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90 Day Fiancé- Happily Ever After Season 9 Episode 4
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00:00:01Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, Happily Ever After.
00:00:04Mmm, American Street. It's the first time.
00:00:07I feel like I am now in a country, like, sea land with trees.
00:00:12I'm ready to live in Texas.
00:00:14Howdy, y'all.
00:00:16Thank you, nicely.
00:00:17With a cowboy hat.
00:00:19Hey, don't get a ticket here, baby.
00:00:22It's a police officer all the time.
00:00:24All the time.
00:00:25They're prepared?
00:00:26Yes.
00:00:27I don't know if you've noticed, but I kind of stopped, like, inviting you to come to the shows,
00:00:34because I just get this feeling that you're not enjoying it and my music's not your vibe.
00:00:38On top of being a realtor, I also sing Bachata.
00:00:42I think Guillermo and I are struggling to connect because I'm so passionate about my music career,
00:00:46and he just doesn't support it.
00:00:52You leave to Moldova super soon?
00:00:53Not to move, but yeah, we'll be there soon.
00:00:56But you're going into this thinking of your family.
00:01:00He's going into it thinking of him and then his family.
00:01:07You cheated the on me five months after our marriage.
00:01:11I want a divorce now.
00:01:13I'm done.
00:01:15She really me over bad, and I have the proof.
00:01:19I'm done.
00:01:20I'm done.
00:01:21I'm done.
00:01:22I'm done.
00:01:23I'm done.
00:01:24She's great.
00:01:25Now, I'm done.
00:01:26I'm done.
00:01:27I'm done.
00:01:28I'm done.
00:01:29I'm done.
00:01:30I'm done.
00:01:31And I'm done.
00:01:32You're done.
00:01:34And I'm done.
00:01:35I'm going to tell your mama now.
00:01:39Hello, ma'am.
00:01:40Hey.
00:01:41I've got the pizza you ordered.
00:01:42Cheese with extra-large sausage.
00:01:48Yeah, but I don't have any money.
00:01:52You have to pay for this pizza somehow.
00:01:54Come on in.
00:01:56Come on in.
00:01:56Yeah?
00:01:57Yeah, yeah.
00:01:57Come on in, yeah.
00:01:58Why would you order a pizza if you can't afford to pay for it?
00:02:02I can't have another one of these come out of my check.
00:02:05I got six kids to feed, ma'am.
00:02:07Brandon.
00:02:08Who is it?
00:02:09It should be sexual.
00:02:11What kind of business do you think we're running, ma'am?
00:02:23I'm going to find some money.
00:02:25Let me.
00:02:27Maybe money is going to be right.
00:02:30Don't knee me, please.
00:02:32We are horrible on play games, Brandon.
00:02:39My name is Brandon.
00:02:40I am 31 years old.
00:02:42And this is my wife, Julia.
00:02:45That's me.
00:02:46We live in Norfolk, Virginia.
00:02:49Yeah, and she is 30 years old from Krasnodar, Russia.
00:02:54You're so old.
00:02:55A couple more years, we'll be 80.
00:02:58Shush.
00:02:59Is it not doing it for you?
00:03:02Tobias, I didn't know.
00:03:03What if I did an accent?
00:03:04My name is Joseph.
00:03:06You wanted to eat the pizza.
00:03:08You're trying to make Italian accents?
00:03:10Yeah.
00:03:12Julia and I have never role played before.
00:03:14I'm really making an effort here, trying to spice things up because we haven't had much
00:03:20of a sex life lately.
00:03:21I never see role play as, like, attractive.
00:03:25How is role play going to be sexually attractive to somebody?
00:03:28Get to dress up, be somebody other than you.
00:03:32Can you be our Johnny Depp?
00:03:35I mean, we can do pirates next week.
00:03:37It's fine.
00:03:39Sex jazz isn't that important for me, but I know it is for Brandon.
00:03:44So, I want to work on it and get back on how we used to be.
00:03:52Julia and I met through my best friend.
00:03:55We fell in love.
00:03:56We filed for the K-1 visa.
00:03:58Julia came to America, and we got married four years ago, right in the middle of the pandemic.
00:04:04And nobody come to our wedding.
00:04:07Not my family, not my friends, nobody.
00:04:10Only brand parents.
00:04:11The past couple years, we've had our challenges.
00:04:18We just got out of couples therapy.
00:04:20Overall, the therapy was helpful.
00:04:22It's just not an immediate fix.
00:04:25We still are fighting about getting pregnant, having a family.
00:04:31It's a long way to go.
00:04:34When they say, like, I don't want kids, I can't have kids.
00:04:41We decided that Julia would get a second opinion from a doctor about her fertility,
00:04:46and we haven't given up because we love each other.
00:04:51Take off this hair.
00:04:52I don't know if it's better than sex, but...
00:05:01Stop eating when you're talking.
00:05:16Sorry, this pizza's good.
00:05:20I've never seen a role play where they eat the pizza first.
00:05:25I'm not in a mood to have a sex and anything, Brandon.
00:05:32I'm too much stress.
00:05:35I don't know how did you or...
00:05:38How I'm what?
00:05:40Not stressing?
00:05:41Mm-hmm.
00:05:41I'm going to meet my family almost two weeks, Brandon.
00:05:44Since couples therapy, we decided that, you know, Julia would get a second opinion from a doctor about her fertility.
00:05:51In exchange for Julia agreeing to the fertility test, she's going to bring her parents here.
00:05:57My parents visiting us in the U.S. for about months, and when I'm here, we're going to have a second wedding ceremony in Miami.
00:06:06So I think that's a good symbolic moment to us.
00:06:10Oh, that's...
00:06:11It's really beautiful.
00:06:13It's really emotional because that's just my dreams.
00:06:16That's my parents' dreams to, like, be with me.
00:06:19And that just means a lot to me.
00:06:22Well, where's your parents going to stay?
00:06:27They're going to have two different rooms here.
00:06:29We already only have one bedroom.
00:06:31It's my mom's.
00:06:32This is...
00:06:32Oh, don't even start.
00:06:34That's not your mom.
00:06:35She will never have her room in our house.
00:06:37That's his guest room.
00:06:39I'm already going to have a guest room for my parents, and I want to show you.
00:06:44We need to move your mom's style because it's too much your style.
00:06:48Brandon's mom's have a key from our house, and she...
00:06:52He sometimes stops by when she wants.
00:06:54They live an hour and a half away now, so it's nice that we have a room for them when they come and visit.
00:07:04Oh, my God.
00:07:06Welcome home.
00:07:09I want them to feel like a home.
00:07:11Then you should have put Russian flags up if you wanted them to feel like a home.
00:07:13No, I want them to feel like a second home.
00:07:16So I put multiple stuff.
00:07:19Take a breath.
00:07:35I'm too much stressed.
00:07:36Yeah, I know.
00:07:38And you're already taking it out on me.
00:07:43I really want this visit to be good, but I'm nervous.
00:07:47Her parents are divorced, and it's stressful hoping, wondering if they're going to get along.
00:07:52When Julia's parents stress her out, guess who she takes it out on?
00:07:56Me.
00:07:57I hope everything will be good, and everything will be how I plan.
00:08:05Honestly, I'm trying to stay calm, but what I really want to focus on right now is starting our family, not bringing her family here.
00:08:15How much stuff is in here?
00:08:17Yeah, this is half your mom's stuff here.
00:08:19Too many stuff.
00:08:27Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah.
00:08:34Lili, we need to move to cabin very soon.
00:08:59Excited to see Zane.
00:09:01So excited. Happy, stressful.
00:09:04Why would you be stressed?
00:09:10Today, Anand is coming with me to his first ultrasound to see baby Zane.
00:09:27To be honest.
00:09:28I had a top name that I really, really liked.
00:09:31More than Zane.
00:09:32I thought it was so cute that we met at the airport,
00:09:35and so I wanted to name our new baby Air,
00:09:38but Anand said no.
00:09:41It's so cute.
00:09:42It's so cute in us, but this mean in Arabic, it's something private.
00:09:47Like private things.
00:09:49Like a private part.
00:09:52And half a mile, you're exiting here.
00:10:01What are you doing? That's so important.
00:10:04Talking to people, to kitchen people, to floor people and this stuff.
00:10:09Baby, you literally just drifted into the other lane.
00:10:12Can you just not do that right now?
00:10:15So angry now.
00:10:17Why?
00:10:19Cabin finished so soon.
00:10:22I can't be in hotels.
00:10:23You see hotels like horrible.
00:10:25It's the stuff everywhere.
00:10:27And our stuff, my stuff, and your stuff.
00:10:30Baby, stop.
00:10:33Baby, stop.
00:10:36Not this one.
00:10:37You're going east.
00:10:40If you don't want to be driven around by your pregnant wife,
00:10:43then I suggest you start driving properly.
00:10:48Stop talking about my driving, please.
00:10:51Please, please, please, please, please.
00:10:52No, I will never stop talking about your driving.
00:10:55No, it's annoying me.
00:10:57And I don't want us getting pulled over.
00:11:00I don't want you going to jail.
00:11:02I don't want you...
00:11:03Don't worry about me.
00:11:04Don't worry about the jail.
00:11:05Okay, well, what about me?
00:11:06Don't worry.
00:11:07And your baby.
00:11:09I know that in Adnan's culture, men don't like to be criticized by their wives.
00:11:17I'm supposed to be nice and cute and praising him.
00:11:21But when it comes to my safety or my children's safety, I will say what's on my mind.
00:11:27I don't want you getting us in a car accident.
00:11:29Don't worry.
00:11:30And everything that you do impacts me and our family.
00:11:33Don't worry.
00:11:34Like, I'm supposed to be passenger princess over here, and I'm not.
00:11:37I'm stressed.
00:11:38Stop.
00:11:39Stop.
00:11:40Stop.
00:11:41When I am angry, stop talking, please.
00:11:43You are my wife.
00:11:44You should be stuck with me everywhere.
00:11:46Arendan doesn't take accountability for his actions, and it's ridiculous.
00:11:53He knows he married an American, and we're living in America right now, so he needs to play by my rules, whether he likes it or not.
00:12:00Okay, the next time I will drive.
00:12:01Stop talking, Tiger.
00:12:02Stop driving bad.
00:12:03I'm so annoying and angry now.
00:12:04Please stop.
00:12:05Stop.
00:12:06This is chaos, babe.
00:12:07How are we going to carry eight suitcases in an airport and have our two kids?
00:12:12It's not a big deal.
00:12:13What are you worried about?
00:12:14I mean, it's not that hard as you're feeling.
00:12:15Fly on the airplane?
00:12:23What is the this, he's accusing me of?
00:12:25What is the happiness?
00:12:27He wants to divorce me for something that is not true.
00:12:36He wants to divorce me for something that is not true.
00:12:40It's like someone receiving a life sentence for a crime that they never did.
00:12:56What?
00:12:57What is it?
00:13:01What is that?
00:13:06Hello.
00:13:09Got more suitcases for Moldova.
00:13:11How many suitcases do you think we need?
00:13:14A lot.
00:13:15All of them.
00:13:16Everything.
00:13:18We need everything.
00:13:19I mean, we have each two suitcases per person.
00:13:22We can bring eight.
00:13:24Should we take the TVs off the wall, too, and put those in the suitcase?
00:13:27Believe me, we have the best TVs over here in Moldova.
00:13:29Woo-hoo!
00:13:36Everything is possible.
00:13:39This is chaos, babe.
00:13:41How are we going to carry eight suitcases in an airport and have our two kids?
00:13:46It's not a big deal.
00:13:46What are you worried about?
00:13:50We're packing for our trip to Moldova, and Andre is literally running around like he's a chicken
00:13:55with his head cut off.
00:13:59Where's the other one?
00:14:01I have another suitcase.
00:14:02Hold on.
00:14:02I'm going to bring another one.
00:14:04Oh, my gosh.
00:14:05We need to be focusing on important things when we get there, not packing up useless
00:14:11We need to look at schools.
00:14:13We need to look at houses.
00:14:14Like, there's a lot of things that we need to accomplish before just picking up and leaving.
00:14:19I mean, it's not that hard as you think.
00:14:21It's just, you can literally move.
00:14:25Babe, look at Winston.
00:14:30Hey, we cannot send you a suitcases.
00:14:33You are far too precious of cargo to be in here.
00:14:37Why do they like suitcases so much for children?
00:14:39I think it's just like a closed space.
00:14:41I remember Ellie was like, loved it, too.
00:14:43They're like cats.
00:14:43Are you a cat?
00:14:47Initially, when Andre told me the idea of moving to Moldova, I didn't like it.
00:14:52I didn't think that it was a good idea.
00:14:53But the more we had talked about it and, you know, looked at the pros and the cons, I was more open to it.
00:15:03Fly on the airplane?
00:15:06That's my son.
00:15:07People are not double-faced or triple-faced or...
00:15:12Two-faced.
00:15:13Or, you know, whatever they are.
00:15:15Because I think you can feel them out.
00:15:17I think the population is smaller.
00:15:19And that's why we have, like, more, you know, like, genuine relationship.
00:15:23Over here, people come and go.
00:15:24Like, it's just like, you know?
00:15:27Yeah.
00:15:27What about my dad?
00:15:28He's a genuine person.
00:15:30We did ask him to meet us there in a week to help with the house hunting.
00:15:33I think that it's a brilliant idea for my dad to come with us to Moldova.
00:15:43I think he's just going to help us scope it out.
00:15:45I mean, he knows a lot about real estate.
00:15:47Maybe he can help us find a nice property there and give us an idea if it would be a good investment or not.
00:15:53I mean, my dad is very, you know, experienced in this department.
00:15:57So why the hell not?
00:16:00My dad is pretty laid back.
00:16:02I don't think it's going to be that big of a deal.
00:16:04Okay.
00:16:07Jack and I have come so far in our relationship.
00:16:10In the past, we had big disagreements.
00:16:13The last three years, we became friends, and I don't want to ruin that.
00:16:16At the same time, I'm afraid if he's coming to Moldova, he's going to just rush the whole thing.
00:16:21You know, like, that's what I'm worried about.
00:16:24If she doesn't want to move to Moldova, I don't know what the f*** is going to happen.
00:16:27You know what, babe?
00:16:31Everything is going to be in order.
00:16:33You don't even know what's going to happen.
00:16:36I think it's going to be great.
00:16:37Come on.
00:16:38You in it or what?
00:16:39Come on.
00:16:41Come on.
00:16:42A handshake?
00:16:43Come on.
00:16:44Come on.
00:16:44Don't be silly.
00:16:45Let's go.
00:16:46You're going to like it.
00:16:47I love you, but you're really annoying.
00:16:49You're annoying.
00:16:49Your hair is in my mouth.
00:16:52All right.
00:16:52Let's do it.
00:16:53Let's get my kids.
00:16:54Come on.
00:16:54Let's throw this s*** next to my door.
00:16:56I think it's finally starting to set in that we are actually leaving.
00:17:00It kind of freaks me out because this trip is going to determine whether it's the right
00:17:07time to move our entire family there.
00:17:10Like, I'm already f***ing over this pack.
00:17:12Save the energy for the plane with the kids.
00:17:14We're going to need it.
00:17:19Please don't hold me close and tell me it's okay now.
00:17:45The things he's accusing me of, what is the f***ing evidence?
00:17:58He doesn't care.
00:17:59He wants to believe whatever the f*** he wants to believe.
00:18:07I think I pretty much said everything I wanted to say.
00:18:11I don't like to have these kind of conversations.
00:18:15But, um, it had to be done.
00:18:20I, I, I believe Jasmine tricked me into this open marriage idea.
00:18:27She had Matt selected and she proposed an open marriage to cover her ass so that her and
00:18:33Matt no longer had to hide their relationship.
00:18:36Who does that?
00:18:41I just have a hard time believing Jasmine nowadays because she's lied to me so many times.
00:18:47I don't know when she's telling the truth or not.
00:18:49I don't know if she's telling the truth.
00:18:51I don't know if she's lying to her.
00:18:52But I hate getting frustrated.
00:18:53I hate getting frustrated.
00:18:54I love her.
00:18:54You're not fair to me.
00:18:55I love her.
00:18:56I love you.
00:18:57I love you.
00:18:57I love you.
00:18:57I love you.
00:18:58Mama, are you ready?
00:19:00No. Why?
00:19:02Don't worry about that loser, honey.
00:19:06Come. Come, beautiful.
00:19:10Oh, there you go. Oh, be careful.
00:19:14What hurts me?
00:19:16It hurts me.
00:19:18It hurts me.
00:19:20It hurts me.
00:19:22It hurts me.
00:19:24It hurts me. It hurts me.
00:19:26What hurts me the most
00:19:28is the fact that he wants
00:19:30to divorce me for something that is not true.
00:19:32Okay, Matt's phone number
00:19:34is in my record.
00:19:36But Gino knew that I was friends with Matt
00:19:38and he would give me rides to the gym.
00:19:40So that doesn't
00:19:42prove whatsoever, and I have an
00:19:44explanation for those calls.
00:19:46If he wants to divorce me and hate me,
00:19:48he could hate me for any other thing
00:19:50except from that.
00:19:52And that's why I'm so hurt.
00:19:54Because it's like someone receiving
00:19:56a life sentence for a crime
00:19:58that they never did.
00:20:00That's how it feels.
00:20:02It went so bad.
00:20:12You have no idea all the things he was accusing me.
00:20:16He said that I've been cheating on him with you
00:20:20since Christmas.
00:20:22That's crazy.
00:20:24He's making up scenarios
00:20:26and he believes his own stories.
00:20:28Exactly.
00:20:30He's so into like this is the truth
00:20:32that he believes those lies.
00:20:34Matt.
00:20:36Honestly, I was expecting Gino to be Gino,
00:20:42which is talk to her like , treat her like .
00:20:46Part of me wanted it to happen like this though.
00:20:50Maybe if she completely sees like how this guy is,
00:20:56actually see what's worth her time.
00:21:00And see that I'm the one that's picking up the pieces.
00:21:02I'm the one that's always supporting her.
00:21:04So she can see what a real man looks like.
00:21:08I don't know.
00:21:10You know, like, I don't even know who the f*** I married.
00:21:18And he said he wants to get divorced.
00:21:24That's what he wants.
00:21:26I really don't know how a guy his age
00:21:28has the energy for this.
00:21:30Like even at my age, I'm like, I'm tired.
00:21:32Like I couldn't even be this angry
00:21:34and long to argue all the time.
00:21:36Like, I don't know.
00:21:38I don't know.
00:21:42He f*** me over, Matt.
00:21:44He doesn't care about me.
00:21:46He never did.
00:21:50That's Gino for you.
00:21:56I just want to go and see my dog, please.
00:22:00At this moment, after all the evidence I've seen of this,
00:22:10which I do have in writing,
00:22:14you know, it's not something I think I can live with.
00:22:18So, I don't know.
00:22:20Um...
00:22:24I mean, there might be a small chance, but...
00:22:28of hope for us, but...
00:22:30I would say it's small.
00:22:32Small.
00:22:34Small.
00:22:36...
00:22:42Is it gonna work?
00:22:44And I just don't know what to do.
00:22:45Like, I want my family back.
00:22:46Do everything you can.
00:22:48I feel like there's still love,
00:22:50because I love her.
00:22:52And this kind of love is not something
00:22:54that will just disappear.
00:22:56It was supposed to be special.
00:23:00We were, like, looking forward to going,
00:23:02and it's horrible now.
00:23:04What I did to you?
00:23:06She's make a problem, and she's crying,
00:23:08and she's make...
00:23:10It's my fault.
00:23:20Ten turns!
00:23:26YAY!
00:23:27Not bad.
00:23:28Not bad for, like, the fourth one.
00:23:32YAY!
00:23:34Nice.
00:23:35Shake it off.
00:23:36Shake it off.
00:23:37Shake it off.
00:23:38Shake it off.
00:23:39The shake part is good.
00:23:40I'm good with that.
00:23:41OK.
00:23:42I'm just gonna drop it low real quick.
00:23:44Not bad for, like, the fourth time.
00:23:47Yay!
00:23:48Nice.
00:23:49Shake it off.
00:23:50Shake it, shake, shake it off.
00:23:51The shake part is good.
00:23:53I'm good with that.
00:23:54Okay.
00:23:54I just want to drop it low real quick.
00:23:56Super excited.
00:23:57About the show, too.
00:23:59Yeah.
00:23:59So it's, yeah, a new song that is more, I think, more club vibes than anything that I've released so far.
00:24:05So I wanted it to have, like, a big, like, girls, sex, like, vibes.
00:24:10Yeah.
00:24:10For the performance.
00:24:11I'm rehearsing for my big show next week for the release of my new single, Lento.
00:24:17So this is a really big event for me.
00:24:19And after this performance, literally the very next day, I'm going to get on a plane.
00:24:22I'm headed to Milan to work with a bachata producer that wants to work with me at a label.
00:24:27I'm excited and I'm nervous to kind of network and meet other producers and DJs.
00:24:31I can come back and perform there because they know and like me.
00:24:33And so it's a whole, it's a big trip for a lot of reasons.
00:24:37It really feels like my career is taking off and I'm just so pumped.
00:24:42I'm thrilled.
00:24:42The whole premise, which it's in Spanish, you heard it, right?
00:24:47Lento.
00:24:48Yeah.
00:24:48And you know.
00:24:49But it's basically lento means slowly.
00:24:50And it's like, you know, you meet someone in the club and you guys are dancing bachata.
00:24:54You know when you're really vibing on and you actually get to dance with someone that you're
00:24:57actually, like, hot for?
00:24:58Like, it's a good connection.
00:24:59Yeah, exactly.
00:25:00And you're like, damn, let me be slow and cute.
00:25:02You know, like, that's like the whole point of the song.
00:25:04Like, you're actually dancing with someone that you, like, would like to hook up with.
00:25:09And it's like fuego, fire, you know?
00:25:12There was a time when Guillermo and I used to be hot on the dance floor.
00:25:16We used to be able to connect and communicate well and really care.
00:25:21And it just feels more and more like all of that's gone away.
00:25:25The last thing I want to do is break up my family.
00:25:27I very much love Guillermo.
00:25:28I'm trying to have hope that he will show up to my performance next week like he said he would.
00:25:33And be supportive.
00:25:34And, you know, just like positive energy would be nice.
00:25:38But ultimately, I'm going to need more from him consistently if we're going to get back
00:25:43to where we were.
00:25:49All right, here.
00:25:51You guys want to grab one of these so we can go over it?
00:25:53Guillermo?
00:25:54Yes, sir.
00:25:55Today, I have to go to work at the restaurant.
00:25:58I work with my friend and manager, Benos, that is actually from Mexico.
00:26:03It's going to be a busy night.
00:26:05We have some new things on the menu.
00:26:06Benos is a great friend.
00:26:09We understand each other because we are both immigrants.
00:26:12And I really appreciate him.
00:26:14I just want you guys to pay attention to the customers, you know.
00:26:17Do what you do.
00:26:18Sell up.
00:26:20If you want, I can take it.
00:26:21Yeah.
00:26:22Is it going to rain?
00:26:24About 15%.
00:26:25Again, we're in Virginia.
00:26:27Just put those over here, Guillermo.
00:26:29So, what's going on?
00:26:35How current musical career is going?
00:26:38I mean, it's cute.
00:26:40What do you mean it's cute?
00:26:41Like, it's bachata.
00:26:43I don't follow the new kind of bachata.
00:26:46The bachata that I listen to is like the old school, like, you know, old people's s***.
00:26:50And as soon as I say something, she gets mad.
00:26:54She gets mad.
00:26:54But you support her with this, right?
00:26:56I mean...
00:26:59Tell me.
00:27:02Something's wrong.
00:27:03Yes.
00:27:04Okay.
00:27:05I mean, I just...
00:27:06That s*** people around are so s*** weird, in my opinion.
00:27:09You know, grown-ups, they're drinking and dancing, so...
00:27:13For me, I'm a very classic person.
00:27:16I like traditional bachata instead of this revolutionary pop bachata.
00:27:23But it's not about that.
00:27:24It's about all of the things that go around it.
00:27:27Like, going out, drinking, partying.
00:27:30Those are the things that I don't think we are in the space for that right now.
00:27:34We have a little child.
00:27:35And if you want to pursue a dream like that, that is the music, it needs to be more of music, less potty.
00:27:46You know, the worst part is that, you know, in the very beginning, life, it was beautiful.
00:27:51Everything was sparkles.
00:27:52Now it's like none.
00:27:54And, you know, the more time that goes, the more I feel like...
00:27:59I mean, I don't want to say it, but it's like, is it going to work?
00:28:01Is it...
00:28:02Is it...
00:28:02Like, what's going on?
00:28:04So now you're doubting the relationship?
00:28:09Like, since three months ago, we've been sleeping separate.
00:28:14What do you mean, sleeping separately?
00:28:16Like...
00:28:17Separate rooms.
00:28:18Just the feeling of waking up alone is just so weird.
00:28:23It's just so weird.
00:28:24I mean, you know, you have your husband.
00:28:25So no physical, no contact, nothing.
00:28:27No physical, no anything, for three months.
00:28:33I just don't know what to do.
00:28:35Like, I want my family back.
00:28:38Have you talked to her about it?
00:28:40Every time we talk about it, it's just like drama.
00:28:43Yeah, it's just more a fight.
00:28:45I feel so weird.
00:28:52It's a little bit of a rollercoaster right now.
00:28:56I feel like there's still love, 100%, because I love her.
00:29:03And this kind of love is not something that will just disappear.
00:29:07I mean, I saw how she was pushing out my baby from that moment.
00:29:13And, you know, so many different things are being getting, you know, the love bigger.
00:29:18But some others have been, like, you know, getting stabbed.
00:29:23It's just so difficult how to explain this whole thing.
00:29:27I feel like we could try to fix it for us, for Nico, for our family.
00:29:33We need to try to fix it.
00:29:35But at the same time, it's hard to see a very clear way to, like, okay, we're going to be able to fix all of our problems.
00:29:48I'm telling you as a friend, I really think that you need to support her and show up.
00:29:53Even if it's five minutes, ten minutes, do everything you can.
00:30:05All right.
00:30:22Great.
00:30:35Come on.
00:31:03I don't want to go.
00:31:06You go.
00:31:07Why?
00:31:08Because this was supposed to be, like, something, like, good.
00:31:13And you, like, ruined it.
00:31:14You made it so bad.
00:31:15And I don't want to go anymore.
00:31:18This has to be special.
00:31:19We were, like, looking forward to going.
00:31:22And it's horrible now.
00:31:23And I don't want to go.
00:31:24You're complaining and get mad and crying.
00:31:37What I did to you?
00:31:39I don't like your driving.
00:31:41You don't like my driving.
00:31:42It's enough to make a problem.
00:31:44I didn't do anything.
00:31:46That's the problem.
00:31:47You think you didn't do anything.
00:31:48You're putting me and the baby and you in danger.
00:31:55Like, I am a bad person now.
00:31:57I didn't say you're a bad person.
00:31:58I said your driving is bad.
00:32:00What do you do?
00:32:01You want to know.
00:32:03It's your decision whether or not you want to fix this and move forward or if you don't.
00:32:08It's your decision.
00:32:09It feels really immature to me when Adnan acts like the rules don't apply to him.
00:32:26I already have two children and one on the way.
00:32:30I really didn't think I was marrying one, too.
00:32:32You're not making me feel comfortable whenever you're driving.
00:33:01You're not making me feel comfortable whenever you're driving.
00:33:02And I am trying to do all my best I can do.
00:33:06If you want to move on, then you need to, like, own it and then, like, tell me that it's not going to happen again.
00:33:13You need to reassure me.
00:33:20Okay.
00:33:21It's not happening again.
00:33:23And then you'll work on driving better so that I feel comfortable.
00:33:27Yeah.
00:33:27Okay.
00:33:28You can go into letting me inside.
00:33:36All right.
00:33:37I just get emotional because this was supposed to be a happy event.
00:33:43He's seeing his baby for the first time.
00:33:46Like, this is supposed to be something sentimental.
00:33:49But because of his anger and his driving and his inability to control his anger,
00:33:56he's ruined the day and ruined the time.
00:34:03Are you guys ready?
00:34:05My name is Gabriella.
00:34:06Nice to meet you.
00:34:07Hi, Tiger Lily.
00:34:07Nice to meet you.
00:34:08Nice to meet you.
00:34:09I can't check out.
00:34:09No problem.
00:34:10No problem.
00:34:11Follow me.
00:34:11Come on back.
00:34:12Okay.
00:34:12So, Mama, you can have a seat on the bed.
00:34:15And, Daddy, you can have a seat in the chair.
00:34:17Thank you so much.
00:34:19So, is this your first baby?
00:34:22No, third.
00:34:23Third?
00:34:24My goodness.
00:34:24And this is a little boy, I heard?
00:34:26Yes.
00:34:26I just need to see your belly.
00:34:28Okay.
00:34:29Okay, hold on.
00:34:30Wait.
00:34:30I don't want to, like, man see my white body.
00:34:37We can't, uh, the crew watching my white.
00:34:42Hi, guys.
00:34:43Can you go?
00:34:45I, I actually have a barrier that I could put up, a partition.
00:34:50Would that be okay?
00:34:51If I put a partition behind, so.
00:34:53If you have protection, yeah.
00:34:55I think, I think we'll be fine.
00:34:57Perfect.
00:34:57Give me one minute.
00:34:58Okay, thank you for time.
00:34:59I'll get that for you.
00:34:59Because of Adnan's religious beliefs, all of the male crew members have to stand on the
00:35:05other side of the partition because they can't see my bare belly for the ultrasound because
00:35:10it's indecent.
00:35:12But the female crew member is able to stand on the side closest to me and film.
00:35:19These rules about other men were hard to get used to.
00:35:24But it doesn't bother me so much because I feel like Adnan is being protective of me.
00:35:33It's like he has good intentions.
00:35:36Is that okay?
00:35:37Yeah.
00:35:37Okay, perfect.
00:35:38I think it's okay like this.
00:35:40Okay, just I want to make sure the camera is not filming my wife, Billie.
00:35:45Yes, just faces.
00:35:46Just faces?
00:35:47Okay.
00:35:48Okay.
00:35:49Oh, perfect.
00:35:50Let's get started.
00:35:52All right.
00:35:53What is it saying?
00:35:54Where's my baby?
00:35:55All right.
00:35:57Oh, I will say he looks perfect already.
00:36:01Awesome.
00:36:02Your water levels are beautiful.
00:36:03He's moving.
00:36:06I've never been to ultrasound before.
00:36:09It's my first baby.
00:36:10The most special moment right now to see my son in the screen and to start feeling I'm a
00:36:16father.
00:36:17Not just on the phone or on the video chat.
00:36:21How can I say it?
00:36:23Unbelievable.
00:36:24Unbelievable.
00:36:24What is it?
00:36:25Unbelievable.
00:36:26Yeah, something unbelievable.
00:36:28Oh, he's moving his eyes.
00:36:30Did you see that?
00:36:30Yeah, he's moving his eyes.
00:36:32Yeah.
00:36:33See him open him?
00:36:34Yeah, open him.
00:36:35There you are.
00:36:36He's so cute.
00:36:37Hi, sweet boy.
00:36:39Oh, my goodness.
00:36:40Whose nose has he got?
00:36:41Daddy's nose.
00:36:44Here's his elbow.
00:36:46Yeah, he's opening his nose.
00:36:47I see his little mouth right here.
00:36:48Yeah.
00:36:49Here's his little hiney.
00:36:51And here's his legs right here.
00:36:53Oh, look at those little lips.
00:36:55Oh, my gosh.
00:36:56He's got beautiful little lips.
00:36:57Like mine.
00:36:58This is my son.
00:37:01He is so handsome.
00:37:04Oh, he smiled.
00:37:08So cute.
00:37:11Yes, he is.
00:37:13I'm so happy.
00:37:14He's beautiful.
00:37:15I can't wait to see Adnan as a dad to baby Zane.
00:37:24I'm so excited to see him.
00:37:26And plus, you make me so happy when you're giving me my baby.
00:37:29I'm just really looking forward to it and hope that you feel ready for baby Zane.
00:37:37Like feeding him, bathing him, changing his diaper.
00:37:43You know, that's just like the beginning newborn stuff.
00:37:46I will do the best I can do to raising my baby Zane.
00:37:50I will do the best.
00:37:53He smiled for you.
00:37:54Opened his eyes for you.
00:37:56And that's, I mean, they can't ask more than that.
00:37:58You know, he's dead here, baby.
00:38:07My dad's going to be staying in a guest room.
00:38:09Our room?
00:38:11No, this is not your room.
00:38:12This is guest room.
00:38:13No, we're family.
00:38:14You're so anti-family.
00:38:16What's the deal here?
00:38:28Come on, give me your ass.
00:38:31My dad's.
00:38:33We need plumbing section.
00:38:35Don't run.
00:38:47What is that?
00:38:48Propane and there's map gas.
00:38:50Don't tell me you're going to use this by yourself.
00:38:53Do I need adult supervision?
00:38:56You're going to burn yourself.
00:38:58This morning.
00:38:59As I go into the bathroom, I notice the plumbing.
00:39:03It looks like it's stopped up, backing up.
00:39:07And so when I, like, pulled, you know, a clog out of there,
00:39:10it was all dog hair.
00:39:12I mean, that's where you freaking give those dogs baths.
00:39:15You're complaining about Nala every single second.
00:39:19And after five seconds, you hug her in our bed.
00:39:22Look at the gloopy gloopy.
00:39:24Look at the mama mama mama mama mama.
00:39:25We have to fix too much before my parents will arrive.
00:39:30Did you have a plan or something?
00:39:33Nothing?
00:39:33Can you make it worse?
00:39:35I did make it worse.
00:39:37I made it worse when I nicked the water pipe.
00:39:39You already broke a water pipe.
00:39:41Why did you buy this stuff?
00:39:43I'll fix it, okay?
00:39:44Hi.
00:39:55Hello.
00:39:56Hello.
00:39:57Hey, what's going on?
00:39:58Hi.
00:39:59How are you?
00:40:00I've been better.
00:40:01So good to see you.
00:40:02Hey, buddy.
00:40:03How you doing?
00:40:03Good to see you, too.
00:40:05So what's going on?
00:40:07I'm getting ready for Julia's parent.
00:40:09So trying to fix sewer line and everything.
00:40:12I had the plumber come out and look at it.
00:40:14They want $6,500 to replace the whole line in the yard.
00:40:20So I'm like, forget that.
00:40:21I'm going to do it myself.
00:40:22So where is Julia?
00:40:24Out walking the dogs somewhere.
00:40:26Today I'm trying to get the plumbing fixed before Julia's parents are coming.
00:40:30And it's been a little more work than I anticipated.
00:40:34So my mom and dad have come by, and dad's going to give me a hand.
00:40:41So how's it going, guys?
00:40:43It's going.
00:40:45Ooh.
00:40:47Brandon, did you dig out this whole thing with just a shovel and the...
00:40:51Not with this little one.
00:40:52I got one, too.
00:40:55Julia!
00:40:57Hey, guys.
00:40:58Hi.
00:40:59Hi, Julia.
00:40:59Yay!
00:41:01Okay, let me put dog inside.
00:41:04After moving far from Brandon's parents, our relationship absolutely getting better.
00:41:09Giggling them have fun times, but them still annoying and come to our house often.
00:41:18I'm happy that your parents are coming here.
00:41:21Yay!
00:41:21Yes, I can believe that's happening.
00:41:23But my question is, how is this all going to play out when they're not really together?
00:41:29You know, they're not married, so they probably should stay in separate rooms.
00:41:33My dad's going to be staying in a guest room.
00:41:35My mom's going to stay in a dog room.
00:41:36Which guest room?
00:41:37This one guest room in our left.
00:41:39Our room?
00:41:40No, this is not your room.
00:41:41This is guest room.
00:41:45So we can't come while they're here because we don't have anywhere to stay.
00:41:48No, you absolutely can come, but you live in a one and a half hour away, so you can come anytime.
00:41:53And then have to drive all the way home afterwards?
00:41:58Brandon, you don't want to involve this conversation.
00:42:00And you sitting and not do nothing, that is not fun, Brandon.
00:42:03Does it look like I'm not doing anything?
00:42:04I'm sitting down here working.
00:42:06What are you doing?
00:42:06Walking dogs?
00:42:07I could use your help, actually.
00:42:10Guys, you just came back from this couple's therapy.
00:42:14What did you learn?
00:42:15What did you learn?
00:42:16I'm not even sure now.
00:42:17Well, didn't you guys have some kind of discussions about communications and working together?
00:42:22We agreed that she was going to do a second opinion.
00:42:28Really?
00:42:30She hasn't made any effort so far.
00:42:32We are talking about different stuff now.
00:42:34We are talking about different stuff.
00:42:36Okay, but I'm talking about this.
00:42:38Okay, can we talk about this?
00:42:39Does this drive me crazy?
00:42:39And let me do step by step.
00:42:41My pain is not even here yet.
00:42:42And you're trying to push me for that?
00:42:46The doctors in Russia said that it's not likely she can have kids.
00:42:50I know this is a sensitive issue for her.
00:42:53It's why I really don't want to press too much.
00:42:55But at the same time, Julia agreed to schedule the second opinion.
00:43:00And so I've been waiting weeks for her to schedule it.
00:43:02I haven't seen any effort on her part.
00:43:04No appointments made or anything.
00:43:06And I am afraid that Julia's never going to book this appointment.
00:43:13I can help you with that if you want because I can talk to a doctor.
00:43:17I can help go with you if you want to make sure that, you know...
00:43:20No, I mean, that is our situation.
00:43:22Yeah, but you need somebody to help you.
00:43:24You need...
00:43:24You don't...
00:43:25I don't need your help.
00:43:27I don't need...
00:43:29So you don't want me to help you at all?
00:43:31No, I don't want...
00:43:37This is our things.
00:43:38This is what Brandon wants to do.
00:43:40No, we're family.
00:43:41You're not even thinking, like, how I feel?
00:43:46What...
00:43:46That's why we want to be with you, to be there to support you.
00:43:49I don't need...
00:43:49And help you.
00:43:50All of a sudden, you're so anti-family.
00:43:52What's the deal here?
00:43:55So, I'm sorry.
00:43:56I'm on.
00:44:02You know what?
00:44:04I'm this close to just being done with this whole situation.
00:44:07She doesn't appreciate.
00:44:08She's turning into a brat.
00:44:09She's turning into a spoiled brat,
00:44:10and she doesn't appreciate half the stuff
00:44:12that we've tried to do and help her.
00:44:19What's that?
00:44:20Chicken, half of a chicken.
00:44:21No.
00:44:22Very good.
00:44:25It's good?
00:44:34Mama, I'm ready to go!
00:44:36All right, let's go!
00:44:38Yeah, take that.
00:44:38That's your motorcycle for today.
00:44:42You happy you brought all these suitcases?
00:44:45Ellie, careful.
00:44:46Oh.
00:44:48I'm gonna turn on the car, babe.
00:44:50It's hot.
00:44:52Babe, are we forgetting something?
00:44:55Yeah, our brain.
00:44:56Ugh.
00:44:57Can we go?
00:45:04All righty, everyone.
00:45:08Let's go!
00:45:09Are you ready to go to Moldova?
00:45:11Yeah.
00:45:12Louder!
00:45:13Let's go!
00:45:15Let's go!
00:45:16But then let's come back.
00:45:18Yay!
00:45:19I'm gonna trap you off.
00:45:20I'm gonna trap you off.
00:45:26I'm probably...
00:45:26Forbes.
00:45:27I feel like...
00:45:27I feel like...
00:45:28I'm...
00:45:29I feel like...
00:45:33Look!
00:45:33look look at the brunello
00:45:43Hey
00:45:57Thank you
00:46:13Let's go.
00:46:14Let's go on the machine.
00:46:15Let's go see if we like it here.
00:46:19So far, Winston doesn't like it.
00:46:22The trip over with our two kids was a disaster.
00:46:28Winston has never been overseas,
00:46:30so he wanted to get out of the plane, like, screaming,
00:46:34didn't understand.
00:46:35And now that we're finally here in Moldova,
00:46:38I think the reality of it is kind of setting in
00:46:41that this could actually be my home
00:46:44and just starting to get a little overwhelmed about it.
00:47:03Babe, we don't have any of their stuff,
00:47:06like pillows, my toothbrush, like, my face wash.
00:47:12OK.
00:47:13Forget about the luggage.
00:47:14Luggage is last.
00:47:15We're going to get it back, hopefully.
00:47:17I did get pajamas.
00:47:18I didn't get you underwear, though.
00:47:19So you might have to put your underwear inside
00:47:21out and wear them again.
00:47:23Peeew.
00:47:24Say, .
00:47:29We're staying at his parents' house.
00:47:49It's not like I dislike Andrei's family.
00:47:52It's just his mom is very overbearing.
00:47:54And then when you combine that with a small space
00:47:57and one bathroom for six people,
00:48:00it's just a recipe for disaster.
00:48:04Ah, it feels like home, huh?
00:48:06It is, but it feels like home?
00:48:08No, it doesn't.
00:48:09Sex will fix it.
00:48:11Where will we have sex?
00:48:13In the closet?
00:48:14All right, all right.
00:48:18Hello.
00:48:19Hello.
00:48:20What's up?
00:48:21Hello.
00:48:22Hello.
00:48:24Hello, hello.
00:48:25This is a nice surprise.
00:48:26Hello.
00:48:27How are you?
00:48:28Nice, nice.
00:48:29Good to see you.
00:48:30At last, at last I see you.
00:48:31Hello.
00:48:32Salud.
00:48:33I know a little bit more Romanian now.
00:48:38I downloaded an app.
00:48:40But I learned mostly just by listening to his parents
00:48:44speak and just trying to communicate with them.
00:48:47I mean, it is in my best interest to know what the hell
00:48:49you guys are talking about, right?
00:48:51Of course.
00:48:52And I can tell if you're talking **** or not,
00:48:54so that's good.
00:48:55You're very good at it.
00:48:56Thanks, babe.
00:48:58Oh my God, the road was long.
00:49:00The road was very long.
00:49:01You both look tired.
00:49:02Oh my gosh.
00:49:03Very tired.
00:49:04Very tired.
00:49:05Please, please.
00:49:07Mother, if you say hi.
00:49:08Please, please.
00:49:09Please, please.
00:49:10That's it.
00:49:11That's it.
00:49:12That's it.
00:49:13I have a toast for you.
00:49:15Welcome to Moldova.
00:49:17We are healthy.
00:49:18We are grateful that God helped us
00:49:20and you will come to Moldova.
00:49:22You talk about it.
00:49:23That's it.
00:49:24That's it.
00:49:25That's it.
00:49:26That's it.
00:49:27Let's dig in.
00:49:28We'll see.
00:49:29We'll see.
00:49:30We'll see.
00:49:31We'll see.
00:49:32We'll see.
00:49:33We'll see.
00:49:34It's going to be fun.
00:49:35We'll see.
00:49:36We'll see.
00:49:37We'll see.
00:49:38We'll see.
00:49:39We'll see.
00:49:40Moldova is also a nice country.
00:49:41It is?
00:49:42It is.
00:49:43It is.
00:49:44You need to regret so convincing.
00:49:45Don't you know?
00:49:46It's good.
00:49:47It's good.
00:49:48Mm-hmm.
00:49:49Andrei is already laying on enough pressure
00:49:53and his family is adding like another layer
00:49:56of this intense feeling and all I want to do
00:49:59at this point is just go to bed.
00:50:01What is this?
00:50:02This is salata.
00:50:04It's a curry sauce.
00:50:05It's a curry sauce.
00:50:06It's a curry sauce.
00:50:07It's a curry sauce.
00:50:08It's a curry sauce.
00:50:09It's a curry sauce.
00:50:10What's that?
00:50:11Chicken.
00:50:12Heart of a chicken.
00:50:13No.
00:50:14Very good.
00:50:15Hey.
00:50:16Try it.
00:50:17Try it.
00:50:18It's a curry sauce.
00:50:20It's tasty.
00:50:21It's tasty.
00:50:22No.
00:50:23Dr.
00:50:24Vincent, stay here.
00:50:26About tomorrow party.
00:50:28Yeah, cheers.
00:50:29Cheers.
00:50:30Cheers, Naika.
00:50:31No rock.
00:50:32All right.
00:50:33Wait, wait a minute.
00:50:34Wait a minute.
00:50:35But what is the party for?
00:50:36It's OK.
00:50:37It's a big deal.
00:50:42Why don't you tell me these things?
00:50:46What party?
00:50:47What party is this?
00:50:48You know what?
00:50:49I have a surprise for you.
00:50:51Hm?
00:50:52Honestly, babe, I love surprises.
00:50:54But if you don't include me on your plans and your little schemes, I am not going to be happy
00:51:01about this trip.
00:51:02At all.
00:51:03When I was browsing around, I found a couple of hats.
00:51:16What is that?
00:51:17Oh, it's a hat.
00:51:18Natalie is much different than Jasmine because we have this good connection.
00:51:25We're having fun together.
00:51:26I want to invite you to come to Michigan.
00:51:29What's there to do in Michigan?
00:51:30I made my fair share of mistakes.
00:51:31Not taking me for granted.
00:51:32One more second or one more day.
00:51:33I swear I'm going to be better.
00:51:34I'm going to need a new machine.
00:51:35I don't like this one.
00:51:36It doesn't make a regular pot of coffee.
00:51:52The one Jasmine gave me, I can make either or.
00:51:54This only gives me the option to make a single.
00:51:57It's not going to cut it.
00:51:59Ooh, I'm gonna love you like
00:52:02Ooh, I'm gonna love you like
00:52:05Ooh, I'm gonna love you like
00:52:09Ooh, I'm gonna love you like
00:52:10Ooh, I'm gonna love you like
00:52:12Men's.
00:52:13Men's.
00:52:14Men's.
00:52:15Men's.
00:52:16That's...
00:52:17No, that's not men's.
00:52:19That's...
00:52:20That's all women.
00:52:21I love the thrift stores.
00:52:26I mean, I'll fill the whole freaking cart up.
00:52:30Air Refresheners.
00:52:32Disinfectant.
00:52:33Decorations or whatnot.
00:52:36Birthday cards.
00:52:37Birthday cards you can buy super cheap
00:52:39at the thrift store.
00:52:41I love a bargain.
00:52:42I love value.
00:52:44And man, I'm all for it.
00:52:46My gosh.
00:52:47Natalie would love this hat.
00:52:48She'd love to see me in this hat.
00:52:49Bring back good memories.
00:52:50All right.
00:52:51I have not spoken to Jasmine since I told her that I wanted a divorce.
00:53:09I haven't started the paperwork yet.
00:53:12I would prefer to wait for a recession when the market completely drops because I don't
00:53:17want to share money with Jasmine for free.
00:53:22But it's also a lot to process.
00:53:25I had a whole life planned out with Jasmine.
00:53:28And for things to end this way, I feel like it was a whole waste of time.
00:53:33And it just makes me sick.
00:53:36Oh my gosh.
00:53:37Natalie texts me.
00:53:38I'm gonna call her.
00:53:39Hey Natalie.
00:53:40How you doing?
00:53:41Good.
00:53:42How are you?
00:53:43I'm doing fantastic.
00:53:44Happy to see you.
00:53:45It's been a while.
00:53:46I love that shirt.
00:53:47I think it's very tropical.
00:53:49Yeah.
00:53:50I'm in that tropical mood today.
00:53:51But where are you?
00:53:52Fantastic.
00:53:53I'm doing fantastic.
00:53:54Happy to see you.
00:53:55It's been a while.
00:53:56Happy to see you.
00:53:58I love that shirt.
00:53:59It gets very tropical.
00:54:01Yeah.
00:54:02I'm in that tropical mood today.
00:54:05but where are you i'm at the thrift store and i found a few clothes when i was browsing around
00:54:14i found a couple of hats let me see um well hold on a second i guess you know what i'm gonna i'm
00:54:20gonna throw it on what do you think oh my god that is so cute love it all right let me see that
00:54:29let me turn around full circle oh there's the tail oh my god natalie is much different than jasmine
00:54:40because we have this good connection we're having fun together oh my gosh oh i like that one that
00:54:47kind of gives you like a russian vibe i want to pursue a relationship with natalie we had an
00:54:54awesome time in vegas we've still been building our connection up and talking things have really
00:55:00been going good i'll be back in a minute but you know i spent four years in a relationship with jasmine
00:55:08and you know i've only known natalie for a few days i need to get to know natalie more
00:55:15so i can really see if this relationship can go somewhere
00:55:24oh my god a lot of color at one time not your look whatsoever what no wait a minute what do you
00:55:35mean it's not my look you need a hat without the sweatshirt oh no well i want to make sure it's
00:55:41something you like i mean do you like this color i like that color a lot i'm gonna put it on just for
00:55:48you thank you but did you have a chat with jasmine yes i did yes i did um it was difficult
00:56:03i was very emotional i was very upset and i kind of let her have it and you know it sounded like jasmine
00:56:12wanted to reconcile with me and what did how do you feel about that well obviously i was very upset
00:56:22about what she did to me and i was not gonna have any of that at that moment so
00:56:32and what did you tell her
00:56:33um i told jasmine that i wanted divorce and how did she react to that i think she's a bit shocked
00:56:44about me saying that to be honest i don't think she expected me to say that
00:56:52it was really important for me to for both parties to have closure because you know i don't want to be
00:56:57in the middle of something that right potentially you guys would get back together do we have full
00:57:04closure yet no but at least i told her how i felt she told me how she felt uh so we got through
00:57:11that part i brought her stuff for her bringing her stuff to her shows that you know i'm ready
00:57:19to move on okay now does she does she know you were hanging out with me in vegas
00:57:27i told her i went and seen you in vegas and i had a good time there okay um i don't think she was
00:57:33head over heels about it but well i mean i understand that but i just you know i don't want
00:57:39to be in the middle of anything you know i had a great time in vegas i'm not gonna lie without a lot
00:57:44of fun no i had such a good time i want i want to invite you to come to michigan
00:57:50i would love to absolutely but what what's there to do in michigan well michigan has five great lakes
00:58:01around it and no other state can say that i can't wait to see natalie again and kiss her again but you
00:58:13know at the same time i just told jasmine i'm going to divorce her and i'm still trying to process
00:58:21the feelings with all of that and it's complicated
00:58:28i find an ice bar over there well if you come during the winter time you just walk out the front door
00:58:34how's it eliminate it looks good what tell me i came out from the bathroom i saw something that i
00:58:50didn't like how can you have a relationship with someone whenever you don't trust them
00:58:57i don't know how what is it really
00:59:17it's raining again one said a man has got to do
00:59:23the things he's got to do one said a man must make his plans and then follow them through
00:59:39did you enjoy with the ultrasound when you see us in yeah i do of course this is my first time
00:59:47i'm in season so i feel so happy
01:00:06how's it eliminate looks good
01:00:08what tell me what tell me what i don't know tell me i'm not comfortable tell me
01:00:20i'm glad that you enjoyed it no i am not enjoyed it now you're pretending when you you are in your cake
01:00:31delicious
01:00:32thank you so much
01:00:39what
01:00:48it keeps so messy
01:00:57well yes
01:00:58when we walked in the problem was fixed but i came out from the bathroom i saw something that i didn't like
01:01:10what is it
01:01:13really
01:01:20about driving
01:01:21a small kink
01:01:24no
01:01:26you made a promise to me about something so i'll ask you again is there anything
01:01:33that you want to tell me
01:01:36it's nothing
01:01:38so you're still saying that you did nothing
01:01:41okay
01:01:46okay
01:01:49no
01:01:51no
01:01:51no
01:01:52oh
01:01:53no
01:01:53didn't you promise me that you wouldn't do that
01:01:57and
01:01:58you said that if you did that you would tell me right away
01:02:02And I promised you that I wouldn't get mad if you did it.
01:02:09You didn't tell me.
01:02:11Okay, I told you.
01:02:12You didn't tell me until I basically pulled it out of you.
01:02:20But you told me that you would quit whenever I got pregnant.
01:02:23Are there more times that you're keeping from me?
01:02:28No, answer my question.
01:02:33Maybe.
01:02:34It's either yes or no.
01:02:35Yes.
01:02:39Do you think it's okay to keep secrets from your wife and break promises to your wife?
01:02:48Do you want me to do the same?
01:02:49Do you want me to start keeping secrets from you?
01:02:53Anything.
01:02:59It's okay.
01:03:00So now I know.
01:03:01But like these things.
01:03:02We'll keep secrets from each other then.
01:03:04If I can't trust you to just keep your word to me about something small like that, then how can I trust you for other things?
01:03:16Good. Now you didn't trust me?
01:03:17I don't.
01:03:18You didn't trust me.
01:03:19You didn't trust me.
01:03:20You didn't keep your word to me.
01:03:21Okay.
01:03:23You didn't trust me.
01:03:27You didn't trust me.
01:03:28You didn't trust me?
01:03:29Now after when I am hang up all my old life and leave it behind me to make her life more comfortable and more happiness.
01:03:39more comfortable and more happiness.
01:03:41And she now told me I didn't trust you
01:03:44because, like, a silly issue about smoking or do something.
01:03:48I don't have a time for that.
01:03:50I'm not coming here for a playing.
01:03:57You broke my trust.
01:03:59It's not my problem, your problem.
01:04:00Do you, like, even hear yourself right now?
01:04:04Yeah.
01:04:05Mm-hmm.
01:04:07You lied to me, you broke my trust,
01:04:09but then this is my problem.
01:04:13You don't accept responsibility for anything.
01:04:16I didn't do anything bad.
01:04:24I have learned that if someone shows you who they are,
01:04:32you need to believe them.
01:04:34How can you have a relationship with someone
01:04:37whenever you don't trust them?
01:04:40I don't know how.
01:04:42It's your decision.
01:04:43You chose this.
01:04:44You chose that I can't trust you.
01:04:47It's 10 o'clock right now.
01:04:49We have six hours to the party, so...
01:04:52My wonderful husband decided to plan this party.
01:04:55Just, like, surprise after surprise after surprise.
01:04:59What exactly are we doing out here?
01:05:00Three!
01:05:01What?
01:05:01Two!
01:05:02Are there tigers coming out?
01:05:03One!
01:05:04Go!
01:05:05This hottest part is when I think about how happy we used to be, because I just see him now in two different ways.
01:05:12You know, it's like the old Guillermo that I really love, and then, like, this new Guillermo that I feel like I don't know.
01:05:18I don't know how we got here.
01:05:39I didn't sleep at all last night, and I feel like .
01:05:55How much longer are we going to hear this sound?
01:05:59Are you serious?
01:06:01They're not going to do repair works in their apartment because Elizabeth cannot sleep?
01:06:04All day, every day?
01:06:05Great.
01:06:06I feel like the roof is going to cave in.
01:06:20Babe.
01:06:21What?
01:06:22Really?
01:06:23That's creepy.
01:06:24What?
01:06:25I know you're going to get sleep, but...
01:06:28Can you put those pillows back?
01:06:37This is our first morning in Moldova, and honestly, I feel a little tired and a little pissed off because I told Andre that I don't really want to stay with his parents.
01:06:47It never shakes out nice, and I just don't feel comfortable there.
01:06:52Okay, you're going to get a nice breakfast, and you're going to be fine.
01:06:54I don't want a breakfast.
01:06:56It's like I want to sleep and not hear a drill and a chainsaw and then go to the bathroom without running into somebody.
01:07:05Babe.
01:07:07Hurry up.
01:07:08It's not a big deal.
01:07:09There's six people.
01:07:10It's not going to be a coincidence if everyone wants to take a at the same time.
01:07:13I've never even been in jail, but I would imagine that this is what it would be like.
01:07:18Literally!
01:07:20You're making me laugh.
01:07:21Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah!
01:07:22Do you want a puppy?
01:07:23No.
01:07:24Look, look, look.
01:07:25Right here.
01:07:26That's it.
01:07:27Settle down.
01:07:28Everybody's tired.
01:07:29Daddy, is that your favorite cake that you had when you were with the baby, Daddy?
01:07:39Yes.
01:07:40Daddy, you want some?
01:07:41Yeah.
01:07:42How was your night taste?
01:07:44Did you wake up a lot of times?
01:07:45Uh-huh.
01:07:46I'm back to my childhood apartment.
01:08:02I love it.
01:08:03I love what my mom does for us and it's so welcoming.
01:08:08It's just feeling at home.
01:08:09Yeah, she kisses your ass because you're a mama's boy.
01:08:13Yeah, she kisses your ass because you're a momma's boy.
01:08:19With your smirk.
01:08:22Did you get a text or anything for our luggage?
01:08:25Any updates?
01:08:26No, nada.
01:08:28We have so much stuff in there, babe, that we need.
01:08:44Andre has decided to plan this party tonight,
01:08:48and he's just leaving me in the dark about it.
01:08:52Look, the gesture is nice,
01:08:54but it could have been any other day than today.
01:08:58I mean, we lost our luggage, so we don't have any clothes.
01:09:02Thankfully, I have my makeup.
01:09:13It's so pretty.
01:09:22It's a lot fancier than what I thought.
01:09:25What do you mean?
01:09:27Babe, this is how we roll here.
01:09:28This is just, like, posh.
01:09:30Snazzy.
01:09:32Snazzy, indeed.
01:09:33You have to be snazzy in Moldova to live here.
01:09:34Yep.
01:09:35Come on.
01:09:43Oh, my gosh.
01:09:44Salud.
01:09:45Salud.
01:09:46Salud.
01:09:47Salud.
01:09:48Come on, babe.
01:09:49Come on.
01:09:50Oh, my gosh.
01:09:51Salud.
01:09:52Salud.
01:09:53Salud.
01:09:54Salud.
01:09:55Oh, my gosh.
01:09:57Welcome.
01:09:58Hi.
01:09:59I feel like I'm having a wedding or something.
01:10:01Oh, my gosh.
01:10:03Salud.
01:10:04Salud.
01:10:05Salud.
01:10:06Salud.
01:10:07Salud.
01:10:08Oh, my gosh.
01:10:10Welcome.
01:10:11Hi.
01:10:12Hello.
01:10:15Good job.
01:10:16Oh, thank you.
01:10:19Multimask Mold.
01:10:23Do you like my surprise, Elisabeth?
01:10:25This is Premult.
01:10:26Premult?
01:10:27Premult.
01:10:28Premult.
01:10:42Being at this party and having all these friends and family around me feels like the old
01:10:47good days.
01:10:48I want everybody to meet Winston and also I want to impress my wife because she needs to
01:10:55get the Saludomis in Moldavian move.
01:10:58Move.
01:10:59Hey!
01:11:00Good evening.
01:11:01It's a good evening.
01:11:02Good evening.
01:11:03Good evening.
01:11:04Good evening.
01:11:05Good evening.
01:11:06Good evening.
01:11:07Good evening.
01:11:08Good evening.
01:11:09Again.
01:11:10Good evening.
01:11:12Good evening.
01:11:13Very good.
01:11:14Good evening.
01:11:15Good evening.
01:11:16You came and we have allowed us to put warm up.
01:11:19It's a retreat because we didn't decide to leave at Moldova.
01:11:25Elisabeth.
01:11:33I'm not fluent in Romanian yet.
01:11:35I'm very limited in my vocabulary.
01:11:38So, some things get lost in translation
01:11:41and this is actually one of those moments.
01:11:44I feel kind of stupid because I don't know what's going on.
01:11:51Woo-hoo!
01:11:55Hell yeah, hell yeah.
01:11:59Let's get it, let's get it, let's get it.
01:12:03Hey, you know what, I'm going to be right back.
01:12:07Hey, everybody, I have one more surprise.
01:12:10Let's go upstairs.
01:12:16What exactly are we doing out here?
01:12:18All right, let's go.
01:12:19What are we doing out here?
01:12:22Three, two.
01:12:23What?
01:12:24Are there tigers coming out or?
01:12:25One, two.
01:12:27Woo!
01:12:28Woo!
01:12:36Woo!
01:12:38What?
01:12:40I want to enjoy my time here and he's so excited.
01:12:44Like, I don't want to pull the rug out from underneath him,
01:12:47but, like, I feel like I've just, like, crashed someone's wedding.
01:12:51Like, I don't know what the I'm doing here, honestly.
01:12:53It's like things that just remind you of, like, better times around the house.
01:13:09When I see stuff like this, it's just, like, a time when things were really beautiful and
01:13:24good.
01:13:25It's just been unbearable, uncomfortable.
01:13:39And then, like, you might have to do a little bit more time when it comes to school.
01:13:58I just absolutely hate that I had to be the one to ask him to leave.
01:14:08I... I don't know.
01:14:10I just feel like sometimes I feel okay,
01:14:12and I'm optimistic that everything's gonna be fine,
01:14:14and then other times it feels like we're really on the brink,
01:14:17like on the edge of the end.
01:14:22A few days ago, Guillermo saw me laughing and writing on my phone,
01:14:26and he legitimately thinks that I'm cheating on him.
01:14:32When he asked me who I was writing,
01:14:34I told him it's none of his business,
01:14:37and so now he thinks it's a man.
01:14:41Did you cheat on him?
01:14:42No, there's zero truth to his accusations,
01:14:44and he makes it up in his mind and then gets mad at me for it.
01:14:47And I'm like, okay, but you made that up?
01:14:50You're the one making these things up in your mind,
01:14:52and now I'm supposed to deal with your emotional response
01:14:56of the you made up in your brain?
01:14:58Because it's not me stepping out.
01:14:59It's him thinking I'm stepping out.
01:15:00So it's like, what do we need to change and work on
01:15:02where he can feel safe?
01:15:07But it just got to the point where we can't even talk
01:15:09without it devolving into a fight, and it's just too much.
01:15:12It's overwhelming, and it just sucks that it's come to this.
01:15:17I think maybe the saddest part is like when I...
01:15:22Yeah, yeah.
01:15:27The saddest part is when I think about how happy we used to be.
01:15:32Truly.
01:15:33Because I just see him now in two different ways, you know?
01:15:38It's like the old Guillermo that I really love,
01:15:40and then like this new Guillermo that I feel like I don't know.
01:15:44You know?
01:15:49Yes, I don't know how I got here, you know?
01:15:52Or how we got here.
01:15:56But I just feel like we really do need some space
01:15:59to hopefully be able to come back together in a better way.
01:16:03Because whatever's happening right now isn't working.
01:16:08Hopefully being separated like this
01:16:11can be like a bridge to get us back to being together.
01:16:15And we can work on it, and things will be better.
01:16:20I just...
01:16:24I'm so sad. I just...
01:16:26I don't know.
01:16:36Brendan, he said, push me, push me for the second opinion.
01:16:38Wait, wait.
01:16:40This is my house, you can't do this to me.
01:16:43I need support, not pressure.
01:16:45Seriously, I'm a little...
01:16:47I'm over, I'm over.
01:16:57That's just her personality.
01:16:58It's just her nature to want to draw in and...
01:17:02Shut down?
01:17:03Shut down, yeah.
01:17:05And everybody else is the bad guy.
01:17:06But we're not the bad guys.
01:17:07We're not trying to be the bad guys.
01:17:08We're trying to help.
01:17:18This is why I don't want the parents to come.
01:17:19This is just the beginning, you know?
01:17:21Her parents bring out stress that she doesn't need.
01:17:25She's taking the whole thing out on me.
01:17:28They're not even here, and this...
01:17:30And it's just turning into a nightmare before they get here.
01:17:33Julia just stormed off in the house after my mom's trying to help her make an appointment for the fertility clinic.
01:17:39But I think that's overreacting.
01:17:44We're trying to all be family here.
01:17:45We're supposed to pull together, work together, support each other.
01:17:49And it's like she's fighting tooth and nail, everything.
01:17:54I'm starting to think this all is just an excuse.
01:17:56Maybe she doesn't want kids because she keeps finding any reason to say no to not go do this after she'd said she would.
01:18:06Julia, you want to talk for a few minutes?
01:18:09No, I mean, I just, because he told, like, like, auntie family.
01:18:15But Brandon, he's pushing me from the second opinion.
01:18:18And it's not easy.
01:18:20And that's why I said I'd be happy to try and help you to maybe help find a doctor, to help make some arrangements,
01:18:26so that that way you can focus on getting your parents here and just have to go to an appointment.
01:18:30I was just trying to help.
01:18:31I was just trying to help.
01:18:32This is not easy like that, just going to the doctor.
01:18:34He's trying to push me.
01:18:35He not sit with me.
01:18:36He not hug me.
01:18:37He not put, like, wine and make a dinner and say, hey, let's talk to my wife.
01:18:41No, he said, you promised me you have to do this.
01:18:43If you are going to do this, I'm not going to do nothing.
01:18:45This is how he say.
01:18:47Because I promised Brandon in the second opinion, now he thinking that is easy and his parents thinking that's going to be so easy.
01:18:56But emotionally, it's not that easy.
01:18:59Because I'm already here a lot of stuff on my body.
01:19:01When I did a fertility test in Russia.
01:19:04And that is so painful.
01:19:05That is so painful.
01:19:06Like, I need support, not pressure.
01:19:08He has to be careful about that topic.
01:19:14And he's trying to push me, and that is not right.
01:19:17And you both support him now.
01:19:20And push me, push me for the second opinion.
01:19:23I don't want to go now.
01:19:25And I'm not going because he's pushing.
01:19:29That's going to help the whole situation.
01:19:30That's going to help me.
01:19:32I want to be alone.
01:19:33I want to see any, anybody.
01:19:35Very, very.
01:19:39This is my house.
01:19:40You can do this to me.
01:19:43Come on, Luke.
01:19:44Go outside.
01:19:45Seriously, I'm little.
01:19:46I'm over.
01:19:47I'm over.
01:19:48I feel disrespected she's talking with me like that.
01:19:51And I'm like, do this for me.
01:19:52It's like, it's my house.
01:19:54I'm angry.
01:19:55I'm over.
01:19:56And you go home from my house.
01:19:58I try and keep the peace and calm,
01:20:00and it blows up in my face every single time.
01:20:03Every time I try and do something to help, I get a fight.
01:20:07I just, I can't.
01:20:09Brennan's parents always overstep,
01:20:12and now it's about facility tests.
01:20:14If I will do second opinion,
01:20:16it's going to be forever I want to do this,
01:20:18not when it's Brennan pushed me or mom pushed me
01:20:20or anybody else pushed me.
01:20:21Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, happily ever after.
01:20:30Oh.
01:20:31Oh.
01:20:33We really need this honeymoon.
01:20:35It's been a long time in the making.
01:20:37Take me in a shower.
01:20:39Oh.
01:20:43Stay there.
01:20:44What?
01:20:45Stay there.
01:20:46Why?
01:20:47I want to tell you something.
01:20:48What you want to tell me?
01:20:49With Mila growing up so fast,
01:20:51I think I'm ready for a new chapter.
01:20:53So I have a big surprise for Jovi.
01:20:56But before I tell you, promise me,
01:20:58you're not going to get met.
01:20:59What did you do?
01:21:00Well...
01:21:05Ad... Admon?
01:21:06Adnan.
01:21:07Adnan.
01:21:08Yeah, Adnan.
01:21:09Adnan hasn't met my dad and stepmom.
01:21:12Adnan is looking for my dad's approval,
01:21:15and he might not get it.
01:21:18That's good.
01:21:19Do you know about my religion?
01:21:20A little bit.
01:21:21Yeah?
01:21:22What do you think?
01:21:23Oh.
01:21:26I want our family to grow, you know?
01:21:29Yeah.
01:21:30Darling, let's go do the second opinion.
01:21:33I know how much it's meaning for Brandon to have kids.
01:21:37But what if doctors say,
01:21:39I can't have kids?
01:21:41He will be freaking out even more.
01:21:43This will be destroyed.
01:21:45Aw.
01:21:46Aw.
01:21:47I don't think that Jasmine cheated.
01:21:50She will tell me in front of Matt that she loves you.
01:21:55And she regrets the whole open marriage thing.
01:22:01When I met Jasmine in the parking lot,
01:22:03I just regret not giving her too much time
01:22:06to, like, tell me how she feels.
01:22:10You know, I think it's at least worth
01:22:12having another conversation with Jasmine.
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