- 7/10/2025
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00:00okay so he you know this guy he said he saved a baby daddy for me he's referring to himself when
00:14he says let's go ahead and pack it up but this guy said he didn't he saved him he saved himself
00:21as a baby daddy for me I said okay I like that um y'all I knew about all of them I was crazy it's like
00:32oh my goodness well I'm happy you came to your senses Lex to tell the group to tell the class
00:41what not to do so we're at the restaurant we went to a restaurant called Lee Colonial which I really
00:52like it is a fine dining restaurant we got um dumplings appetizer ribs we got stir fry I got
01:02shrimp stir fry he got chicken stir fry I got a lemon drop I got a I got a lemon drop and I got a
01:07lychee martini so this is like our first like chitty chatty that we were talking to each other
01:12really like the vibes um I was like okay you know sometimes I haven't been on a date in a little
01:20minute so I was very much like God please just send me a normal one God just please send me a normal one
01:30all I'm asking is for a little bit of normalcy okay I'm not asking for a superstar just
01:36normal my goodness and so I do feel like he did answer that after we ate there we had to get the
01:44car from valet we went up to the rooftop he took pictures of me we took pictures um I took pictures
01:51of him he took pictures of me let me see oh let me see do I got evidence evidence and proof
02:00let's go back a lot of things have happened okay we're we're okay look I'm in the tessie
02:10okay in the tessie
02:15didn't at the rest at the russie
02:20at the restaurant cute little vibes and then oh where's the food because we always got to get the
02:31food I did ask I was like can I record he was like yeah you can record I'll be having to ask
02:39nowadays nowadays okay so after this my home girl was at the thompson hotel pool so I was like um I
02:51was like can we pull up to the thompson hotel because I hate I hate like I hate letting my
02:55friends down like I'm going to attempt to pull up even if I'm doing something else so after that we
02:59did go to the thompson hotel she was already gone when I pulled up so we pulled up to the thompson
03:05hotel and then we decided let's go somewhere else so then we rode past rum punch and rum punch
03:13was like the line was wrapped around this building so rum punch is like upstairs so we about to go
03:19rum punch is up there they all up there baby couldn't go in because the weekend was just too crazy
03:27so that line was wrapped all the way around but we he still took me somewhere and we went to another
03:37like spot we went to another spot
03:42and then he did these the pictures so he did take pictures of me at the place so I like that
03:52he was very sweet and then he do like the same like paragraphs okay so we went there we hung out
04:01all night like all night so we went to we went to fin and feathers and then even after fin and feathers
04:08we went to utopia and so at utopia I got muscles another lemon drop
04:17and then we took shots because after that we was like these um these drinks ain't hitting like
04:24the drinks is very cutesy we not feeling it so we went to this was a this was a three spot well
04:31technically five but we went into three so a three spot date first date three spot first date y'all
04:39enjoyed each other I enjoyed him okay but let me tell you where where things I felt a little like
04:45okay so he was definitely like wanting to hold my hand and while we were in bucket shops you know
04:53bucket shops is with the white people we love an all-day day you know bucket shops is where the
05:00white people be at so I definitely was holding his hand and stuff and then even when we went to
05:06fin and feathers like fin and feathers was a little bit more ratchet time he was like wanting to put his
05:12arm arm around me and stuff and in there what was I feeling I just didn't know who was around
05:20like I kind of got like like a little paranoid now I've been single for too long I got a little
05:24paranoid just a tad bit like I'm like okay like I'm scoping out the room who the fuck is in this room
05:31you know I don't know it was just it was I was a little you know so it was fun at fin and feathers he
05:41was kind of like why are you so far from me and I was giving him very close energy before
05:47and then but then at the next spot I kind of like tried to distance but then I scoped around and I still
05:56allowed it but at the third spot the third spot that we went to we first we walk in and then it's
06:06this big room this big outside room so like when you walk in everybody looks is looking at you and
06:11I could say it was more high profile people in there so when I we go over to a section my home
06:16girl not another home girl or another like peer of mine that be outside is in the section she's like
06:22hey Shayla and she gets down and like gives me a hug or whatever and so that's when I knew like
06:28I can peep the room like I can I can peep the vibe of the room and I knew in this particular place
06:35I was like oh it's too many high profile people it's too many people I can't it's I just I can't look
06:40and y'all staring at me it's too much going on I was like oh my god I hate it I'm with the guys
06:46other guys it's just it was too much it was so much I said why are we here I had that feeling
06:53of like why are we here and it wasn't that I didn't like him it was just I just
06:58it was becoming too much so now we're sitting at the bar and now he's doing the same thing wrapping
07:07his arm around me and then I had to say something I had to say something at that point I had to say
07:14something because it was too much going on it's rose voices outside it's everything else I just it
07:19was too much and so I had to say I just looked at him and I said so you know PDA is not like you
07:29know my biggest thing I had to say PDA is you know it's kind of a lot he was like what do you mean
07:37like I'm good um yes I know that you're good yeah um yeah I know that you're good and he's like yeah
07:50I know the I know people's I know people's in here like you're safe with me you know I didn't think
07:57that I was not safe I didn't think that I wasn't safe you know it I just was like you know it's just
08:08the it's just the first date you know it's just the first date and um I don't know who you know
08:14people know me
08:16people know me and he was like he kind of I don't I wouldn't say that he got offended but he just
08:27it just wasn't it just wasn't fully clicking to him and he was just like oh I mean if we I mean if
08:38we go out well now I know to like maybe we need to go to more more uh dates where like it's not too
08:47many people I was like yeah that would be nice and I was trying to explain to him that you know
08:55because it was the first date that it just takes me a little bit longer to warm up
09:01it does take me a little bit longer to warm up and then can you imagine it's the first date
09:07but we're walking around like I'm your girl like I don't know where you live you know I don't know
09:15your credit score I don't know who you dated in the past I don't know who know you I don't know
09:22see it's some things that I don't know it's the things that I don't know and some things that I
09:26don't know okay and and to be associated like I already know people know me so to be associated
09:34with somebody that I don't know it just made me Jayla making sure she don't scare off other potential
09:43you know it just I just you know I was like oh this this spot this is this was too popular of a spot
09:52you know this spot you come with your girlfriends you know everything goes it was just going too fast
09:59and he wanted to hold hands like and I liked that because the flip side is the guys that
10:06don't hold your hand ever so I could say like he wasn't my husband might be here sir my husband
10:16might be in here sir I never we're on a first date I gotta go home and debrief with my girls
10:22before we before you know you said the bottle is like I'm trying to see something and it's not
10:30even that like he paid for everything well he paid for everything but it was still it was one thing
10:40that I noticed and I didn't know why or what or I didn't really understand because he paid for
10:45everything in cash so he had all this cash and then when we needed to park at one we need to park
10:53somewhere you know like the QR codes and you have to put a card in to do the QR code for one of the
11:00parking things and it was only six dollars but that was the thing I had to pay for something about a card
11:08and so I did it I don't know I don't know I don't know bro I don't know but it was like
11:13where is his cards I don't know where his cards are his cards are at
11:25but of course that you can't really you know I wasn't going to ask that
11:31but it did go through my mind
11:36where is his cards where is this cash coming from where'd you that's okay I got and I you know it
11:47wasn't nothing like I just did it I just paid for it but it's still as I did it because the six
11:53dollars won't nothing like fine whatever
11:55but in my head
11:58I couldn't let it go
12:01where is brother cards at where is brother cards at but nonetheless
12:09they've been flagged by banks
12:13child he don't have a card with six dollars on it
12:23so
12:32what I know
12:36he had the cash that's all he had the cash
12:41he had the cash that's all I know
12:45that's all I know he had the cash and so um he's been very very sweet like very sweet
12:53um the the next day
12:55um I mean even in my phone right now I'm probably being a bad texter because he definitely text me
13:02and said can I see you Friday and what have you eaten today and that was at 224
13:07but anyways so other than that
13:17other than that I think he he's a he would you know okay well what else I did ask what he did
13:31um and he's trying to feed you
13:32and I'm trying to feed you he he feeds so
13:39all
13:40did. He said that he was a car salesman at a dealership. Now
13:47I've never I've never dated a car. I've never dated a car salesman
13:51at a dealership. So I don't I'm not I don't know what that
13:59entails. I mean, obviously he's in sales. But this is this is
14:08what this is what I was told. Okay, what I was told was car
14:15sales.
14:26That's all I know.
14:28So you know, he did let me know he has a lot of leads. And then
14:44that he has to close the X amount of sales a month. You said normal
14:50guy though, listen.
15:00Um, so the next day, he does bring me food. He brings me like
15:06some wings, some chicken fried rice. Um, so he brings me some
15:12food the next day. And yesterday he asked to see me he was like,
15:17can you be ready at 10pm and wear heels this time and I want to
15:20take you out now I declined yesterday. I declined the date
15:24yesterday. So I let him see me on Sunday. He brought me food on
15:28Monday. Tuesday, I decline because I'm like I have work to do
15:32which I really do have work to do. I'm like, he can't get all my
15:34time babies. I got shit to do. And then today he's asking can he
15:38see me on Friday when he's asking what did I eat today? Oh,
15:43wait, what else he said? Um, Mr. Ma'am, he don't know you on
16:04live. No, tick tock is like my little secret place. So um, guys
16:10typically follow me on Instagram. Guys don't follow me on. They
16:15be trying to go fast to get the no for real. I really do feel
16:18like they be trying to go fast. You have to slow them down. You
16:23have to slow them down. So I do feel like him trying to see me
16:26every day. I just feel like he trying to like swoop me off my
16:30feet and like lock me in which that's not a bad thing. I think
16:33I'm just I'm over that you know, I need him to be my friend. Oh,
16:39so I did say I did tell him I was like, I think we we need to be
16:45friends. He was like friends. Oh, he looks so disappointed when I
16:49said friends child. He looks so disappointed when I said friends.
16:53And I was like, Well, I mean, not like, well, like, yeah, a
16:57friendship, but like getting to know each other friend ship. The
17:04fuck? They don't like that word. They do not like that friends
17:08word. He already let me know. He said I'm not I'm not. I'm not
17:11trying to be a friend. But I really want somebody to be my
17:15friend. You know, Jaylee, you don't like I do like him.
17:21Okay, so I do like him. But then also I knew that I had moves
17:37this yesterday. I know I do like him though. He's cool. It's just
17:44those like little missing links. Those little missing links that
17:49made it. I just met him. I just met the guy. I don't I don't
17:54I'm listening. I'm not the girl that's going to fall for
17:57somebody on day one or week one. I'm just not that girl. I'm not
18:03that girl. Like if somebody has to continuously show up for me, we
18:08got to continuously talk on the phone. Like I'm not that girl. I
18:11don't meet these guys and be like, Oh my God, that's the one.
18:14Even if they cute. Okay, he cute and what? And maybe because I've
18:21just been I've been burnt before. So it's just like, you know, so that
18:27was Sunday. I went I went out with him on Sunday. Monday. Yes, logic,
18:34not emotion. Yep. Yep. Logic, not emotion. I feel like my dating
18:39before has been very emotional. Like, Oh my God, I really like this
18:42guy. And oh my God, like I really want to be with him. And
18:46that's from day one day one. I'm like, Oh my God, I really want to
18:49be with this guy. I'm not doing it no more.
18:54Get somebody else to do it. Because I'm not breaking my heart
18:57no more. Okay, they're gonna have to play the long game with me.
19:01Okay. So that was Sunday's day. Monday. I went to the Bel Air
19:09headquarters. And at the Bel Air headquarters, it was a listening
19:13party, a music listening party. And so I pulled up to that. And
19:20girl, I was like, all of them fine. All of them were fine. Every
19:27single I turn to the left turn to the right. I just was like, I was
19:32taken back. I said, This is the room that I am supposed to be in.
19:37So I said, This is the room. This is the room. I have made it to the
19:45room. The man you is in a video with was fine girlfriend. That's who
19:51invited me. Did you get the phone numbers? I got the numbers. I got the
19:56number. I got a few. I got a few baby. But the guy that was in my
20:02Instagram story. He's over marketing of Bel Air. So that's who
20:07emailed that's who invited me out. I've he was also when the first
20:11time that I went to Bel Air for their cocktail making back in
20:14March. That's when I originally met him. So he puts on all of the
20:19Bel Air events and he handles who's attending and stuff. So
20:24that's what I'm talking about. I'm gonna go to IG and check
20:28go check. It's still up. It's still up. He he's he's a very
20:32attractive one. Now I don't know. I don't know too much about him
20:35either. Um, that's him. Not that's him.
20:42Um, we don't know if he got kids. I ain't see no kids on that page. But
20:53also, I do feel like the guy has to, you know, make a move or
20:56whatever. I feel like maybe he has put me in the category of I don't
21:03know. I'm like influence. He knows I'm an influencer. He knows I'm
21:09inviting Jayla to the events. But I don't know if he I don't know
21:14what he got going on child. He might got a baby mom. Who knows?
21:17We have to find that out. But he was one of the attractive ones.
21:20So he was attractive. I would say like two other guys in the room
21:23were attractive. Um, we had like football player in there, football
21:28players in there, of course, music people, rappers, singers,
21:34influencers, people in marketing, people in radio, people just
21:44everybody really I met females as well. So that was really cool. But
21:49I did get a few numbers. I did get a few months. So also at seven
21:53o'clock, the I need to put a phone on charger. But at seven o'clock,
21:59what's going on today? It's another listening party for that
22:03same artist, but it's going to be at the studio. And so I do think
22:06I shall I should go. And so I have two guys asking me like, Oh, are
22:11you going?
22:15Um,
22:17Oh, he said finna be in College Park. Where you at?
22:21Oh, it's college.
22:22Y'all think I should go to the thing tonight?
22:33Girl, a kid on his story right now looks like he got a son.
22:45I'm just texting them. I think I might slide by.
22:48See who in the room. Because I really did like the curated room
22:54on Monday. So if it's the same quality people in the room.
23:01We all about to be his not going to spike the man views of child.
23:10Jay, I was just about to say that about the kid. He got a baby
23:14mom.
23:14He didn't save himself for the queen.
23:19I'm so disappointed in him. He didn't save himself. I want a
23:23guy that's saving himself for his wife. You know, like, I'm not
23:27saying it's completely bad. Looks just like him too. Oh my God. I'm
23:31not saying having a kid is completely bad. But the studio
23:37going to be smaller, more intimate. Yes.
23:39outside with a capital out.
23:43I'm not saying I just I know myself at this point. I know that
23:48I want all the attention because I have all the attention to
23:52give to somebody that I'm dating. So if they have a kid, I know
23:58what I'm not about to get.
23:59How y'all get his IG already. They went to my IG story. He posted a
24:05story and it's on my IG, but very attractive guy. I would say like, yes,
24:10like, that would be like the ideal type of guy that I would want to
24:17partner with. Just one without a kid.
24:20You know, I do really, really, really want to have my own family. I
24:25do really, really, really want to not have I don't want to have a
24:29blended family. I would love to start one fresh without outside
24:34interference because I know the level that I'm going to take it. I
24:39know we're going to be on YouTube. I know I want to post my family and
24:43I want it to be special. And you know, I still think about like when
24:50that time does come like what type of content creator I'm going to
24:52be. I'm going to be the mom. I'm going to do the dang on. I'm
24:57going to vlog the journey. So because I already know this. Oh,
25:04that baby is big enough to pay bills. Not them. Not a baby being
25:09big enough to pay bills. Shut up. But um, don't force yourself to
25:14date anyone with kids. Yeah.
25:16I have to realize people in their thirties going to have kids.
25:21Unfortunately, not everybody. You do not have to settle if that's not
25:25what you want, girl, stand on it. Because if you continue to date people
25:31who have kids, you're basically, um, you're basically letting the universe
25:37know that that's okay. It's too many people in this on this planet to even
25:43be like, Oh my God. Yeah. People in their thirties. I just had to realize
25:46that people in their thirties have kids. Okay. I'm in my thirties. I don't have
25:49kids. It's men in their thirties that don't have kids. It's men in their
25:52forties that don't have kids. You pick one without kids. And, but the thing is
25:59you have to, you have to, the boundary has to be the boundary. If you are breaking
26:04the boundary, that's on you. It ain't on nobody else. It's people that's like,
26:08no, I don't want to date people with kids and they don't date people with
26:11kids. So you have to decide what you will accept. And yeah. So I've played the
26:18line before where I was like, you know, I don't really want to date somebody with
26:21kids, but then I was dating people with kids. And then what, what am I upset when
26:26the kids stuff's not going right? The baby mama stuff not going right. And then
26:30they, and then, and then they still ain't who I want them to be. So you, you, so I gave this a try and you still,
26:37might as well get one with no kids. Might as well get one with no kids. So for me, me, at this
26:49point, it's going to be no kids for me.
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