00:00We're different, Jopay.
00:01Of course, you have a husband, Joshua, right?
00:05So I want to know if it's true that you were separated before
00:10and if that's true, you got back together.
00:13Of course, because you got married.
00:14So what's your secret in your marriage?
00:16When we were separated, actually, we've been together for 7 years already.
00:19Wait!
00:21I just want to ask, when did you start dating?
00:25What do you mean dating?
00:26I mean, like, dating?
00:31It was in 2004 when we got married in November.
00:35In 2003, he got married on the 17th.
00:39You're lying! You're lying!
00:41You're lying!
00:43You?
00:44So, we haven't met yet.
00:46We just met, yes.
00:47But I can see that we're both dancers.
00:50But there's really nothing that...
00:52You're lying.
00:52Yes, there's really nothing like that.
00:54I think to them, they're all women.
00:57All dancers are women.
00:59So how did you get separated?
01:00We proposed when we were 7 years old.
01:02It was January when we proposed.
01:04It was my birthday, exactly.
01:06Of course, I was excited.
01:07So I was already in preparation.
01:10So after one year, you'll get married.
01:13Until he told me,
01:15you should cool off first.
01:17He told you?
01:18Yes.
01:19Did he change his mind?
01:20What happened?
01:22What did you feel when he told you that?
01:23Because I don't believe in cool off.
01:25Ah, okay.
01:26If you want to get separated,
01:28you should get separated.
01:29Give the person freedom.
01:31That he shouldn't depend on you.
01:33After how many years or months
01:34before you became a couple?
01:36You didn't ask for an explanation?
01:37Why?
01:383 years.
01:383 years?
01:40You got separated for 3 years?
01:41Yes.
01:42And during those 3 years,
01:44I found out the answer.
01:46When we became a couple.
01:47Because he came from his first marriage.
01:52He got married, not because of me.
01:54It was for him.
01:55He just didn't want to reach the point
01:57that it might happen again and again.
01:59So you became stronger now?
02:01Yes.
02:02Now, really.
02:03Because what we do,
02:04if you commit a sin,
02:05you'll go to the Lord.
02:08Why is it still Joshua all this time?
02:10If you get to know that person,
02:13he's kind.
02:14He's a kind person.
02:15He's caring,
02:17he's...
02:18What is it?
02:19I'm crying.
02:20I thank God for that.
02:21I prayed for him.
02:22Because I prayed for him.
02:26I said,
02:28If it's not...
02:30Lord, if it's not like Joshua,
02:33don't do it.
02:34Just don't.
02:35Just don't.
02:36I'm so blessed.
02:38They said,
02:39Joshua is lucky to have you.
02:41I'm lucky to have Joshua.
02:43He's so kind.
02:45Even his two kids,
02:47two boys,
02:48are kind.
02:49I don't know what to say.
02:51But our marriage is not perfect.
02:53That's why the Lord is there,
02:55in the center of our marriage.
02:57Joshua is the one who talks.
03:01He's different.
03:02Because the Lord gave him to me.
03:19I love you.
03:20I love you.
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