Istikhara & Background Checks: The Islamic Way to Avoid Marriage Regrets

1️⃣ Istikhara: Your Divine GPS
What It Is: The Sunnah prayer for guidance (not magic!).

How to Do It:

Pray 2 rak’ahs (non-obligatory)

Recite the Istikhara dua (Bukhari 6382)

Pro Tip:

Don’t wait for dreams—look for clarity or ease/difficulty in the process.

Repeat it as needed, especially before big decisions.

2️⃣ Background Checks: Don’t Skip This!
Who to Ask:

Family: "How does he treat his parents?"

Friends: "Is he consistent in his Deen?"

Community: "Any red flags in his behavior?"

What to Observe:

Religious Commitment: Does he pray on time? Fast regularly?

Character (Akhlaq): How does he handle stress or anger?

Financial Integrity: Halal income? Responsible with money?

3️⃣ Patience: Let It Simmer
Avoid Rush Decisions: Shaitan loves impulsive marriages.

Test Compatibility: Discuss future goals (kids, finances, Deen).

Watch for Consistency: True character shows over time.