00:00Next, so madalas naririnig natin sa mundo natin, sa showbiz, sa mga kapwa natin artisa,
00:05kapag may narurumored partner or jowa, we're just friends, o kaya tingin nyo ito ba ay nagsasabi ng totoo,
00:14palusot lang ba ito to save the career, or may career path na madidiscareel kung sakaling umamin?
00:19What if may namumuong relasyon na tapos paamin ka na pero parang ayaw mo parin,
00:24totoo ba na sinasabi yan, we're just friends, o lusot?
00:28Madalas naman yan, lusot yan, pero you have to understand also kasi we work in an industry na
00:34madami ang may responsibilidad ka to your bosses, to the network, and to the fans,
00:40so may mga bagay na kailangan mo talagang sundin, and kung baga yung partner mo,
00:44kung hindi man yun yung kalavte mo or whatever, you guys have to talk about it and understand the situation.
00:50Totoo, parang dahil sa career natin, dalawa tuloy ang agreement,
00:54personal agreement between the two of you, and then yung professional agreement,
00:58kasi nga may careers na maka-apectuhan.
01:00Medyo ano tayo, medyo ano natin, sa morals, medyo ano tayo?
01:05Medyo loose?
01:05Medyo loose ang, hindi, amin na natin, artista, medyo loose,
01:09kasi we do a lot of things na hindi ginagawa ng mga normal na,
01:13like for example, love scenes, kissing scenes,
01:16may mga ginagawa tayong gano'n na para sa ibang mga tao, sa mga normal na tao, cheating na yon.
01:21Yes.
01:21So, medyo loose tayo sa ganun.
01:24Papakloss ka ba bao?
01:25Like, kunyari may mga double ka sa nudity, or ayaw mo to, ayaw mo to,
01:29considering you're partners?
01:30Wala naman akong...
01:32Offer?
01:33Wala naman.
01:34I mean, wala naman akong...
01:35Meron, merong offer, pero...
01:36Kloss open, di ba?
01:38Kloss open.
01:40So, sa mga producer, papapayag po si Paolo sa makloss open?
01:43Sa ibang bagay, hindi po tayo.
01:45Ikaw ba, may offer na bang ganun?
01:47Yun ngang medyo kayaka-dismay ako eh, wala nag-offer.
01:50Ikaw na yung nag-offer, ayaw nila.
01:53Kuanin nyo ako sa mga ganun.
01:54Kung makita nyo lang si Buboy, ah!
01:56Grabe.
01:57Bulldog.
01:58Bakit?
02:00Sabi nila, ang husky yung size na ganun, di ba?
02:03Oo, oo, pag nagpapaano yan, may natty, oo.
02:06Oo, uy!
02:07May gano'n.
02:08Oo, may anatomy class paminsan, may...
02:11Oo, pero sa ibang podcast na yan.
02:14Sa ibang podcast na yun pwede.
02:16Medyo ano eh, medyo delikado yung ano, mahirap lagyan ng linea.
02:21Friendship, lovers, lalo nakapag super close,
02:23meron ng understanding.
02:25Pero, possible pa rin ba, na kunyari, male-female relationship,
02:29strictly friends lang talaga tayo, possible pa to?
02:32Again, babae masusunod sa ganun.
02:34Oo nga, kung gusto ni babae, kunyari, iba ang gusto mo,
02:37pero possible pa rin ba, kahit iba gusto ni lalaki?
02:40Ay, oo, papahig yung lalaki.
02:41Bakit? Bakit papahig yung lalaki?
02:42Yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan
03:12Yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan, yan
03:42Para kasi hindi credible pag ako eh
03:44Gusto ko yung siya na inag-amen
03:46Ako nainiwala ko sa'yo
03:48Namin niya na talaga
03:50You should always respect kung ano yung gusto ng babae
03:52At the end of the day
03:54Pero sadly
03:56Again, marami ang lalaking
03:58Ganunang style
04:00Siguro as ako, I'm getting old already
04:02So alam ko na yun, kailangan respetuwing
04:04Kung ano yung boundaries niya
04:06Ngayon yung babae, siya yung magsiset ng rules
04:08At ng boundaries sa kanya
04:10And she cannot be again
04:12Naive na
04:14Okay to, okay to, okay to
04:16It's impossible
04:18Ito may tanong ako sa'yo
04:20Ang matagal ko na itong gusto mong tanungan
04:22Kahit nga off-came, sa mga work natin
04:24You have three girls
04:26These three girls are beautiful
04:28Like your mothers
04:30And also the dad, meron din kalahati ng pagkataon
04:32Nun yung ganda, nun galing sa'yo
04:34One day, merong lumapit sa'yo
04:36Na binatiliyo na
04:38Pau, kaibigan ko po si
04:40Si Summer, alibaba
04:42Okay lang po ba
04:44Paminsan-paminsan, pupunta po ako dito
04:46Pero knowing what you're thinking
04:48Now, na naku, waiting in the wings
04:50Mag-aantay ako, mag-aantay ako
04:52Ng oportunidad
04:54Mag-a-apply din ba ito with your own kids
04:56With your own blood, yung advice na sinasabi mo
04:58Sa mga nanonood sa atin ngayon
05:00How will you handle it if one day
05:02Your daughters come to you?
05:04It's gonna happen anyway
05:06Nag-inatatakot Pau?
05:08Na baka may Paulo din silang makilala
05:10Nakagaya mo
05:14Everyday pinagdadasal mo yan
05:16Nag-iisa ka na lang
05:18Ikaw lang yan
05:20Ikaw lang ang Paulo Conti sa Earth
05:22Pero how will you handle it?
05:24Sasampalin ko ka
05:28Ito na lang
05:30Usapan ganyan, nabangit mo kasi yung kids
05:32The goal, me as a person
05:34Ever since a month
05:36The goal is to be a guy
05:38Kung baga gusto mo na yung manligaw sa mga anak mo
05:40Maging kagaya mo
05:42So yun yung goal ko
05:44Sadly, hindi pa siya
05:46Yung make mistake
05:48Pero nagkakamali ka
05:50Now, masasabi ko na
05:52Kung yung Paulo mga 10 years ago
05:54Or 15 years ago
05:56Yung ipakilala sakin ng ako
05:58Naku, dios ko lord
06:00Tatampalin ko talaga yan
06:02Are you saying, Paulo, that the Paulo now
06:04Has changed immensely
06:06It is an ongoing process
06:08I cannot say
06:10Nandun sa process ka na ng pagbabago
06:12Alam mo na yung mga mali mo
06:14Iniisa-isa mo na yung mga mali
06:16Tinatama mo na yung mga mali
06:18I'm 40, so kailangan na yun
06:20I've seen you in most of the decades
06:22Of your life, mula bata ka
06:24Ano talaga ang tao
06:26Hindi talaga napapa ako sa isang
06:28Ugali or sa isang
06:30Baka tingin sa akin Madam Chair
06:32Talagang binibigay ko sa'yo
06:34Actually, sagat ko na ito Madam Chair
06:36Ayaw mo na Mr. Vice Chair na magbago
06:38Happy ka na rin
06:40Sa ugali mo na yan
06:42Ang daming friends ito
06:44Friends lang daw talaga
06:46Naman!
06:48Friends ko lang talaga yung mga yun
06:50Alam mo na susunog yung buhok mo
06:52Habang sinasabi mo yan
06:54Wag mo na ituloy
06:56So, yung boundaries sa pag-usapan
06:58Kasi nga ang hirap
07:00Ang hirap natin iset
07:02Lalo na pagkakunyari nagkakataipan na
07:04Matagal na kayong magkaibigan
07:06So how then, did you transition
07:08Anywhere sa lahat ng mga relationships mo
07:10Na it started out as friends
07:12And you didn't think it will lead to anything
07:14And then it became something
07:16Wala akong ganun, ganaligaw ako agad
07:18Ah, you made your intentions clear
07:20Now, dun sa paniligaw
07:22Dun kami naging magkaibigan
07:24Yung kumbaga, the intention was to get to know you
07:26And then not to be friends
07:28Diba, not to be friends
07:30Kasi, una sa lahat
07:32Ah, confusing din yun
07:34Para sa babae
07:36Sa bagay, oo
07:38Ano ba talaga tayo
07:40At the same time, ano na agad yung intention
07:42Diba, um, maniligaw ako sayo
07:44Hindi na kasi uso ngayon yan
07:46Diba, papapakaibigang kaibigan
07:48So, lito, litong-lito lahat yung mga tao
07:50So, sa panahon ko, sa panahon ko
07:52Wow!
07:54Naniniwala ako na dapat
07:56Clear yung intention mo, to begin with
07:58Para alam ng lahat na
08:00Nagiging kaibigan kita kasi gusto kitang
08:02Maging girlfriend
08:04Hindi yung kaibigan lang kita
08:06Ngayon, kung ayaw ng babae sa'yo, tigilan natin to
08:08Tama, parang we're old school like that
08:10Masa natin malinaw
08:12But the kids now, I observe
08:14So, Mr. Vice Chair
08:16Atang ating resource person, napansin ko kasi
08:18I have a 23-year-old son
08:20And I ask him about his relationships
08:22Or yung mga na-observe niya sa mga age group niya
08:24Sabi niya, now it's blurred
08:26Everything is like parang transactional
08:28O kaya passing through
08:30Nothing sticks, nothing stays
08:32Which makes me both happy and sad
08:34Kasi happy because they are now aware
08:36That maraming kinds of relationships
08:38Hindi dapat committed
08:40Relationship lang ang valid
08:42Pwede ring may mutual understanding
08:44May codependency din na may positive
08:46Dulot sa dalawang tao
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