00:00I am engaged to a prisoner who is doing life plus 35 and a half years.
00:04I would choose my prison boyfriend over my mother's opinion, my friends, and my family.
00:10You seriously need to wake up, this guy's a loser.
00:13The main concern my mother has about Lazy is his tattoos and that he's in jail for murder.
00:20He had to get out.
00:22I ain't no like it, I ain't no agree.
00:24Whether she approves or not, I'm still going to be with him.
00:27I met Lazy when I was 13 years old.
00:30When we went to middle school together, we got back in touch through Facebook.
00:35He was looking for me for 11 years.
00:37I googled his case and I saw he was doing life and my heart broke.
00:42I feel like he thought we became an official couple the first day we started talking.
00:47He called me his girlfriend and I was like, you never asked me.
00:52And then he finally asked me on 3-16-21 and we've been together since.
00:57Lazy's sentence currently is life without parole plus 35 and a half years.
01:02So if he's granted an appeal, he will be able to come home in 8 months.
01:07And I'm on my TikTok, hanging out with my TikTok family.
01:10I love them.
01:11Thank you queen, I appreciate it.
01:13I love you guys so much.
01:15But I do get a lot of hate and those trolls, you guys be trolling too much.
01:21You got too much time on your hands.
01:23Talk to me nice.
01:25What's really insane is that people want to come from my motherhood, which I try not
01:31to let it affect me, but it does because I know I'm a really great mother.
01:34Lazy has become Bella's stepdad due to their bond and their relationship.
01:39And I'm really happy that they get along.
01:41That was something I was really anxious and nervous about because I've never introduced
01:45my daughter to another man, especially somebody in prison.
01:48He's always looking out for her so he doesn't miss a birthday or Christmas or anything.
01:53She knows the type of crime that he committed.
01:55I would like her to know that there are consequences to your actions.
01:59I think it's very important for her to see the reality of real life.
02:02So this is from a troll.
02:05It says, why are you taking that girl to a prison to see a man that's not her father?
02:09You whack.
02:10You seriously need to wake up.
02:11This guy's a loser who's going to hire a tattoo face hood rats.
02:15Time to move on babes.
02:16I'm sorry, but you deserve better.
02:18Well, how do you know what I deserve?
02:20You know what I'm saying?
02:21He treats me very well.
02:22I just want to say something to the haters.
02:24At the end of the day, it's not for you to understand that I'm not promoting unhealthy
02:29relationships.
02:30I feel like I'm just promoting my relationship.
02:32All relationships have up and downs.
02:34All relationships are different.
02:35I'm just here to share my story.
02:38So now we're going to go through the positive comments.
02:41You guys look so good together.
02:42Can't wait for him to come home, period.
02:44You guys will be together forever.
02:46That's good.
02:47Thank you guys for your love and support.
02:52We have a prison phone call today with Lazy and I'm super excited.
02:57So Lazy reassures me by making me feel good, making me feel confident, calling me, sending
03:04me letters, buying me gifts, spoiling me because he knows my love language is gifts.
03:11My love, my heart, I've loved you from the start and it will be that way till the end.
03:17Side by side, hand in hand, you're the baddest chick in the land.
03:20So I stay in touch with Lazy by email or phone call or if we're going through a little tussle,
03:27I'll go visit him and pop up on him if he doesn't call me for a little while.
03:31We're going to get married when he comes home.
03:33That's the plan.
03:34So hopefully we become like a Cinderella story.
03:39Hello, this is a free call from an incarcerated individual at...
03:45Did you feel guilty starting a relationship with me in prison?
03:49Did I feel guilty?
03:50No, I did not because just because I'm in prison doesn't mean I should not continue
03:55living my life.
03:56When I finally found her on Facebook and she reached out to me, it was definitely long past due.
04:01I'm really grateful that Lazy is in Bella's life.
04:05You know, he does a really good job.
04:07I actually love being Bella's stepfather because I don't have no biological kids of my own
04:13and I always wanted some.
04:15I love her very much.
04:16In the notes that your mom has for our relationship and me, my complete honest answer is
04:24I really do not care what's going on because how she feels and how she is,
04:32she has nothing to do with our relationship.
04:34I would love to have a relationship with her and speak to her and that's cool but
04:37I don't care if she don't.
04:38Yes, okay.
04:40And that's just keeping it all the way 100.
04:42That's keeping it real.
04:43That's keeping it all the way 100.
04:45All the way left side.
04:49Bye, love you.
04:53All right, babe, bye.
04:56My mom's coming over today and she does not approve and I'm really nervous.
05:02My family reacted very badly.
05:05My mother is not happy with it.
05:08I found out after she talking to him about six months when he was in jail already.
05:14I don't know exactly.
05:15Like I say, I never talking to her too much about lazy.
05:19And it really breaks my heart that I can't speak to her and I can't go to her about my relationship.
05:24I feel like she should give him an opportunity.
05:27I'm not a child.
05:27I'm an adult and I deserve happiness like everybody else.
05:32I not say he's bad person but he coming from prison.
05:35He had to show us he changing everything and he want to be good man for my granddaughter
05:43and for my daughter because the first signing he had to get out.
05:47I think the main concern my mother has about lazy is his tattoos and that he's in jail for murder.
05:55It's going to be real difficult when she comes here and we're going to have a conversation.
05:58I hope she doesn't leave.
06:00I think she's probably going to just walk out.
06:03I just hope one day she'll approve of my relationship
06:06because whether she approves or not, I'm still going to be with him.
06:10Hi, mommy.
06:11Hi, my daughter.
06:13How are you?
06:14Good.
06:15Personal, I not like it.
06:17I not agree.
06:18So it's not really bothering me too much.
06:21It's not exactly what I wanted for people like that close to you and close to my granddaughter.
06:27Sorry, I know why you feel bad.
06:29You don't have to be sorry, mommy.
06:30It's okay.
06:31I understand where you're coming from.
06:33What do you not like about him?
06:34Well, it's because he's in prison.
06:36Okay.
06:36I not like it.
06:38When you in prison because you do something wrong.
06:40I don't know why, but it's something wrong that you did because you know you not be there.
06:44So what kind of relationship would you want to see me in?
06:47With personal, normal people.
06:49For me, normal is people who work, have a job, and take care of you, pay your bills.
06:55What kind of relationship you have with the people in prison?
06:58Talking by phone all the time.
07:00That's not really, for me, relationship.
07:04But you're a grown woman.
07:06I know you're going to do what you have to do the best for your daughter.
07:09He's my best friend and I trust him.
07:11And he's really good with Balon.
07:13If I felt a little bit that something was off, I would leave it right away.
07:18I don't care in prison or outside of prison.
07:20So I feel like maybe when he gets out, you give him a chance.
07:24I can meet her and say, I not promise anything.
07:27I know.
07:27I'm sorry.
07:28I not promise anything, but you're a grown woman.
07:31If you happy, I'm happy too.
07:33Because my daughter, if anything happen to you, happen to me.
07:37Half the way when he out.
07:39Yeah.
07:39OK.
07:41We can meet.
07:44I love you.
07:46What I have to say for the people who judge us is I really don't care at all.
07:49It ain't got nothing to do with me over here.
07:51Lazy impacted my life for the better.
07:54He showed me and taught me what unconditional love is.
07:57And he's shaped me into a better woman.
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