00:00Nobody will know how hard it is unless you're in that situation.
00:05Which leads me to the next question.
00:07Is there anything similar to this that happened to you?
00:11For example, you have a friend who is your partner
00:14and you're like, hmm, this is different.
00:16Ash?
00:17For me, it's a good thing.
00:19Nothing yet?
00:20Nothing yet.
00:21I also don't want to experience it.
00:23Because it will make me look bad.
00:26Because I don't know.
00:28It takes two to tango, right?
00:30If it's just a let's say, he's invited.
00:33If it's you, you have an objection,
00:35you won't do it.
00:36You can't say, no, because it's forced or
00:39this and that.
00:41Everything is a choice, right?
00:44You can decide whether it's good or bad.
00:46You made that choice.
00:48And it's also hard because he knows that
00:51Andy is a public figure, right?
00:54He's an artist.
00:55You have to be extra careful with your actions, right?
00:59He knows, he's aware.
01:01They're still taking pictures.
01:03He knows that it will be on social media.
01:05But was he driven by emotion?
01:08No, because I'm angry.
01:09Or we'll get angry.
01:11Or I'll get a tattoo.
01:12For whatever reason, right?
01:14I can't justify it at all.
01:17It makes no sense.
01:18Even if you try to be open-minded,
01:22how?
01:23Because if we switch roles,
01:26let's go back.
01:27Andy has a guy best friend.
01:30Do you think he'll be happy?
01:32Will you be happy?
01:34Let's go back.
01:35Me?
01:36Film her!
01:37Film her!
01:38Stop it!
01:39Stop it!
01:40Stop it!
01:41Stop it!
01:42Right?
01:43It's hard.
01:44It's hard.
01:45You?
01:46No, because I have a best friend.
01:48A girl?
01:49Who you'll also make?
01:51This is the big question.
01:53It's hard for us to do.
01:55Because if I have someone, like Jelai,
01:57we have a rule for each other.
02:02As long as I'm alive, you're my best friend.
02:06It's okay.
02:07It's cute.
02:08It's a different part.
02:10Jelai, to be friends,
02:13let's get a matching tattoo.
02:15It's nonsense.
02:18I'm not judging you two.
02:20Maybe if it's just the two of us,
02:21we won't do it.
02:23Right?
02:24Because first of all,
02:25why would we get a tattoo
02:27if we can defend what we're saying
02:30to each other.
02:31We can show it to people,
02:33or even not to people,
02:35to the two of us,
02:36that until we die,
02:38we'll be friends.
02:39That's better.
02:41I also need to voice out
02:43for the showbiz people
02:46who are non-showbiz.
02:47Because there's also an angle.
02:49Although you already said
02:50that he should be aware
02:52that Andy is a public figure,
02:53that Andy is facing so many challenges
02:56because her life is very open
02:58to everybody,
02:59to scrutiny,
03:00to bashing,
03:01to everything.
03:02But let's also look at the side
03:04of non-showbiz people
03:05that are involved with us.
03:06It's very difficult to be with someone
03:08so public
03:09that all of your moves
03:11are being watched
03:13or calculated
03:14because people might say something.
03:16So sometimes we make stupid decisions
03:18because we are so scared
03:20that people have that kind of perspective
03:22on us.
03:23And of course,
03:24we earn.
03:25And what we earn is fabulous.
03:28Yes!
03:30Yes!
03:31Fabulous.
03:32So there's also that.
03:33Especially when it comes to girls,
03:34the male ego.
03:36People also talk about it.
03:39Their egos get bruised.
03:41Sometimes they also struggle.
03:42So we have to hand it to the both of them.
03:44I think they've been through a lot
03:47in the many years
03:48that they've been together.
03:49And this is just one of the many
03:51experiences that they'll go through.
03:53And we hope and pray
03:55that the two of them
03:56next time make more mature
03:59and conscientious choices.
04:01It can't be like,
04:02because they already have kids.
04:04I hope the communication will be more intense.
04:06They're already old.
04:08If they're teenagers,
04:09we might be like,
04:10they're still kids.
04:12But they are parents.
04:14They're about to get married.
04:16It shows a life on the island
04:17that is simple.
04:18And they have a helping hand
04:21as a couple in this simple life.
04:23I hope you'll be like that.
04:25That's a different kind of help
04:26that you want to happen.
04:28That's different.
04:29That's just mine.
04:30It's like,
04:31we really need to understand.
04:33Their situation is also difficult.
04:36It's difficult,
04:37but they just let it in.
04:39They opened their eyes
04:40when they came in.
04:42Let's just look at it.
04:43What happened
04:44is a big lesson for them.
04:46Right?
04:47Hershey, do you have that kind of situation?
04:49Or you know somebody that happened?
04:51What?
04:52You have a friend.
04:53You have a friend.
04:57You know what, Ash?
04:58Is Hershey part of our universe?
05:01Why is there no signal?
05:02No, because it's red.
05:03The signal didn't reach.
05:05Why is everything green?
05:07No, it's like,
05:08Christmas is over.
05:12It's annoying.
05:13Sorry, what's the question,
05:14Your Honor?
05:15She ran out of vitamins.
05:16She went to the toilet.
05:17She lost her mind.
05:20What about you?
05:21Do you have a friend like that?
05:23I have a friend.
05:25That has matching tattoos.
05:26The story is similar to theirs.
05:29I have a story.
05:32I'm a lesson learned.
05:33In a relationship.
05:34But not a best friend.
05:37Okay, go ahead.
05:38Share it.
05:40Because I had a relationship before.
05:43I have a dog with my ex.
05:46I had a six-year-old ex.
05:48We're okay.
05:49We're friends.
05:50When you look at our message thread,
05:52it's really about the dog.
05:54This is her vet bill.
05:56This weekend, it's your turn.
05:58We're exchanging.
05:59Co-parenting.
06:00Because pets are really like children.
06:02She's not just a dog.
06:03She's a family.
06:05I can't handle this.
06:08I get it.
06:09Dogs are expensive.
06:10I don't want to be stingy with our dog.
06:12Her father is also expensive.
06:14When I had an ex-boyfriend,
06:17after my six-year-ex,
06:18I had an ex-boyfriend.
06:20My next boyfriend.
06:21You have a lot of exes.
06:22Why?
06:23I don't.
06:24She's too beautiful.
06:25No.
06:26You're too old.
06:27You just love her.
06:29I love her.
06:30I love so much.
06:32You have so much love to give.
06:36Overflowing.
06:37Guys, I'm leaving.
06:41So, when I had an ex,
06:44I asked,
06:45is it okay if I talk to my ex?
06:48My ex number one.
06:50My ex number two.
06:52Is it okay if I talk to my ex number one?
06:54Yes, yes, yes.
06:55Is it okay?
06:57She said,
06:59well, I'm changing my setup
07:01because I just had a girlfriend
07:03who's still close with her ex.
07:05I will try to understand.
07:07She said that.
07:08I thought that was okay.
07:11Because for me,
07:12a yes is a yes,
07:13a no is a no.
07:14I don't know.
07:16This is the lesson I learned the hard way.
07:18Sometimes, people say yes,
07:20but it's not a yes.
07:22Deep inside.
07:24That's what I'm telling Ash.
07:26I'm not good at that.
07:28I'm not good at reading between the lines.
07:31Now, I learned that
07:34people can say yes,
07:36but not mean it.
07:37When I was talking with my ex number two,
07:39is it okay if I talk to my ex number one?
07:42She said yes.
07:43I thought it was okay.
07:44Until one day,
07:45she had a break
07:46because she couldn't take it
07:47that we have a dog together.
07:49I said,
07:51I will block my ex.
07:53I will unfriend him.
07:55I will cut our communications.
07:56Please, don't leave me.
07:58She said no.
08:00I said, okay.
08:01He just doesn't want to work on it.
08:03That's a different thing.
08:05That's your question,
08:07the boundaries.
08:08That's me.
08:09I don't know the boundaries.
08:11Yes, but you know,
08:12Ash said earlier
08:14when we were talking,
08:15it's different for an ex
08:16than a friend.
08:17For an ex,
08:18you have a romantic involvement
08:20that you might get back.
08:21So, there's fear
08:22because you're still communicating
08:24or you're still sharing a common goal
08:27which is the well-being of your pet.
08:29But what if it's a friend?
08:31That's the hard part
08:32because the friend came before the boyfriend.
08:35Especially in the decades
08:36that you've been friends.
08:38All of your life,
08:39he knows you,
08:40you go back to him,
08:41you're shy,
08:42your friend reads you.
08:44Who's shy?
08:45Because he's just like a brother.
08:47He's shy, ma'am.
08:48The friend said,
08:49friend.
08:50I'm the one.
08:51Friend, is this right?
08:53Hey.
08:54You're like that.
08:55Is this right?
08:56Okay, let's go.
08:58Hey.
08:59Boundaries.
09:00Boundaries.
09:01She's talking about boundaries.
09:02Leave her alone.
09:03I forgot.
09:04She has boundaries.
09:05What if your friend is very shy
09:08and you have a problem understanding him
09:10even though he's just a partner.
09:11Of course,
09:12the other person
09:13is close to the person
09:14who can understand him.
09:16He's close to the person
09:17who knows him.
09:18But the partner
09:19is left out.
09:21What will you do?
09:22What will you do?
09:23And they've been best friends
09:24for 10 years already.
09:26That's what the story is about.
09:27So, it's like
09:28there are a lot of videos
09:30or photos
09:31where they've known each other
09:33from before.
09:35Before Andy?
09:36Yes.
09:37They've been friends for 10 years already.
09:38They've been friends for 10 years already.
09:40Again.
09:41Again.
09:42Again.
09:43Again.
09:44Again.
09:45But sorry,
09:46to our friends
09:47who we don't see often,
09:49you know that if you're true friends,
09:51we won't lose our friendship.
09:53That's true.
09:54Right?
09:55So, whether we see each other or not,
09:56especially when we're in love,
09:58we'll really lose it.
10:00Just understand.
10:01My friends know this.
10:02I disappear.
10:03When I'm happy in love life,
10:05I'm a rare Pokemon
10:06that I don't see.
10:07That's true.
10:08You'll lose it.
10:09You know this, right, Ash?
10:11I know.
10:12Before, it's always,
10:13let's play a game.
10:14Game.
10:15Yeah, let's go.
10:16Let's do this.
10:17That's why I said,
10:18Tuesday will suddenly disappear.
10:19Then suddenly,
10:20what happens to Tuesday?
10:22He's missing.
10:23The posts,
10:24the flowers,
10:25things like that.
10:26He's missing.
10:27He's missing.
10:29So, I'm quiet.
10:30The flowers are okay
10:31because your boyfriend is a candle.
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