00:00This is it, we're going to talk about the top 5 problems that have to do with love that are bothering you.
00:13And what is your piece of advice that you're giving to them?
00:17Let's start with the first one.
00:19How to move on?
00:21That's common, right?
00:22That's number one, uncle.
00:24So when somebody asks you, how to move on?
00:29What we're saying is, enjoy yourself.
00:33What will make you happy?
00:35Go out with your friends.
00:38The people that you haven't talked to before, your friends that you turned your back on before,
00:43and the families that you haven't been with on a date,
00:46do that now.
00:48And then, arrange your room.
00:51Make yourself tired until you forget.
00:53For example, your bed is on the left side.
00:55Move it to the right side.
00:57Change the painting of your room so that you won't remember the imprints, the memories.
01:03For me, uncle, what I'm saying is,
01:05remember the things that hurt you while you're with them.
01:11That's the reason why you need to move on.
01:15Because you remembered all the pain.
01:18You need to be hurt to move on.
01:20You need to help yourself to move on because it's already painful.
01:24But for me, what I'm adding is that it's a process.
01:28For example, if I'm rearranging my house,
01:31it's right.
01:32If you're arranging your house here,
01:35it's distracting.
01:36You're not thinking.
01:38I'll put this here for the time being.
01:41It's like you're wandering.
01:44And you'll get tired.
01:46That's right.
01:47So moving on is the first.
01:48The second.
01:49You replaced it with something else.
01:50That's right.
01:52There are a lot of things like that.
01:54Are there more women or men?
01:57It's the same, uncle.
01:58I'm sorry?
01:59It's the same.
02:00It's the same.
02:01Nowadays, it's not only men who do this.
02:04Even women can do it.
02:06This is not a gender-based problem.
02:09So if someone says,
02:11I replaced it.
02:13What should I do?
02:15Just let them be.
02:17Find someone else.
02:19There are a lot of people who want to know
02:21what they can replace.
02:23That's where they get hurt when they find out the reasons
02:26why they were replaced.
02:28For example, he can't take a bath.
02:31That's why I replaced it because I can't take a bath.
02:34So that's the advice.
02:36My advice to him is,
02:37next time, you'll take a bath.
02:40So you won't have to replace it.
02:41It makes a lot of sense.
02:42That's right.
02:43It happens, uncle.
02:44I replaced it because I can't use a toothbrush.
02:47So those reasons,
02:49just look for the reason why you were replaced.
02:51Maybe we can find a way
02:53for your next love story.
02:55And make a choice to be better.
02:57Yes.
02:58After that advice.
02:59You should have a point-two version of yourself after that.
03:01That's right.
03:02Yes.
03:03What was the worst thing, Papa Obed,
03:06that I replaced with someone else?
03:09You replaced it with someone older than you.
03:13Yes.
03:14That's ego, right?
03:16I replaced it with my best friend.
03:18That's painful, Uncle Boy.
03:20You met someone like that.
03:22What do you say?
03:23That's what's scary.
03:25Because you're always with them.
03:27He knows all your moves.
03:29Then you'll realize that they're holding hands.
03:32It's a double betrayal.
03:33Correct.
03:34It's hard.
03:35So it's a lesson for him.
03:37That you need to be observant.
03:41It's not up to your friend to introduce you.
03:43It's up to your friend.
03:45He's just fishing and he wants to get what's yours.
03:48The third problem that I often face.
03:51Will you continue the relationship?
03:54What are the real reasons?
03:56Because I'm running out of money, Uncle Boy.
03:59Will I continue the relationship?
04:02Well, if you're willing to be an ATM forever,
04:05you should continue it.
04:06Because you're enjoying it.
04:07It's your choice.
04:08It's your choice.
04:09But if you can't sustain it,
04:11it's not a bad thing to let go of what's weighing you down.
04:15But it's hard when you love someone.
04:17Correct.
04:18You're in debt.
04:19Because you're trying to sustain the lifestyle.
04:23Correct.
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