00:00 [Music]
00:10 I think that as an artist,
00:11 if you want to stand in front of the spotlight,
00:13 your image is very important.
00:14 That's right.
00:15 The reason is that you need to have a memory point
00:18 so that people will remember you.
00:19 Yes.
00:20 For our Xixi,
00:21 of course, everyone's memory point is because of her figure.
00:24 What do you think?
00:25 I think so.
00:26 She can be my role model in my acting career or in the entertainment industry.
00:31 I personally think that she's a very special part of me.
00:36 You just said something that I don't really want to hear.
00:39 Because you said she's a role model.
00:41 I really think that she's not.
00:43 Really?
00:44 Really.
00:44 Because the reason is,
00:45 from my point of view,
00:47 if anyone wants to leave an impression on my memory,
00:51 I must remember certain things.
00:52 Some people's hairstyle,
00:54 hair,
00:54 some people's glasses,
00:55 including you, Prince Charming,
00:57 his glasses and hairstyle.
00:58 When it comes to you,
00:59 I really think it's because of your figure
01:02 and your personality.
01:05 So everyone has a memory point.
01:06 So it's definitely not a white lie.
01:08 When people use this name to talk about you,
01:10 or call you by that name,
01:12 it's not like you're unhappy
01:15 and you're trying to accept it.
01:19 I think "unhappy" is an understatement.
01:22 It hurts.
01:25 It definitely hurts.
01:25 No matter how young you are,
01:28 it hurts just thinking about it.
01:30 I think the hardest time was
01:35 middle school.
01:37 You're always the one who's isolated.
01:38 Because
01:39 when you're fat, people will naturally think you're ugly.
01:42 You're dirty.
01:43 You're lazy.
01:43 You're ugly.
01:44 So you don't have friends.
01:46 And then,
01:46 the average fat person
01:48 will be by your side when you're scolded or cancelled.
01:51 I remember I always wanted to tell myself
01:52 that I wanted to be invisible.
01:54 I really wanted to have that special effect.
01:56 Because I think
01:57 as long as people can't see me,
02:00 they won't cancel me.
02:01 After going through those
02:04 unhappy moments in the past,
02:07 I think the impact is not one-time.
02:10 And then, when you step into the entertainment industry,
02:13 some works will let it flourish again.
02:16 I think every time I appear,
02:19 it will cause a wave of chaos.
02:21 People will think,
02:22 "Is Xixi okay to act like this?"
02:23 "Why is she acting like this?"
02:25 Then you're just fat-shaming her.
02:27 Whether it's people who are on my side
02:29 or those who are on...
02:30 The opposite side.
02:32 Those who are on the opposite side.
02:33 Their comments or words
02:36 will always impact me.
02:38 Speaking of which,
02:39 I have to ask you about this.
02:40 It's about "A Girl's Go Army".
02:42 The reason is that when you said
02:44 you wanted to go to the military,
02:47 everyone started.
02:48 I don't know if you've seen
02:50 or contacted
02:51 some comments that you think are
02:55 really heartbreaking
02:57 -and that happened to you. -It's scary.
02:58 I often don't respond
03:01 or care.
03:02 I used to have this account.
03:04 He's not my fan.
03:05 He's just a friend
03:07 who watches my Instagram posts.
03:11 Every time I post on my Instagram,
03:12 he will insult me.
03:13 He will poke me.
03:14 For example, if I say today,
03:15 "Coffee. I finally got to drink coffee."
03:17 "You're still drinking coffee?"
03:18 "Is this cup enough?"
03:19 After that, whether it's with friends or something else,
03:21 he will say, "You've covered up all your friends."
03:23 "You're not worthy of being their friend."
03:24 I think he thinks
03:26 I should be alone.
03:27 Have you ever doubted
03:30 their motives?
03:32 I think they're not good at
03:33 communicating with others.
03:35 Everyone has their own problems.
03:37 Maybe
03:38 they can be a keyboardist
03:41 behind the keyboard
03:42 and make them feel just
03:43 and powerful.
03:44 So sometimes when I want to
03:47 respond to them,
03:48 I really think twice.
03:49 I think
03:50 the person behind the keyboard
03:53 might just need some attention.
03:55 But I also want to tell them
03:57 that when you hurt others,
04:00 and they can't take it,
04:01 it might be a life-threatening situation.
04:03 It's very serious.
04:05 I hope everyone will think twice
04:07 before leaving a comment.
04:08 As of today,
04:09 if anyone maliciously says
04:11 anything about your body,
04:13 and make comments or attack you,
04:15 you will still be hurt.
04:17 Yes.
04:18 I will still be hurt.
04:19 I'm a human.
04:20 If you see me on the street today,
04:23 and say, "Ha ha ha ha ha,
04:24 fatso!"
04:25 I will still be hurt.
04:26 I might not cry immediately,
04:29 but I will respond to you.
04:30 Or I might ignore you.
04:33 But if I hear it in my heart,
04:34 I will still be hurt.
04:35 What do you think is your pillar?
04:37 Besides your positive
04:39 mental state,
04:41 what else is around you?
04:43 Whether it's your family, friends,
04:44 or fans,
04:46 what are the pillars?
04:49 It might sound a bit abrupt.
04:52 The toilet.
04:53 If I can't take it,
04:56 I will say everything
04:58 that makes me unhappy,
04:59 and flush it out.
05:03 It might be meaningless to everyone,
05:05 but to me, it's an action
05:07 that reminds me of myself,
05:08 and makes me feel better.
05:09 And then you're free.
05:10 Yes, I'm free.
05:11 What do you think you can do
05:14 to make everyone
05:17 less so-called negative?
05:19 I hope that
05:21 there is a platform
05:22 or a direction
05:23 that when we are in the online world,
05:26 even if we are only slightly hurt,
05:28 or feel lost,
05:29 and don't know who to talk to,
05:33 we can still communicate with the platform or the internet.
05:36 It's like my heart-stopper.
05:38 It makes me feel at ease.
05:39 I think too many people
05:41 are bullied by the internet.
05:45 As long as they have a social platform,
05:47 they will be bullied by the internet.
05:49 Do you think that if a person is anonymous,
05:52 he can go even further?
05:53 Because no one knows who he is.
05:55 Yes, in fact,
05:56 bullying by the internet is a very important thing.
05:58 Because I think
06:00 many times they know
06:02 that no matter what I comment,
06:04 or say,
06:05 you can't find me.
06:07 You can't see me either.
06:08 If you don't do something,
06:09 don't you think you will be let go?
06:12 I was doing a live broadcast on TikTok.
06:15 And there was a user
06:17 who kept typing,
06:19 and I was seriously chatting with my fans.
06:23 I didn't even care about him.
06:24 All the fans were very
06:26 excited.
06:28 They kept scolding him.
06:29 I told them, "Everyone,
06:30 please don't be angry."
06:33 I told them, "If you ignore him, he will disappear."
06:34 Because he wants people to respond to him.
06:37 I didn't want to care about him.
06:39 After you logged in,
06:40 would you block this person or do something else?
06:41 I wouldn't.
06:42 You represented two characters.
06:44 The first character is
06:45 you are very open-minded.
06:46 You let people know.
06:48 The other one is
06:49 you are letting them go.
06:51 But the problem is
06:52 you have to remind everyone
06:53 that this is not a good way.
06:54 No.
06:54 Yes.
06:55 So you have to think carefully
06:56 whether you should
06:57 put a limit on it.
06:57 Because it's hard to do this when you log in.
07:00 After you put a limit on it,
07:01 you should block him
07:02 or let him know
07:03 that this behavior cannot be accepted.
07:05 At least you have to report him.
07:06 But you really pointed out this to me.
07:09 If I let him go
07:12 and do this,
07:12 he might hurt other people.
07:15 Okay.
07:16 I will report you.
07:17 I don't know if you know this,
07:19 but if you encounter
07:20 a big problem on the internet,
07:23 such as harassment,
07:26 and you want to seek help,
07:27 you can go to
07:30 a place to get help.
07:32 I'm not afraid of anything.
07:33 I'm afraid of exams.
07:35 So you don't know
07:38 what you can do.
07:40 I really firmly believe that
07:41 a person like Yixi
07:44 is active on the internet
07:46 and tries to help people.
07:48 So you should know more.
07:50 There is a thing on the internet
07:51 that is actually a Poha.
07:53 Protection from Harassment Act.
07:56 Have you heard of this?
07:57 No.
07:57 Actually, what it does is
07:59 to prevent people
08:01 from spreading
08:03 or attacking people
08:05 on the internet.
08:07 Yes.
08:07 Okay.
08:08 He is already searching.
08:09 Yes.
08:09 Yes.
08:10 With his words,
08:11 you should go and check it out.
08:14 For me,
08:15 knowing more about these things
08:16 is convenient for us to advocate to everyone.
08:18 It's good that I know.
08:19 Because at least I can tell them
08:21 that there is this platform.
08:22 You can go and see
08:23 if it can help you.
08:25 I can also know for myself.
08:27 There is a platform that can protect me.
08:30 Yes.
08:30 So the internet platform
08:32 is a world that belongs to everyone.
08:33 Everyone should use it well
08:35 and use it well.
08:36 In this way, we can help each other.
08:38 Yes, we should be happy and harmonious.
08:39 It's good if everyone is happy.
08:41 Yes.
08:42 In the end,
08:43 the life of positive energy is still very important.
08:46 So, in the end,
08:46 what else does Xixi want to share with us?
08:48 Maybe the things that have accompanied you to grow up
08:51 or the things that you want to share
08:54 with everyone after experiencing it yourself.
08:56 I have been repeating it over and over again.
09:00 You must love yourself.
09:01 You must understand yourself.
09:02 You must protect yourself and accept yourself.
09:04 I think everything starts with yourself.
09:07 Because only when you protect yourself,
09:08 you can protect more people around you
09:12 and the people you love.
09:13 So I hope everyone can learn to love yourself.
09:16 And the most important thing is that
09:17 you are unhappy for one day,
09:18 you are happy for one day.
09:20 Why should you be unhappy?
09:22 So I hope everyone can be open-minded
09:25 and live happily every day.
09:27 Yes, treat yourself with positive energy.
09:29 Of course, the most important thing is
09:31 to understand your situation.
09:33 If you feel that you need help at any time,
09:36 bravely take that step
09:37 because no one will make fun of you.
09:39 In the end, you will benefit from it.
09:41 You can live a happier life.
09:43 That's the most important thing.
09:44 That's right.
09:46 (upbeat music)
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