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Love After Lockup Season 8 Episode 1
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00:00:00is that I may be a liar, but my feelings for a day is 100% true.
00:00:04How many people are you dating?
00:00:06I got a coffin ring because we always say,
00:00:09till death do us part.
00:00:10I like a man a little bit rougher around the edges,
00:00:13and that's Brady.
00:00:14You've never been alone for 20 minutes with a man.
00:00:16It's crazy, but I do crazy things.
00:00:20One, 10 so quick.
00:00:22He and DeMond is just like, I call him my twin.
00:00:25Oh, DeMond, it's like we like twin flames or something.
00:00:28You was missing for like seven hours.
00:00:30You knew I was at.
00:00:30I don't know where you was at.
00:00:32Do not drag me the along.
00:00:34I want to make both of my wives.
00:00:36There she is.
00:00:38This is going to be the first time me and Felicia
00:00:40have seen each other in person.
00:00:42Girl, you're beautiful.
00:00:44I'm not worried about the race difference.
00:00:47I don't think it's going to be any issues at all.
00:00:49I was married at first, but I got divorced.
00:00:51What if he's still married?
00:00:53I will come after you.
00:00:54I'll bring more than your heart.
00:00:57Oh, my God, OK, my husband's got a question.
00:01:00Michael and I have history.
00:01:01I know his heart.
00:01:03Charges are charges.
00:01:04The difference between him and someone else is he got caught.
00:01:06Why is my car declined?
00:01:08I'm $42,000 in debt, and I have no money.
00:01:14I'm like the Ferrari of what you've been hearing about.
00:01:18Are you going to be able to leave me in Zyra's alone?
00:01:20No.
00:01:21What the did me dirty?
00:01:22Brady?
00:01:23He's not an evil guy.
00:01:24He jumped on my car one night.
00:01:25You've never even lived with this man.
00:01:27He's messing with my baby.
00:01:29We're going to have problems.
00:01:31I'm going to go right now.
00:01:32I swear to God.
00:01:33Bridge!
00:01:34Am I getting time with my husband?
00:01:35If I don't, y'all are going to see a demon.
00:01:37Don't come back.
00:01:38Take them rain shirts with you.
00:01:40I'm like, piece of .
00:01:41You're going to take me back?
00:01:42I'm going to take the .
00:01:43I'm going to take the .
00:01:44I'm going to keep .
00:01:45Get out of here.
00:01:46I have to take this.
00:01:47This is the state police.
00:01:58It's been a while since I rode a horse.
00:02:00Smell like .
00:02:08Hey, Ma.
00:02:11Hey, tell.
00:02:13Hey.
00:02:14I want to get you dirty.
00:02:16You want me to hold your hand so you don't...
00:02:17Yeah.
00:02:18...stopping .
00:02:19Yeah.
00:02:23Ma.
00:02:24Mumu coming home soon.
00:02:27I'm nervous.
00:02:28What you nervous about, Garda?
00:02:29You know, he was just my client.
00:02:31We just was cool, like, doing his hair, and then that was it.
00:02:34Now, the physical part, I'm nervous.
00:02:37It has been a whole year since I'm nervous.
00:02:38I've been dating my man, Daman.
00:02:41Oh, my gosh.
00:02:42This man.
00:02:43He's charming.
00:02:45He's charismatic.
00:02:46He's sexy.
00:02:47He's very honest.
00:02:49Like, I just love him.
00:02:51I've been incarcerated for two years for hands and possessions.
00:02:56God is...
00:02:57She know I'm a good person.
00:02:58I'm a good man.
00:02:59You feel me?
00:03:00Like, that's my woman for real.
00:03:02I've never talked to nobody in prison before.
00:03:04But if you really love somebody and you know that's the love of your life,
00:03:08you're going to go through whatever with them.
00:03:10You're going to have to suck my toes.
00:03:11I'm never sucking those man's toes.
00:03:13I'm not just any man.
00:03:14It's cool while they're in there.
00:03:16It's fantasy island.
00:03:17They come home to reality.
00:03:20How many kids do we have?
00:03:21Four.
00:03:21And four baby mothers.
00:03:23And that's not a real flag?
00:03:24She know that she's in a relationship.
00:03:27You said, yeah, my baby mama, I talked a lot about you.
00:03:31Zoey's like, I caught you lying.
00:03:33Zoey, show me how you do this.
00:03:36Come on, Carly.
00:03:37I want to hear.
00:03:38Thank you for using me.
00:03:39I'm going to be quiet.
00:03:40I'll be back.
00:03:41Hello?
00:03:42What's up, baby?
00:03:43I miss you.
00:03:44I miss you too, baby.
00:03:45Yeah.
00:03:45I'm riding horses with my mother and Zoey,
00:03:49and I'm just everywhere.
00:03:51All right, y'all enjoy yourselves, though.
00:03:54Yeah.
00:03:55The countdown is real.
00:03:56Why don't you go on Monday?
00:03:58You going to be ready?
00:04:00I'm not going to see you on Monday.
00:04:09I'm smiling hella hard.
00:04:15I can't wait to see you.
00:04:17I can't wait to see you.
00:04:19I'm trying to that butt.
00:04:22Me and Demar is just the, like, he is, it's like he's me, but the boy virgin.
00:04:26Then what?
00:04:27After you get dressed.
00:04:28That might be the only plan.
00:04:29I might go straight this week.
00:04:31He is my soulmate.
00:04:33Like, I really don't want to be with another man.
00:04:35So I hope that this is out.
00:04:38Who else know you coming home on Monday?
00:04:40I mean, of course my family know I'm coming home.
00:04:49I just lubricated the .
00:04:52And these are all eight inches.
00:04:59I ain't going to lie.
00:05:00This is the closest I've been to a in two and a half years.
00:05:03You miss it.
00:05:04Girl, I'm about to be sitting on it soon.
00:05:07My name is Bonita.
00:05:09I make inappropriate waffles, adult waffles, like veggies and .
00:05:14If you need any type of divorce parties, engagement parties, let me know.
00:05:18I got you.
00:05:19So when is he getting out?
00:05:20All I know is soon, because the date keeps changing.
00:05:22One minute I'm getting .
00:05:23Tomorrow on the next minute, I'm back .
00:05:26They keep thinking about it.
00:05:28Why would I not think about .
00:05:29I'm cooking a .
00:05:30You should be cooking a .
00:05:31Let me cook a coffee.
00:05:33It's like we're like twin flames or something.
00:05:35I don't know.
00:05:35Like he acts so much like me that it gets to my nerves.
00:05:37I think it draws us to each other or something.
00:05:38We have like the same person in different forms or something.
00:05:42You ready for him?
00:05:43You excited?
00:05:44I was born for this.
00:05:45Okay.
00:05:47Waiting on her man.
00:05:47I was like, no, I've been waiting for this.
00:05:48And you've really been holding it down that long?
00:05:51Yeah.
00:05:52You're dealing with somebody in prison.
00:05:52You really do that time with them.
00:05:55I'm like a little one piece with my shorts and some sandals.
00:06:01Don't be making me blush for real.
00:06:02I don't know if you remember me.
00:06:04I'm Fiance.
00:06:05Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:06:06The ring that we have bought from here, I lost it.
00:06:07So I am trying to replace it.
00:06:09Something that I can't do, huh?
00:06:11And I just want you to be more of your body.
00:06:12I didn't have to behave your mother back.
00:06:14Rolling out to my mother.
00:06:16I'm still ready.
00:06:16We still got fans.
00:06:17We still got a daughter together.
00:06:19Like we going to start playing out west.
00:06:21What you fucking wants, mate?
00:06:23You the only woman I want.
00:06:24I love Gigi, and I love Bonita.
00:06:27But they don't know about each other.
00:06:30I'm getting released in a few days,
00:06:32and it's just going to be a lot that I got to figure out.
00:06:34I want my buttercream cake.
00:06:36I want the icing on top.
00:06:38I want you to tune in.
00:06:40One, two, three.
00:06:42I'm trying to get home.
00:06:43I want them.
00:06:44Yeah.
00:06:45Hey, we spend the night together.
00:06:47Mm-hmm.
00:06:48Next day, I got going to my field.
00:06:50I'm going to get my card and pick me up from your house.
00:06:52Well, I'm not taking you.
00:06:54You have 60 seconds remaining.
00:06:56I'm going to call you back in a little bit.
00:06:57Okay.
00:06:58All right.
00:06:59I can't wait to see you on Monday.
00:07:04Oh, that's my man.
00:07:05That's my man.
00:07:06All right.
00:07:06Thank you for having me.
00:07:08I'm going to go to Hell Lake.
00:07:09Hey, bookie.
00:07:10What you doing?
00:07:11I miss you more.
00:07:12What you doing?
00:07:13Hey, bookie.
00:07:18Don't lie to me.
00:07:19So I'm actually telling one woman that I'm getting released on my actual release date,
00:07:25and then I'm telling the other that I'm going to get released the next day.
00:07:29In some way, she will form.
00:07:31I'm going to have to keep both women separate.
00:07:33I can't wait to see you.
00:07:35Right there.
00:07:36Monday afternoon.
00:07:38Okay.
00:07:39Monday afternoon.
00:07:39Monday afternoon.
00:07:40Hold on.
00:07:41Wait a minute.
00:07:42Monday.
00:07:42You say Tuesday.
00:07:43Monday.
00:07:56Lola.
00:07:58Come inside.
00:07:59I'll see you later.
00:08:06I left my keys in the house.
00:08:07I always do this.
00:08:08This is why I need Brady.
00:08:10I forget everything.
00:08:16Hey.
00:08:18I went to high school with that kid back there walking.
00:08:22It's a small town.
00:08:25Everybody knows everybody's business all the time.
00:08:27Like, everybody knows that I'm with a man in prison.
00:08:30Everybody knows it.
00:08:31My taste in men to other people would probably be questionable, but I like a man a little bit
00:08:38rougher around the edges.
00:08:40Before I met Brady, I was in a relationship with a man who had drug problems, and it was
00:08:48a very, very volatile situation.
00:08:50Before that, I was with my kid's dad, and we were together for three years.
00:08:55And at the end of the relationship, that one was pretty rough, too.
00:08:58You guys want to race?
00:08:59Yeah.
00:09:01One, two, three.
00:09:05This mother is wearing American flag overalls.
00:09:10Hi, baby.
00:09:11I need to talk to your daddy.
00:09:13You want to go play for a minute while I talk to him?
00:09:16Kirsten and I, we have almost eight years of raising kids, and I would never get back
00:09:21with her again.
00:09:22You can light me on fire and not piss on me.
00:09:25Leave me burned before I'd ever get back with her.
00:09:28I would never get back with my kid's dad, ever.
00:09:30If I was the last person on Earth, in case he was the last person on Earth, and we had
00:09:33to repopulate, everybody would be dead.
00:09:36We would all die.
00:09:39I'm supposed to go pick Brady up in three days.
00:09:42I got to make sure that the car will make it.
00:09:45I'll look at it.
00:09:48Wasn't he living on the streets when you met him?
00:09:51He was our next door neighbor when I met him.
00:09:53Yeah, he was the guy stealing off my truck.
00:09:56No, he was the guy telling us who was stealing off your truck.
00:10:00I met Brady when I was very, very pregnant.
00:10:04I was actually neighbors with Brady, and Brady's house was like the local, like, trap house.
00:10:10Like, it was a flop house.
00:10:12There was people coming and going.
00:10:13And one time we had some property stolen.
00:10:17So me and my big fat pregnant belly went over to Brady's house and knocked on the door.
00:10:22He was very sweet.
00:10:23He said that he would try to get it figured out, and he would try to get our stuff returned.
00:10:27But then I found out that he went to prison.
00:10:32I'm Brady, currently locked up in Illinois, and I've been locked up for five years.
00:10:37I am charged with felony possession of a firearm and furtherance of a drug trafficking crime
00:10:42and possession of methamphetamine.
00:10:45The first time I met Kirsten, she was mad.
00:10:47So I definitely didn't foresee us ever dating each other.
00:10:51Even though I was very pregnant and angry, Brady was very handsome.
00:10:55He has, like, this little crooked smile that he does that is the cutest thing ever.
00:11:01So after me and my kid's dad split up, I slid into the DMs, and we kind of just decided
00:11:08we wanted to be together forever.
00:11:09I proposed to Kirsten while I was in prison, and we got married by proxy on the phone here.
00:11:16So I thought he was supposed to get out before.
00:11:18He ended up going to the Shoe because his cellmate had contraband in the locker, and because the locker was
00:11:23unlocked, they both ended up going to the Shoe.
00:11:25How do you know for a fact that his buddy in prison was the reason why he's in the Shoe?
00:11:29I don't believe he's lying to me. I don't. And if he is, or if it's something that, like, he
00:11:33couldn't say on the phone, he'll totally tell me whenever he gets home.
00:11:37Yeah, you hope.
00:11:39Say he was in prison five years, and he'd done good, and he got out on time. Awesome.
00:11:44But he hasn't. He's been up for parole and didn't get out because drugs have been caught twice in his
00:11:50pod.
00:11:50What are you gonna do when you get out? And you're into the outside world and have more options.
00:11:56So he's gonna go from street thug to prison to...
00:11:59To husband, yeah.
00:12:01If anybody can do it, I think that him and I can do it.
00:12:04Brady and I haven't spent any time together on the outside, but me and Brady have really, really, really developed
00:12:11a bond.
00:12:13Two years of writing letters back and forth.
00:12:17I'm lucky to have you, and you deserve the world.
00:12:19When I get home, I'm gonna give it to you.
00:12:21I'm ready to hold you like you want to, be held at night.
00:12:24I don't really have worries about Brady changing up on me at all.
00:12:28I just really hope that the sex is good.
00:12:31I wouldn't have somebody around my children if I wasn't sure that they would be decent to my children.
00:12:36What? Why are you looking at me like that?
00:12:38You wanna talk, you wanna go X for X and talk about who's as crazier?
00:12:41I think we could be on the same page.
00:12:42Yeah.
00:12:48There's something that I have to withholding from Zay.
00:12:51You haven't told him that?
00:12:52I do kinda sell Zay dreams about things in the real world.
00:12:56Would you live with me?
00:13:01It feels amazing to be free.
00:13:04You're quite lovely.
00:13:05Teya follows me wherever I go.
00:13:07Oh my God.
00:13:08Oh, and there she is.
00:13:09She's about to get out.
00:13:10Oh no, oh my God.
00:13:12It's gonna be the first time we ever seen each other in person.
00:13:14I think that's her.
00:13:16Woo!
00:13:18These are things, anyways!
00:13:28Just excited to get Nina back here.
00:13:31I'm overjoyed that, you know, she is coming home today.
00:13:34Okay, we are going to Christmas hot tub tonight.
00:13:43Went and got the ring today.
00:13:46I'm Trent, and I am currently dating Nita, who is incarcerated and is 15 years younger.
00:13:54But I am not a sugar daddy.
00:13:57That's so pretty.
00:13:58We have a relationship that is built on trust,
00:14:01sacrifice that is built on love.
00:14:05Oh, Lord.
00:14:07That's beautiful.
00:14:09That's going to be everything that you would want.
00:14:11My name is Cammie, and I'm 54 years old.
00:14:14Meet my wife.
00:14:18We are a couple.
00:14:22I'm going to do that one again.
00:14:24That was kind of awkward, I think.
00:14:25What exactly are you going to tell her that it means for you?
00:14:28For the last 60 days, with Nita not being here, it just is really cemented that we want her to
00:14:33be a part of our life forever.
00:14:35We met Nita probably seven years ago at a nudist resort.
00:14:40She came up to me and basically was like, I want you. I don't care what I have to do.
00:14:45She goes, I will your husband to get to you.
00:14:48I'm like, who am I, chopped liver?
00:14:51It was hilarious.
00:14:53What do you think the rest of the family will feel when they hear about it?
00:14:58Some of the family, I think, they'll be wondering if we're making the right decision to do this.
00:15:04Church and I, we've been married for 35 years.
00:15:07We had six kids.
00:15:09High school sweethearts.
00:15:10High school sweethearts.
00:15:11I grew up in a very completely strict, almost cultish religion.
00:15:15My uncle was a pastor.
00:15:18He preached a lot of hellfire and damnation.
00:15:20But Trent and I lost our son at 15 to juvenile dermatomyositis.
00:15:27It's where your immune system attacks your muscles and your skin.
00:15:32And our church family wasn't very helpful.
00:15:35They told us the reason he's sick is because you guys must have sin in your life that God's punishing
00:15:39you for something.
00:15:40That totally didn't sit right with me.
00:15:43And we moved to California.
00:15:45Our son only got 15 years.
00:15:47I don't know how long I have, but I'm no longer going to live it for other people.
00:15:52That really led us on this journey to, you know, leaving the church and exploring polyamory.
00:15:58Most of the family doesn't know.
00:16:00When they all find out, they're going to be very concerned.
00:16:04Almost two years ago, the three of us got in a big fight.
00:16:07And she actually went off, you know, and relapsed back into taking drugs and ended up rear-ending another vehicle.
00:16:17I was sentenced to 60 days in jail for a DUI.
00:16:21And **** that.
00:16:22Can I just laugh?
00:16:23Can you hear me or now?
00:16:25Something like generational addiction.
00:16:27Like, my mother was an addict.
00:16:28My mother's mother was an addict.
00:16:28Like, feeling for us, but that's the weakness of where I'm from.
00:16:32You know what I mean?
00:16:33You can see the light.
00:16:35That might be her.
00:16:37Is that her?
00:16:37Yeah.
00:16:38It's Nita!
00:16:40You have a call from an inmate at Shasta County Jail.
00:16:44I'm being released.
00:16:46You made it!
00:16:47I don't want to take another ****.
00:16:49I know.
00:16:49Okay, we're coming.
00:16:50Okay.
00:16:51I love you.
00:16:52Okay, love you.
00:16:53We'll see you soon.
00:16:54He's coming home.
00:16:55Okay.
00:16:56Yay!
00:16:57I'm freaking out.
00:16:58Let's go get our girl!
00:17:03I don't know why I'm all nervous.
00:17:05I shouldn't be nervous.
00:17:07Wow.
00:17:08You might need to stand behind me because she might knock me over.
00:17:11I'm afraid of.
00:17:14The hard parts to our relationship with Nita.
00:17:17I do think about whether, you know, or what my role is in the relationship.
00:17:22I am so proud of her.
00:17:23She's come a long ways.
00:17:25Nita is not wired to love men.
00:17:27I mean, since she was a child, you know, she's considered herself gay.
00:17:31And Cami is not gay.
00:17:33I'm probably Pan.
00:17:35Like, it's the person that I fell in love with.
00:17:37Nita has really won over my heart.
00:17:40Oh, oh!
00:17:41Oh, somebody just walked out.
00:17:42Oh!
00:17:43I thought it was her.
00:17:44Nita and Cami could definitely break my heart.
00:17:47But I'd rather risk love and lose than not love at all.
00:17:56Is that her?
00:17:57Yes.
00:17:58Yes.
00:17:58Yes, please come on.
00:17:59Yes.
00:18:04Some of my friends may be nervous about Brady.
00:18:07He jumped on my car one night.
00:18:08But you're young and dumb.
00:18:10Brady?
00:18:10He's not an evil guy.
00:18:13In my dream, she was like, Five Shades talking to me or something like that.
00:18:16But there's somebody he's talking to.
00:18:17There's no redemption after that.
00:18:19I'm trying to make sure you're not getting manipulated.
00:18:22You ready to meet my people?
00:18:23I'm actually anxious.
00:18:25At least it comes from a Sicilian family.
00:18:28Don't break my girl's heart.
00:18:30I will come after you.
00:18:42Hey, y'all.
00:18:44Hey!
00:18:45How are you?
00:18:46Thank you, Gary.
00:18:47Have a seat.
00:18:53Cheers.
00:18:54Cheers.
00:18:55Cheers.
00:18:56Y'all was beautiful.
00:18:57You look good, too.
00:18:58Don't take it too fast, baby.
00:18:59Slow down.
00:19:01What's going on, sister?
00:19:02I just been so busy.
00:19:04Um, school.
00:19:05Yeah.
00:19:05It's like essays after essays after essays after essays after essays.
00:19:10I consider myself a boss-ass bitch.
00:19:12I am in school, pre-healthcare med studies.
00:19:16I have a daughter.
00:19:17I'm an amazing mother.
00:19:19And I also have an amazing job.
00:19:21Me and Champagne, it's just, I don't do alcohol because I'm on 10.
00:19:24I'm already on 10 right now.
00:19:26I have three sisters, Kaitlyn, Kennedy, and Carly.
00:19:29I kind of call us, like, the Southern Kardashians, the Black Kardashians.
00:19:34What's going on up here?
00:19:36I'm cooking.
00:19:38Baby, it's in the birthday house now.
00:19:39What's going on?
00:19:39No, I'm cooking.
00:19:40We like it crispy.
00:19:42Don't you need to be trying to get ready to be cooking for your man.
00:19:47Cook.
00:19:47Oh, Jesus.
00:19:48Two and a half years ago, I was on a video jail call with my brother.
00:19:52He's in prison due to robbery charge.
00:19:55And he's like, yeah, I want you to meet the people I've met in here.
00:19:58You got all these inmates in a camera like, hey, hey, yeah, this is my buddy.
00:20:02I'm like, okay, hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:20:05Out, like, the perimeter of my eye, I'm just like, who is that big guy?
00:20:08Like, he was sitting over there, like, so big.
00:20:09He wasn't in the mix doing all of this.
00:20:11It was just more like he back there smiling, like, you know, flexing his muscles.
00:20:15And I'm like, who is that?
00:20:16So my brother's like, this Zay, this big Zay.
00:20:18We call him big Zay.
00:20:19Big Zay getting in the camera.
00:20:20My sister want to say hey.
00:20:23My name is Xavier.
00:20:25My friend's a family of New Zay.
00:20:27I was charged with a robbery and aggravated assault.
00:20:31I have been in prison for seven and a half years.
00:20:34If you was just to see him, you're like, oh, yeah, he's edible.
00:20:38He's a 10 out of 10.
00:20:40Highly recommend.
00:20:42But over the course of the two and a half years that Zay and I have been together, I've never
00:20:48seen this man in person.
00:20:54I am not on Zay's books to go down there to visit, so we just write letters digitally, try to
00:21:01do phone calls.
00:21:02An emotional bun, to me, is way much stronger than a physical bun.
00:21:06Because we all got to get old at the end of the day.
00:21:08I just want to know that I'm able to lay down with you when I'm like 90 and just laugh.
00:21:12Oh, cooking, child.
00:21:13I don't know.
00:21:14I don't know.
00:21:15Make you all split.
00:21:15I don't cook.
00:21:17If you can't cook no egg, you're going to be in trouble.
00:21:20I do kind of sell Zay dreams about things in the real world.
00:21:24All right, you know what to do?
00:21:25What?
00:21:26You ain't going to do that?
00:21:26Oh, my God.
00:21:28Look, you got a shell in here.
00:21:29I told Zay, whatever he want, he name it, I'm going to cook it.
00:21:33Yeah, you're going to need a lot of practice.
00:21:35I actually went online, and I just typed in, like, Holmes Cooked Meals.
00:21:39And I was trying to find the pictures that look very, very realistic, like in Yokora Mama Kitchen realistic.
00:21:46And he's like, I can't wait to try it.
00:21:48I'm like, I know.
00:21:52Okay.
00:21:53Oh.
00:21:54You feel good to you?
00:21:55Yes.
00:21:58How's Zay doing?
00:21:59Great.
00:22:02He's doing better than ever.
00:22:03My family knows about Zay, but what Zay doesn't know is that Zay is going to be released from prison
00:22:10within a few days.
00:22:11My man went up for parole in August.
00:22:14Okay.
00:22:15It got approved.
00:22:16Like, I'm real dealing with him.
00:22:16Oh, no, seriously.
00:22:17When do we get out?
00:22:18In, like, the next week.
00:22:22I am just so excited to meet him in person, finally.
00:22:25I am dangerously in love.
00:22:27Oh, puppy love, right?
00:22:28No.
00:22:28It's real true T love.
00:22:30Yeah, you're right.
00:22:30Dangerously.
00:22:31It hasn't been that long since you haven't, like, talked to your child's father.
00:22:34Yes.
00:22:34So, do you feel like you are healed to start a new relationship when Zay gets out?
00:22:41I was engaged for about two years until my child's father called the engagement off.
00:22:50I don't like talking about my child's father.
00:22:58Because I really love that man, and it's crazy.
00:23:02It's crazy that you'll be so in love with somebody, and it just hurts even after the
00:23:09thing.
00:23:09I feel like God brought Zay into my life.
00:23:12It was like, this is what I needed.
00:23:12Like, God knew I needed it to heal.
00:23:14Her ex, she was deeply in love with him.
00:23:17When they was trying to rekindle their relationship, he ended up getting married overseas without her
00:23:23knowing, and it was a shock to everyone.
00:23:26And I think that was really what hurt her.
00:23:29And so now she's just, she's just desperate for love.
00:23:35I do believe Zay is my husband.
00:23:37It's like you still telling us a fairy tale.
00:23:40I have to do positive things in my life just to, just to keep my mind off him.
00:23:46And with Zay, he's putting me first.
00:23:49He's showing me, like Karen said, I want you.
00:23:51I only want you.
00:23:52He really believes in our relationship.
00:23:56We're going to get married within 30 days of his men released.
00:23:59So is y'all going to be there gay and a?
00:24:00No, I would never, I would not be there.
00:24:02That's a transition for you and for him.
00:24:04He's coming from eight years in prison.
00:24:06I'm sure you don't know like what to expect 100%.
00:24:08I know.
00:24:09So like, are there like any concerns?
00:24:11There are some concerns.
00:24:15There's something that I have been withholding from Zay.
00:24:18What's that?
00:24:21I can't say it right now.
00:24:23Like I'm, like there's like a break in my throat.
00:24:25That just like won't let it come out.
00:24:32I was doing fine.
00:24:36Caught up in the midst of my ignorance moving through life.
00:24:39Gotta hate to get on this road.
00:24:41Felicia's release.
00:24:43I'm hella excited.
00:24:44Finally about to meet her.
00:24:47This is Doug.
00:24:49This is Doug.
00:25:03Three hundred twenty three miles.
00:25:05Six, seven hours.
00:25:06Ah.
00:25:08What does the universe have in store for me?
00:25:12I met Felicia on the pen pal site.
00:25:15And I was led to it from a dream.
00:25:18And I got to her.
00:25:18I was like, that's the one that was in the dream.
00:25:21I'm rolling.
00:25:22You know, like I need a spicy.
00:25:24Personally, I just wanted some sugar that his mom went home.
00:25:28Well, I felt cold.
00:25:30He is a beautiful man.
00:25:33I feel good, bro.
00:25:34I'm ready to see my baby.
00:25:36She been incarcerated for nine years.
00:25:38We've been talking for six years.
00:25:40And now we down to 12 hours before we face to face for the first time.
00:25:46This is, this is big right now.
00:25:50Hey, hold on, my baby called.
00:25:51Thank you for using.
00:25:53Hello.
00:25:54Hello.
00:25:55What's up, baby?
00:25:56I'm on the road.
00:25:57What you doing?
00:25:58You back there?
00:25:59You on the road?
00:25:59Yeah, I'm on the road.
00:26:00You ready to meet my people?
00:26:02What?
00:26:02What you mean?
00:26:03I'm ready for everything.
00:26:04You come on.
00:26:04About to drive from Houston to Tallulah to the prison.
00:26:08Spend the night there.
00:26:09Meeting up with the family.
00:26:11All right, baby.
00:26:12I'm going to talk to you later, okay?
00:26:13All right, baby.
00:26:14I'm going to be honest.
00:26:15I'm feeling stupid anxious.
00:26:17I come from a real reserved, laid-back type of family.
00:26:22I'm guessing from, from what I could put together, Italians and Sicilians are, you know, the opposite.
00:26:32I got 200 on the robbery, choice stealing the car.
00:26:36The hardest thing for me to be incarcerated and being locked up, especially at 17, would
00:26:43be being away from my family.
00:26:44The facility that I'm in, they restricted the visits, and they got the tablets, so that's
00:26:49all we had.
00:26:50Video visits on the telephone.
00:26:52All nine years I've been down, I have never physically hugged my family or got to see
00:26:58them.
00:26:59That's a long time for my mom not to be able to hug me, and she's a hugger.
00:27:04How you doing?
00:27:05Rich.
00:27:06Errol.
00:27:06What's going on with you, bro?
00:27:07Good to meet you.
00:27:08Hi, I'm Portia.
00:27:09Nice to meet you.
00:27:09Good to meet you.
00:27:11Excited for her to get out.
00:27:13Yeah.
00:27:13Really waiting.
00:27:14Good show, dog.
00:27:16You remind me of Ludacris.
00:27:17For real?
00:27:18Yes.
00:27:19That's funny.
00:27:20All right.
00:27:21Yeah.
00:27:22Hey, guys.
00:27:24Hello.
00:27:25Hey, how you doing?
00:27:25How you doing?
00:27:26I'm good.
00:27:27What's going on?
00:27:27Oh, oh, oh.
00:27:28Is this my family?
00:27:29Hello.
00:27:30Who are you?
00:27:33Hello?
00:27:34What's going on?
00:27:35Likewise.
00:27:35Likewise.
00:27:36Hello.
00:27:36How are you?
00:27:37I'm Hailey.
00:27:38Good to meet you.
00:27:38Good to meet you.
00:27:38Good to meet you.
00:27:39Good to meet you.
00:27:41I don't know if you heard about me, but...
00:27:43You have?
00:27:44You have?
00:27:44All right.
00:27:45Me and I, we grew up together since she was a baby.
00:27:49I got in trouble when I was younger.
00:27:51I was in prison a little bit.
00:27:53For about two years.
00:27:55I don't really want to talk about my past because it's something I'm not proud of, but...
00:27:58I don't want to cry.
00:27:59It's so sad.
00:28:01Um...
00:28:02I just know what we're going to be facing when she gets out, and I want to be there for
00:28:06her
00:28:06as much as I can.
00:28:08Yeah.
00:28:09So what's up, Rich?
00:28:10How you doing?
00:28:11What's happening?
00:28:11I'm good.
00:28:11Where you from?
00:28:12You all smiles on me.
00:28:13Yeah.
00:28:14Look at you look cheesy.
00:28:15Okay.
00:28:15Where you from?
00:28:16I live in Houston.
00:28:18Okay.
00:28:18What do you do for a living?
00:28:19I do a little bit of anything, but mainly Houston for real estate.
00:28:23Okay.
00:28:23But then I have a salvage yard in South Carolina.
00:28:25Oh, he's a jack of all trades.
00:28:27Oh, okay.
00:28:28All right.
00:28:28All right.
00:28:28Are you planning on having Fee move to Houston with you?
00:28:32I don't know.
00:28:32We haven't talked about that yet.
00:28:33You can't take her away from him as soon as we got her back.
00:28:35Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:28:36Right.
00:28:36That's what...
00:28:37He's not going nowhere.
00:28:38All I'm saying is I wouldn't test anybody in this family.
00:28:41Yeah.
00:28:42No, no.
00:28:43A little crazy.
00:28:44Yeah.
00:28:44I mean, Italian people are just nuts.
00:28:46A little crazy is good.
00:28:47Yeah.
00:28:47Yeah.
00:28:48You'll be fine though if you're just honest.
00:28:50Yeah, yeah.
00:28:52It doesn't matter who you are, where you come from, what you got.
00:28:54Yeah.
00:28:55As long as you treat her right.
00:28:56For sure.
00:28:57Absolutely.
00:28:58Don't break my girl's heart.
00:29:00Never.
00:29:00I will come after you.
00:29:03For sure.
00:29:04I'll break more than your heart.
00:29:05For sure.
00:29:06I got you.
00:29:08I got you.
00:29:08I got you.
00:29:08That's my baby.
00:29:09I got you.
00:29:09That's my baby.
00:29:11So my family is, like, really, oh, they are wrong.
00:29:17It was nice talking to you.
00:29:18It was dope.
00:29:19Recently, I would tell my mom and dad, you know, I want to be rich.
00:29:24I want to see my baby, man.
00:29:25What's up?
00:29:26Yeah.
00:29:26My dad, he's just old school.
00:29:29So he was just like, oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:29:34And my mom was like, well, baby, I'm going to just pray about it.
00:29:38I do value their opinion.
00:29:40So I'm scared a little bit, but at the same time, I'm so excited just to be able to go
00:29:46to a new life.
00:29:50I'm ready to see my baby, man.
00:29:52What's up?
00:29:53The family gave good vibes.
00:29:56Honestly, like, he's okay.
00:29:59If he does the right thing, I mean, great.
00:30:02Let's do it.
00:30:03Like, let's be a big family.
00:30:04I feel like this is star lining.
00:30:06I feel like the ancestors lined this up for, I don't know what's to come, but I'm ready
00:30:12for it.
00:30:14But...
00:30:16If Rich with Felicia, I mean, like, I will make with him and stop that.
00:30:21Like, I will very quickly end that.
00:30:30Where's my drink?
00:30:31Right here?
00:30:33I can't beat these people.
00:30:35We are free citizens.
00:30:38What the is going on?
00:30:39My ankle martyr is going on.
00:30:40I'm on my way home.
00:30:41I'm going to get sent back to prison for what?
00:30:44Home .
00:30:44Do y'all think Karen San has Zay Zay's best interest?
00:30:48Damn.
00:30:50Absolutely not.
00:30:51You look good.
00:31:00Hey, Boopie.
00:31:01What you doing?
00:31:04I can't wait to see you.
00:31:07Right there.
00:31:08Monday afternoon.
00:31:09What?
00:31:10Monday afternoon?
00:31:10Hold on.
00:31:10Wait a minute.
00:31:11You said Tuesday.
00:31:12Monday?
00:31:13No, I said today's Sunday, and I said make sure you're there Tuesday.
00:31:16Tuesday afternoon.
00:31:26Okay.
00:31:27Can't wait.
00:31:28It's been a long time coming.
00:31:30Yeah.
00:31:31It's finally here.
00:31:33That's lit, ain't it?
00:31:34It is lit.
00:31:35I'm so happy, babe.
00:31:35I can't wait to see you.
00:31:37I don't know this .
00:31:39I'm trying to pipe these .
00:31:40It's not even working.
00:31:42You sound like you real busy over there.
00:31:44I'm sorry, babe.
00:31:44I'm very happy that you're coming home.
00:31:46But, babe, let me get these waffles together.
00:31:47Okay?
00:31:48I love you.
00:31:48I love you more, baby.
00:31:50My man is literally coming home.
00:31:52Yes, sir.
00:31:52Yeah.
00:31:55Rodeo.
00:31:56All weekend.
00:31:57Weekday.
00:31:59From Tuesday for the rest of the year.
00:32:02My man coming home, y'all.
00:32:03What are we going to call Tuesday?
00:32:05Get on that!
00:32:06Hey, bitch.
00:32:07Ouch.
00:32:11He's going to lose it.
00:32:12I said no call.
00:32:13It was Steve Harvey, wasn't it?
00:32:14It's a grill .
00:32:14Oh, a grill .
00:32:19My man is coming home on Monday.
00:32:23You glowing.
00:32:24Bark like you want it.
00:32:26Bark like you want it.
00:32:29You better come home and do right, goddess.
00:32:37Gigi and Bonita.
00:32:39Neither one of them know this, but I'm actually going to get released.
00:32:44and see Gigi on my first day home and spend time with Gigi.
00:32:49I'm just worried that...
00:32:52Walk.
00:32:52You don't know him.
00:32:55You don't know what he might do.
00:32:56Come on.
00:32:57I want to ride the horse.
00:32:59Then the next day, I plan on walking out the door as if I just got dropped off with my
00:33:05DOC clothes on.
00:33:06And I'm going to be smiling and doing it all over again with Bonita.
00:33:11Like, are you worried about anything with him coming home?
00:33:15Okay. So, you know, I've been having some dreams.
00:33:17About what, bitch?
00:33:18Just having, like, weird dreams about him just dealing with somebody else.
00:33:22But do you think you have something to worry about with him?
00:33:24Like, do you think he really could be cheating?
00:33:26He's never cheated on me before, but in my dream, I couldn't see the girl's face and I could, like,
00:33:30make out her complexion.
00:33:31Like, she was, like, maybe, like, five shades darker than me or something.
00:33:34Like, I can't... I don't know. I just... I was like, what the ?
00:33:38Me and DeMar, like, we ain't never cheat, but we have lied to each other before.
00:33:42Or we could have just told the truth about.
00:33:44Do you think it may be, like, a nervous feeling of him actually coming home?
00:33:47It could be.
00:33:48I don't want to... I don't want to hold him accountable for the damn dream.
00:33:51That'll be weird as to do.
00:33:52He just needs to be honest with me about everything.
00:33:54So, if there's somebody he's talking to, he would have to come clean before he come home.
00:33:57Because if he come home and I find out, I'm not even sure if it's going to be any type
00:34:00of redemption after that.
00:34:02I'm trying to make sure you're not getting manipulated.
00:34:05I'm not worried.
00:34:06Okay.
00:34:07I'm just trying to take it one day at a time.
00:34:09Goddess, I think you passed that point.
00:34:13I really don't know who to pick.
00:34:15When I finally do get released, I do plan on continue working on being in a pile of leadership
00:34:21and getting Gigi and Bonita to actually be able to be underneath of one group, one household.
00:34:28I always said I wanted ten children.
00:34:30So, I do plan on we be all one big happy family.
00:34:35But nobody knows what's going to happen.
00:34:38It might be a whole World War III.
00:34:40We don't know.
00:34:41But only time won't tell.
00:34:48We've got something very special for you in here, Nita.
00:34:51We want it to be a lifelong commitment.
00:34:53What are you asking?
00:34:54This is a commitment ring from the two of us.
00:34:56They just moved so fast.
00:34:59Got bad news.
00:35:00Don't be mad.
00:35:01How the **** does that make any sense?
00:35:03I think we'll be alright.
00:35:04I think we'll be fine.
00:35:04Y'all are going to **** see a demon.
00:35:12I will probably be running up there.
00:35:14Oh, I see somebody.
00:35:15Is that her?
00:35:16Yes.
00:35:17Yes, please come on.
00:35:19Yes.
00:35:19Yes, please come on.
00:35:23Yes, please.
00:35:25What is that?
00:35:26Oh, look at me.
00:35:27Oh, my God.
00:35:29I'm ready.
00:35:29Yes, I'm ready.
00:35:31Yes.
00:35:31You did it.
00:35:31You did it.
00:35:33You did it.
00:35:34Oh, my God.
00:35:35Oh, my God.
00:35:38Yay.
00:35:51Hi, I'm Nita.
00:35:52I'm like the Ferrari of what you've been hearing about.
00:35:56Like the midlife crisis, you know, they go and buy a Ferrari.
00:36:01I'm it.
00:36:02Where's my drink?
00:36:05Right here?
00:36:06I can't beat these people.
00:36:08We are free citizens.
00:36:10I ended up relapsing.
00:36:11I hit somebody's car.
00:36:13And so I went and did 60 days for a DUI.
00:36:16Not my first one, not my second one.
00:36:20Oh my God.
00:36:22You did it.
00:36:23We did it.
00:36:24You did it with me.
00:36:25You did it with me.
00:36:28It feels amazing to be free.
00:36:30It feels amazing to be home.
00:36:31It's overwhelming when you walk out and you breathe in and you feel the rain on your face.
00:36:37And it's surreal.
00:36:38It's surreal.
00:36:40We're not taking any of this shit, no.
00:36:42Leave all that shit here.
00:36:44You don't take nothing here.
00:36:45There's a trash right here.
00:36:46Okay.
00:36:48Okay.
00:36:48It means you might come back.
00:36:50Okay.
00:36:52I'm an acquired taste, not for everybody.
00:36:55I'm like fine cheese, caviar, and opera.
00:36:57You either love me or you hate me.
00:37:00I'm chained.
00:37:00I don't give a f***.
00:37:01I'm not modest.
00:37:02F*** these people.
00:37:02F*** these jail.
00:37:03Yeah, I'm not modest.
00:37:04We're good.
00:37:05It's no big deal.
00:37:07We're live.
00:37:07I ain't kidding.
00:37:08No.
00:37:09Chaos follows me.
00:37:10I feel like it.
00:37:11Where I find it, wherever I go.
00:37:13If you only get one ticket, you might as well enjoy the ride.
00:37:16Life is f***ing boring without me.
00:37:18Yes.
00:37:18Yes, like watching paint dry, huh?
00:37:20A little bit.
00:37:21Yes, I know.
00:37:21A little bit.
00:37:23I'm so happy she's back.
00:37:25I want to just have some time with her.
00:37:30We love Nita.
00:37:32Yes, I think I can say that now.
00:37:34She has asked me that question before, and it was really hard for me to answer.
00:37:37And I can say that now, that I am in love with her.
00:37:40There is nothing that makes me second guess wanting to give Nita that $5,000 ring.
00:37:45Yeah, we want her in her life forever.
00:37:47So, I love this woman, and I want her in my life.
00:37:50Yes.
00:37:50God.
00:37:51Holy f***ing, everything's real.
00:37:53Yep.
00:37:54Oh, my God.
00:37:55Oh, my God.
00:37:55Oh, my God.
00:37:56Do you want a hot tub tonight?
00:37:57Yes.
00:37:58Okay.
00:37:58We thought that would be really fun.
00:38:00Mm-hmm.
00:38:00And then after that, we're going to go upstairs.
00:38:03Oh, yes.
00:38:03I haven't been kissed in 59 days.
00:38:07The only f***ing action I've had is squat and cough, bitch.
00:38:13We're home.
00:38:13We're home.
00:38:14Woo!
00:38:15We're going to have a night.
00:38:17I can't wait.
00:38:18Okay.
00:38:19Look it.
00:38:20Is it how you remembered?
00:38:22It's better.
00:38:23It's better?
00:38:24It's better.
00:38:24Yay.
00:38:25Oh, my God.
00:38:26Hello, Ben.
00:38:27Hello, Ben.
00:38:28Woo!
00:38:29I just got out of a 60-day bid.
00:38:31It was eye-opening, to say the least.
00:38:34You're living like an animal.
00:38:35It reminds me of what my life would be like if they weren't part of it.
00:38:39Oh, I hate it when you look how you feel.
00:38:42All of this aggression is going to be taken out.
00:38:46On me?
00:38:46There's going to have to be a release somewhere.
00:38:48Okay.
00:38:49I'm here for it.
00:38:50I couldn't even jack off in jail.
00:38:51I don't have a good enough imagination.
00:38:54That didn't stop other girls, though.
00:38:58This is just my special pill that helps things go well tonight.
00:39:01Like the way that you move.
00:39:03Come on, set yourself free.
00:39:05Yeah, baby.
00:39:06I haven't shaved anything since Jake.
00:39:09Anywhere?
00:39:11What turns me on?
00:39:12Everything.
00:39:13But most between here and here is what turns me on.
00:39:20And, you know, these girls don't help.
00:39:22I mean, they help a lot.
00:39:23They really do help a lot.
00:39:24She's very aesthetically pleasing as well.
00:39:25I mean, I'm sure you guys seen me.
00:39:30Oh, my.
00:39:32Where are you guys at?
00:39:34Nietzsche sometimes likes to take pictures using this.
00:39:39And this is called tiny, but he's not very tiny.
00:39:43Quite lovely.
00:39:44Yeah, quite lovely.
00:39:46But neither is my husband, so it works.
00:39:53Oh, and there she is.
00:39:55Okay, I got to get in the water.
00:39:58Water.
00:39:59All over your crap.
00:40:02Hello, Romeo.
00:40:09I need to decline.
00:40:10Why is my car decline?
00:40:12My spending got a little out of hand.
00:40:14I'm also $40,000 in debt for you.
00:40:17I was a prison wife for six years.
00:40:19You just bought a brand new car.
00:40:20Where the money come from?
00:40:22No, you.
00:40:23Here we go.
00:40:24It's going to be the first time that I've seen rich in a person.
00:40:28I think that's her.
00:40:29You don't want to be in no relationship.
00:40:31There's a moment here, too, bro.
00:40:38I feel good all the time.
00:40:40Body like damn, and I age like wine.
00:40:42Us getting married, I got a coffin ring, because we always say, till death do us part.
00:40:47And the stone in it is meteorite, because we always say, like, love you to the moon, the stars, and
00:40:53beyond, the whole galaxy.
00:40:54So, I think it's really cool.
00:41:05I forgot I don't have my car.
00:41:10Hey, I'm on my way.
00:41:13Yay!
00:41:14My baby daddy's looking at my car, so I'm walking there.
00:41:17I have two more days until I get to start my life with my husband.
00:41:21I look like I could be a hooker, so it's fine.
00:41:26It's a small town, lots of toxic people, and lots of opinions.
00:41:30Hi, friend.
00:41:32Thanks for opening the round for you, baby.
00:41:34But all of my friends are in my corner, and if they're not, they haven't told me that they're not.
00:41:42Hey, ladies, how are you doing?
00:41:43Do you want some shots?
00:41:45Yes?
00:41:45Yes.
00:41:46Pequila?
00:41:47No, vodka.
00:41:48I'll be right back on this.
00:41:51Oh, has Kirsten told you that it's the mood yet?
00:41:55About.
00:41:57Oh, God.
00:41:59Your baby daddy's coming home.
00:42:01That's disgusting.
00:42:05Are you so excited?
00:42:06Congratulations.
00:42:07I'm not for me.
00:42:08I'm excited for you and my kids.
00:42:09That's it.
00:42:14I have been engaged previously to the mother of my children, Corey, and we have two twin
00:42:20daughters who are 11.
00:42:22I have not seen my daughters for over two years.
00:42:24I know it's been hard on them, probably harder on them than anybody.
00:42:28If I didn't have a girlfriend, I would say about it.
00:42:30You should tell your girlfriend that.
00:42:32Why would you say that?
00:42:33Bye, Felicia.
00:42:35Corey and I became friends because I messaged her one day, and I was like, look, me and
00:42:41Brady are together, and I don't want any of the children seeing a volatile co-parenting
00:42:47relationship.
00:42:47I've been through that, and I know the damage that it can do.
00:42:51She can't wait to get a hotel.
00:42:53Yes.
00:42:54Ew.
00:42:55What?
00:42:56Gross.
00:42:57It is insane to me, and I have told Kirsten that it is insane to me that they are already
00:43:03married, and she, I was like, you have never even, you've never even lived with this man.
00:43:07Oh, my God.
00:43:08This is actual, like, too double shot now.
00:43:11They got married while he's in prison.
00:43:14What's his resume look like?
00:43:16What's his bank count look like?
00:43:17What's his credit score?
00:43:18Oh, Jesus.
00:43:19I mean, what is his child support?
00:43:21She thinks that he's going to actually support her, and I'm wondering how they're going
00:43:25to pay that child support back.
00:43:27When I was pregnant, going in to have the girls, he had been doing his nonsense, and I
00:43:33went to the hospital.
00:43:34He met me there.
00:43:35He slept the whole time.
00:43:37Yeah.
00:43:38Brady and I got into it, and my mom and his mom got into it.
00:43:44Our families were fighting because Brady was a piece of at the moment.
00:43:47I told you that.
00:43:48Okay.
00:43:49My mom tried to get me to not put his name on the birth certificate as well.
00:43:53I couldn't function.
00:43:55Like, it was just traumatizing a relationship.
00:43:57He'll say sorry.
00:43:59He'll say sorry.
00:44:00No, he was mean.
00:44:01I know.
00:44:02He was so mean to us.
00:44:03Oh, yeah, bitch.
00:44:04Oh, it was bad.
00:44:06The girls have actually asked, like, why he does not ever contact them.
00:44:10Really?
00:44:11Snack s**t.
00:44:12I'm not going to be with a deadbeat dad.
00:44:14If you don't go to f*****g work, take care of your children, pay your child support, take
00:44:20care of the household.
00:44:21Like, I hate to say this, but I'll go find a man who will.
00:44:25You know what I mean?
00:44:26Like, I love Brady.
00:44:27I want all of those things from Brady.
00:44:29Can I interject?
00:44:30Yes.
00:44:31I've seen Brady at his worst and be mean for no reason.
00:44:36He jumped on my car one night.
00:44:37Oh, the hood.
00:44:38The hood of my car while I was driving.
00:44:40Brady, not an evil guy.
00:44:43Okay.
00:44:44I understand that some of my friends may be nervous about Brady just based on his past,
00:44:50but whenever we're young, we do kind of have those toxic relationships.
00:44:55I wish they would see it in action before they made an opinion.
00:45:00Also, if he is doing drugs, he will not be around my kids.
00:45:04Oh, girl, no.
00:45:05I wouldn't want him around my kids.
00:45:15What are you asking?
00:45:16We are committing long-term.
00:45:18This is the f***** that people go, they're crazy.
00:45:24I just got to stay 10 steps to hit.
00:45:27You need to hurry your ass up.
00:45:2910 steps to hit a Bonita.
00:45:31Boom!
00:45:3110 steps to hit a Gigi.
00:45:33Come on, go!
00:45:34I don't know who that's up.
00:45:42There's something that I have been withholding from today.
00:45:45What's that?
00:45:46I want to see you say I cheated for real.
00:45:47I, like, explored other connections.
00:45:51Do you have feelings for two people right now?
00:45:59You haven't told him that?
00:46:00You think y'all are truly in love?
00:46:02I have not told Zay.
00:46:04I've been going on dates.
00:46:06I am on a dating app.
00:46:08I was lonely.
00:46:10A girl was lonely.
00:46:11And I know people look at it as like, oh, my gosh, that is like a terrible way to start
00:46:15a relationship.
00:46:15But given our circumstances and given what I've been through, I'm just here to protect my energy, protect my peace,
00:46:20protect my heart.
00:46:21So do you think it's going to change the dynamic of your relationship when you tell him?
00:46:26Hopefully it doesn't.
00:46:27And hopefully he's very open to forgiveness.
00:46:29I love Zay.
00:46:32And I do feel like it's finally time for me just to be up front.
00:46:38I hope Zay understands that he is one of the most important people in my life.
00:46:43We're just going to try calling his sister Carly.
00:46:51Hey, Carly, this is Carrington.
00:46:53I was just calling just to get an update on Zay.
00:46:56He still hasn't called.
00:46:56Have y'all heard anything from him?
00:46:59No, I haven't heard from him since yesterday.
00:47:02I have a brother who's incarcerated.
00:47:03I am on my brother's books.
00:47:05So I couldn't be on Zay's unless Zay and I was legally married.
00:47:09So when it comes to phone calls or video calls, that is directly through his sister Carly.
00:47:14Yeah, well, if he does reach out, could you let me know?
00:47:18Yeah.
00:47:19All right, well, thank you.
00:47:21All right.
00:47:22All right, bye.
00:47:23She sounded very anxious.
00:47:24Yeah, that was weird.
00:47:25She sounded uninterested.
00:47:26I hope they're not lying.
00:47:28That would absolutely suck.
00:47:30You just never know.
00:47:31Lie about what?
00:47:32Just anything.
00:47:32He might have got another girlfriend, another bitch, another...
00:47:34He might be married, girl.
00:47:35I don't know.
00:47:38To accept this free call, press 1.
00:47:41Hey, Zay, Zay.
00:47:42Hey, Zay.
00:47:43What's up?
00:47:43How you doing?
00:47:45I'm fine.
00:47:45I'm fine.
00:47:46You ready to come home?
00:47:47Yeah.
00:47:48We ready!
00:47:49It's getting close, too, I'm telling you.
00:47:51Zay's coming home in a couple of days, and I'm just...
00:47:55It's bottled up.
00:47:56Like, I don't even know how I'm going to react.
00:47:59I don't even know.
00:48:01I'm ready, though.
00:48:02I'm ready to see.
00:48:03Zay, your girlfriend's been calling me all day.
00:48:05I'm finna call her so y'all can talk.
00:48:07Okay.
00:48:08Okay.
00:48:11Hello.
00:48:14Hi.
00:48:16Hi.
00:48:16How are you?
00:48:18I'm fine.
00:48:19I miss you.
00:48:20I miss you, too.
00:48:21Are you excited?
00:48:22Are you excited to see me?
00:48:24Oh, definitely.
00:48:25Like, I'm finna get your name, Taddy.
00:48:28You lying.
00:48:29All right.
00:48:30You gon' see it on my wrist.
00:48:33You got my name, Taddy, for real?
00:48:35Zay, don't be on this phone line.
00:48:36Like, please don't do that, because I'm gonna get annoyed.
00:48:38Like, I don't got time.
00:48:45No, I love you, too.
00:48:48Zay getting my name tattooed on his wrist shows me how committed he is to me.
00:48:52So I'm not gonna ruin the moment by telling him, like, hey, I've been on dates.
00:48:56I'm on a dating site.
00:48:57Like, I'm just not gonna do that.
00:48:59So what's going on with your sisters and stuff?
00:49:00Do they like me?
00:49:04Can Carly hear me?
00:49:07Oh.
00:49:08I love you, and I'll talk to you soon.
00:49:11Bye.
00:49:14Do y'all think Karentan has Zay Zay's best venture?
00:49:18Absolutely not.
00:49:20They never even met each other in real life.
00:49:22She don't even know us.
00:49:23We don't even know her.
00:49:25Honestly, I think there's no chance that he's in love with Karentan.
00:49:29No chance, 0%.
00:49:31She does not have my vote.
00:49:33Did I tell y'all McKenna, his ex, is coming over here?
00:49:37She texts me.
00:49:38I'm ready.
00:49:39I knew I'd have a little competition.
00:49:41When Karentan show up at their release, uninvited, she's gonna get in the car with us.
00:49:47And we gonna go home.
00:49:49Hold on.
00:49:49Let me get the door.
00:49:50He gonna find out where his new home at.
00:49:53With his girl, McKenna.
00:49:55Yeah.
00:49:56I didn't hear the word Karentan in that whole equation.
00:50:00Who is that?
00:50:01Who is Karentan?
00:50:11Are you getting out?
00:50:12I'm gonna see what I can do.
00:50:13I'm gonna talk to you.
00:50:14This is the biggest croc of s*** that I have ever dealt with in my entire life.
00:50:32What I used to do, an hour and a half, until I see a speech.
00:50:36And I'm like, all right, I'm gonna see my baby.
00:50:38We know there's no going back.
00:50:40I'm ragged.
00:50:41It's just all you talking to.
00:50:44Something to put on.
00:50:45You know?
00:50:46Then she gonna laugh.
00:50:49Whew!
00:50:51Man, today is finally release day.
00:50:54Police is getting out of prison, and this is gonna be the first time we've ever seen each other in
00:50:59person.
00:50:59Man, I'm ready to see my baby.
00:51:01I haven't slept.
00:51:02I didn't get to sleep.
00:51:03I tried to sleep.
00:51:05I couldn't sleep.
00:51:06I'm anxious.
00:51:08Y'all excited?
00:51:08Y'all ready?
00:51:09Oh, my God.
00:51:10My nerves are bad.
00:51:11Hello, sir.
00:51:12Good morning.
00:51:13Hello.
00:51:14Hello.
00:51:15Hello.
00:51:15What's up?
00:51:16I ain't sleep at all.
00:51:17You didn't sleep either?
00:51:18Ooh, that was...
00:51:18It was bad.
00:51:19It was bad.
00:51:20Okay.
00:51:20We're good.
00:51:22Y'all ready?
00:51:22Let's go.
00:51:23Let's do it.
00:51:24Oh, my goodness.
00:51:25We promise, PeePee!
00:51:26We promise!
00:51:30Let's go!
00:51:32I'm about to pick her up.
00:51:34It feels good.
00:51:35I got chills that are multiplying.
00:51:41What's up, bro?
00:51:42All right, .
00:51:43You good?
00:51:44Me and DJ, we go way back.
00:51:46We tight.
00:51:47That's my boy.
00:51:48I thought it would be good to have somebody there, bring somewhat of a comfort.
00:51:53I'm surprised you really talked to somebody for six years.
00:51:57That's a long time.
00:51:58You been waiting?
00:51:59You been waiting.
00:52:02I'm definitely overwhelmed.
00:52:05This is my first adult relationship.
00:52:08And it's going to be the first time that I'm seeing a person.
00:52:14All rich has ever seen me is literally this.
00:52:17It's like, he's never touched me, has never kissed me.
00:52:21You know, and it's kind of scary, because I don't know how to be in a relationship, but maybe I'm
00:52:27going to try.
00:52:28I'm going to give you what I got and hope you can handle it.
00:52:34How many minutes we have, 45 minutes, until we get to the date?
00:52:3845 minutes.
00:52:40My nerves are bad, Haley.
00:52:41Mine too.
00:52:43Like, I wonder how nervous Rich is, like, for real.
00:52:45Do we like him?
00:52:46What's going on?
00:52:46Um, I feel like he's a good dude.
00:52:50Like, I think she's going to hurt his feelings, to be honest.
00:52:55You know how that jail talk is, it's all hopes and dreams, and when they hit the pavement, it changes.
00:53:02Is this where we turn?
00:53:04Oh God, this is it, Haley.
00:53:05We here.
00:53:06Oh my God.
00:53:22I'm so nervous, you guys.
00:53:24I know.
00:53:26I'm just ready to hold her, man, and chill.
00:53:29Talk.
00:53:30Talk for real.
00:53:32You know what I'm saying?
00:53:33Not over a monitor recorded phone.
00:53:36Like, you know, I'm just ready to embrace my baby.
00:53:41We're in this together, buddy.
00:53:43Yo.
00:53:44If not, I got your head.
00:53:46Right?
00:53:46Yeah.
00:53:47Do you?
00:53:47Yeah, we are.
00:53:51Y'all made it!
00:53:53Woo!
00:53:55My cousin is!
00:53:57Wow.
00:53:59I made it.
00:54:01Ferris, huh?
00:54:03Guess so.
00:54:03She's about to get out.
00:54:04Oh my God.
00:54:0510 years old now.
00:54:06What up, boss, man?
00:54:07You good?
00:54:08All right.
00:54:08Good to meet you.
00:54:09How you doing?
00:54:10Hi!
00:54:10How you doing?
00:54:11Good old.
00:54:15Damn, I'm meeting the parents.
00:54:17I'm so glad they made it.
00:54:20Felicia's gonna be thrilled.
00:54:21But, you know, she comes from a Sicilian Italian family.
00:54:26I'm actually anxious.
00:54:29I thought she had been out about now.
00:54:32You be keeping it real.
00:54:32I'm just trying to play cool.
00:54:34I'm nervous.
00:54:35How are you?
00:54:36Are you excited?
00:54:38Good, man.
00:54:38Already.
00:54:38I know.
00:54:39She's so pretty.
00:54:41She's beautiful.
00:54:42She's a firecracker.
00:54:45Nine years for this child.
00:54:47Not going back.
00:54:47She's coming home.
00:54:48And she's a whole new person, so.
00:54:51Yes.
00:54:51And I truly believe she's gonna be a phenomenal young woman.
00:54:54I have seen this since she was 17, and she was like a tiny little girl.
00:54:59Super smart.
00:55:00Really nice.
00:55:01She's a grown woman, so.
00:55:05It's hard, and it's happy at the same time.
00:55:09Yeah.
00:55:10You got a good one.
00:55:11You got a rare find.
00:55:13Yes.
00:55:14Yes.
00:55:15I'm bad I'm kinda...
00:55:16I know.
00:55:16I know you do.
00:55:17But it is good to meet y'all.
00:55:19Yes.
00:55:20It is, genuinely.
00:55:21Everything is hard, for sure.
00:55:22Yeah.
00:55:22Our first impression of Rich was a super nice guy.
00:55:27But we don't know him that well yet.
00:55:31Oh, is that the van?
00:55:33No, it's not.
00:55:34No.
00:55:34That's not her.
00:55:35That's not her.
00:55:36Hurry up, baby.
00:55:37Come on, Fifi.
00:55:38Oh, wait.
00:55:39There's a van.
00:55:39There's a white van.
00:55:40There's a white van.
00:55:41That's her.
00:55:41That's her.
00:55:42Oh, my God.
00:55:42I think that's her.
00:55:44Yes.
00:55:45Yes.
00:55:46Yes.
00:55:48Oh, my God.
00:55:50Oh, my God.
00:55:50Hey.
00:55:51There she is!
00:55:53Hey!
00:55:58Oh, my God.
00:56:01Oh, my God.
00:56:02Oh, my God.
00:56:06The city below is calling.
00:56:09The city below is calling.
00:56:11Oh, my God.
00:56:14Oh, my God.
00:56:14The last night was just absolutely insane.
00:56:16Over the top.
00:56:18I know, like, we never left, but it was all brand new again.
00:56:22All at the same time.
00:56:28I already can't wait until tonight.
00:56:31So I will take her to probation.
00:56:34I'm going to give her the ring as soon as you guys get back.
00:56:36I think that's the time.
00:56:37Oh, my word.
00:56:38We had quite the fun last night.
00:56:41Oh, my.
00:56:42Ah, you're getting ready.
00:56:44Yay.
00:56:45I'm halfway there.
00:56:46Good morning.
00:56:50Nita got home last night, and we just had an amazing, amazing time with her.
00:56:55It's a very good day.
00:56:56It's a very good morning.
00:56:57Very good morning.
00:56:58Looking forward to more.
00:57:00We're counting down the hours.
00:57:02How many hours?
00:57:03No.
00:57:06I'm supposed to be my representative today.
00:57:08Do you meet him today?
00:57:10I don't know what happens today.
00:57:11You don't know what happens today?
00:57:12I don't know what happens today.
00:57:13I don't know what happens today.
00:57:14Okay.
00:57:15So you don't know how long we'll be there.
00:57:17I don't know how long we'll be there.
00:57:18Okay.
00:57:19You don't know how long we'll be there.
00:57:20Okay.
00:57:21I was a meth addict before, yeah.
00:57:23So I do have to do some relapse prevention and kind of like work on cognitive behavior
00:57:27therapy.
00:57:28Okay.
00:57:29I'll be ready.
00:57:30Okay.
00:57:30We'll see you when we get back.
00:57:31A lot of drug users, it's not like you're just done, you know what I mean, and it just goes
00:57:36away.
00:57:37Life happens all the time.
00:57:39You have to like really find out why you do drugs, you know what I mean?
00:57:42Heading off to...
00:57:44See the police?
00:57:46It's not the police.
00:57:47Yeah, it's not.
00:57:48These are the police.
00:57:49It's like police?
00:57:49Yeah, these are police.
00:57:57Oh, I think they might be here.
00:58:01Hubby, we're home.
00:58:02We made it.
00:58:03We did it.
00:58:04We did it.
00:58:04Yay.
00:58:04It didn't hold you too long?
00:58:06No, she does have to go back on Friday, though.
00:58:07We had to do the science and papers.
00:58:08Oh, thank goodness.
00:58:09Yeah, yeah.
00:58:09We had to get the real gig on Friday.
00:58:10Yes.
00:58:11Well, we've got something very special for you in here, Nita.
00:58:14Do you?
00:58:14We do.
00:58:15We do.
00:58:15Yes.
00:58:16I know you how much you hate surprises.
00:58:19Over the 60 days that she has been gone, there has felt like there has been a shift, like
00:58:24a shift in all of us.
00:58:26Help.
00:58:27You're freaking me out.
00:58:28I know.
00:58:29You don't like surprises.
00:58:30Don't be weird.
00:58:31Don't make this weird.
00:58:32We want to give her this ring for security.
00:58:36I know that coming into a relationship with two people who already have a solid relationship
00:58:41for 35 years, it can often feel like you're on the outside and that you'll never really
00:58:47have a place.
00:58:49So we decided that we want it to be a lifelong commitment, and that's what we want to show
00:58:53Nita tonight.
00:58:55What does this mean?
00:58:57What does this mean?
00:58:57Trent and I, what are you asking?
00:59:00This is a commitment ring from the two of us that we are committing for long term.
00:59:06How long is that?
00:59:07Forever.
00:59:08We want you to be a part of the rest of our lives, and this was not done lightly.
00:59:13Lean it.
00:59:13Oh, gosh.
00:59:15This is a token of the shift that has taken place.
00:59:18I'm not allowed by myself.
00:59:19You're not allowed by yourself.
00:59:20We are both in love with you and commit to.
00:59:23We choose you.
00:59:24Yep.
00:59:27You guys, this is so weird.
00:59:29This is the that people go, they're crazy.
00:59:32Sometimes we think we're crazy, but we're all good crazy.
00:59:35We're all good crazy together.
00:59:40I feel honored to be a part of your guys' marriage.
00:59:45Love you, baby.
00:59:46Love you.
00:59:49There's a big-ass diamond in the middle.
00:59:51Yep.
00:59:54They just move so fast.
00:59:56So, like, I wouldn't have ever made this kind of gesture to her.
00:59:59She's been in the closet thus far.
01:00:02Now we're just, like, telling the whole world how they feel about me, which feels, um, I feel honored.
01:00:09To yours, mine, and ours.
01:00:11Yes!
01:00:15I guess I'm trying to understand if you think it's a good surprise or a bad surprise.
01:00:19Time will tell.
01:00:22Never a dull moment.
01:00:23Never a dull moment.
01:00:24Let's go from it.
01:00:27I better 그러면 or not.
01:00:28I'm looking for a lightbulb.
01:00:30So, I'm trying to...
01:00:30And always try toiappa.
01:00:30Do you?
01:00:31Why do you need a shiftyπά Arnold?
01:00:32Like, I'll do that.