00:00I've dated so many people, man.
00:02Cut this! Cut this! Cut this!
00:04In Gen Z words, it is TMI.
00:06Too much information.
00:08Unnecessary information.
00:09It's a habit.
00:11Should I say it on camera?
00:16Ever had someone drop way too much personal info on a first date,
00:20first meeting or even a first convo?
00:23Well, that's what floodlighting is.
00:25Now, let's meet people who have either faced or are guilty of floodlighting.
00:30Yes, I have.
00:31I do overshare a lot of information which I shouldn't have shared.
00:36I just blabber in front of anybody.
00:38A lot of times, yes.
00:40Like, you sit with anyone, they open the Pandora box of like,
00:44this is my deepest, darkest secret.
00:46This is my biggest insecurity.
00:48I think Gen Z in general overshares quite a bit.
00:51Yes, a lot of times.
00:52I started off with giving too much of information,
00:55then end up with a heartbreak.
00:57I mean, I'm married, so no.
00:59I can see that the other person wants something from me.
01:01She's telling me everything about you.
01:03Well, yes.
01:04It definitely becomes awkward.
01:06And you don't know how to get out of it.
01:08Like, why do I want to know if you're into natural behavior?
01:12Or like, you're into Ayurvedic healing?
01:15I was like, why is he giving too much of information on the first date?
01:18I shared everything, all my...
01:20Whatever I did in the past.
01:21I told her everything.
01:23Because I wanted to spend the rest of my days with her.
01:27There's no reaction.
01:28It's just our experience in these things.
01:31It just comes and goes.
01:33Well, I mostly keep people's secrets.
01:35So, yeah.
01:36Also, my name is Faraz.
01:37It's got Raaz in it.
01:39So, I keep Raaz.
01:40Be it we the millennials or be it you the Gen Z.
01:43So, it all depends on the vibes.
01:45Yeah, about my past or whatever happened,
01:48which I shouldn't say.
01:49And I would...
01:50I can be judged for that.
01:52A guy told me he used to like...
01:54He has these visions of like people, ghosts and all.
01:59So, I was like quite spooked.
02:01I don't eat fish because once a thorn got stuck in my throat
02:07and then I had to puke in public.
02:09I have a fish-sized...
02:11I don't remember.
02:12It's not that big of a deal.
02:14Big sh** in the bathroom, baby.
02:19That's it.
02:20Not just the basic elements of relationship,
02:23but how he or she behaves on the bed,
02:26how sexually sound or how...
02:28You know, what are his or her fantasies.
02:30I mean, be who you are.
02:32Just don't think what others might think.
02:34The right one will stay.
02:46So, Gen Z,
02:47do you floodlight on a first date?
02:48Or are you more of a keep-it-cool type?
02:50Let us know in the comments.
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