00:00I'm Tookie.
00:01I'm Chris.
00:02And we met as step-siblings.
00:04It stayed a secret until she got pregnant.
00:06They tell me a lot that I'm not good enough for her.
00:09I'm not a black king.
00:11I pray that worthless A-word baby
00:13y'all have chokes on its own vomit.
00:15Today, my mom's gonna be coming over.
00:17I expected Tookie and Christian to behave
00:20towards each other like brother and sister.
00:22What'd you think whenever me and Tookie
00:23first told y'all that we were together?
00:25I was hurt.
00:26Y'all were being raised as siblings.
00:29I'm sorry.
00:33Not too much.
00:36Damn, boy.
00:41I'm Tookie.
00:42This is my soulmate, Chris.
00:43And we met as step-siblings.
00:45So we met because I had moved in
00:48with my step-dad and his wife.
00:50When she told us she had a son coming,
00:52I'm thinking he about to be weird.
00:54You wanna kiss?
00:55I'm just looking.
00:57When I first seen her,
00:58I thought she was way too good for me.
01:00I didn't wanna talk to her
01:01because I was too nervous.
01:02Because look at her and then look at me.
01:04It don't add up.
01:05Look at me and look at you.
01:07You look good.
01:08I realized I was attracted to him
01:09when he walked in the house.
01:11He tall.
01:12I don't know, he had a hat on.
01:13And he just looked so nerdy.
01:15You know, I like boys with glasses.
01:17And when he spoke, I was like,
01:18what's your name?
01:19I'm Chris.
01:20Like, damn.
01:21You know, I had to give me something.
01:23He was so sexy.
01:25When we met, I was 17 and he was 15.
01:29But don't think I'm a cougar.
01:30He's 06 and I'm 05.
01:32Now, I wanna hear from you
01:33how we ended up sleeping together.
01:35I'm sitting there, playing the game.
01:37It's late as hell.
01:38Everybody's asleep.
01:39I was right here,
01:40pretending to be asleep.
01:42Put your head right there.
01:44Yup.
01:45Like I said, booty was pointed towards me.
01:48I kinda like got up and I was like,
01:51I'm tired.
01:52I saw you come right by me.
01:54Uh-huh.
01:55And then that's when you opened your legs
01:57and you was like,
01:58you could come like lay right here.
01:59And like I lay like this.
02:01Just like this.
02:03And I looked up at you.
02:06She looked at me.
02:07She looked at me.
02:08That's initiation.
02:09And then one thing led to another
02:11and we made a baby.
02:13Yeah.
02:14I love you.
02:15I love you too, baby.
02:16It stayed a secret until she got pregnant.
02:18Today, my mom's gonna be coming over.
02:20We're gonna ask her some questions
02:22about how she feels about our relationship.
02:24I know Tookie's got some questions
02:26she's been wanting to ask her.
02:27See, me, I talk with my mom all the time
02:29and I still don't ask her questions
02:31about our relationship.
02:32So I'm kinda nervous about this,
02:35if I'm being honest.
02:36Christian is my son
02:38and Tookie is my daughter-in-law.
02:41I found out they were dating
02:43when Tookie's mom called me
02:44and told me Tookie was pregnant.
02:46I expected Tookie and Christian
02:48to behave towards each other
02:49like brother and sister.
02:50His mom kinda knew
02:51we had something going on,
02:53but she didn't wanna say nothing
02:54because she wasn't really sure.
02:56She would give us this look
02:57anytime we was together.
02:58That's why I didn't really wanna
03:00be in the same presence as him
03:01when we was in front of the parents
03:03because they always thought
03:04I was on to Chris.
03:06I was scared to death.
03:07I hadn't talked to my mom in years.
03:09Just to come back
03:10and then have a baby right away,
03:12I thought, thought it was the end.
03:14What'd you think
03:15whenever me and Tookie
03:16first told y'all that we were together?
03:18I was hurt.
03:19I wish y'all had came to me
03:20and told me.
03:21We were scared.
03:22I was scared especially.
03:24I didn't really want y'all
03:26to think any less of me.
03:28My mama called me.
03:30I was like, hello?
03:31And she said, son,
03:32you got Tookie pregnant?
03:34I didn't respond.
03:35I just sat there in silence.
03:37It was so weird for everybody.
03:39My stepdad barely knew me.
03:41I barely knew my mama for real
03:42because she only knew me
03:43when I was little.
03:44She did not talk to me.
03:45Nobody talked to me
03:47until I was a week away
03:48from giving birth.
03:50But I understand
03:51why you was hurt
03:52because that is your son.
03:53And I felt like
03:54we was coming to the point
03:55where you was really thinking
03:56of me as a daughter, you know?
03:59I still do think of you
04:00as a daughter.
04:01It never changed.
04:02I was just hurt at the time.
04:04I appreciate everything
04:05you do for my siblings,
04:06but I just feel like
04:07for some reason,
04:08I just couldn't come close to you
04:11how I wanted to, you know?
04:13And I really wanted
04:14to be close to you
04:15especially being the fact
04:16we got blue,
04:17but I feel like us
04:19not being as close,
04:20it stopped that, you know?
04:22It ain't stopped nothing, Tuka.
04:25Okay?
04:26I love you.
04:27I love you like you my own, okay?
04:29I'm sorry.
04:32I'm sorry.
04:33It's okay, baby.
04:35Was your anger
04:37directed towards me specifically?
04:39No.
04:40No?
04:41Was it directed
04:42at me and Chris?
04:43No, it wasn't directed
04:44at y'all at all.
04:46I mean, I was hurt
04:47by what y'all did,
04:48but I wasn't angry
04:49at you guys.
04:51You was disappointed?
04:53I was disappointed, yeah.
04:55You might have not knew
04:56at that time
04:57that you could talk to me,
04:58Christian,
04:59but Tuki, I told y'all
05:00multiple times,
05:01you and them girls,
05:02your sisters,
05:03that no matter what,
05:04y'all can come to me.
05:06I want that type
05:07of relationship, okay?
05:08I want us to be disconnected
05:11because we have blue in common,
05:12and that's your only grandchild.
05:14And I love blue to death.
05:16I know.
05:17It is what it is.
05:18I don't care
05:19what other people think.
05:21I mean, y'all were being
05:22raised as siblings,
05:24but y'all...
05:26We had only met
05:27like a month prior.
05:28Yeah, so I'm just
05:31ready to move past all that.
05:33I appreciate you
05:34for telling me,
05:35for letting me know
05:36how you feel.
05:37I appreciate y'all
05:38telling me how y'all felt.
05:41Now you gotta have rhythm,
05:42because you know how you are.
05:44Okay.
05:45Rhythm.
05:46Judgment we get online
05:47is mostly about our race,
05:49about our age,
05:50about our ring.
05:51Bae, you gotta roll.
05:53I am, bae, what you mean?
05:55When we posted a video
05:56about how we met
05:58and about our sibling relationship,
06:00they had some people
06:02telling other people
06:03who were ignorant
06:04in the comments,
06:05like, they're not related.
06:06He's white, she's black.
06:07It just don't make sense.
06:09They tell me a lot
06:10that I'm not good enough for her.
06:12I'm not a black king,
06:13like they say.
06:14And white people tell me
06:15I'm a bad witch.
06:16So this one says,
06:18I know for a fact
06:19moms and dad don't approve,
06:21but this they daughter
06:22so they tolerate.
06:23You ain't nothing
06:24but his fetish.
06:25You my fetish
06:26and my soulmate.
06:27You're a worthless
06:28blank, blank,
06:29blank, blank,
06:30B-word.
06:32I pray that worthless
06:33A-word baby
06:34y'all have
06:35chokes on its own vomit.
06:37Now that's crazy work.
06:39Doesn't really bother me.
06:40You can't tell me
06:41nothing about blue.
06:42If somebody comments
06:43something like that
06:44about a baby,
06:45they got personal issues
06:46they need to deal with.
06:47Enjoy your time
06:48with your white boyfriend.
06:49Y'all won't be together long.
06:50I wonder if you'll
06:51hate white men next.
06:53I hate when people say that.
06:54They say that all the time
06:55like in our comments.
06:56Give them
06:57two to three years.
06:58You way too pretty
07:00to be dating on your race.
07:02Like it don't even look right.
07:03So fix it,
07:04no hard feelings.
07:06I don't believe
07:07in race loyalty.
07:08I believe God
07:09put us on this planet
07:10for a reason
07:11and it's not to be
07:12just dating.
07:13Yeah.
07:14We try to ignore it
07:15the best we can
07:16and troll back
07:17and just let them do
07:18how they do,
07:19being idiots.
07:20I argue with them.
07:21I hate the fact
07:22we share siblings.
07:23Yeah, it is kind of awkward.
07:24We share a family
07:25through marriage.
07:26This is our daughter, Blue.
07:28The one we've been
07:29talking about the whole time.
07:30She's 20 months.
07:31Say hi.
07:32Hi.
07:34I love the way he is.
07:35He's a good father.
07:37When I was going
07:38through postpartum,
07:39he did everything.
07:40I didn't even have
07:41to lift a finger.
07:42She's like a mother
07:43and I love that about her.
07:44How she's always
07:45trying to tell me
07:46what to do.
07:47Anybody who sits around
07:48and studies somebody
07:49just to have
07:50a negative opinion
07:51is miserable.
07:52That's my opinion.
07:53If you're still judging,
07:54then honestly,
07:55you're miserable.
07:56Yeah, I was about to say,
07:57you don't got nothing
07:58better to do in life.
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