00:00I've just noticed that women will sometimes say something, but they'll do something completely
00:05different.
00:06Why do they deal so much in hints, in pointers, in imagery?
00:11Probably one feels a certain vulnerability.
00:13If I say something directly, I might be ridiculed.
00:17I want to keep a safe option open.
00:20So I'll say, I said it.
00:22Did I mean that?
00:24Probably I did.
00:25Probably I didn't.
00:26It's very, very stuffy here.
00:29Do I mean you should go out?
00:31Yes, I do mean that.
00:33But if you are someone who can't appreciate that, who is a bit insensitive, then I don't
00:37mean that.
00:38It's a bit of a skill.
00:42And it happens when you are insecure, when there is fear, when the relationship has a
00:50lot of love, then you're not afraid to be blunt.
00:54Because you know the other one will understand.
00:56You also know that being straight and blunt and direct deepens love.
01:02But when the most important values are missing, and there's a lot of fear, and there is a chronic
01:09need for security, then you don't open up.
01:12And they're the one who's on the other side.
01:12Here we go.
01:12Here we go.
01:14Here we go.
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