00:00All right, well, Travis has reached out to us today for the second date update.
00:03He was actually set up by some friends with Michelle.
00:06The last thing he heard from her was a one-word text.
00:09Right, so he wants our help, seeing if we can get a hold of her.
00:11And we can.
00:13All right, so we're going to try to call her right now and see if we can get her on the phone.
00:30Hey, Michelle, good morning to you.
00:39This is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 995QIK.
00:42How are you doing?
00:46I'm good.
00:47Hey, we want to see if we can talk to you real quick.
00:49This is a weird request, I know.
00:50Can we talk to you on the air for a minute, actually, about a guy who's really into you?
00:58Yeah, I guess so.
00:59Okay, well, we want to talk to you about this guy, Travis.
01:02I guess some mutual friends set you guys up.
01:04You guys went to VIP in Indian Rocks Beach.
01:07He said you had a very bubbly personality, a very contagious personality, really was complimentary of you,
01:13and I guess reached out, sent your guys' date, and got a one-word text back from you, and that was about it.
01:20And we were trying to see if we could maybe set you guys up on another date, but he can't get a hold of you.
01:27Yes, all of that is true.
01:30I really, I'm just not interested.
01:34But what was wrong?
01:35Like, what turned you off then?
01:37Well, it sounds like little, but, like, it just seems like a red flag.
01:43So, basically, he's been married before.
01:46Okay.
01:46And I guess he got divorced a couple years ago or something, but...
01:51Did you know that he had been married before, before you guys went on your date?
01:54Yeah, yeah.
01:55And that's not the issue.
01:56Oh, okay.
01:56But, um, he got, he has her, uh, initials tattooed on his ring finger.
02:03Oh.
02:03And so, like, the whole time we're at dinner, I'm just, like, carrying his hand at this, this girl's initials, and he's, like, a nice guy.
02:11But, like, they've been divorced for years.
02:13Like, why would you not get that?
02:15So, it's been, it's been a while.
02:16So, he's had plenty of time to get this done.
02:19Yeah.
02:19So, it just, it just, it felt like maybe he's, like, not over.
02:23You didn't ask him about it, though?
02:25I mean, it was very clear what it was, right?
02:27Like, I didn't need to ask that question.
02:30Yeah.
02:30People do that.
02:31They get tattoos instead of rings, so.
02:33Well, I mean, I, I don't know why you wouldn't get removed.
02:36If you broke up with somebody, you're not in their life anymore.
02:38Like, why would you keep that?
02:39And it's, like, it's not like it's somewhere you never would notice.
02:44It's literally on his left hand.
02:45Yeah, right there.
02:47And you, and you think this, oh, I mean, I'm sure it is his ex-wife.
02:50It's not like a dog or something or a kid.
02:53On his ring finger?
02:53Well, I don't know.
02:54That's what I was thinking.
02:55The dog's initials?
02:56Well, I don't know.
02:57You know, I could probably do that.
02:58I got to find out.
03:00Michelle, we actually have Travis on the phone with us.
03:02And if this is the reason you're not getting back to him, I think he wants to know.
03:04Is it okay if we bring him back on the air with us?
03:07Oh, my God.
03:09Yeah.
03:09Okay.
03:10Travis.
03:11Yeah, Michelle, you didn't call me back because of a tattoo?
03:14Tattoo?
03:15That's kind of ridiculous, to be honest with you.
03:17A tattoo of your ex on your ring finger.
03:21It's like you're still married.
03:23I think any girl would have an issue with that.
03:26It's not like I stare at it longingly looking at thinking about my ex.
03:31I mean, it was her idea to get the tattoo.
03:33I don't like tattoos.
03:35I don't like needles.
03:36And, I mean, getting something removed is not only expensive, it hurts like hell.
03:42And getting it covered up, I mean, it's on my finger.
03:44When I got it done, it was terribly painful.
03:47It's not something that I want to go through again.
03:48So, yeah, I've kind of been putting it off.
03:50I didn't think it was that big of a deal, but that's, you should have just at least asked
03:53me about it.
03:54We could have had a conversation.
03:55I don't really need to have a conversation with you about it.
03:58It's on your ring finger.
03:59You have no, like, plans to remove it.
04:02You've been divorced for years.
04:03It's still there.
04:04It seems like you're still hung up on the ex, and I just don't want to get involved
04:07with any trauma.
04:08I just am not looking for it.
04:10And when there are red flags this, like, early on the first date, like a big red flag,
04:15then I'm just, I'm going to dodge out before it gets more intense or whatever.
04:21You're acting like I'm longingly keeping the tattoo.
04:23Like, I'm like, oh, I need to hold on to it.
04:25I just don't view it as a big deal.
04:27That's the only reason it's still there.
04:28And also, have you ever got a tattoo done on your finger?
04:31Because it hurts like hell.
04:32Like, it's not a joke.
04:33It's all bones in there.
04:35Well, you see my hands.
04:36You have to go to a doctor.
04:37It's a laser involved.
04:38It's a whole process.
04:39Well, Travis, let me ask you a question.
04:41Has anybody ever brought this up to you before besides Michelle?
04:43I mean, I'm sure you've dated.
04:45My brother, but that's it.
04:46I mean, I don't view it as, like, I need to keep it because this is a memory of my ex.
04:51I just haven't gotten it taken care of yet.
04:53I haven't had the reason to get it taken care of yet.
04:55So I just don't think it's a big deal.
04:57Like, if you got in a relationship and, like, and you were going to marry this new person,
05:02would you take it off then?
05:03Like, or are you just going to use a new, like, girl's wedding ring to, you know,
05:08your wedding band to, like, cover it up?
05:10That's absurd.
05:11Don't, that's gross.
05:12So, yeah, but I'm, look, I mean, I guess I can get it taken care of for my personal
05:17life or whatever, but I'm not going to get something removed for somebody that I'm not
05:23even dating or, like, a, like, a first date.
05:26Do it for yourself, whatever.
05:28But it, but it, look, no girl is going to be okay with that.
05:32Think about the first time you have to shake Michelle's dad's hand and you go and he's
05:37like, whose initials are those?
05:38Oh, my ex-wife.
05:39That's not a good sign, sir.
05:40Well, in that hypothetical situation, we're talking months down the road.
05:44I mean, maybe something could happen.
05:46Maybe I get it covered up months down the road.
05:48But, look, I mean, are you really saying that you don't want to go on a second date because
05:51of a tattoo that I have?
05:53Yeah, and you're getting really defensive about this, which, again, is reinforcing the
05:57fact that I think that, like, you're not fully over your divorce and your marriage and
06:02all that.
06:03Oh.
06:04Michelle, I guess you've made a call that you do not want to see Travis again?
06:09No.
06:09All right.
06:10Well, Travis, you know, man, you do you.
06:12I do think this may be an issue of with any girl you date, but that's just my opinion.
06:17Well, you got to do what's best for you.
06:19And I do appreciate you reaching out to us.
06:21Now you know why Michelle's not getting back to you.
06:23Michelle, thanks for your time as well.
06:24You guys have a great day, okay?
06:27Yeah.
06:27Thanks so much.
06:28All right, guys.
06:29Sorry about that.
06:29Take care.
06:30Yeah, it's going to be a problem.
06:32There's not a lot of women that are going to be okay with that.
06:35No.
06:35I mean, every time you hold his hand, you got to look down at some other girl's initials.
06:40Are you left-handed, by the way?
06:41No.
06:42You said shake his dad's hand.
06:44It's always going to be his right hand.
06:45Whatever.
06:45I wasn't thinking about it.
06:47I didn't even notice that.
06:48I was very confused.
06:49I'm like, do you shake with your left hand if you're left-handed, I guess?
06:51I was just, for an example, you know, having dinner with her dad and he's got to look
06:56down and say, oh, whose initials are those?
06:58It doesn't matter.
06:58These are the things I think about.
06:59You know, he's cutting up the steak and his hands hold up.
07:02I got it.
07:03Okay.
07:03Yeah, no, I do know it's expensive to get it removed, but I mean, he could get it covered
07:07up.
07:07But would this be a deal breaker for you?
07:10I mean, especially this early on in dating.
07:12We want to know.
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