00:00I have never had sex before, so can we try to understand it little by little, and slowly
00:20we can start, so he said no, this first night is very important for us men.
00:40He never said to me, if you don't want it, I won't do it, it has never happened to me.
01:00He never said to me, if you don't want it, I won't do it, it has never happened to me.
01:30We have in our country, a marital rape exception, now this means that while anybody else who
01:55is not married to the person they are raping, can be prosecuted for anal rape, can be prosecuted
02:03for helping somebody else rape the person, or the common garden penile vaginal rape,
02:13a person who is married to his victim, cannot be prosecuted, now this is something that
02:21that was true also of England, it was true of the United States, it was true of Nepal,
02:29it was true of Pakistan, it was true of the Philippines, and all of these have been struck
02:35down, starting from approximately 1991, it came of course from colonialism, from a Victorian mentality.
02:51The moment we name it, label it, and you know, people start recognising it, awareness
02:59increases, people know, so the moment we criminalise this marital rape, there will be survivors
03:08who will come out and report about it, because there are many women who are going through
03:12and they will know, these survivors will know that this is not okay.
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