The 2 Non-Negotiable Qualities for a Successful Islamic Marriage – Missing One? Danger Ahead

1️⃣ The Fatal Imbalance in Spouse Selection
Case 1: "He prays Tahajjud… but yells at waiters" → Where’s the Khushu’?

Case 2: "He’s so polite… but doesn’t pray" → Where’s the Taqwa?

Quran 49:13: "The noblest are the most pious"—not "the most polite" or "the most strict."

2️⃣ The Prophetic Standard
Hadith: "If someone proposes with religion and character, marry them." (Tirmidhi)

Not: "If they’re religious or well-mannered."

3️⃣ The Reality Check for Families
To Parents: "Would you let your daughter marry a ‘kind’ man who doesn’t pray?"

To Singles: "Would you accept a ‘hijabi’ who backbites?"