00:00be welcome to Fast Talk with Boy Abunda.
00:03And today's guest is the director of Fast Talk.
00:07With me in the studio is Roger Argen.
00:11He will be our host this evening.
00:14We are excited to have him as our guest,
00:17and Jason O'Neal, who is also the director of Fast Talk.
00:24Hello everyone.
00:25For those who are listening to DZEW, welcome to the program.
00:30And because it's Christmas, we have a special guest.
00:34Please welcome, Mia May and Pokwong!
00:39Poki! Hi!
00:41Merry Christmas!
00:43Merry Christmas!
00:45Merry Christmas!
00:47Merry Christmas!
00:51Merry Christmas!
00:52This is fun!
00:54First, say Merry Christmas to everyone.
00:57Yes, everybody!
00:59We wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
01:02You're so good at English!
01:04You're so good at speaking!
01:06Merry Christmas to everyone!
01:09I said Mia May, right?
01:11You're so good!
01:12Ria May!
01:14It's hard to pronounce.
01:16But you know,
01:17I saw you a lot when you were…
01:23Very little.
01:25Very young and very little.
01:27Let's talk about Christmas now.
01:29How do you spend your Christmas?
01:34Because our business will be open in October,
01:37so even if we want to go out of town,
01:40we prefer to stay at home because it's a waste to order.
01:44It's a beautiful problem.
01:46And then,
01:48I'm always in the kitchen, right?
01:50Yes, of course.
01:52That's how happy you are?
01:54Yes.
01:56I can't trust their hands.
01:58Really?
02:00Even though she's a graduate of culinary school.
02:02She's an Enderon graduate.
02:04But you're not allowed to touch her?
02:06No, because she's in baking.
02:08Okay.
02:10But when it comes to cooking, you're only allowed to touch her.
02:12That's mine.
02:13You can't touch her.
02:15So because of the business,
02:17Christmas is very busy.
02:19Yes.
02:21There's a saying that food is delicious
02:23when the cook is happy.
02:25Is that true?
02:27Yes, it's true.
02:29Even in culinary school?
02:31Do you subscribe to that?
02:33Yes.
02:35That's true.
02:37So during those times,
02:39when you're not happy,
02:40you can't cook.
02:42Right?
02:44How do you cook?
02:46I don't know how.
02:48When we were kids,
02:50we experienced Christmas
02:52when I went to Japan.
02:54Right.
02:56But when we were kids,
02:58we were waiting for our neighbors
03:00to knock on our door.
03:02You know, the doorbell
03:04that has a pin.
03:06There's a pin there
03:08with a pink gelatine
03:10and an antipolo.
03:12It's from Shanghai.
03:14Our neighbors would knock on our door
03:16and we would get ready.
03:18And I would sell
03:20sweepstakes tickets.
03:22So this was Christmas back then?
03:24Yes, this was back then.
03:26I was caroling to the jeeps,
03:28to the buses.
03:30You can see me there,
03:32I'm small.
03:34You were caroling?
03:36Yes.
03:38I was caroling to the buses
03:40and to the tricycles.
03:42That's how I was.
03:44When I was a kid,
03:46I was a caroler.
03:48Okay.
03:50So you could go home with money.
03:52Yes.
03:54And we would save money.
03:56Was there a Christmas without anything?
03:58No.
04:00We would just sleep.
04:02You know,
04:04your neighbors would be busy
04:06drinking.
04:08Noche Buena.
04:10We wouldn't have anything.
04:12We would just sleep.
04:14And sometimes,
04:16your neighbors would know
04:18that we wouldn't have anything.
04:20They would give us spaghetti.
04:22You know the story of your mother.
04:24Yes.
04:25When you hear that,
04:27how does that make you feel?
04:29It's like,
04:31blessed.
04:33That's the word, right?
04:35Exactly.
04:37It's a privilege.
04:38It's a privilege for my brother
04:40to have that kind of life.
04:42He's good.
04:44I don't know
04:46if you still do this.
04:48But on Christmas,
04:50you still prepare the food
04:52of your beloved son.
04:55Yes.
04:57It's his birthday on December 4th.
04:59Correct.
05:01What do you cook?
05:03He likes spaghetti.
05:05He likes spaghetti and fried chicken.
05:08That's when he's still alive.
05:10So, we prepare that.
05:12I celebrate his birthday
05:14more than
05:16the so-called death anniversary.
05:19Why would you celebrate
05:21the death anniversary?
05:23That's the saddest day of your life.
05:25You should just pray for him.
05:27But celebrating his birthday…
05:29I respect that.
05:31I don't want to.
05:33I'm more on birthday.
05:35You remember Shin
05:36on his birthday.
05:38Yes, because that was my gift.
05:40That was the gift I received
05:42from heaven,
05:44from my children.
05:46Am I going to cry?
05:48Look at this.
05:50That's me.
05:52The little one.
05:54That's you?
05:56Yes.
05:58That's my brother, Shin.
06:00What are you?
06:02My son is handsome, right?
06:06What's that?
06:08That's my dish.
06:12Uncle, what's this?
06:14But on December 4,
06:16Shin's birthday,
06:18you celebrate his birthday,
06:20you talk to him.
06:22Yes.
06:24We talk to the departed.
06:26Yes.
06:28I talk to him
06:30when I go through something.
06:32The ups and downs
06:34of your life.
06:36I talk to him
06:38before I go to sleep.
06:41I tell him,
06:43you should understand
06:45what I'm going through
06:47for your brother.
06:49You should guide me,
06:51bring me to the right person.
06:53Okay.
06:55It's Christmas now,
06:57December 25.
06:59Have you forgiven?
07:01I have forgiven myself.
07:03You have?
07:04You can't forgive yourself?
07:06Now, yes.
07:08I have forgiven myself.
07:10How?
07:13Because I was
07:18all out.
07:20I was all out.
07:22I was stupid.
07:24Sorry.
07:26Then I apologized to my son
07:28because
07:30they were affected by the situation.
07:32They shouldn't be there.
07:34What did you do
07:36when your mother
07:38was going through
07:40low points?
07:42During that time,
07:44I was still in college.
07:46I was busy with school.
07:48I didn't care
07:50about their problems.
07:52He didn't share
07:54much with me.
07:56Maybe he didn't want
07:58to add to my thoughts.
08:00Did you have a relationship
08:02with Lee?
08:04More of a casual relationship.
08:06But you were not close?
08:08I wouldn't say.
08:10You wouldn't say close?
08:12Did you get mad at him?
08:14Of course, I got mad at him.
08:16At first,
08:18I had this interview
08:20between the two of us.
08:22I told him
08:24to take care of my mother
08:26because for 21 years,
08:29it was just the two of us.
08:30We didn't have
08:32a partner in life.
08:34I just wanted him to take care
08:36of my mother and not hurt her.
08:38What did he tell you?
08:40He insisted
08:42that he would take care of my mother
08:44and love her.
08:46That's what I told him.
08:48But in the end,
08:50he broke his promise.
08:52And when he broke his promise,
08:54did you get the chance
08:56to tell him you broke your promise?
08:58No, Uncle.
09:00For me,
09:02it's not worth it
09:04to tell him you broke your promise.
09:06The whole world already knows.
09:08Right?
09:10How's Malia?
09:12Oh my God, she's so beautiful.
09:14The next Miss Universe.
09:16She's so beautiful.
09:18Let's acclaim her.
09:20She's so young.
09:22She's like a baby.
09:24Poki,
09:26when she finally gets to talk to you
09:28about her father,
09:30what will you tell her?
09:32Just google it.
09:34It's all there, I know.
09:36Just google it.
09:38But for me,
09:40the narrative is right.
09:42What will you tell her?
09:44Tell her what really happened.
09:46I told you,
09:48I don't hide anything from my children.
09:50I don't have any shortcomings.
09:52I don't have too many stories.
09:54This one?
09:56Everything.
09:58I'll tell her everything.
10:00I don't lose my temper.
10:02Yeah.
10:04Especially when a person
10:06doesn't know how to apologize.
10:08He doesn't know how to accept his mistakes.
10:11He doesn't acknowledge his mistakes.
10:13No remorse at all.
10:15No remorse at all.
10:17Even when he was deported,
10:19he doesn't have remorse.
10:21He doesn't support the girl?
10:23No, no, no.
10:25Not that you are asking for it,
10:27but what I'm saying is
10:28it's completely decided
10:30that we'll cut it.
10:32Yeah, nothing.
10:34But don't do that, it's Christmas.
10:36Again, Merry Christmas.
10:38Merry Christmas.
10:40Let's do our Christmas fast.
10:47Okay, let's start with you.
10:49Queso de bola or Mambo bola?
10:51Queso de bola.
10:53Mechado or Manluloco?
10:55Mechado.
10:56Jerite na pink.
10:58Luto ni Mamang or Kalimbutan si Papang?
11:01Luto ni Mamang.
11:03Mamang or Ninang?
11:05Mamang.
11:07Do you have a bad shape during Christmas?
11:09When there's a fire in the kitchen.
11:11Do you get tired during Christmas?
11:13When they have a lot of cooking requests.
11:15Who will you thank during Christmas?
11:18Of course, our Lord.
11:20Because of his blessing.
11:22Who will you not invite during Christmas?
11:24Wala na, deported na.
11:26May, Pasko or Paksiw?
11:29Pasko.
11:31Pera or Regalo?
11:33Pera.
11:35Magluluto or Kakain?
11:37Kakain.
11:39Mamimigay or Maghihintay?
11:41Mamimigay.
11:43Single or Taken?
11:45Taken.
11:47Ugali mong namana kay Mama?
11:49Ano?
11:51Mahir magluto.
11:52Mamang, ano siya?
11:54Lawin, kasi yun na specialty.
11:56Pinakabahal ng regalo ni Mamang, ano?
12:00iPhone.
12:02Para sa inyong dalawa, sino ang mas magaling magluto?
12:05Ako.
12:07Mas makalat sa kusina?
12:09Siya.
12:11Mas mainitin ang ulo?
12:13Ako.
12:15Mas drama queen?
12:17Ako.
12:19Mas lapitin ang boys?
12:20Siya.
12:22Mas magaling sumayaw?
12:24Ako yun.
12:26Mas maganda?
12:28Ako pa rin.
12:30Ganda ba kayo kung di sa humahang ko?
12:33Lights on or lights off?
12:35Ako off.
12:37Happiness or chocolates?
12:39Happiness.
12:41Best time for happiness?
12:43Pagkasama kay mga anak ko.
12:45Best time for chocolates?
12:47Everyday.
12:48So, both.
12:50Christmas wish sa isa't-isa.
12:52Ano ito?
12:54Ang wish ko ay kung ano man yung pinagdadasal niya para sa sarili niya,
12:57kung ano man yung sana ibigay yun.
12:59And, good health anak.
13:01Ayan.
13:03Syempre ako naman, yung message ko sa'yo,
13:05syempre, good health pa rin.
13:07And, syempre, alam mo na yung naging past mo sa love life.
13:10You learned your lesson.
13:12Ingatan ng puso.
13:14Yun lang, Tito Boy.
13:16Ay, ang ganda.
13:18Yung health after our pandemic experience.
13:21Ito ang tanong ko.
13:23Dahil na-mention mo yung pag-ibig,
13:25kung bibigyan nyo ang isa't-isa,
13:27anang payo pagdating sa pag-ibig at pagdating sa buhay,
13:30ang mga kasagutan po sa pagbabalik ng Fast Talk with Boy Abunda.
13:35Merry Christmas!
13:37Kami nagbabalik po dito sa Fast Talk with Boy Abunda,
13:40the Christmas edition.
13:42Kasama po natin si May at si Poko Ang.
13:44Poki, pag-usapan natin ang buhay.
13:46Ano ang dynamics niyong mag-ina?
13:49Kumusta kayong dalawa?
13:51Ah, ano kasi, okay naman.
13:53Ito kasing anak ko, napakaano lang nito eh.
13:56Ako yung, wah! Diba?
13:58Tapos, siya naman yung, ma, kalma.
14:01Ganun siya.
14:03Siya yung tagapagpakalama.
14:05Ang gandang kombinasyon. Diba?
14:07Pag alam niyang ano na ako, wah! Ganun na ako.
14:09Lalayo na yan. Patahimik mo na yan.
14:11Patahimik mo na yan.
14:13Tapos, mame ng konti, ma, kumain ka na.
14:15Pag alam niyang medyo, humupa na.
14:18Let's talk about love.
14:20Kaningan natin na pag-usapan niyo.
14:22Kung meron kayo payo sa isa't-isa,
14:25nakita mo ang pinagdaanan ng mamang,
14:27at si May ngayon is in a relationship,
14:30ano ang paalala niyo sa isa't-isa?
14:33Ako, paalala ko?
14:35Ingatan mo yung puso mo. Diba?
14:37Okay lang ba? Sabihin ko na.
14:39Oo.
14:41On national television.
14:42Yes.
14:44Ikaw, hindi ko alam.
14:46Okay lang ba? Kasi hindi ka naman artista.
14:48Oo, sa pagay.
14:50Okay lang naman.
14:52Okay lang naman.
14:54Ito boy, may apu na ako.
14:56I have four years old.
14:58Ako lamang na isa.
15:00I'm a lola.
15:02I'm a lola.
15:04Yan na naman siya.
15:06It's another blessing.
15:09Ayan na. Oo, ayan na.
15:13You have a four year old.
15:16I have a four year old. Super, super cute.
15:19Another blessing ng buhay ko.
15:22Another reason na ipagdasal ko yung sarili ko,
15:26humaba pa yung buhay ko para makita ko yung paglaki.
15:31The super, super, super cute na bata.
15:35Super talinong four year old.
15:39I'm a lola.
15:40I'm a lola.
15:42And I'm so proud. I'm a proud lola.
15:45Anong gusto mong itawag niya sa'yo?
15:47Mamita.
15:49Mamita.
15:51Mamita, pero may sarili siyang linguahe.
15:53Ewan ko ba, tingin niya yata sa akin.
15:55Mami gay.
15:57Mami gay.
15:59Mami gay.
16:01Mami gay.
16:03Mami gay.
16:05Sobrang, alam mo tito boy, sobrang...
16:07Boy?
16:08Sobrang tatrabaho siya sa New York.
16:11During pandemic.
16:13Nagkaroon ng pandemic, hindi natuloy.
16:15And pandemic baby siya.
16:18Okay.
16:20Sabi ko talaga, hindi ako nagalit.
16:22Kasi ako naman lagi ko sinasabi, makagraduate ka lang, masaya na ako.
16:26Kasi yun lang talaga.
16:28At ginawa naman niya.
16:30Sinunod naman niya ako.
16:32Kahit masakit sa likod yung tuition fee niya.
16:34Sabi ko, anak, makagraduate ka lang.
16:36Ako na yung pinakamasayang nanay.
16:38Nakagraduate siya, nakapagtrabaho siya.
16:40Hindi naman siya naging pasaway na bata, hindi naman siya naging sakit na ulong anak.
16:44Kaya nung nalaman ko na she's pregnant, I am so, so, so happy.
16:50Hindi ako nagalit, hindi ko siya sinubatan.
16:53No.
16:55In fact, yung isa pa nga ang gusto siyang palayasin.
16:57Ha? Ha?
16:59Bakit mo palalayasin anak ko yan?
17:01Pandemic, mas kailangan ako ng anak ko.
17:04Nagulat ako nung sinabi mo yun.
17:05Kaya?
17:07Asan ka nagulat? I'm sorry.
17:09Yung gusto po akong palayasin yung ex niya sa house.
17:12Because I got pregnant.
17:14Without getting married.
17:16Okay.
17:18He wanted me out of the house.
17:20And I don't know why.
17:22Bakit nung papaalisin yung anak ko, ngayon niya ako kailangan?
17:27Exactly.
17:29And it's pandemic. Saan pupunta yung bata?
17:31Tsaka between me and him, parang mas ako yung may karapatan na nasa bahay.
17:35Hindi siya.
17:37Hindi mo nalaman yun?
17:39Lately ko nalaman yun, Tito Boy.
17:41Parang this year ko lang sinabi sa kanya.
17:43Siguro para lang din hindi ako magtanim ng sama ng loob towards him.
17:47So, that time, pinaprotektahan pa rin ni mama yung ex niya.
17:52Right.
17:54Parang magkaroon kami ng maayos na relationship.
17:56That's a great blessing.
17:58Sobra, Tito Boy.
18:00May I know his name?
18:02Gabrielle.
18:03Are you planning to get married?
18:05Yes.
18:08Ibon muna kayo.
18:10Don't get pressured.
18:12In God's good time.
18:14Nasa vision naman.
18:16As of the moment, priority namin is yung child and of course, yung sister ko.
18:22Right. But you guys are together?
18:25You stay in Mamang's house?
18:27Nakakatulong sila sa Zanigas.
18:29Kami nag-manage nung business.
18:31Is he also a chef?
18:33No. Pero, ano siya? HRM din.
18:35Eh, tamang-tama.
18:37Sabi ng Mamang, ingatan mo ang yung puso.
18:42Ikaw, alam ko sinabi mo yan kanina.
18:44But right now, now that we know the story, and thank you for trusting us.
18:48Of course, Tito Boy.
18:50Thank you, Poké, for trusting us with your story.
18:52Ano ang paalaala mo?
18:54Do you want your mom to fall in love again?
18:58Of course!
18:59Of course, Tito Boy. Gusto ko siyang nakahalap ng makakasama niya habang buhay.
19:05Since ako may sarili na rin akong pamilya, diba?
19:09So, gusto ko siya rin. Gusto ko magkaroon siya ng katuwang niya.
19:14Kayo ang pamilya ko. Tama na.
19:16Kasi syempre, diba? Iba yung relationship natin as a family.
19:20Iba din yung magkakaroon ka ng partner mo talaga. Diba?
19:25So, yun yung gusto ko sa kanya.
19:26Okay.
19:28Pagbinigay, binigay.
19:30Alam ko, sasabihin ko sana yun. Nasasabihin mo.
19:32Binigay, binigay.
19:34Pagbigay, okay. Paghindi?
19:36Wala, wala.
19:38You've had so much love.
19:40You have a lot of love. You have so much love to last you many lifetimes.
19:45Totoo, Tito Boy.
19:47Paskong Pasko, ang ganda dito ang ating pag-uusap.
19:51But Merry Christmas to the both of you.
19:53Maraming maraming salamat.
19:54Thank you so much.
19:56Para masaya naman itong ating pag-uusap.
19:58Eh, eto na.
20:00Dahil ang nanay mo ay napakahusay, sumayaw.
20:02Hoy! Ang pampasko?
20:04Pampasko. Christmas love, ikaw.
20:07Sige nga.
20:08Eto muna, ha?
20:09Ano ba?
20:23Maraming maraming salamat. Merry Christmas.
20:26Merry Christmas, Tito Boy.
20:28Maraming maraming salamat.
20:30Ang aking mga, busong-busong ko yung sayaw.
20:35Thank you very much.
20:36Maraming kapuso. Maraming salamat po.
20:38Sa inyong pagpapatuloy.
20:40Sa inyong mga puso atahanan.
20:42Merry Christmas.
20:44Be kind.
20:46And make your nanay and tare proud and say thank you.
20:48Do one good thing a day.
20:50And make this world a better place.
20:53Goodbye for now. God bless.
20:55And Merry Christmas.
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