00:00So the boundaries in talking, because it's hard, it's hard for us to set,
00:04especially when you've been friends for a long time.
00:09So how then, did you transition anywhere in all your relationships?
00:14It started out as friends, I didn't think it would lead to anything,
00:17and then it became something.
00:19I didn't have that.
00:20I started courting right away.
00:22Ah, you made your intentions clear.
00:24Now, in courting, that's when we became friends.
00:27The intention was to get to know you, and then not to be friends.
00:32Not to be friends.
00:34Because, first of all, it's confusing for a woman.
00:39For a woman, yes.
00:41What are we really?
00:43At the same time, what's the intention?
00:46I'm courting you.
00:48It's not the trend anymore, right?
00:50You're making friends, so it's confusing.
00:52Everyone's confused, right?
00:54So, in my time, in my time.
00:56Until now, I believe that your intention should be clear,
01:00to begin with.
01:02So that everyone knows that I'm making friends with you
01:04because I want you to be my girlfriend,
01:06not just a friend.
01:08Now, if a woman doesn't like you,
01:10then let's stop this.
01:12It's like we're old school like that.
01:14We want it to be clear.
01:16But the kids now, I observe.
01:18So, Mr. Vice Chair, our resource person,
01:20I noticed, because I have a 23-year-old son,
01:22and I ask him about his relationships,
01:24or what he observes in his age group,
01:26he says,
01:28now it's blurred.
01:30Everything is like transactional,
01:32or passing through.
01:34Nothing sticks, nothing stays,
01:36which makes me both happy and sad.
01:38Happy because they're now aware
01:40that there are many kinds of relationships.
01:42It's not just a committed relationship that's valid.
01:44There can also be a mutual understanding.
01:46There's also a co-dependency
01:48that has a positive impact
01:50on two people.
01:52So, Pao,
01:54what should women understand
01:56about us men?
01:58It's like I'm reading
02:00a cloud of words.
02:02No, because you're right
02:04in what you said.
02:06It's hard to say now because
02:08the mindset is different.
02:10And I'll repeat,
02:14and I'll defend that,
02:16they're pitiful now.
02:18Regardless if you feel it or not.
02:20Because for me,
02:22old school,
02:26at the end of the day,
02:28you might not
02:30realize it now
02:32because
02:34the judgment is blurred
02:36in the fact that
02:38you can do it.
02:40I'm an independent woman.
02:42I can love who I want to love.
02:44Exactly.
02:46And then one day,
02:48you will meet the right person
02:50and then there will be
02:52things that you cannot even tell him
02:54because you did some things
02:56that are not good just because
02:58you want to prove that
03:00you all are equal.
03:02So, for women,
03:04take care of yourselves.
03:06Especially for young people,
03:08take care of yourselves.
03:10For all men.
03:12And also, I believe
03:14that nowadays, for men,
03:16try to be a man.
03:18I mean, I think
03:20men nowadays are becoming very
03:22aggressive.
03:24Not even aggressive.
03:26Again, because of
03:28the equality that
03:30that generation believes in,
03:32the boundary of respect disappears.
03:34Women, respect that.
03:36And men, at your age,
03:38be a man. You'll learn to change wheels.
03:40Be a man.
03:42Stand up.
03:44I don't know if I can say anything.
03:46I hope you don't cut this out
03:48because we already know Paolo.
03:50Paolo may be like this, mouth and all,
03:52words and all,
03:54Paolo's word choice is for corporate.
03:56For corporate.
03:58I'm really a corporate.
04:00A minor basilica of this.
04:04Can you say that when you dip?
04:06Anyway.
04:08This is approved by the Pope.
04:10He may seem like this but in real life,
04:12when Paolo says, be a man, do this, do that,
04:14he really stands by the values he believes in.
04:16So he's really our friend.
04:18He's just annoying but he's a good person.
04:20Of course.
04:22And you too, Mr. Vice Chair.
04:26You too.
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