00:00Hey, we're talking about that second date update that we had today between Katie and Shane.
00:04I got to tell you, if Shane would have asked me to do this on a date, I would have walked straight out the door.
00:11But surprisingly, that's not what she did.
00:13What do you guys think about this?
00:14A little different from other ones because they have been on two dates.
00:17The first date, they went out to a bar, had a meal.
00:19Things were good.
00:20Second date, he says, I want to turn the charm on a little bit.
00:22Invites her over to his condo.
00:24He makes dinner.
00:25He said the meal came out great.
00:27Italian food.
00:28Yes.
00:28And she seemed to have a great time.
00:31He said the conversation on the second date obviously was a little bit more personal because he'd already talked about the normal servicey stuff.
00:37And I asked him if it got too personal or maybe she was uncomfortable with the conversation.
00:41He said, no, no, no.
00:42It was very relaxed, no pressure, that type of deal.
00:44All right.
00:45So we are going to try to call Katie right now.
00:47Hello?
01:06Hey, is this Katie?
01:07Yeah.
01:08Hey, Katie.
01:08Sorry to bother you this morning.
01:09This is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5 QIK.
01:13How are you doing?
01:13I'm doing well.
01:17How about yourself?
01:18Good.
01:18I know.
01:19I just kind of threw that at you.
01:20Hey, we want to see if you have a couple minutes to actually talk to us on the air.
01:24This is about a guy that you went out with actually a couple times.
01:28Do you think you know who we're talking about?
01:30Um, please tell me this isn't Shane you're talking about.
01:34It is about Shane.
01:35It is.
01:36It is about Shane.
01:37Oh.
01:38Well, I'll just tell you what he told us.
01:39I mean, he said you guys went on a couple dates.
01:41The first one is you went out.
01:42Second one, he went over to his house, cooked you a great meal, he said.
01:45And you guys watched a movie and hung out.
01:48And then he said there was no pressure or anything like that.
01:50He walked you to your car at the end of the night.
01:52That was it.
01:53Boom.
01:53And I guess he's been trying to set up a third date with you and has heard nothing.
01:57And he's kind of bummed about it and kind of was looking for answers.
02:00Interesting.
02:01Um, so he didn't, he didn't say anything about like his ex-girlfriend or anything like that.
02:08Oh, no.
02:10Why would he talk about his ex-girlfriend?
02:11Yeah.
02:12Why would he?
02:13Well, he wants to know.
02:15Here it is.
02:15We're at his apartment.
02:17Uh, his phone rang.
02:18He answered the call.
02:19Apparently it was his ex-girlfriend.
02:21She's in the lobby, literally there to pick up her stuff.
02:25What?
02:26I mean, from what I understand, they broke up like months ago.
02:29But then he asks me to please hide in his closet.
02:33Oh, no.
02:34Because he doesn't want her to know that I'm there.
02:38There's no way this happened.
02:40You guys, I don't even know like why I didn't just walk out.
02:43Wait, did you go hide in the closet?
02:45I forget.
02:46I hid in the closet.
02:47I was so put on the spot.
02:48I didn't have time to really, you know, I couldn't process.
02:51Like, now I'm like, I should have just walked out and been like, yeah.
02:56Yeah, but then you walk out and you're standing at the door.
02:58That's going to be, you know, an issue, too.
03:00I'm not saying you should have hid in the closet.
03:01I'm just saying you kind of can run right into her in the hallway, too.
03:04He's like, I don't want to hurt her feelings.
03:06And I don't know, like, in that moment, I'm just like, okay, I guess, like, that makes sense.
03:11And I'm hiding in the closet, like, literally crouched in his closet.
03:15I hear them.
03:16But it's like for 10 minutes, I'm sitting in his closet, like, crouched with his shoes.
03:19I could smell the leather in his shoes, like, crouched.
03:22Man, no way.
03:23Smell the soles of his shoes as I'm in the bottom.
03:25There's, like, clothing in my face.
03:27It's just what is happening right now.
03:29So I just went with it.
03:31I don't know.
03:31I can't even explain it.
03:32It was so weird.
03:33Well, I can see how that could be humiliating for you, Katie, obviously.
03:36I mean, that's a...
03:37It was extremely humiliating.
03:38Yeah.
03:39Well, you know, it's kind of a weird thing that Shane did not mention that to us, because
03:42that would be a big deal.
03:44How did he leave that?
03:46I don't know.
03:47Why would he even ask?
03:48Well, here's the deal, Katie.
03:49We actually have Shane on the phone with us.
03:51So I want to bring him back on, because I got to get his take on this.
03:54Shane.
03:55Oh.
03:56Hi.
03:57Pretty big detail there to have a woman in your closet as your ex comes and picks up stuff.
04:03Please tell me your reasoning for this.
04:05I can't wait.
04:06Yes, it was a very awkward thing that happened.
04:09You know, I just really didn't want to deal with any kind of drama.
04:13And maybe I was just, you know, like I was trying to think on my feet and I didn't want
04:17to hurt, you know, my ex's feelings.
04:20And the thing is, though, is that once it was done, it seemed to have been done.
04:25We continued watching a movie and, you know, things seemed to have been fun after that.
04:31Shane, you're worried about your ex's feelings, but you're not worried about my feelings.
04:36Like, how do you think I felt being stuffed in your closet?
04:39But I don't know.
04:40I understand why you might have taken it that way.
04:43But the thing is, I was thinking of you, too, like your feelings, too, because I didn't
04:48even want you to have to interact.
04:50She could have come back a different day.
04:52Yes.
04:52It's kind of ironic it happened on that date.
04:55It's just like, where are your boundaries?
04:57I kind of, I like freaked out a little bit.
05:00It was probably very inappropriate of me to ask you to hide in the closet.
05:04Probably.
05:05Yeah.
05:05Okay.
05:05It definitely was.
05:07But the thing is, is like, you know, like when you're caught in such an awkward situation,
05:11sometimes you wind up asking the weirdest, strangest things.
05:15I panicked.
05:16But I also didn't want your feelings to be hurt by seeing her.
05:19Well, dude, I mean, I think when you're in a situation like that, that's where you kind
05:22of, sorry to say, but man up and go, no, I'm not going to put this girl that I'm trying
05:27to date in a situation like that.
05:29In a closet.
05:29In a closet.
05:30And Katie's obviously got to be humiliated by that.
05:32But yeah, I guess I was trying to be diplomatic to like all parties involved, but I, except
05:38for my, except for to me.
05:39Yeah.
05:40I mean, hindsight is 2020, but I guess you could have said, all right, I'll meet you
05:43down in the lobby with your stuff.
05:44Yeah.
05:44Why don't you do that?
05:45Yeah, exactly.
05:47It's over.
05:48It's done.
05:49You'll, you'll never be her or anything.
05:52I will never ask you to do something like that again.
05:54Well, you won't have a chance to, so that'll make, I'll make it, I'll make it easy.
06:00Shane, I don't know if you're coming back from this one, my friend.
06:02No.
06:03I can tell you.
06:05I need to go on another date.
06:07Well, hey, listen, Shane, now he obviously knows what's going on.
06:09I feel like you should have known what was going on too with this thing.
06:12Katie, I appreciate you coming on and kind of retelling the story.
06:15It's probably not one you really want to talk about again.
06:17Oh yeah.
06:17So let's just wrap this up and I'll say thank you for coming on and have a great day.
06:22Yeah, you too.
06:24You got it.
06:25Take care.
06:26That guy's clueless.
06:27Right.
06:27That's why I have no idea why she wasn't calling him back.
06:30I mean, come on.
06:32I mean, whatever.
06:36All right.
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