00:00Madam Chair, Tito Boy, it's just the low-key.
00:03For example, you're just talking and listening.
00:08You're not contributing.
00:10You're just looking for the right timing.
00:12I've experienced that.
00:15I know someone.
00:16His name is Donnie.
00:17I knew it!
00:19What does Donnie do?
00:21He listens first.
00:22He doesn't know.
00:23He doesn't participate.
00:25For example, he talks about
00:27his girlfriend's boyfriend is like this.
00:31But what he doesn't know is that
00:32he has another boyfriend.
00:34He also has a girlfriend.
00:36He's just listening.
00:37But later, he'll say,
00:38Do you have anything to say?
00:40I saw it.
00:41He's bluffing.
00:43He's bluffing.
00:44But he's contributing.
00:47Right?
00:48He needs to be like that first.
00:49He needs a starter.
00:51He can't be the first one.
00:53And his projection is
00:55he has credibility.
00:57Because he's not interested in participating.
00:59But when he was asked,
01:01there was no stopping him.
01:02He was blown away.
01:03All the details he invented were blown away.
01:07Right?
01:07Is there anyone else who's like that?
01:09Not yet.
01:10Why, Buboy?
01:11I don't want to say it.
01:12I don't want to say it.
01:14Come on.
01:14It's just the two of us.
01:16Let's not talk about it tomorrow.
01:17Yes, let's talk about it tomorrow.
01:18Let's continue talking about it.
01:19You're hoping for that, right?
01:20You're really going to say something.
01:22You're stopping yourself.
01:23What is it?
01:23No.
01:24I don't know if what you're talking about is true.
01:29But he's always following the car.
01:33It seems like you're the one who's telling the truth.
01:34You know, he's always like that.
01:37Which leads me to this kind of Marites.
01:40The Marites Inventor.
01:41It's like what's happening to us.
01:43The story is not true.
01:45It's just like he's relevant to the community.
01:48He's the star.
01:49He's famous.
01:50He's going to make a story.
01:51A lot of gossip is based on lies.
01:54Like what I said earlier,
01:56he's standing in the corner talking.
01:57It's based on lies.
01:59A lot of it.
02:01But there are really liars who are really liars.
02:05They believe that it's based on lies.
02:07They just invent things.
02:09But a lot of the gossip,
02:11at least in some studies,
02:12it's based on the fact that the shoes are new.
02:15It's not based on salary.
02:16Where did he get the money from?
02:18Right?
02:18There are things like that.
02:20There's a background.
02:21He even has a thesis about the story.
02:25He didn't borrow money from his neighbor, Aida.
02:29Where did he get the money from?
02:30I saw him carrying something.
02:32Maybe he's rich.
02:33Maybe he's courting someone.
02:35Maybe it's them.
02:36So the Marites Inventor is powerful
02:41because he doesn't have boundaries.
02:44He doesn't have boundaries when he tells his story.
02:48He can say anything.
02:50Because a lot of gossips have a foundation.
02:55That's why.
02:55There's no smoke without fire.
02:57That's not true.
02:58Sometimes, yes.
02:59The smoke is really strong even without fire.
03:02That's the Inventor.
03:04That's it.
03:04He's just making it worse.
03:06No.
03:07Even without fire, even without smoke.
03:09It's so disgusting.
03:10It's so bad.
03:11But I think that's what's destructive.
03:14All kinds of gossip are destructive.
03:16But this is the most dangerous.
03:18Because this is what will be invented.
03:20Right?
03:21Before I forget,
03:22gossips are also used because it's being studied by learned people.
03:28It's also used, like what I said about the art of war,
03:31that to confuse the enemy,
03:34you spread untrue stories.
03:37Let's go to show business.
03:38For example, historically speaking in Hollywood,
03:41you need to have a title.
03:44The most beautiful woman in the world was Elizabeth Taylor.
03:48In those times, we have that title.
03:51Elvis Presley of the Philippines, etc, etc.
03:54The handlers of one of the most beautiful movie stars in Hollywood,
03:59I'm thinking of Lana Turner.
04:01That's it.
04:02Okay.
04:02Lana Turner's era, just google Lana Turner.
04:06She was accompanied by great artists.
04:10Her handlers were thinking,
04:12how can we create her own image, Lana Turner?
04:18Do you know what her handlers did?
04:20They sent, for example,
04:22they contacted Variety.
04:24This is just an example.
04:25We have a telegram here.
04:27We got this from the Fashion Designers Association of America,
04:31which was not real.
04:34It didn't exist.
04:35What's inside?
04:36But this is a true story.
04:38Okay.
04:39In packaging.
04:40Okay?
04:41And what's inside the telegram is,
04:43Dear Vice Chair Buboy Villar,
04:47for example, you're Lana Turner's manager.
04:49We are declaring Lana Turner
04:51as the most fashionable woman in Hollywood.
04:54So that became her brand.
04:56Okay.
04:57And where did that come from?
04:59Yes, from an untrue story.
05:02You know what I'm saying?
05:02Yes, yes.
05:03So the debate there,
05:05was a crime committed?
05:07What kind of gossip was that
05:09that Lana Turner's package
05:11became the most fashionable?
05:14I didn't get hurt.
05:16Do you understand?
05:17Yes, yes, yes.
05:17Yes.
05:18There's also something that comes from the truth.
05:20Let's emphasize the story of this girl
05:23because she's from the province.
05:27This is her life.
05:30And many more.
05:31Because this will be necessary
05:33to support, to strengthen the image.
05:36Is that a crime?
05:38Nope.
05:38That's what I'm trying to say.
06:08You're not conscious of what's true and what's not.
06:11What's imagined and what's real.
06:14That's painful.
06:16That's where it becomes not good.
06:17It's not good anymore.
06:18Yes.
06:19But you were grazing on distraction a bit,
06:23Tito Boy, earlier in your explanation.
06:25Do we need that as a group of people?
06:29That sometimes, we are free
06:31from what we think every day.
06:34And this is what we use as a tool or instrument.
06:37Very thin line that separates
06:38between distraction and fun, sometimes.
06:42That's why values should come out.
06:44Because, for example, our intention is just to laugh.
06:48Let's talk about JP, for example.
06:51He likes to dance.
06:53And we just laugh.
06:55But when that comes out,
06:57to the point that we're already breaking the rules.
07:01If there's a distraction,
07:03it's a bit off.
07:04So distraction is okay.
07:06Destruction is not.
07:07Is not.
07:08Is not.
07:09You remember that, right?
07:10Destruction, then,
07:11from the mundane
07:13that we live every day,
07:16it can be fun.
07:17But you know when to stop.
07:20Let's just joke about it.
07:21There's no truth to it.
07:23Something like that.
07:24And don't lose your sense of what is right
07:27and what is wrong.
07:28Even in this business,
07:30where we accept that there's gossip,
07:35does not give you the permission or the license
07:38to destroy anyone.
07:39See?
08:08Sometimes, you just let it go.
08:10But we all get full.
08:12We all have a threshold.
08:14That's okay.
08:15Right?
08:16But the time comes in every life
08:19that sometimes you don't do it for yourself.
08:21You do it for a husband or a wife.
08:23Wait, my family is getting hurt.
08:25Wait, it's not stopping.
08:27That's a bit different.
08:29That's an entailment.
08:38Oh, my God.
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