5 Love Languages: Islamic Perspective on Relationships

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00:00A very best-selling book that around 15-20 years ago,

00:07it really became a global best-seller,

00:10and it is called The Languages of Love.

00:12But this author is obviously not a Muslim,

00:14he's writing, he's a psychologist, a therapist,

00:16he's written from his own experiences

00:17something that is called The Languages of Love.

00:19These are five languages of love.

00:21I have read this book,

00:22and I have summarized and Islamicized,

00:24gone through it,

00:25and I have found Quran and Sunnah.

00:26What he discovered was that

00:28people express and receive love in different ways.

00:34And a lot of times,

00:36one of the spouses is expressing love.

00:39But the other spouse,

00:41the language that they want to receive the love in,

00:44is different than the language the spouse is expressing.

00:47And he gives a simple example.

00:48Imagine if the wife speaks Japanese,

00:51and the husband speaks Swahili.

00:53And the wife is saying,

00:54I love you in Japanese.

00:55And the husband doesn't speak Japanese,

00:57he speaks Swahili.

00:58So she can say a million times,

01:00I love you, I love you, I love you.

01:01And the husband does not understand

01:03that language of love.

01:05And so the husband ends up saying,

01:06my wife never loves me.

01:07Even though she's screaming at the top of her lungs.

01:10But he has not learnt

01:11the language of love in Japanese.

01:14Now we're not talking about human languages,

01:16we're talking about expressions of love.

01:18So he in his therapy,

01:20he said,

01:20these are five languages

01:22that we should all learn to recognize.

01:24Those are four languages of God.

01:39There you go,

01:41and you're saying,

01:42I've been looking for them

01:43at the middle of your life.

01:44I was trying

01:45to identify what you have

01:47that knew what you were doing this.

01:49I've been looking for you,

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