00:01my wife and i have actually started talking about moving somewhere else because we want distance
00:08and some peace life is easier financially but losing close friends and family makes it so much
00:16harder it's crazy that sucks and people do act weird whenever you bring up money when their
00:23money is a topic it's hard to even ask for money i believe at least for me i'm not a
00:27person that
00:28does handouts or anything like that but i could see how this could just ruin relationships the
00:33interpretation that when you get money like that like i remember what was it like three four days
00:37ago when we were talking about the powerball or whatever the mega million whatever and babs was
00:42in here and then rich you started talking about if i win i'll break you off i'll break it and
00:47that's
00:47that's like where everybody's brain goes like everybody's brain goes to willy wonka when they
00:52get some sort of come up it's like it shouldn't be every people should be able to be happy for
00:58you
00:58without trying to figure out how they get some yeah you know and it's like but our minds as soon
01:03as we
01:04get a big windfall we try and think okay who should i break off who should i take care of
01:10who should i
01:10you know and i think that's where we we we kind of fail i got the easiest fix for this
01:15money ran out
01:16that's it you you don't owe anybody any explanation nothing you've handed out a couple of dollars to
01:23a couple of people people know now is when you just tell people yep money ran out and when they
01:29ask you uh i don't have any more it's always the conversation though i mean now you have to think
01:34about their motive like why do they want to go to lunch with me why are they talking to me
01:38and you
01:39know taking me in the corner at thanksgiving and talk you know what i mean it's kind of like
01:42you're just are you trying to build a relationship with me just to get something from me and for them
01:47to say that you are different now yeah i'm different now my bank account different and
01:52and you're different now you're acting different because of that
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