00:00Look, if I had worried about who liked me and who thought I was cute when I was your
00:06age, I wouldn't be married to the President of the United States for that.
00:10Let's be very clear, strong men, strong men, men who are truly role models, don't need
00:17to put down women to make themselves feel powerful.
00:20One of the things I realized is that if you do not take control over your time and your
00:25life, other people will gobble it up.
00:27If I wanted to keep my sanity and not let others define me, there was only one thing
00:34I could do, and that was to have faith in God's plan for me.
00:42I had to ignore all of the noise and be true to myself, and the rest would work itself out.
00:58When folks are down on their luck, it's not because they deserve it, it's not because
01:05they're unworthy, because you've seen firsthand that sometimes bad things happen to good people.
01:12That when someone is cruel or acts like a bully, you don't stoop to their level.
01:17No, our motto is, when they go low, we go high.
01:23All you have to guide you are your values and your vision and the life experiences that
01:29make you who you are.
01:31You work hard for what you want in life, that your word is your bond, that you do what you
01:37say you're going to do.
01:38That you treat people with dignity and respect, even if you don't know them and even if you
01:47don't agree with them.
01:50Don't let anyone ever tell you that this country isn't great.
01:53That somehow we need to make it great again, because this right now is the greatest country
02:01on earth.
02:06I'm so proud of you all.
02:09And you look good.
02:12Well done.