Second Date Update - Thinking Long Term

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8 months ago

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00:00but right now it is the second date update we are trying to help out michelle

00:03and get her matched back up on a date with will but she has not heard from will

00:07since their date so we're going to try to give them a call right now

00:10hello hi good morning is this will

00:29this is hey will this is uh jr lana and kevin over here at 99.5 qik how you doing good

00:38good morning that's the proper response really you're like why are you calling me right now can

00:43we talk to you for a second do you have a couple minutes maybe just to chat about something i'll

00:47be real honest with you it's actually about a date you went on um okay okay well this particular date

00:56that you went on uh this woman michelle is uh was really impressed by you and really wants to um

01:03hang out again and she told us about you guys going out for a happy hour grabbing some drinks

01:08some appetizers and all that and thought you were a really genuine dude uh you were a gentleman

01:13and uh i guess the date ended semi-abruptly i think you had something going on the next day

01:18but you did walk her to her car gave her a kiss on the cheek and that all seemed like things went well

01:23but she's been texting i guess a couple times to try to get a hold of you and hasn't heard anything

01:28so we are hoping maybe we can get some answers for her and see what's going on why have you not

01:33gotten gotten back to her uh um i mean she was yeah she was really sweet i guess i just think that

01:40we don't really match up on certain things like what's a little rare i mean a little uh vague what

01:46what things are you not matching up on uh well she's just you know kind of dead set on getting

01:52married and it just seems like a kind of you know a big thing for her and i i've already been married

01:58once and been through the whole divorce thing it's just kind of not it's not really something that i

02:04want to do again okay was she like pressuring you on the date to get married right away or what

02:10no no it wasn't pressure really it just it just seems like something that you know that's something

02:17definitely a target that she wants to hit you know what i mean and well don't most couples isn't that

02:22what you do you date and then you settle down and get married yeah i mean it's just not something that

02:28i'm i'm into you know i went after going through that whole thing you know the divorce it's not it's

02:34not something that i'm like looking forward to and if she's you know if that's something that she wants to

02:39to do i'm not really on the same page oh wow okay that's kind of a big deal so you don't want to

02:45get married at all yeah i just don't feel like it's necessary you know feel like it's necessary

02:50well okay you know if you've been through something and it's kind of wounded you or you

02:56feel like it's something you don't want to risk again i don't know i mean i i can kind of understand

03:01what you're saying but it sounds like it is important to michelle uh at least that's what you

03:05gathered we do have michelle on the phone with us will would it be okay if we uh brought her on

03:11sure okay throwing a lot at you right now michelle you there yeah hi you heard what will had to say

03:19i mean is this something that was kind of brought up and something that you're really excited about or

03:23i mean in the future but i don't think i was saying like oh my gosh i'm i need to get married

03:30this year this month this week like did i really sound like into something immediate or just like

03:36i saw it in my future like that's why i'm dating i understand that but it's just like if you're

03:42dating for that purpose that goal you know i i don't want to i don't want to deprive you of that

03:48but it's i know that it's not something on my radar you know it's not something that i

03:52am going to want to do even after you know dating someone it's just not a process that i want to go

03:58through again why just because you had a nasty divorce yeah like it seems kind of sad like you

04:04shouldn't cut lock yourself off from that you probably mean obviously you didn't meet the right

04:08person that first time around i mean it's not it's not about that i mean yeah it wasn't a great process

04:14but it's just like i don't i don't see it as a necessary if you're if you love someone and you

04:21you want to be with them then you just be with them i don't really see why you have to go through

04:24the whole like ceremonial thing of marriage and you know the whole legal aspect of it and

04:31you know it just it just gets everything kind of knotted up and it gets messy tie in the knot

04:37whoa all right so will would i'm kind of that's a lot to ask a girl who's never been married

04:45right so and that's why will's kind of bowing out yeah that's why i'm not asking her yeah he's not

04:52he's not asking anything he's being honest i guess you're dating and you're on a dating app

04:58and that's kind of what that necessarily means that you're getting married but that's kind of

05:03that's what i mean you're you want to find somebody to settle down with you want to find

05:07somebody to spend your life with isn't that what dating apps are all about you're misleading

05:11because you don't want to get married but will i don't think you're saying that you don't want to

05:14settle down you're just saying that you don't want to get married right yeah i don't think you

05:19may i don't think those are mutually mutually exclusive you can spend your life with someone

05:23and not be married true okay so i think instead of asking will it's kind of up to michelle here

05:29michelle for a guy you know uh that doesn't want to get married is this worth going out on another date

05:36i don't think so this is just too stringent from like one date and just i don't know i think maybe

05:44there should be a headline on his profile if this is just so like you said you're kind of misleading

05:49girls a little i mean i didn't mean to mislead but that's just you know i'm just being up front

05:56about it all right well guys um i think you do agree on that you probably should go separate ways

06:01i think you both sound like two decent people i'm sorry it's not going to work out but i do

06:05thank you guys for coming on with us and wish you both uh luck finding what you're looking for

06:10no problem take care guys i i have a i have a lot of friends that don't ever want to get married

06:18again because they've been through a divorce sure um so i get that and i think he just needs to find

06:24somebody who's on the same page 100 is him but i don't think it's fair for him to act like he's on

06:30a dating app looking for his forever you know for his soulmate somebody he wants to settle down with

06:35and then you know then throw up the shield and be like nope not getting married though

06:40but the thing is what i was trying to say was he's not on there to just look it's not like he's on

06:45there like looking for a hookup he's looking for a relationship just not one that is going to end in

06:50marriage it's maybe it could be a very serious relationship just not looking to get married

06:55he might need to make that known on his profile though because that's kind of misleading for

06:59somebody who does well it is unfair on his part 800-992-1099 800-992-1099

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