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Judge Judy has some tough advice for anyone thinking about having a baby: get your own life in order first! In this classic Judge Judy courtroom moment, she delivers a blunt lesson about financial independence and the enormous responsibility of raising a child.

Why bring a helpless infant into the world before you've figured out how to hold down a job, manage your schedule, and support yourself? Judge Judy argues that parenthood isn't something you figure out as you go along. When a child's well-being is at stake, good intentions aren't enough.

Watch this classic Judge Judy clip as Judy Sheindlin delivers a dose of practical advice about growing up before becoming a parent.

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00:00You and your fiancé are expecting a baby.
00:02Yes.
00:02That's a lot of responsibility.
00:04You're going to be able to take care of that yourself?
00:06Yes.
00:07You think so?
00:08Yes, yes, yes, Your Honor.
00:10The most important responsibility a person can have in a lifetime
00:14is taking care of a baby that can't take care of themselves.
00:18Right?
00:19Yes.
00:20And you think you can do that by yourself?
00:22Yes.
00:23Well, if you think you can do that by yourself, why can't you have a job?
00:26I'm thinking about getting one.
00:27Well, why didn't you think about getting a job before you thought about getting a baby?
00:31Here's my question to you.
00:33I mean, if you're not sure that you can do a job
00:35and you take on the responsibility of having a life that you have to take care of,
00:41when he's working, me, I'm just a silly person,
00:46it seemed to me you would test out the waters first and see if you could do something else.
00:51Do you understand what I mean?
00:52But you have to think about these things.
00:54You just can't be whatever.

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