00:00There are things that we need to talk about, to clarify, and to the state of these stories.
00:12I'm going to go directly on June of this year, actually, Father's Day.
00:18You were guesting on All Out Sunday.
00:20Yes.
00:21And then there was a post of your fiancée.
00:24I'm sorry, her name is Nelan.
00:26Nelan, yes.
00:27I haven't had the privilege and the pleasure of meeting Nelan.
00:30But it was a series of posts.
00:32Yeah.
00:33I read it differently.
00:34But what I would say in the posts, if I remember correctly, is that you didn't deserve to be a Father's Day guest at AOS.
00:44You were making money off your being a father.
00:47You were pretending to be who you were not or who you are not.
00:52What is your side of the story?
00:54Okay.
00:56First off, it was a lot to take in.
01:01Ang taas ng emosyon ng time na yun.
01:05That time, we were just recently broken up.
01:09Kakahiwalay lang namin halos din nun.
01:11So emotions were running high.
01:13There were so many problems na hindi namin natatakil.
01:17Tapos, nagulat ako na nung nakita ko yun, hindi ko alam yung ire-react ko.
01:25Kasi hindi ganun eh.
01:28Okay.
01:29At dahil hindi mo alam ang ire-react mo, you decided to keep quiet.
01:34Yes.
01:35Una sa lahat, ang masasabi ko is kahit anong mangyari.
01:41At the end of the day, she is the mother of my child.
01:46Our child.
01:47And hindi ko, hindi ako magsasalita ng anything against her ang gusto ko ayusin namin.
01:54Ayusin namin.
01:55Pagkatapos ng series of posts na lumabas, hindi man ka agad ngayon sa pagkakaunawa ko,
02:03pero nag-usap ba kayo ni Nela?
02:06Yes.
02:07Finally.
02:08After what?
02:09A couple of weeks?
02:10Months?
02:11Nung time na nangyari po yun, Tito Boy,
02:13siguro may mga hindi ako masyado na sa either a week or a month yung separation namin nun.
02:20Okay.
02:21And then after that, nag-usap kami kasi nagkaroon kami ng kasunduan that time na makikita ko si Anya.
02:32And I can be there once a week.
02:35And then that once a week became twice a week, and then thrice a week, and then almost every day.
02:41So the reason for the conversation was your daughter, si Anya?
02:45Yes.
02:46Yun ang dahilan kung bakit kayo nag-usap.
02:48Yes.
02:49And then, dun namin na-realize na marami kaming hindi nasabi sa isa't isa.
02:58Hindi namin natakil yung mga problema ganito sa isa't isa.
03:00Kasi hindi ko alam kung dahil para lang ba maging maayos kami.
03:04Pero nung nagkahihwalay kami, dun namin mas naintindihan na kung nakapag-usap kami, hindi kami aabot sa ganun.
03:13Tapos na-realize namin na kaya pa pala natin ipaglaban.
03:17Pero, wait.
03:21Huwag natin gagawin ito alang-alang para kompleto tayo sa family.
03:26Oo.
03:27Pag-usapan natin ang problema.
03:29We have to be better partners to each other to build a strong and good family.
03:35What is that?
03:36Diret siyang tanong.
03:37May third party involved doon sa away?
03:38Wala po.
03:39Wala po.
03:40Wala po talaga.
03:41So, it was a relationship problem?
03:43Yes.
03:44It was from big to small to parang oo na lang matapos lang ito.
03:52Ang miscommunication na hindi napag-usapan na mabuti na ang laking tulong pala nung hiwalayan namin kasi doon lang namin napag-usapan.
04:04My takeaway here is, pag may mga malilita bagay na ganyan, importante pala talaga tapusin ang kwento.
04:09Na pinag-uusapan.
04:10Parang sabi ko nga, doon ko na-realize na dapat pala hindi ako umuoo sa mga problema just for the sake na matapos na lang.
04:20Na kung sinabi ko talaga pala yung reason ko kung bakit hindi ako comfortable sa ganyan, o siya din hindi sinabing comfortable sa ganito,
04:28naayos na namin nun pa.
04:30Nagkaroon man ng friction, pero naayos na namin nun pa.
04:33Correct.
04:34Yes.
04:35Kumunikasyon talaga.
04:36Pero ngayon, iba na.
04:37Dahil nakikita, or at least I think I saw one post kung saan kasama mo si Nelan at saka si...
04:44I love the name Herminia.
04:46Sorry ha.
04:47Anya is a beautiful name.
04:48I think the real name of your daughter is Herminia.
04:50Yes.
04:51Nagaganda na ko doon.
04:52Oo.
04:53Anya Herminia.
04:54Ang ganda.
04:55Anya Herminia.
04:56Pero ito direts ang tanong.
04:58Nagkabali ka na ba kayo?
04:59Yes.
05:00Oh.
05:01Ang galing naman.
05:04Kabali ka na po kami.
05:05Goodbye.
05:06Haha.
05:07Ha ha ha ha.
05:08Erra!
05:09I'm so stupid.
05:11Ha ha ha!
05:12Haha.
05:13I'll look at you.
05:14Maybe there's a bit here or something.
05:15Oh, I'm so stupid.
05:16No, no.
05:17I'm so stupid.
05:18I'm so stupid.
05:19No.
05:20I'm so stupid.
05:21I tell you.
05:22It's a bit.
05:23We're so stupid.
05:24We're so stupid.
05:25No.
05:27We're so stupid.
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