00:00If Mrs. Lumapit is the one who needs advice, what will you do?
00:05Do you ask her for advice?
00:07Yes, I ask her for advice because I might not be able to get back the awards that I received as I'm good at giving advice.
00:15I might not be able to give her advice.
00:17She might post it on social media and say that I can't give her advice.
00:22So, I give her advice.
00:24Does she agree?
00:25Yes, she agrees.
00:26It also helped that I'm older than her by 8 years.
00:29Oh, really?
00:30That's why she believes in what I say.
00:32That's so nice. So, she's like a mentor to you.
00:35Correct.
00:36You have a husband and you have a mentor.
00:39Correct.
00:40I love it.
00:41And at home, power! We also clap.
00:46She's different.
00:47I have a question based on my research.
00:49Wow.
00:50It looks like she worked hard and she got it.
00:52Based on my research.
00:53There's a survey, there's research.
00:54Yes, based on my studies.
00:55Wow.
00:56Experts say that stupid fights are a symptom of a bigger problem in a relationship.
01:19There's a deeper reason why you always fight.
01:21Even in small things, what can you say about it?
01:24The big problem is hidden by the small problems.
01:28Okay.
01:29Actually, I just translated what you said.
01:31Did you notice?
01:32Because it's in English, it still looks correct.
01:36Which is true.
01:37It's true.
01:38Very true.
01:39Because there are big problems that are hard to talk about.
01:41Correct.
01:42And others are in denial of talking about it.
01:45Or they're the problem.
01:46Maybe they know that they're the problem but they're denying it.
01:48So, to address the problem, she'll make a small fight to address the big problem.
01:55Papa Dudot, how can you break that stigma?
01:59You'll change your partner.
02:02You're not fighting for that?
02:04You're not fighting for that.
02:05Kidding aside, the best thing to do is to admit to yourself that there's a problem.
02:10Be honest.
02:11Be honest with your partners.
02:12Would you say, Papa Dudot, having listened to so many,
02:15listening to so many of your programs,
02:17that the culture of Filipinos is not confrontational?
02:19It's embarrassing.
02:20Yes, it's not confrontational.
02:21It's hidden.
02:22It's hidden.
02:23Yes.
02:24We don't want to reveal it.
02:26Sweet under the rug.
02:27Just let it be.
02:28Don't let it be.
02:29There's a tendency like that.
02:30Correct.
02:31Filipinos always deny that there's a problem.
02:33So, it comes to a point where it just explodes.
02:36Like a volcano.
02:37So, it's not good what they're saying.
02:39The characteristics of Filipinos are either stupid or happy.
02:43Resilient.
02:44Actually, sometimes, we hide the problem in happiness.
02:50Pity.
02:51Pity.
02:52I'll just give an example.
02:53According to my relationship expert, Jane Astrouse,
02:58these struggles are rarely about the issue and are almost always about people using issues.
03:05I know you're saying something.
03:06I don't understand.
03:07Say it again.
03:09It's hard to speak English.
03:11This is from my class.
03:15These struggles are rarely about the issues and are almost always about people using issues
03:22such as the position of the toilet seat as evidence of whether or not they are loved.
03:28Marriages can be ruined by a partner not squeezing the toothpaste in the right spot
03:35because of the love versus not love meaning for their partner.
03:39Correct.
03:40A small thing like a toothbrush,
03:42the toothpaste can't be closed properly.
03:45In the toilet, using a flush can be a reason to hide the bigger problem.
03:51Okay.
03:52So, there's a mask.
03:53Yes.
03:54Just to create an issue.
03:56And why are Filipinos so shy?
03:58That's what I'm saying.
03:59I just want to make things easier.
04:01Let's look for another spokesperson because I'm also asking.
04:04I also want this.
04:05I'm also asking.
04:06Challenge me easily.
04:08The first person who can answer this.
04:10As a woman.
04:11One.
04:13You're nothing.
04:14For the second round.
04:17As a woman, it's hard sometimes.
04:19Because you're a man, you should be the one to start.
04:22You should already know.
04:23But how can a man be shy?
04:25Can a woman also step up?
04:27Of course.
04:28For the relationship.
04:29We should be forward thinking.
04:30It's 2024, guys.
04:32There's no more gender.
04:35That's true.
04:36We gave the example of the toothpaste.
04:38Yes.
04:39We also gave the example of the toilet seat.
04:42Yes.
04:43We'll give more examples.
04:45I think this is your encounter.
04:47What did you say?
04:48Okay.
04:49First, he didn't like the post.
04:51He didn't like it.
04:53But the post is important to you.
04:55That became my topic on the radio.
04:57Really?
04:58Online presence.
04:59Yes.
05:00There are men who are not fond of social media.
05:04Sometimes, they use social media because other people tell them to.
05:08Because of work.
05:09Or a woman told them to use social media to make me look taller.
05:13But there are men who are not fond of social media.
05:15So, we can't blame them for not posting.
05:19Or you can also look for a red flag for men.
05:23The thing is, men don't post about you when you don't know the reason.
05:29They're hiding something.
05:31Let's ask Buboy.
05:32Let's see Buboy's feed.
05:34This is what he looks like.
05:35He's hiding something.
05:37He should be made to steal.
05:40He should be put in a party.
05:42That's different.
05:43That's different.
05:44That's lame.
05:45That's lame.
05:46Next.
05:47This is open.
05:48Look, you're already texting.
05:49You don't want to talk.
05:50Are you going to comment?
05:51Let's talk about your feed.
05:53Are you hiding something?
05:55I appreciate it.
05:57I want to show off.
05:59Not just me, but my babies.
06:01They're handsome and beautiful.
06:04So, you want to show off to the world that you're taken and you have a child.
06:07Yes.
06:09Men who are secretive like that can…
06:12Have a red flag energy.
06:13Yes.
06:14Maybe there are other women who are on the sidelines at night, right?
06:18Correct.
06:19But I'm not going to blame them.
06:21In our line of work, we have to be careful with our postings.
06:24Especially our partners who are not in our industry.
06:28Because they don't understand that our lives are seen by everyone.
06:32Correct.
06:33So, sometimes we just protect them.
06:35We don't want to post them because we might get asked by a lot of people.
06:40Privacy might be invaded.
06:41There's also that reason.
06:42Correct.
06:43But with you, I feel like it's not like that.
06:47I'm just kidding.
06:49I don't want to talk.
06:50There are a lot of Your Honors watching.
06:52One of the things that I feel sorry for is that you posted on a different picture.
06:56Yes, it hurts.
06:57But for me, when something happens, I genuinely laugh.
07:01You feel good about it?
07:02I feel good about it.
07:03I don't even look at who posted it.
07:05I just laugh.
07:07It's like an organic reaction.
07:09But for other jealous partners, it's a pity.
07:12True.
07:13Especially if it's 100 hearts.
07:14Yes.
07:15All of them.
07:16All of them.
07:17And all of them have a tupis.
07:18All of them.
07:19It's 2016 and you still have a tupis.
07:21You might get a heart attack.
07:23What did you do?
07:25It's like you did a scolba.
07:26It's like you're just laughing.
07:27You're doing it on purpose.
07:28You're going to get a feed.
07:30It's 2016.
07:31Super stalker.
07:32Super stalker.
07:33And speaking of super stalker, let's look at the photos on number 2.
07:35Here.
07:36Number 2.
07:37Their photo was not posted.
07:38Yes.
07:39You can forget about it.
07:40There's no data.
07:41That's what they're doing.
07:42But let's go back to the possible red flag.
07:45He might be hiding something from his followers.
07:47He also has a girlfriend.
07:48Okay.
07:49Someone discovered that on the program.
07:50There are people like that.
07:51There are people like that.
07:52I found out that that's why his Facebook name is Binaligtad.
07:56Yes.
07:57The Bernard Ranneret.
07:58Have you experienced that?
07:59Yes.
08:00Sometimes their names are like Chinese.
08:02Yes.
08:03It's like a scam.
08:04That's why there are 5 accounts.
08:05Yes.
08:06There are 5 accounts.
08:07The name is Arabic.
08:08Yes.
08:09There's a Chinese name, there's Arabic, there's Binaligtad.
08:10You can't search, right?
08:11Yes.
08:12Because those accounts have different girlfriends.
08:14Ah, like that.
08:15Yes.
08:16It's hard when you order Tocino.
08:17Who am I ordering?
08:18The name is Arabic.
08:19I can't find it.
08:20The keyword.
08:21There are a lot of people like that.
08:22Those who are Chinese.
08:23So what do you mean?
08:24Please put the real name.
08:25I can't understand.
08:26That's cool.
08:27That's the name.
08:28But they're commenting in Tagalog.
08:29Yes.
08:30Maybe they're in Pogo.
08:31Huh?
08:32When you talk to them.
08:33Okay.
08:34Okay.
08:35Next.
08:36Number 3.
08:37The one you just didn't look at.
08:38Yes.
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