00:00Ara, we've talked about this before with your mom, how did you handle when Rikimake came out?
00:14Well, it was normal honestly because I felt it when I was 12 or 13 that she would say that she has a best friend in school.
00:24When I was understanding that she's not her best friend.
00:28So when she finally admitted, her partners became my friends as well.
00:33Is it because of that story or is it generational?
00:36That we're blind to gender?
00:42Yes, because it's more accepting of the generation.
00:45But that time, Tito Boy, it was early 2000s.
00:49Not so much.
00:52Were you, did you think about your sister when you finally came out?
00:57I did, but I didn't get scared because I know, look at our picture.
01:03I mean,
01:07Mom and dad dressed me up.
01:11But we're talking about something now, right?
01:13Correct.
01:14So you knew.
01:15And I feel like he knew.
01:17I just accepted.
01:18There was no dramatic.
01:20Yes.
01:21That's true.
01:22Anything with us.
01:23That's why I asked, was it because of that experience or because it's attendant to this generation?
01:28How are your dynamics as siblings?
01:31Me, honestly, because I'm the older sister.
01:33So I'm a bit, it's kind of like mom vibes.
01:37I tell her, I'm kind of strict, advise, and I'm kind of pushy, but I'm also clingy.
01:44I'm the clingy one, I guess.
01:46All these contradictions make it lovely.
01:48Right?
01:50I'm not the sweet type.
01:56But I'm clingy in my own way.
01:58Like, I always look for him, or let's get together.
02:01But do you think of Ricky May, for example, when you're courting someone or you have a boyfriend,
02:05is it important that Ricky May has approval?
02:09I ask her, most of the time she doesn't approve.
02:14Really?
02:15But I know he's just protective.
02:17And vice versa.
02:18Do you get her opinion?
02:21I get her opinion, but not her approval.
02:25I'm more like, since she's older, this is the situation, so accept it.
02:31I'm more like that.
02:33When there are tense moments, for whatever reason,
02:38in the two of you as siblings, how do you resolve your problems?
02:43What do you think?
02:44Do you talk?
02:45Do you not argue?
02:46Do you wait?
02:48I'm just observant.
02:50Or if I feel bad, I'm like, okay, quiet.
02:53I have to get it out of her.
02:55Because she doesn't tell me if she feels bad.
02:58And sometimes it's annoying, right?
02:59You have to squeeze her.
03:00Because I want to talk.
03:02Sometimes, when she sends me a picture, she cries.
03:05I say, why?
03:06Then she shares, oh, I feel, I'm hurt, I'm sad about this.
03:10Which is also like that to me.
03:12Like, for example, you're watching a movie.
03:14I cry.
03:15It's the same to have a movie too.
03:45It's the same.
04:45.
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