Second Date Update - Party Goals

Beasley Digital

8 months ago

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00:00Right now, though, it is your second date update.

00:02We are trying to match two people up on another date.

00:05We talked to this guy, Ryan.

00:06He really wants to see this girl, Becca, again.

00:09But he can't seem to get a hold of her.

00:12And we got her on the phone, and she agreed to talk to us,

00:15which I'm kind of surprised by because she didn't seem that into it at first

00:18when we talked to her off the air.

00:20But let's do it.

00:20Let's bring her on right now.

00:22Becca, are you there?

00:23Hi.

00:24Becca, thanks for agreeing to do this.

00:26We wanted to talk to you about your date, as we told you, with Ryan.

00:30And we heard you guys went to Grillsmith and Wesley Chapel.

00:33And I'll tell you what, this guy really likes you

00:36and had a lot of nice things to say about you.

00:39Thought you had a good time.

00:40He had a good time.

00:41But since that date has heard nothing

00:43and is just kind of really confused on what's going on.

00:46So what's the deal?

00:47Why are you not getting back to this guy?

00:49When you guys first mentioned his name, I was like, are you kidding me?

00:52Like, seriously?

00:53Honestly, I'm just going to be honest with you.

01:00Being on the date with him was like being on a date with my dad.

01:05Oh.

01:06Why?

01:07Yeah, how so?

01:09Like, he was sitting there and he was talking about, like, his goals

01:12and, like, his 401K and, like, all these different, his job.

01:17And I was just like, can't we just live for the moment?

01:19Like, I'm so sick of hearing about all this boring stuff.

01:22It took, like, everything in me to not, like, fall asleep on this date.

01:27It was awful.

01:28Well, I mean, don't, but don't you care about somebody who's got, like, a plan

01:33and who has, you know, see...

01:35No, like, live for the moment.

01:36Like, literally stop talking about your 401K.

01:40It was insane.

01:42Wow.

01:42That's not a fun date.

01:43It's boring.

01:44But you want to be with somebody who's got, you know, a good 401K

01:48and plans for retirement someday, don't you?

01:50Or just someone with goals in general, right?

01:53But, like, not now.

01:54Like, I want to have fun.

01:55Like, why do I want to listen to what you have planned for the next 10 years?

01:59She wants to know what's going on Friday.

02:01I just want to, yeah, I just want to know what's going on during the weekend.

02:04Well, at least you're honest, I guess.

02:07I don't know if we can actually hold us against this guy for having a plan with his life.

02:12But, okay, well, I guess that's it right there.

02:15So, because he was a little bit more...

02:18Dad-like.

02:19Yeah.

02:20Yeah, but he's very serious.

02:22So, he was too serious for you?

02:23Yeah, yeah.

02:25Okay.

02:26A little confused.

02:28Becca, we do have Ryan on the phone.

02:30I'd love to bring him back on just to get his side of things.

02:33Would you mind if we'd talk to him, too?

02:35That's fine.

02:37Ryan.

02:38Yeah.

02:39You heard what she had to say?

02:40I'm going to just kind of let you respond.

02:42I did.

02:43I did.

02:44I mean, I'm confused because just because I have goals doesn't mean that I'm not fun or

02:53I don't like to do fun things.

02:57It was a literal snooze fest.

02:59I'm not sure if he picked up on that.

03:01Apparently, he didn't.

03:03Um, no.

03:04It seemed like the conversation was going well.

03:08I, you know, I'm sorry.

03:10I'm like, I'm a fun person.

03:11I do like to go and do things and live in the moment, as you said.

03:17So, I just, I don't know.

03:18I think that's a little unfair to base it on one interaction.

03:21Yeah, it seems like you have the next 10 years planned out and I'm just not, you know, I

03:26like people who are spontaneous.

03:28And also, I don't care about your 401k.

03:31Like, I don't care about your job.

03:32Like, um, I, I, I, okay, I just have like some, some problems with like what you said.

03:39Number one, you know, I was just trying to make conversation and, you know, make sure

03:43you felt comfortable about things.

03:45And, you know, if you wanted to talk about, you know, doing fun things, like why didn't

03:49you bring that up?

03:51Because you were too busy, like, planning out your next 10 years at the table.

03:55So, I didn't, so what you're saying is I didn't allow you, I didn't allow you to talk.

03:59I did not care.

04:01Yeah, I don't think you're allowing each other to talk now.

04:04You know, honestly, that, that's fine.

04:06I mean, you could have at least returned my phone calls instead of ghosting me.

04:10You could have gotten the hint when I didn't return the phone calls.

04:13Uh, yeah, see, that's just very immature.

04:16So, that just kind of tracks everything that you're talking about.

04:19It sounds like you're still in Peter Pan land, Neverland.

04:22Oh, at least I'm having fun and you're like a frog worm.

04:27A part of being an adult is having the balance between having fun and also taking on responsibility.

04:34So, good luck with you.

04:35Good luck.

04:36Yeah, no, it is.

04:37Okay, I'll have fun.

04:38Bye.

04:41Well, it looks like this is not going to be a match.

04:43No.

04:44I'm sorry.

04:45Well, Ryan, you now know why Becca has not gotten back to you.

04:49So, I guess we solved that for you.

04:52But, Becca, thanks for coming on with us.

04:54Have a great day.

04:55And, Ryan, thanks for your time, man.

04:57I'm sorry we didn't work out.

04:59No, it's all for the best.

05:01All right.

05:01You guys have a great day.

05:02Bye-bye.

05:03Bye.

05:05How do we hold out against him that he has a plan for his life?

05:08I don't understand that.

05:09We don't.

05:10And then, but she just wasn't, that's, this girl doesn't care about any of that stuff.

05:14All she wants to do is go to the biggest party, go to the next big thing, and have fun.

05:18All right, let's hear what you think about this.

05:21800-992-1099.

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05:26Hit us up.

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