00:04How do you know a lot of people,
00:08the netizens,
00:09that you live in?
00:11How do you know?
00:12We didn't know.
00:13We didn't know.
00:14How do they know?
00:16People just assume.
00:17Because the people have spoken.
00:22So how do you know?
00:25How do you feel the reaction?
00:26How do you feel the reaction?
00:27How do you feel the reaction to live in?
00:30How many years have you started to live together?
00:3429.
00:34That's just 4 years ago.
00:3629 or 30.
00:3929 or 30 years old na kami.
00:4129 or 30 years old na kami.
00:42Oh, hindi nga kasi halata.
00:43Because they look like a child, guys.
00:45Do you think you talk about it?
00:47No, I think
00:48to us kasi hindi naman kami naapektuhan
00:51kasi matandala kami eh.
00:52Hello?
00:53I think mas maapektuhan kami
00:56kasi kung talagang bawal talaga
00:58and we were minors or you know.
01:00Oo.
01:00So hindi rin kasi biro'y pag nag-live in kayo.
01:02Syempre lahat nandun eh.
01:04Lahat yung bayarin, di ba?
01:05You know, living in before marriage
01:08is a belief.
01:11Yes.
01:11And iba-iba, you know,
01:14yung mga tao,
01:14iba-iba yung belief nila
01:16whether or not you should be living in
01:18before marriage or not.
01:19So we do not impose it.
01:22We do not,
01:22yun yung gusto kong sabihin sa mga tao.
01:25We do not encourage it.
01:27We do not condone it.
01:31We're not encouraging it for everybody to do it.
01:34Kasi iba't ibang paniniwala talaga ng tao yun.
01:37Yes.
01:37At saka alam mo,
01:39ito kasi yan eh,
01:40pag nag-live in,
01:40kaya big step talaga yung
01:42from mag-jowa kayo
01:43tapos mag-live in kayo.
01:45Kaya namin tinatanong,
01:46how did you come up with the idea?
01:48Kasi kapag nag-live in kayo,
01:50medyo may touch move.
01:52Yeah.
01:52Medyo may touch move eh,
01:54na shock,
01:55syempre nag-level up ka.
01:57Parang i-expect mo ba,
01:58magpapakasal na,
02:00tayo na ba to forever?
02:01Mm-hmm.
02:02How do I get out of the house?
02:04Like, the relationship,
02:05ando na lahat yung buhay mo sa bahay na yun.
02:08Mm-hmm.
02:08Diba?
02:09So, isa yan sa mga nakakatakot
02:11kasi nga,
02:11tinatawag nga nila,
02:12pag nag-live in ka daw,
02:14do you like,
02:15look at it as a test drive?
02:17You know what?
02:18Before you get married?
02:19Before,
02:20four years ago,
02:21or even before that,
02:23sinabi ko na sa sarili ko na,
02:25ayoko magpakasal.
02:27And I told him that,
02:28mas okay na sakin yung baby.
02:30And I think it's because,
02:33of my parents,
02:35and because naghiwalay sila.
02:37So, there would be times na parang,
02:40parang ayoko na magpakasal,
02:42parang okay na sakin na magka-baby na lang kami.
02:44Mm-hmm.
02:45So, because of what we went through
02:48when we were kids,
02:49parang medyo jaded ka na sa marriage.
02:53Pero you never dreamed about like,
02:56what it feels like to get married?
02:58Well now, gusto ko na!
03:00Yay!
03:02How about you?
03:03I mean, ikaw?
03:04Yeah, gusto ko na din.
03:05Gusto mo na din?
03:06So, you guys talk about it already?
03:08Pag-uusapan naman namin.
03:10Of course, yes!
03:11Of course, yes!
03:12Make-make na agad!
03:13Of course, yes!
03:14Yeah!
03:16Siyempre,
03:16siyempre,
03:17siyempre, dapat,
03:17yung talagang,
03:18ano ano yun,
03:19may ipon ka na.
03:20Alam mo,
03:20kinikilig ako.
03:22But we're not rushing it also,
03:23kasi gusto namin maging practical.
03:26Alam mo,
03:26if there's one advice I can give,
03:29about getting married,
03:30kasi ako,
03:30kinasal na ako,
03:31nag-annul,
03:33and then I have a new partner now.
03:35Yeah.
03:37Yes.
03:39Yung pagkinasal kayo,
03:40isipin nyo pa rin talaga,
03:41hindi yung wedding,
03:42kundi yung marriage.
03:43Yes!
03:45Naman!
03:45Dapat naman.
03:47Nag-live-in din kami,
03:48before kami,
03:49we got married,
03:50six years.
03:51So, hindi din siya basihan eh.
03:53Yes.
03:54Kasi you can still like,
03:56hindi naman sa wedding wish natin,
03:57hindi ko kayo binibigyan ng masamang idea.
03:59Of course.
04:00But everything changes talaga.
04:01Yes.
04:02Everyone changes.
04:04At dun sa change na yun,
04:05you change also everybody.
04:07Pero ano,
04:08hindi mo talaga masasabi.
04:10Yeah.
04:10Basta everything is just a decision.
04:13Yes.
04:13Like, oh my gosh,
04:14na-discover ko ito after five years,
04:16ganda pala ugali niya.
04:17Do I,
04:18you have to decide lang.
04:19Do I stick or do I not?
04:21That's why we're not,
04:22that's also why we're not rushing.
04:25Kama.
04:25Mas maganda yung kinikilala nyo muna isa't isa.
04:27So, ang importante lang,
04:28buo ang loob mo talaga.
04:30Yun.
04:30About the person,
04:31about your decision.
04:32Yes.
04:33About buying a house,
04:34about buying a car.
04:36Yes.
04:36Importante yun.
04:37Lalo na sa edad natin ngayon,
04:39parang nakatakot na mag-fail ulit.
04:42Yeah.
04:43Nakatakot na mag-reset na naman.
04:45Yes.
04:45Lalo na ako, may anak ako.
04:46So, nasa punto ako ngayon sa buhay ko,
04:49na blessed ako,
04:50happy ako,
04:50pero kahit anong mangyari ito kay Isay,
04:52makita ko yung pinakapangit na ng ugali,
04:54mag-i-stick ako.
04:55Yeah.
04:56That's the decision.
04:57And I think,
04:58yun yung gusto ko sabihin sa kanila,
05:01na ganun talaga ang buhay guys,
05:02hindi talaga yun perfect eh.
05:04Makikita mo yung beauty and the beast sa kanya.
05:08Pero mas makikita,
05:09lagi mo titignan yung best sa kanya.
05:12Yes.
05:13Lalo natanggal yung mga strike?
05:15Lalo natanggal.
05:16Lalo natanggal.
05:16Lalo natanggal.
05:17Back to zero ako ha.
05:18Lalo natanggal yung mga strike.
05:19Maganda yan boy.
05:20Ito po yun.
05:21I think naman in any relationship,
05:23whether it be a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship,
05:26or a husband and a wife relationship,
05:27you have to always choose each other.
05:31Eh, basta huwag lang manakit,
05:33or yung talagang grabing,
05:35huwag gano'n.
05:36Huwag gano'n.
05:37But always choose each other.
05:38Your Pokemon.
05:39Ay, sorry.
05:41Each other.
05:43So ano pag-usapan natin yung mga changes,
05:45diba?
05:45Nabanggit ko kanina,
05:46yung sa may nadidiscover kang ugali.
05:49When you live together,
05:50kayong dalawa,
05:51ano yung nadiscover nyo?
05:52Magsimula tayo sa positive,
05:54na hindi nyo alam
05:56before pa kayo mag-live-in.
05:58Ah,
05:59siguro yung pagiging mabait nyo sa akin,
06:02and pagiging malambing.
06:04Anong love?
06:05Mas extra ba siyang lambing
06:06nung nag-live-in kayo
06:07kaysa nung...
06:08Oo.
06:09Mas extra lambing.
06:10Yes.
06:11Clingy.
06:12Pero not to the point na hindi ko siya
06:13binibigyan ng space ha.
06:15Kasi actually yun din yung important sa amin na
06:18we are malambing to each other,
06:21pero not to the point na parang nakakasakal na.
06:24Parang hindi nakakasawa.
06:26Oo.
06:26Yung ano naman,
06:27yung nakakabuisit.
06:29Si Ina ba,
06:30malakas ang hilik.
06:30May dala kaming c-pop machine.
06:32May times.
06:33Actually nire-record ko yun minsan eh.
06:35Oo ba, nililik yan?
06:36Pwede mo lang yung nakita.
06:37Sure.
06:38Meron.
06:38Actually, ilang videos yung mga lima, anin.
06:43Oo, may videos din ako nung umihilik siya.
06:45Ah,
06:46yun naman pala.
06:47Isang tayo naman pala.
06:48Hindi ko alam eh, sino ba?
06:48Ito.
06:49Ako ba?
06:50Hanggang ngayon,
06:50ngayon hindi na ako humihilik.
06:52Pero ngayon,
06:54until now humihilik.
06:55Lalo na pagpagod siya ganit paper.
06:57Sa ngayon na rin,
06:58yung pagiging clumsy ni Ina,
06:59yun din yung...
07:00Basta clumsy?
07:01Basta-basta siya na,
07:02ayun nga, nakakabasag din dyan.
07:04Hindi niya na alam.
07:05Oo.
07:06Pagkukuha lang siya ng kanin,
07:07natatapon pa yung kanin.
07:09Ah.
07:09Clumsy talaga ako as a person.
07:11Kahit yung parents ko,
07:12yung mga kapatid ko,
07:13yun yung laging ano sakin.
07:15Na dapat walang picture sa harap ko.
07:18Kasi matatapik ko siya.
07:19Matatapik niya agad.
07:20Pero safe naman ako sa mga ano, guys.
07:22Safe naman ako.
07:24Kasi dapat itali ka pala
07:25pag mga gano'n.
07:26Oo.
07:26Pag mga nasa babasaging area.
07:28Dapat talaga.
07:28Actually, yun talaga trait ko
07:30ever since bata pa ako.
07:32Ikaw naman,
07:33ano naman yung positive trait
07:35na na-discover mo kay Jake
07:36after you lived together?
07:39Yun nga,
07:39actually,
07:40nasa-surprise ako sa kanya
07:41kasi
07:44mas gusto niya mag-luto.
07:45Actually,
07:46mahilig talaga siya mag-luto.
07:48Talaga.
07:48Ano matikman namin?
07:50Na niluluto na Jake para sa'yo.
07:51Yes!
07:52Ang pinaka masarap.
07:54Ako kasi hindi ako mahilig
07:55sa adobo na may sabaw.
07:57Gusto ko yung nagmamantika.
08:00Grabe,
08:00masarap yung adobo
08:02na gano'n.
08:03Sige.
08:03Binagutom ako.
08:04Na marunin siya magluto
08:05ng adobo sa asin.
08:07Oo.
08:08Adobo,
08:09yung nagmamantika.
08:09Sige,
08:10even the way
08:11kung paano siya magluto
08:12ng corned beef,
08:13masarap.
08:13O.
08:19Pagka nasa ipigbipili akong brisket,
08:21gagawa kita agad.
08:2310 kilo.
08:25Ayan.
08:26Tsaka,
08:26yun nga,
08:27nung bago pa lang kami together,
08:29lage niya ako,
08:30tinuturuan niya ako.
08:31Like,
08:31he would be very patient.
08:33Actually,
08:33si Jake talaga,
08:34very patient talaga siya.
08:37Totoo.
08:37Ang pinaka-iyoko talaga,
08:39yung mabagal lang siya kumilos.
08:42Oo,
08:42yun nga,
08:43kagaya nung dalaklamo mo kanina.
08:46Oo.
08:46Mabagal siya kumilos,
08:47tsaka,
08:48alam mo yung,
08:49there are times na mabagal ako,
08:50pero siya talaga,
08:51mabagal talaga yung kumilos.
08:52Like ano,
08:53nilindul na.
08:54Sample-sample.
08:54May isang time.
08:56Nilindul kayo?
08:57This was 3 years ago,
08:59kasi mataas yung floor namin.
09:02Yung condo namin before,
09:0425th floor.
09:05So yun yung time na,
09:07malakas yung lindul.
09:08Okay.
09:09Sa Manila.
09:10Oo.
09:11E syempre,
09:11first time ko makaranas ng lindul sa condo.
09:14Oh my god.
09:14Ramdam eh.
09:15Ramdam yung halog.
09:16Ay nung time na yun,
09:17may...
09:1825th floor,
09:19maalog talaga yun?
09:20Oo.
09:21Tsaka may COVID ako nun.
09:23Ha!
09:23So, dun siya sa sala,
09:25dun ako sa kwarto.
09:27So, syempre,
09:28mga 8am na,
09:29the whole two days,
09:31kakain lang ako,
09:32tas matutulog,
09:33kain, tulog.
09:33So, mga 8am yun.
09:36Akala ko,
09:36tumobi lang siya sa akin.
09:38Oo.
09:38Kasi gumalaw yung bed.
09:40Pag ganun ko,
09:41nakita ko na yung mga paintings namin,
09:44gumagalaw na ng ganun.
09:46So, pag ilabas ko,
09:48sakin ko,
09:48love!
09:50Lumilindul!
09:51Tapos,
09:51yung mga tao sa labas ng unit namin,
09:54nakapanik na,
09:55and parang bababa na sila,
09:56pupita na sila.
09:57Do not do not guys,
09:58kasi lumilindul pa,
10:00nung time na yun.
10:01So, syempre,
10:02yung first instinct nila,
10:03is to go out of the unit,
10:05and pumunta na sa fire exit.
10:07So, syempre,
10:08nagpapanik na ako.
10:09Sabi ko,
10:09love,
10:10umalis na tayo,
10:11kasi nagpapanik na yung mga tao.
10:14May nangyari pa,
10:15pagkagising niya,
10:16finold pa niya yun.
10:22Tubig!
10:23Sabi ko, love,
10:24papatay na tayo dito,
10:26umalis na tayo.
10:27Kasi,
10:28eh, 25th floor kami,
10:30Hindi siyempre, di ba?
10:31Pero pag sakodo,
10:32paano ba ang regulation?
10:33Pag,
10:34during the lindol,
10:36don't go out first.
10:37Tama naman,
10:38safe first.
10:38Yeah, safe first.
10:39Ang first line of defense mo
10:41is mag-full.
10:41Hindi kasi siyempre,
10:42pag nagpanik pa siya,
10:43hindi magpanik,
10:44hindi wala na.
10:45Panik panahog na yun.
10:47Walaas ka lang,
10:48wala nang mangyayari,
10:48masama sa atin.
10:50So,
10:50pinold mo.
10:51Pinold.
10:52Eh, papaba na kami,
10:53wala na tapos yung lindol.
10:55Tapos na.
10:55O, diba?
10:56Wala din.
10:56Parang kumisunog.
10:58Nakakatawa lang,
10:59kasi nagtupi siya.
11:00Nagtupi talaga siya.
11:03Saan sinabi mo ng mamaya,
11:04pag hindi na ako maalog,
11:06mag-relax ka lang diyan.
11:07Doon ka,
11:08baka mahawa ako sa'yo.
11:09Diba?
11:10Kung gano'n sana mas...
11:12Eh.
11:12Ano ha, Jake?
11:15Be alert, ha?
11:17Tsaka ano,
11:18si Jake kasi,
11:19pagkagising,
11:20I would usually be the one
11:22to first wake up.
11:23Kasi,
11:24papakainin ko yung pusa namin.
11:26Because we have a cat.
11:27Mm-mm.
11:27Yun yung baby namin.
11:29So,
11:30pagkagising ko,
11:31siya kasi,
11:33pagigising ko siya,
11:34hindi siya kakain agad.
11:36May ritual talaga siya.
11:38Pagkagising niya.
11:39Kunyari,
11:39ginising ko siya ng 2pm,
11:42kakain na siya 5pm.
11:45So...
11:45Yun yung first meal mo?
11:46Parang na.
11:47Yun yung first meal niya,
11:47hindi siya kakain agad.
11:48Hindi na ngayon,
11:49binago ko na yung gano'ng lifestyle.
11:50Kasi,
11:51ang hirap eh.
11:52Bakit?
11:52Paano naging mahirap sa'yo?
11:54Parang,
11:56naguguto maganda ko eh,
11:57parang...
11:57Saka parang,
11:58late magsastart yung day ko.
12:00Yun din,
12:00late din.
12:01So, ngayon,
12:02in fairness naman,
12:03nagigising niya siya ngayon.
12:04Morgina!
12:06Ang pickleball natin,
12:078am, G.
12:08May aga ah?
12:09Oo.
12:10Hindi mo alam?
12:11Hindi niya alam oh.
12:12Si Ina lang may alam.
12:138am.
12:148am?
12:15Pero gumigising niya siya,
12:165.30am niya.
12:19Gumigising niya.
12:20Hindi ko alam,
12:20hindi ko alam bakit ganun.
12:21Parang,
12:22hindi ko alam.
12:23Ginigising ba ako?
12:24Ewan.
12:25O di baka nasanay lang din siguro ngayon
12:27kasi nakalipad kami ng bahay.
12:29Bap ut soe hei ba?
12:31Bap ut in,
12:33Bap It Soo Boiifus enni,
12:35kotakonipa.
12:36Bap get her so muri ngayon.
12:36Ba 가격 uop ma kasi bri pou languh points midi remai.
12:39You
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