00:00Sorry to our friends that we don't see, but I think the lesson here is who is the priority?
00:06Is it a friend or a boyfriend?
00:09You, if you have to choose, is it a friend or a boyfriend?
00:12I don't like it when people like you suddenly disappear.
00:17It's so embarrassing.
00:19Sorry.
00:19It's really embarrassing.
00:21Sorry, I love you, friends.
00:22I'll see you soon, like 2027.
00:27No, for me, it's all about balance.
00:30For example, girls' night out.
00:32It's so ugly.
00:34And it's your me-time.
00:36We're already together, but I want to enjoy things on my own.
00:42You don't have to be involved in everything.
00:44Just because you're my partner doesn't mean you have to be involved in everything.
00:48Because I'm still my own person.
00:50So for example, I want my me-time.
00:52I want to spend time with my family or with my friends.
00:54It shouldn't be an issue.
00:57That's where it builds up.
00:59Because if you're leaving, why are you leaving?
01:01Why aren't you with me?
01:03There are other trust issues.
01:05Hey, relax.
01:07Or for example, she has a boy's night out.
01:09As long as we have an understanding that I trust you, you trust me.
01:15You know what you should do and what you shouldn't do.
01:19Let's keep it that way.
01:21So at least, you can still be your own person.
01:26You want to have fun? Go ahead.
01:28Because I know that we trust each other.
01:32We love each other.
01:34We respect each other.
01:36It shouldn't be an issue.
01:38That's all for me.
01:40And you know what?
01:42Cheating doesn't just happen in failed relationships.
01:46Even in happy relationships, cheating happens.
01:50There are many reasons.
01:52And one of which is this.
01:55I don't recognize myself anymore since we became a couple.
01:59Because I don't have space to be me.
02:01Exactly.
02:03I also forget myself.
02:05This is the person that you fell in love with.
02:07I don't know her anymore.
02:09So allow me a little time to find her again.
02:11So that I can love you better.
02:13It's like an English conference.
02:17Suffice it to say, wow.
02:19It hurts.
02:21We still have one more later.
02:23Madam Chair, it hurts my brain.
02:25Patty Burey, Patty Burey.
02:27Like that, right?
02:29Earth to Hershey.
02:33Boyfriend or girlfriend?
02:35Boyfriend or friend?
02:37It's the same with Ashley.
02:39You don't have to choose.
02:41You are your own person.
02:43It matters that there's harmony.
02:45There's balance.
02:47I'm a best friend of a guy.
02:49What's good about him is that
02:52we don't see each other anymore.
02:54We're just together.
02:56Girlfriend, there's a time
02:58that I left my license in their condo.
03:00I really don't have boundaries.
03:02Girl, it's like
03:04you have a friend's condo.
03:06I hang out with them.
03:08I'm always in their condo.
03:10There's a problem with your bladder.
03:12You're always like that.
03:14Hide all your CRs.
03:16Hershey will go in there.
03:18I feel like your bathroom is broken.
03:21You're crazy.
03:23You're beautiful but you don't have a bathroom.
03:25I feel like you need a plumber.
03:27I left my license.
03:29The following day, I have a first date.
03:31I can't drive.
03:33You don't have a license?
03:35My best friend's girlfriend
03:37took my license.
03:39They grabbed it.
03:41They gave me chocolates.
03:43Here's your license and some chocolates.
03:45I hope your date is as sweet as you are.
03:47Love, name of girlfriend and name of best friend.
03:51She's beautiful.
03:53As long as the guy is the one
03:55who draws the boundary.
03:57Yes, to avoid conflict.
03:59It's so awkward to have a family gathering
04:01and invited friends.
04:03I don't notice your boyfriend's friends.
04:05It hurts.
04:07I'm involved in your friend's life
04:09but I'm not accepted.
04:11Especially for big friend groups
04:13that have inside jokes.
04:15They have a lot of memories
04:17and you're the new boyfriend.
04:19Do you make an effort
04:21with your girlfriend?
04:23What efforts do you do
04:25to make her feel comfortable?
04:27I also let her pee in our house.
04:29I need to go to the bathroom.
04:31Can I use your bathroom?
04:33You took my license
04:35and left it at home.
04:37It's a conscious decision.
04:39Instead of going out with the guy,
04:41I'll go out with my girlfriend.
04:43You can do that too.
04:45You're conscious of blocking.
04:47It's a girl code.
04:49It's right.
04:51We were close before.
04:53We used to say love you
04:55but now, I love you
04:57and the name of the girlfriend.
04:59Love yous.
05:01Say that.
05:03Love you like this with your friend.
05:05You're saying love you.
05:07It's so cute.
05:09We do.
05:11We say I love you.
05:13Don't worry, I'm not searching for you.
05:15You think it's special?
05:17Don't worry, I'm not searching for you.
05:19We got yous.
05:23It's crazy.
05:25We need to look at red flags wisely.
05:27We're like that.
05:29I also have a problem with that.
05:31What I see is what I get.
05:33There's another meaning.
05:35Are you good at reading?
05:37She's good.
05:39Let's see how good you are.
05:41Wait, don't.
05:43You're pressuring me.
05:45I'll be quick.
05:47Some red flags that we can talk about.
05:49Right now,
05:51she's always not in the mood
05:53and she's always with her friend.
05:55Is that a red flag or not?
05:57We don't know.
05:59There are many reasons why.
06:01So,
06:03it's a case to case basis.
06:05But,
06:07maybe,
06:09there's a possibility
06:11that she's in the mood
06:13or she's irritated
06:15because she's not happy anymore.
06:17She's just tolerating you.
06:19Like, okay, I'm just staying
06:21for the sake of staying.
06:23But,
06:25when she's with her friends,
06:27she's happy because she's comfortable.
06:29Because that's who you are.
06:31When you're with your friends,
06:33you're normal.
06:35You're happy.
06:37But, in a relationship,
06:39or
06:41for whatever reason,
06:43you're detaching.
06:45Even if you're in a relationship,
06:47sometimes,
06:49if there's always a problem,
06:51over and over again,
06:53you'll reach a point where you don't care anymore.
06:55Like, you don't want to fight anymore.
06:57There's a burnout.
06:59It's okay.
07:01You won't fight anymore.
07:03But, you won't make an effort to fix it.
07:05You know what's painful?
07:07Let's just fight.
07:09But, if you don't care anymore,
07:11it'll take a long time.
07:13The opposite of love is not hate.
07:15It's indifference.
07:17Wow, I like that.
07:19Upload that on your Instagram, Booboy.
07:21They'll all be shocked.
07:23Just my story.
07:25When you don't care anymore.
07:27Just my story.
07:29The opposite.
07:31That's so lame.
07:33Happy birthday, Ashley.
07:35And by the way,
07:39Guys, let's promote this.
07:43Happy Dinagyang Festival.
07:45And by the way,
07:47the opposite of love is indifference.
07:51The search bar will go up.
07:53Indifference.
07:55What's indifference?
07:57Don't be a guest of Lumaki sa Amerika.
08:01Your hosts will have a hard time.
08:03Red flag.
08:05Pasado.
08:07Actually, it's not red flag.
08:09It's semi-red.
08:11Pink flag.
08:13Mamink-mink.
08:15We don't know the reason.
08:17It's not in the mood.
08:19It's not in the drive.
08:21It's not in the libido.
08:23Mood in different levels.
08:25That's not the meaning.
08:27But Madam Chair,
08:29I'll say go.
08:31Ashley, go.
08:33Chicks to go.
08:35I'm lost again.
08:39That's so hard.
08:41This is the hardest guest.
08:49Loading.
08:51I'm back.
08:53Welcome back.
08:55There's something that's forcing.
08:57I know that.
08:59There's also that factor.
09:01It's like,
09:03I don't need it.
09:05What if...
09:07I don't like it.
09:09Then there's the force.
09:11It's okay.
09:13Don't need it.
09:15Intimacy becomes routine.
09:17It's not intimacy anymore.
09:19It's not fun anymore.
09:21It's a chore.
09:23When you reach it,
09:25you feel like it's a chore.
09:27Then you should start thinking
09:29about the whole relationship.
09:31And it'll turn red.
09:33You'll have an umay.
09:35You'll have an umay factor.
09:37When you're there,
09:39there's a possibility
09:41that you'll cheat.
09:43You don't want to be here anymore.
09:45So it's possible
09:47that you'll be curious.
09:49Then it's gone.
09:51That's it.
09:53That's the red flag.
09:55That's why it's painful.
09:57Because this is our point.
09:59There's a problem.
10:01Then suddenly, it's like this.
10:03It's not like that yet.
10:05So there's a deeper reason.
10:07Like I said,
10:09there can be many reasons.
10:11It's not really about the tattoo.
10:15It's just a byproduct of the problem.
10:17It's deeper.
10:19But it doesn't care about your feelings.
10:21Again, love is
10:23consideration.
10:25There's a lot of love.
10:27Love is heart.
10:29Love is blind.
10:31The opposite of indifference.
10:33Rems.
10:35Rems.
10:37Rems.
10:39Rems.
10:41Rems.
10:43Rems.
10:45Hello.
10:47Duh.
10:49It's beautiful.
10:51Rems is heard.
10:53It's important.
10:55For example, a partner
10:57will go out with a boy
10:59and suddenly, he's so handsome.
11:01He smells good.
11:03It's like he prepared
11:05to go out.
11:07It's not like that before.
11:09It's not like that before.
11:11You'll be late.
11:13You'll be in a hurry.
11:15Why when there's two of us,
11:17you don't put effort.
11:19But now, you'll go out with friends.
11:21What's there?
11:23There's extra effort.
11:25Yes, Ashley?
11:27It's like
11:29unusual.
11:31Why all of a sudden?
11:33So you generalize all the
11:35unusual behavior.
11:37Not just being manly.
11:39You'll pick it up.
11:41Why is the wind blowing differently?
11:43Especially when we're women.
11:45Our intuition is strong.
11:49The gut feel of a woman is different.
11:51Is that true?
11:53There's a tinge of truth.
11:55Not exactly the whole truth.
11:5750-50.
11:59We're always right.
12:01Actually, you're right.
12:07It's hard to explain.
12:09But we feel
12:11that there's something.
12:13Even when it comes to friends,
12:15even when it comes to introduction,
12:17it's just friends.
12:19In a group,
12:21you'll be able to pinpoint
12:23that there's something.
12:25There's something that you can see.
12:27Yes.
12:29You can deny it.
12:31Or they won't tell you
12:33that there's something.
12:35Or not boyfriend-girlfriend.
12:37Like flirting,
12:39flirting, whatever.
12:41But there's something.
12:43But I can't do anything about it.
12:45It's just my gut feeling.
12:47I can't prove it.
12:49It's just in my head.
12:51It lingers.
12:53Until I can prove
12:55that I'm right.
12:57The gut feel is different.
13:01There are little things.
13:03Little by little.
13:05It's not one thing.
13:07It can be from being busy.
13:09Strike one.
13:11Or if you're just talking,
13:13it's irritating.
13:15Strike two.
13:17It's defensive.
13:19There's a lot of strikes.
13:21So,
13:23that's it.
13:25It disconnected.
13:27So my point is,
13:29reflections.
13:31I suddenly got tired of talking.
13:33I don't want to anymore.
13:35I'm so glad you're pointing this out.
13:37Because for me,
13:39if my partner is handsome,
13:41I'll be like,
13:43come here.
13:45Hershey's mind is different.
13:47You're so handsome.
13:49You're mine.
13:51You'll make her
13:53have good memories.
13:55You'll make her remember you.
13:57Hershey's so good.
13:59So she won't forget you.
14:01She's so unusual.
14:03You're so handsome.
14:05That's it.
14:07It's not from her.
14:09If you're fooled by your partner,
14:11I'll punch you.
14:13Don't come back to me.
14:15I told you.
14:17You know,
14:19I'll be the one
14:21experiencing that.
14:23I told you.
14:25You know,
14:27we're eating spam and eggs.
14:31She's like that?
14:33What is this?
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