00:00Also, there are some scenes or pins that are of course, that's how they're going to play.
00:06For example, with GGG, sometimes the question is,
00:12what would it take for a mother to leave her child, her only child, just like that?
00:22At first, when I was reading this script,
00:26I was like, why, Paz, why?
00:30And then, yun na nga, hindi natin pwedeng di-judge ang tapos,
00:36especially kung hindi natin halap yung story niya,
00:40kung ano yung pinagdaanan din nila sa buhay,
00:43kung ano yung mga naging wounds sila,
00:45na may mga pagkakataon na yung mga wounds na meron tayo,
00:50ang tendency nun, kina-pass on lang din naman natin sila doon sa,
00:55let's say, sa susunod na generation or sometimes to the people closest to us.
01:00Kaya it's always good to say na whatever it is,
01:04kung ano man yung, let's say, generational trauma na meron ka,
01:08you have to take it upon yourself and say,
01:11it ends with me, it ends with me,
01:14so that I don't get to pass it on to my children,
01:18I don't get to pass it on to the people closest to me,
01:22yung sharp edges ko won't hurt other people,
01:26and healing is our responsibility.
01:28But Ms. Julie, in real life,
01:31madali ka ba makapatawan?
01:33Ako?
01:38Andalera.
01:42Pinoproseso ko muna yung nararamdaman ko
01:44before ako bumabot sa buhay na magpapatawan ako.
01:48Inaacknowledge ko yung nararamdaman ko.
01:51It's not as if something was done to me,
01:54all of a sudden,
01:55okay na, sige na, I forgive you, no.
01:58I go through,
02:00I sit down with my feelings,
02:03I sit down with my emotions.
02:05Kung nasasaktan ako,
02:07kung if I will feel betrayed,
02:09disappointed, hurt,
02:11or kung ano man,
02:12I sit with my emotions.
02:14And after that,
02:16I will have to be proactive in forgiving.
02:22Because yung forgiveness naman,
02:24hindi naman yun para dun sa ibang tao eh.
02:27Pino-forgive mo yung isang tao para ka sarili mo,
02:30so that you let go of the emotion
02:32and hope that that person has over you.
02:35Diba na,
02:37but it doesn't even mean that you are minimizing the pain.
02:41Hindi rin na parang sinasabi mo na,
02:44maliit na bagay lang yung nangyari sa'yo.
02:46It's really because,
02:48it's really because,
02:48it's really because I disagree.
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