I am on Monster.

38:01I'm not treating you differently because you're a child that I chose to father, right?

38:08I'm saying that at the end of the day, Jalen, I'm treating you differently because the way we grew up,

38:13it was like the older kids were, like, next in line as far as parents are concerned.

38:19And we also know younger siblings.

38:21They look up to the older siblings.

38:23So, of course, I'm going to treat you differently than I treat Monster as he's coming along.

38:27Growing up, there was a hierarchy in our family.

38:31And it meant something that your older brothers or older sisters, they were like the parents when the parents were gone.

38:39And there's a level of expectation that you get from that next level.

38:43I think that Jalen was an excellently raised child.

38:49You don't give correction until correction is needed.

38:53So if I'm giving Jalen correction, that's probably when he's feeling like, you know what, now he's coming down on me or whatever.

39:04Maurice and I have had these conversations.

39:06I felt like he treated Jalen different too.

39:08And I told him that before Monster ever even got here.

39:13I said, let's see when Monster gets here if you're going to do this same kind of thing.

39:17You know, because he seemed harder on him.

39:19And I think when you're blending a family, when you're getting to know each other, I think that was hard for Jalen.

39:25I mean, I think people gravitate to people that they feel like they like him.

39:29And I think that he felt like Marshall actually liked him more.

39:33He talked to him.

39:35He didn't seem like he was always getting in trouble or fussed at or something.

39:40But Jalen, Maurice, if you're going to start your sentence off after we say something with a but, I think that you're defending your position.

39:46No, you didn't even hear what I said.

39:48I know, but you started off with a but.

39:50Okay, what was I going to say?

39:51I know, I don't know what you're going to say.

39:52But what I'm going to say is that it's hard enough as it is to talk to you sometimes.

39:58I'm delivering information to you.

39:59I think that that is concerning, right?

40:02Because I know you don't want this.

40:03I grew up with the golden child and Jalen sees Monster as the golden child 2.0.

40:10So I understand it.

40:12I don't even know where you're getting this from.

40:13You sound like Chris Fletcher.

40:15You sound pathetic.

40:17You know what you can do?

40:17You can tell me the truth.

40:19What, you saying lying?

40:20Oh yeah, you do lie.

40:22It's all the time.

40:23Next on Love and Maritonsville.

40:30The more and more we talk about it, it doesn't sound like a family thing.

40:36It sounds like a dictatorship.

40:38I feel like the other day at the dinner, Letitia Scott was very standoffish when I asked her about Martell saying something about you all's husband.

40:48And maybe that was a touchy situation.

40:50The mind is touchy, but I talk about it.

40:52Everyone is not going to be transparent, but who knows?

40:55We shall soon find out at my party.

40:58What up, what up?

40:58What up?

40:59What up?

41:00What up?

41:01What up?

41:02What up?

41:03What up?

41:04I feel like you two are not transparent.

41:06I'm very transparent about my life.

41:09I felt like you just blew me off.

41:10But you're going to be transparent about your infidelity.

41:13It's been coming to me.

41:15My guy, Fletch, has been going around saying Maurice and Maritonsville told Martell to get chicks to sign NDA.

41:23Oh no, no.

41:25You got the whole story wrong.

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