00:00When I'm having conversations with my friends and family members, especially in the situations when they are complaining about something,
00:06I try to help them see the issue clearly, but they don't accept it and they even say that we
00:12just want to be listened.
00:13The person who is displaying such behavior does not actually want to change.
00:17Listen to that person if you're listening opens up his or her listening.
00:22You have come to me, you want a shoulder to cry on? Fine, I'll offer mine. Take the shoulder.
00:28Try as much as you want to. But now that I have listened to you, I want you to listen
00:32to me.
00:33If such reciprocity can be there, then it's alright. However, if such a person wants to have a one-way
00:40thing,
00:40I'll come, I'll dump and I'll walk away. Then you are being used as a waste basket.
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