00:00This is the last one. Another thing that stops us from achieving balance is the traffic in the Philippines.
00:07You know how hard it is to get a job, but our commute to the Philippines is very difficult.
00:14Before, when you didn't have a car, when Bubay was just starting, how did you overcome the issue of commuting to the Philippines?
00:23When it's already like that.
00:24Huh?
00:25Yes.
00:25Oh, really?
00:26I'm not the one who's getting mad.
00:27You're the one who's getting mad.
00:28You're the one who's getting mad.
00:29I'm the one who's getting mad.
00:31Because that's where I put on my makeup, the comedy bar.
00:33But I experienced it too.
00:35Jipping, taking a bus.
00:37You have to get up early.
00:39Especially when you used to receive other bars.
00:41For example, you go to Las Pinas on Tuesday.
00:43That's hard.
00:44You train first, then when you get off at Bandangpasay, you still have to take a bus to Las Pinas.
00:51So it's just a taste test.
00:54You have to taste test things.
00:55For the good.
00:56Yes.
00:56Yes. So to those of you who are listening in the traffic,
00:59Filipino workers, we salute you!
01:02Let's give them a round of applause!
01:04They go through a lot of challenges every day.
01:07Do you know that you can see the queue for the train?
01:09It's very long.
01:11That's why my mom has that ability.
01:13She does it. When the queue for the train is long,
01:16I'm the one she puts in front of.
01:17So that there's a child.
01:19Yes, so that she can get a ticket.
01:20So in the morning, I'm the one who discards.
01:23Sir, I'm in a hurry.
01:25So maybe a mom would say,
01:27I'm a kid, I'm the one who puts in front.
01:29Then she'd say, you're in a hurry too, it's already yesterday.
01:32So it's you too.
01:33You're like that every day.
01:35You're deceiving us.
01:37But yes, we salute the passengers who love us.
01:41Yes, that's right.
01:42For their patience.
01:43Join us in your work-life balance.
01:45While you're on the commute,
01:47have fun with your owner.
01:48Yes, that's right.
01:49Especially now, your owner is also watching the buses.
01:52Yes!
01:53You can go to Santiago, Isabela.
01:55Oh my, hello to you there.
01:56Suddenly, it went up.
01:57Yes, they're watching.
01:59They're rich.
02:00First, grandchild.
02:01Then, son-in-law.
02:02Then, your owner.
02:03Then, son-in-law.
02:04Then, your owner.
02:05Then, your second owner.
02:07Then, son-in-law.
02:08Oh, right?
02:10Perfect.
02:11To our Ilocano listeners.
02:12To the Batangueños,
02:14Bisaya, you're up.
02:14To the Batangueños,
02:15if you're lazy, go to Guguyaming, Dian.
02:18I said, if you're lazy, you'll go to Lalanggaming.
02:20Guguyaming, that means.
02:22Guguyaming, that's a big name.
02:24You, Bisaya, go.
02:26To the Cebuano, to the Bisaya,
02:28I'm here.
02:29How are you?
02:30I hope you're doing well.
02:31I hope you're doing well.
02:34I hope you're doing well.
02:35I hope you're doing well, your owner.
02:38Because Buboy is already old.
02:40Oh, okay.
02:41How are you?
02:42Did you have a baby?
02:42Did you have a love-yoke?
02:45Oh, Buboy is happy.
02:46You know what I said, Buboy?
02:48What?
02:48You have a big belly.
02:49What?
02:53You're sweet.
02:54Where did that come from?
02:55You know what?
02:56It's beautiful to hear.
02:57That's what it means.
02:58You have a big belly.
02:59What did you say?
02:59Just soft.
03:00It should be soft-spoken when you say it.
03:01You have a big belly.
03:03You have a big belly.
03:04There.
03:05You have a big belly.
03:07Like that.
03:07When you shout, there's an echo.
03:10Buboy, Buboy, Buboy, there's an echo.
03:13Like this.
03:15Since you're laughing,
03:16you're laughing there.
03:17You two are guilty on this topic
03:19that you're laughing.
03:21Do you have a work-life balance
03:23if you're laughing there?
03:24To you first, Buboy.
03:25Do you still have a balance?
03:27You're laughing all the time.
03:28You know, I think about that sometimes,
03:30Madam Chair.
03:31But maybe I forget.
03:33I forget that.
03:35Like,
03:36for us, Buboy,
03:37I always want to have work.
03:39I'm happier when I'm acting,
03:41when I'm hosting,
03:43when I'm singing, dancing.
03:45So, sometimes,
03:46I think I want to perform more.
03:50Yes, Marte.
03:51Because I rest when I'm done.
03:55So, maybe for me,
03:57I just want to sleep
03:59after work.
04:00But I really want to get up early.
04:02So, you make yourself tired first.
04:04Yes.
04:05I imagined what you just said.
04:07You imagined something else.
04:10I got hung up like that.
04:11Yes.
04:12Hey, don't joke like that.
04:13Don't joke like that.
04:14You know,
04:15I'm afraid to book now
04:17because I might get hung up.
04:18Okay.
04:19You got hung up.
04:22Don't joke like that.
04:23I'll tell you a story.
04:25I was supposed to book
04:27but I got back out.
04:28Why?
04:29Because I might get hung up.
04:31He watched the guesting.
04:33It affected my sex life.
04:37His sex life.
04:38It decreased.
04:39So, his plan for the day was affected.
04:43Your sex life was affected.
04:45How did you achieve the work-life balance?
04:47Did you have that?
04:48Like what I said earlier,
04:49I didn't have it before
04:50but now, somehow, I have it.
04:52But it's more about work.
04:54It's still in my system.
04:57The workaholic.
04:59Yes.
05:00Because that's your life.
05:02Right?
05:03That's true.
05:04So, it's also included
05:05in the work-life balance
05:06that we're talking about.
05:07My addings,
05:08listen to Ate.
05:09Manang Honor.
05:11I'm Manang Honor now.
05:12Listen to Ate first.
05:14Yes, Madam Chair.
05:15You know, I feel like
05:16the balance doesn't reach.
05:18Not just in work-life,
05:19but in any other equation.
05:21Buddhism said,
05:22Wow!
05:23There's Buddhism?
05:24We must achieve harmony
05:26instead of balance.
05:28That all our responsibilities exist.
05:31All that we need to build
05:33along with our life for ourselves.
05:36So, in the middle of everything,
05:37I didn't learn that before.
05:39I didn't know
05:40how to chill,
05:41how to rest,
05:42how to say no,
05:43how to stop.
05:44But I thought
05:45in the middle of work,
05:46there are pockets,
05:47there are moments
05:48where we can have a balance.
05:50Like this.
05:51We're laughing.
05:53Actually, I can only see you at work.
05:55Right?
05:56That's where we bond.
05:58Our set,
05:59that's also my gimmick.
06:00Right?
06:01So, if there's a birthday for us,
06:02yes, for the clowns,
06:03there will be a nommies.
06:04There's a party in the back.
06:05We have a party in the back.
06:07That's your pocket.
06:08That's the pocket.
06:09So, let's not
06:10run away from our work.
06:12Because as they say,
06:13if you find a job that you enjoy,
06:15or if you give your purpose,
06:18then you wouldn't have to work
06:19a day in your life.
06:20Because every time you work,
06:22you enjoy it.
06:23So, my adding is,
06:25let's love our job
06:26because it makes us enjoy our work.
06:28Not all people
06:30go to work
06:31and look forward to work.
06:32Me, every day, genuinely,
06:34especially when the guests are
06:35friends,
06:36colleagues,
06:37close,
06:38I'm happy because
06:39I'm able to pay for something
06:41that I know I can do
06:43and I'm happy.
06:44Okay, Pak!
06:47So, work, life, harmony.
06:49I'll remember that harmony.
06:51Work, life, harmony.
06:53It exists at the same time
06:55but you don't overthink
06:57and you don't get anxious
06:59or worry.
07:00Because if you always think of balance,
07:02you won't be able to overpower
07:04the balance you need to pay for.
07:07That's a different balance.
07:08Outstanding balance.
07:10Just think of it as harmony,
07:12not balance.
07:13That's balance!
07:15Your Honor, I like that.
07:16Harmony, not balance.
07:18It's hard to achieve balance.
07:2050-50, 60-40,
07:23that's hard.
07:24100 for everything.
07:26I'm present for everything.
07:29Give to both sides.
07:32Okay, speaking of giving.
07:34There!
07:35Give!
07:37Okay.
07:38Can you tell me, Norman,
07:39one of the things
07:41that makes us lose balance
07:43and we're just focused on work
07:45because of the following things.
07:48Okay.
07:49It's hard when you have relatives
07:52who always nag
07:54and you can't give them anything.
07:56They ask for help.
07:57Yes, there are times like that.
07:59Like what?
08:00When you're suddenly down.
08:02You have a lot of relatives.
08:04Yes, in fairness.
08:06But it's okay.
08:07If you can,
08:08when you're able,
08:09why not?
08:10Why don't you share?
08:11Why don't you give?
08:12But when you see
08:13that they're following you,
08:15that they're always waiting for you,
08:17that they're not working,
08:19you see that they're able to work,
08:22why don't they work?
08:23It's true.
08:24So you have to learn to say no.
08:27Sometimes, right?
08:28Who said that in the Filipino family,
08:30there's only one person who will support you?
08:32That's what I don't understand.
08:34Why does it have to be one person
08:36in the family?
08:37Can't we help each other?
08:39Or help each other?
08:40Let's help each other.
08:41There's only one thing to do,
08:42like a family business,
08:43but everyone helps each other.
08:45So you can see,
08:46you're the one giving.
08:47You're their inspiration
08:48on why they're improving.
08:49They'll show you
08:50so you'll have more
08:53willingness to give
08:55and help them
08:56if they're also helping themselves.
08:58I can relate to that
08:59because like Madam Chair,
09:01of course, we have a lot of family.
09:03Our family is big.
09:04Of course, my brothers...
09:05Yes, I saw your new look
09:07in Fashion Police.
09:10She's updated.
09:11She's updated.
09:12You're in the back.
09:13Yes, of course.
09:16So let's talk about that.
09:18What I do,
09:19of course, it's Ermat.
09:20My Ermat,
09:21he's always like,
09:22you know,
09:23I can't reach this level
09:24if it's not because of my mom.
09:26That's why when I tell my mom,
09:27I always thank her
09:29for the knowledge she gave me
09:31and for the hard work she gave me.
09:35But I always tell Madam Chair,
09:37sometimes,
09:38the time will come
09:40when it's not always 100%.
09:42It's always up to you.
09:43No, I mean,
09:44it's our job.
09:45It's not always 100%.
09:47So I don't want to reach the point
09:49where,
09:50knock on wood,
09:51if I can't give,
09:52I don't want,
09:53she won't get mad.
09:54I just don't want
09:55them to be gone.
09:57So now,
09:58what I did,
09:59what I learned from this pandemic,
10:00Madam Chair,
10:01when I got my parisan,
10:02what I did,
10:03I really focused on my parisan.
10:05As in,
10:06sideline, sideline.
10:07Vlog,
10:08parisan.
10:09I showed my mom that
10:10even if I don't have much taping,
10:12I don't have much work,
10:13I can still find a way
10:15so that somehow,
10:16there's something for everyday.
10:17And so that I can also give to you.
10:19You know what I did,
10:20Madam Chair?
10:21I also gave my mom parisan.
10:23Ah,
10:24so that she can also have it.
10:25So that she can also have it.
10:26So instead of...
10:27It's so beautiful.
10:28So instead of money...
10:29You guys literally became parisans.
10:30Yes,
10:31the two of you.
10:32Norman is so smart.
10:33It's like he became a family member.
10:35I just realized he's late.
10:36Yes.
10:37That's why,
10:38so I said,
10:39instead of giving money,
10:40I'll give pamingwit.
10:42Let's pamingwit together.
10:43His term is so beautiful,
10:44pamingwit.
10:45Yes,
10:46instead of giving fish,
10:47teach the fish.
10:48Pamingwit.
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