00:00The advice that's always given to men about how to be successful with women is just treat women
00:04like people and then they'll like you. And I'm going to tell you why that's not true.
00:07It's not true because men don't treat anybody like people. We don't treat each other like
00:12people. We're not socialized properly, right? So like when men socialize with each other,
00:17we're taught not to talk about our feelings. So when women come to us with their feelings,
00:21we're empty handed. We have no tools to help them, right? We are very prone to invalidating them.
00:25And also men are taught to be physically rough with each other, right? Like we are taught that
00:30that is okay. And if you do the same thing to a woman, she's going to feel violated, right? So
00:34the truth is you have to learn how to treat women like they treat each other. Okay. That is the real
00:39game here. You have to learn the art of feminine kindness.
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