00:00and welcome to Fast Talk with Boy Abunda.
00:02To all of our Facebook and YouTube followers,
00:05to all of our listeners of DZEE Double D,
00:08to all of our listeners of DZEE Double D,
00:10I am Boy Abunda.
00:11I want to say a very, very big thank you
00:14to all of our listeners of DZEE Double D.
00:16We are so grateful for your support.
00:18We are very grateful that you are here with us today.
00:21We are so grateful that you are here with us today.
00:24We are so grateful that you are here with us today.
00:28To all of our listeners of DZEE Double D,
00:30welcome to the program.
00:33We are continuing our celebration
00:36of our second anniversary today.
00:39Thank you very, very much.
00:41We are where we are today
00:44because of your support.
00:48And because this whole Sunday is a special celebration,
00:53our guest this afternoon is a queen.
00:59She is a queen.
01:01She is called Queen Mother.
01:05She is beautiful.
01:07She is rich.
01:09She is kind.
01:11Please welcome, the one and the only,
01:13Karla Estrada!
01:17Alright!
01:20Maupay ng kulop!
01:21Maupay ng kulop, Tito Boy!
01:23Thank you very much for coming to our show.
01:26Welcome to Fast Talk.
01:28I can see that you are richer.
01:30Because of what?
01:31Because you eat a lot.
01:32I eat a lot, but I don't eat a lot.
01:35That's what you told me.
01:36Oh, because you eat a lot when you go out.
01:40Okay, we are the only ones who understand that.
01:42To all of our listeners,
01:43to all of our listeners,
01:44to all of our fellow countrymen,
01:45Maupay ng kulop is what you eat.
01:47Maupay ng kulop.
01:48That's why it's hard to understand
01:49because we are from the same place.
01:51Yes, we are from the same place.
01:52Tagadinhi.
01:53Tagadinhi.
01:54Tagadinhi.
01:55Please, welcome to the program.
01:58How are you?
01:59I'm okay, Tito Boy.
02:01Better than ever.
02:02Better than ever.
02:04Explain that.
02:05Don't.
02:09Don't explain.
02:10Better than ever.
02:12How does it feel to be golden?
02:16To be 50?
02:18I don't feel like I'm 50
02:20because I probably had children too early.
02:24So, every generation that I go through,
02:28I feel like I lived in my 20s
02:30where I had children.
02:32I mean, this is just in my everyday life.
02:35I'm not saying that my mind didn't grow
02:38through the experience that happened in my life.
02:41But being 50,
02:42to me, it's just a number.
02:45Sometimes, I feel embarrassed
02:46when people tell me,
02:48you're already 50.
02:49Yes, please, believe me.
02:50Wow!
02:51That's so cheesy.
02:53No, no, but I understand that.
02:54Sometimes, we are too busy to realize
02:58that years have passed.
02:59That's true.
03:00That's true.
03:01I was busy raising my children
03:04and at the same time, I was working.
03:06I did everything at the same time.
03:08I fell in love,
03:09I raised my child,
03:10I was hurt,
03:11I was working,
03:13and now, I'm finally awake.
03:16You were around 20 years old.
03:20You were about to be launched.
03:22Do you remember?
03:23Yes.
03:24Rigal, right?
03:25Rigal, baby.
03:26Rigal, as a Rigal star.
03:28Yes.
03:29You got pregnant with Daniel.
03:30Yes.
03:31How difficult were those years?
03:35It was very difficult
03:37because I had to choose
03:39a career that I've been dreaming of for a long time
03:42and it was given to me.
03:43I still have a little bit of hope
03:46but I can't turn back
03:50or I can't lose
03:53the first child that I had.
03:57That was my first pregnancy with Daniel.
03:59And of course, my mom was there.
04:01The first person I told was my mom.
04:04I said,
04:05Mom, I'm pregnant.
04:08She said,
04:10Okay, it's just for 9 months.
04:13I'm just here.
04:15If you want to continue being an artist,
04:20let's postpone that month
04:22and I'll watch over you.
04:24Continue being an artist and your dream.
04:27The very first time you saw Daniel?
04:29The very first time I saw him.
04:31When you held him?
04:32When Daniel was already roomed in the next morning,
04:35we had to let the baby sunbathe
04:39because it was getting dark.
04:41So, we had to let the baby sunbathe.
04:42When I think about it,
04:43Do, until now, we've been talking about him.
04:45I said, Do, I have a superstar.
04:48This is a story that I would always tell
04:51to all my friends.
04:53But maybe I just told it to T.
04:55You were also very controversial
04:57because you don't have a question that you don't answer.
05:00You're very open about the fact that I have four children.
05:02Yes.
05:03Yes, with four different fathers.
05:05Yes.
05:06When you were thrown out because of this,
05:09what did your heart really want to say?
05:12I really want to be alone.
05:15But why would I force a situation
05:19that I know is not possible,
05:23not happy.
05:24But all of my children
05:26were brought up in a relationship.
05:29These are not people who just passed by
05:32and I don't know their fathers.
05:34This is a relationship between each of their fathers.
05:36They were together for a year,
05:38four, three, five years.
05:41I have four children from four fathers.
05:44So, I'm not going to say that it's fate.
05:48But if it's happening in your life,
05:50it means that it's a part of your destiny.
05:53Because I don't believe that
05:55I'm okay, I don't want it anymore.
05:57No, really.
05:58Work, sacrifice, tears.
06:01Why not?
06:02It's over, it hurts again.
06:04You have a child again.
06:05You're separated again.
06:07It's not easy.
06:10And no one wants life to be like that.
06:12That later on, you'll get hurt.
06:14And they lived because of love.
06:16The fruit of love.
06:17All of them are the fruit of love.
06:21Right?
06:22And no one is ashamed of that.
06:24Because we all make mistakes.
06:27It became more noticeable to me
06:31because I'm an artist.
06:33Can you live without a man?
06:36Now, I can say yes
06:39because I have a grandson.
06:41Oh, that's different.
06:43That's different.
06:44Yes.
06:45It's different.
06:46It's like, it's hard that I gave birth early
06:49that's why I became a grandmother early.
06:51Because at 28, Carlito got married.
06:55So, automatically, I became a grandmother early.
06:58And I was left alone.
07:00I was left alone at home for a long time.
07:03Actually, it was Claudio who made me young
07:06because I think he's a good son.
07:09Oh.
07:10Yes, because I'm not an old person acting.
07:14I'm very, I'm a happy person.
07:18I'm a joyful person.
07:19I make everyone laugh.
07:21There, Tito Boy.
07:23He's also your grandson.
07:24Yes.
07:25That's third generation.
07:27Right.
07:28From me, Carlito.
07:29And that's your third, right?
07:31Your genes.
07:32Oh, we're really going to be good people.
07:35No, and it's a different energy.
07:37It's different.
07:38You said, grandson.
07:39Then, when you said, we're going to be good people.
07:42You didn't include me.
07:46Wait, I'm not done yet.
07:48No, I know.
07:49No.
07:50I love you.
07:51Of course.
07:52Okay, let's stop there.
07:53I need to tell you that.
07:55That you're good.
07:56Yes, of course.
07:57I'm good with you.
07:58Oh, no.
07:59I'm going to ask you.
08:00The child that you held when you were young,
08:04you said, this is my superstar.
08:07You became a superstar.
08:09How did your life change with Daniel?
08:13With Daniel, I learned,
08:16actually, I lived twice,
08:19or supported the whole family.
08:22From Leyte to Manila,
08:24all of my relatives came.
08:26It changed.
08:27I became a better person.
08:29What didn't change,
08:31I don't know if it's the goodness of my heart
08:34that I easily believe in the lies of those who are courting me.
08:40Right?
08:41Maybe because I'm naturally pitiful.
08:44I'm compassionate.
08:46Maybe I'm just kind.
08:49But don't get me wrong,
08:51I'm a brave person when it comes to life.
08:54And when it comes to my children,
08:56I'm very brave.
08:58It's like, if I lived it alone,
09:01I'm the only one who can hurt my children.
09:03It's always like that.
09:04The biggest controversy that Daniel went through
09:08that you gave up?
09:12Maybe the painful words that I said to Daniel
09:18in the past years.
09:19The separation?
09:20Yes.
09:21I think the separation,
09:23It's between them and Catherine.
09:24It's between them and Catherine.
09:25They are the ones who really know
09:27and they will resolve
09:29whatever the reason for the separation is
09:34and where the separation happened.
09:36But the words of the person
09:39that you can hardly eat
09:41and it's so rude,
09:44that's what I can't stand.
09:47I can't take it anymore.
09:50I can't take it anymore
09:52that I have to look for people
09:57who speak like that
09:59and answer them one by one.
10:03It's like that.
10:04But of course, I talk to you,
10:07I talk to our other friends,
10:10so the best thing we did
10:13is to let the other two go.
10:16Correct.
10:17And you were there,
10:19you were very present in DJ's life.
10:22Right?
10:23Let's do fast talk.
10:24Okay.
10:27My God, I missed this.
10:29Okay.
10:30Two minutes to do this
10:31and our time begins now.
10:34Manila, Takloban.
10:35Takloban!
10:36Waray, Mataray.
10:37Waray!
10:38Maharot, Madaldal.
10:39Madaldal!
10:40Maganda, Maalindog.
10:41Maalindog!
10:42Celosa, Meticolosa.
10:45Social, Jologs.
10:46Jologs!
10:47Patol, DEDMA.
10:48DEDMA!
10:49Pagarte, Pagkanta.
10:50Pagkanta.
10:51First time, last time.
10:52First time.
10:53Hot mama, sexy lola.
10:55Sexy lola!
10:56Queen mother, queen of hearts.
10:58Queen of hearts!
10:59As a mother, one to ten,
11:01how strict are you?
11:04One to ten.
11:06Seven.
11:07How cool are you?
11:09One to ten?
11:10Nine.
11:11Clingy.
11:15Eight.
11:16Clingy.
11:17Ten!
11:20For Rufa, Vina, Donita, and Sunshine,
11:22who is the richest?
11:26Sorry, Rufa.
11:28I love you.
11:29Who is the most conservative?
11:34Pass.
11:36Who is the wildest?
11:41Don't do that, uncle.
11:42We might start fighting.
11:43Who is the richest?
11:46Ah!
11:47Ah!
11:49Hey, no!
11:50Ah!
11:51Sunshine?
11:54Who is in love now?
11:57Definitely,
11:59not me.
12:01In love now?
12:02Sunshine.
12:04To love or to learn?
12:07To learn.
12:08To serve or be served?
12:10To serve.
12:11To share or to bear?
12:12To share.
12:13Lights on or lights off?
12:14Lights off.
12:15Happiness or chocolates?
12:19Chocolates.
12:21Happiness.
12:22Then after, chocolates.
12:23Hey, my kids are mad.
12:25Best time for happiness?
12:27What?
12:28I asked you.
12:30What?
12:31Midnight.
12:32Midnight?
12:33Don't teach me!
12:35What?
12:36Best time?
12:37Pass that.
12:38Okay.
12:39Complete this sentence.
12:41Complete this sentence.
12:42I am not
12:45I am not just giving up on the challenge of life.
12:49And she got it right.
12:53Carla,
12:54if there is a song
12:56that will describe your life now,
12:59what is it?
13:00And you have to sing a few lines.
13:02This is just for fun.
13:04Okay?
13:05And because of Queen Mother,
13:06I don't know if this generation knows
13:08how to sing well.
13:10We don't know.
13:11Do you want to hear Carla sing?
13:12Yes!
13:13And we will do that
13:14when we come back
13:15to Fast Talk with Boy Abunda.
13:18We're back on the show
13:19with our friend,
13:21Carla Estrada,
13:23who is so beautiful today.
13:25Thank you, Uncle Bob.
13:26I just remembered your story
13:27because
13:29at one point,
13:30it was told in Sambayanan,
13:32that your own father
13:34left the Philippines
13:36when he found out
13:39that you died.
13:40When I was born.
13:41When you were born.
13:42Right?
13:43So, he left the country.
13:45I think you were
13:4618, 19,
13:48and you found your father.
13:50What is the story?
13:53Well, it's like that.
13:54Your father?
13:55Yes.
13:56When I was born,
13:57he went home to Tacloban
13:59and then my grandfather told him
14:01that he wasn't alive
14:02because
14:03according to my grandfather,
14:04there is a typical Spanish grandfather
14:06that, you know,
14:07when he saw
14:08someone,
14:09someone,
14:10and
14:11my father left
14:12and went back to America.
14:15I grew up
14:16and he didn't know
14:17that I existed,
14:18that I was really alive.
14:20So, when I found him,
14:21when I was 18,
14:22right after I was born,
14:24I took him to Angeles.
14:25My mother told me
14:26that he has a sister there,
14:27Aunt Alice,
14:28who is also half-American.
14:30So, when I got there,
14:31I saw Aunt Alice
14:33and that's where I met
14:34my cousin,
14:35Antonio Aquitania.
14:36That's her mom.
14:38Aunt Alice is American.
14:39We're four,
14:41but the dad of Antonio
14:42is Filipino.
14:44Although, my dad was half-American
14:45because the pure American
14:46was my grandfather,
14:48who was an Air Force pilot
14:50at Clark Air Base that day.
14:52So, I saw that
14:53I have cousins there
14:54and then I was able to talk
14:55to my dad, finally.
14:57And, before...
14:58How was it?
14:59How was that conversation?
15:01I was very excited.
15:03It was like, literally,
15:04that I was able to
15:05overcome the shortcomings
15:06in my life.
15:08Then, I was okay.
15:10You know, the truth is,
15:11if you're not used to
15:12the person,
15:13even if they're your parents,
15:15you just get to know them,
15:16you're okay.
15:17You don't have to
15:18literally look for them.
15:20I'm with him,
15:21I'm next to him.
15:22Although,
15:23he brought me home right away.
15:26After three months,
15:27when we talked,
15:29his family came home
15:30from the U.S.
15:32The United States.
15:33Yes.
15:34So, we met.
15:35I hugged him.
15:37It's like I went back
15:38to being a little girl.
15:40You know,
15:41the story of our lives.
15:43Right?
15:44I was growing up
15:45and he didn't know
15:46that he had a daughter
15:47who was this big.
15:49She was very fat.
15:50He had a daughter like that.
15:53Then, suddenly,
15:55he had a grandson.
15:56He had a grandson,
15:57Daniel Padilla.
15:58Right?
15:59It was good, too.
16:00The story is dramatic,
16:01but you're still smiling.
16:03Really.
16:04That's you.
16:05Yes.
16:06We can't not talk about this
16:08because you've been
16:09in the news lately,
16:10but I'll make it
16:11as general as I can.
16:13Because there are a lot
16:14of people involved.
16:16What do you want to say
16:17about your ex?
16:19And in general,
16:20are you friends
16:21with your exes?
16:22No, we're not.
16:23Really?
16:24With my exes?
16:25Yes.
16:26All of my friends
16:27are my exes.
16:28This is the only ex
16:29I'm not friends with yet.
16:30But I think
16:31I'll eventually
16:32make up with him.
16:33Because that's how it is.
16:34Right?
16:35Making up
16:36doesn't happen overnight.
16:38So, maybe,
16:39I'm not the only one
16:41I can make up with.
16:43I need to make up
16:44with myself, too.
16:45And maybe,
16:46in his part,
16:47he needs to make up with me,
16:48too.
16:49And when the time comes,
16:50we'll make up
16:51and become friends.
16:52That's how it happens.
16:53Right.
16:54Yes.
16:55And maybe,
16:56we won't see each other
16:57and talk because
16:58we don't have a child.
17:00We don't have
17:01a connection.
17:03But for me,
17:05for my own peace,
17:07eventually,
17:09I'll be able to forgive.
17:10Of course.
17:11But that doesn't mean
17:13that you're not going to
17:15fall in love again.
17:16Of course not.
17:17We'll just go back
17:18to where we started.
17:19Yes.
17:20No one can stop you
17:21from falling in love again.
17:23That's true.
17:24Yes.
17:25Of course.
17:26Especially now.
17:27Hello.
17:28Hi.
17:29Is he not here yet?
17:30Tell me,
17:31what's your potential
17:33next man,
17:35boyfriend?
17:36We don't know.
17:37He's just there.
17:38Yes.
17:39He's just walking around.
17:40Yes.
17:42Do better.
17:45That's so lame.
17:48Don't do that.
17:49I can't do that anymore.
17:53Thank you very much.
17:54Thank you very much.
17:55For being part of our
17:56second anniversary celebration.
17:57Thank you so much.
17:58Thank you so much.
17:59God bless you.
18:00And keep moving,
18:02keep searching,
18:04and just keep loving.
18:06Thank you, Tito Boy.
18:07Right?
18:08They don't know
18:09how we got together.
18:10I love you so much.
18:11I love you too.
18:12You know that.
18:13Yes.
18:14I'm your friend,
18:15I'm your manager,
18:16I'm your listener.
18:18Advisor.
18:19Everything.
18:20Everything.
18:21You made a big contribution
18:22to my intelligence.
18:23I know that.
18:24Yes.
18:25You know why?
18:26No matter what,
18:28you made a big contribution
18:29to me when it comes to beauty.
18:31Okay?
18:33No matter what.
18:35I love you, Tito Boy.
18:36Yes, of course.
18:37Carla Eschada.
18:39Thank you so much.
18:40Thank you so much,
18:41mother and father.
18:42Thank you for continuing
18:43with us in your homes
18:44every day.
18:45Be kind,
18:46make your mother proud,
18:47and say thank you.
18:48Do one good thing a day
18:50and make this world
18:51a better place.
18:52Goodbye for now.
18:53God bless.
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