00:00It's time.
00:05Nakakatuwa ngayon sa YouTube mo kasi you are giving, you know, pieces of advice to many people, to your followers and to people who need advice.
00:17Katulalimbawa yung tanong na yan, madalas, no?
00:19Ang selos ba? I know it's a very general question.
00:22Meron bang pagkakataon na ang selos nakakaganda sa relasyon?
00:26Alam mo, Tito Boy, depende yan eh kung paano natin binibigyang kahulugan yung mga emosyon na nararamdaman natin.
00:37For example, yung feelings of jealousy, ang iisipin natin, selos, masamayan, negative emotion yan.
00:46So hindi mo dapat nararamdaman yan kasi nakakatoxic yan.
00:49But according to this book na binabasa ko, The Language of Emotions, there is no such thing as a negative or a positive emotion.
00:59Lahat ng emosyon na nararamdaman natin, beneficial.
01:03There is a reason why we feel them, even fear, even anger, even anxiety, and even jealousy.
01:10Because if you are getting jealous about something, it means that maybe a boundary needs to be set in place.
01:19Or maybe may boundary na nakro-cross.
01:24Pwede rin yun.
01:25So it's up to you.
01:26But then naniniwala ako na our emotions can work to our benefit only if we allow them to.
01:36Tama.
01:37Kaya dyan pumapasok, minsan, yung expert advice or pananaw na labas ng iyong pananaw.
01:45Yes.
01:46O po, tito boy.
01:47It can be a mother, it can be a psychologist, it can be a therapist.
01:51Pero minsan, kasi may mga tao, there was a time I don't like being fussed over.
01:56Kasi nakakahiyak.
01:58Pero nung tumatanda na ako, I realized na hindi.
02:02May mga perspectives na hindi ko nakikita.
02:05Because I was, I am too close to the issue.
02:09So, pag sinasabi mo pa lang na walang negative, walang positive, baka naman meron, sometimes it takes another person to tell you that.
02:19Yes.
02:20Ano naman dito, boy?
02:21Kailangan maging open tayo.
02:23Kasi syempre, yung mga nararamdaman natin, minsan diba may tinatawag nga tayong hugot.
02:29Kasi may pinanggagalingan.
02:30Maaaring ibalik natin doon sa selos.
02:34Bakit ka nagsa selos?
02:35Sigurang netitrigger ka.
02:36Why?
02:37Is it because of your past experience?
02:40Is it because of something that happened when you were a child?
02:44Pag marami.
02:45But then, tulad ng sinabi mo rin, tito boy, tama nga yun na sometimes kailangan mo ng perspective ng ibang tao para mas maliwanagan pa.
02:55Maraming nagmamasid sa pag-uusap natin, ito ang katanungan.
02:58I am in pain.
03:00Whatever the story is, I am in pain.
03:03I don't know how to do this.
03:06Again, general question.
03:08How do I move on?
03:11I'm so sorry that you are in pain.
03:16And I really do hope and pray that you heal from whatever is causing you hurt and pain right now, tito boy.
03:27But in terms of moving on, always remember that there is life after this painful situation.
03:37Your story is not over yet.
03:41Better days are coming.
03:43Ganda, di ba?
03:45And I believe you.
03:46I really believe you.
03:47That's meant for all of us.
03:49Na you move from where you are today towards a better place.
03:54And that is not untold.
03:56That is not untold.
03:58Maraming maraming salamat.
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