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90 Day: The Last Resort - Between the Sheets - Season 2 - Episode 13
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00:00Hey, my love.
00:03Thank you for support.
00:07OK.
00:13You are going to get to watch the never before scene,
00:17but it's true.
00:18Oh, yay.
00:19That's what we love.
00:24I have no problem.
00:26Just a dumb blaming for what her husband does.
00:31At that moment, it was, like, really scary for me.
00:35I really thought that fight was going to be, like,
00:38the fight that ends everything.
00:43I'm scared because it's OK.
00:46They're not the same as my family.
00:48They're a nightmare, and it comes a nightmare for me.
00:51What's going on?
00:52Some men deal with things differently.
00:55Oh, I don't know what's happening.
00:57I don't know what's happening.
01:04I am a person who practices ethical non-monogamy.
01:08I am married.
01:09What?
01:09Yes.
01:10Because Gino is a very analytical person.
01:13From giving him, like, a strong evidence that it had worked for Reba, our sex therapist,
01:20you know, he is going to feel comforted about it.
01:23And he's going to be more open to explore it.
01:30He would speak to Julia, like, I'm afraid that if I get into serious relationship with her and get married,
01:36she will take my business and my money.
01:38I didn't say anything like that.
01:39That's nothing like I said.
01:41Talk about being in the frying pan.
01:42We were in the heat of it.
01:44And if I'm honestly speaking, it felt like they were never going to align.
01:53Welcome back, baby.
01:56Are you ready?
01:58Nope.
02:00Yeah.
02:01Pretty much.
02:03When is this thing?
02:05Nice and comfy.
02:07Yeah.
02:07All right, ladies.
02:08This is the morning after Stacey's big fight with Darcy.
02:11And Darcy and Rob are working out in the gym.
02:14Let's do this.
02:18Tighten that tush.
02:19Oh, whose butt is that?
02:21Darcy!
02:23My ass hurts.
02:25Your seats are not comfortable at all.
02:27My nana hurts.
02:28I just had a vagina rejuvenation.
02:30What is vagina evolutionation?
02:33I have no idea.
02:35Vagina evolutionation?
02:36Is that what she said?
02:38Don't let her get down.
02:39And why is she telling Rob?
02:40What was your name again?
02:41Rob.
02:42Okay, so why weren't you at the dinner last night?
02:45I needed a minute yesterday.
02:46It was a rough day for me.
02:47I actually felt bad that Rob missed the dinner.
02:50I actually bought him food to let him know he's not alone and I still care about him.
02:54And I don't know if you remember, but you ended up coming into his room with me.
03:00And then you just laid on the bed while me and Rob was having a serious conversation.
03:05And then I remember what we were talking about.
03:07I remember we were talking about this like, hey, everything okay?
03:11I remember it was like, Rob, we not, we not, doesn't like you.
03:14We just hate you.
03:17So I remember we just spoke and but he's always like so upset.
03:21He's trying to play this offended boy.
03:23So I mean, we like trying to show support and fun time.
03:27What did I miss?
03:28You missed a lot.
03:30Stacy was really going at it.
03:32She said, what do you want to my husband?
03:35I said what I said.
03:37I said, are you kidding me?
03:38Are you crazy?
03:39Absolutely not.
03:40Never in a million years.
03:41I'm allowed to have valid feelings and voice my concerns.
03:45Because I have a voice and it will be heard.
03:48Yeah.
03:49I love Darcy, but she needs to understand he's your man.
03:52Yeah.
03:53And you do not share your man.
03:55Right.
03:55With no one.
03:56For every little thing.
03:57With your sister twin.
03:57Amen.
03:58Amen.
04:00What's up, guys?
04:01How are you guys?
04:03Mind if I join?
04:04Getting our spin on, yeah.
04:05All right.
04:06Sorry about last night.
04:08You know, the drama of Stacy and I.
04:10Oh, no.
04:11It's fine.
04:12Trust me.
04:12I've been dealing with a lot more than that.
04:14So it's okay.
04:16What do you think she wants from you?
04:17She wants more of me.
04:20And like, she wants to be in my house.
04:22She wants to be with my kids.
04:25She's always looking for a space.
04:29She's unpredictable.
04:30And I can't bring that into my home.
04:33Yeah, she is.
04:34Okay.
04:34Hi.
04:35Hi.
04:36Oh, wow.
04:37Oh, hey.
04:38How's going?
04:38I was looking for you.
04:39Oh, okay.
04:41She is.
04:42Okay.
04:44Yo, he was so nervous when he saw it.
04:47He's like, oh, .
04:48He looked like that moment he was hoping the bike had actual wheels.
04:51He could fucking cycle away.
04:53Oh, yeah.
04:56Just having a little workout.
04:58Natalie has a radar.
04:59She has an air tag on him.
05:00Because it's always, he's like, yo, you know, I needed this time away.
05:04I've been so stressed.
05:06Natalie.
05:07And then, three minutes later, Natalie shows up unexpected.
05:12Like, what the .
05:13It's the funniest .
05:16And you know how big that resort is?
05:19It's huge.
05:21Literally, the first day when I arrived at Gino, we got lost.
05:24That's how big the resort is.
05:26And she always finds him, no matter what it is.
05:30Oh, how do you switch the turn?
05:32Uh.
05:33It's probably turned up.
05:34I think you got to.
05:34I have to turn that.
05:35You got to turn the knob.
05:37So, I ran around an hour, and I didn't know Josh was going to be there.
05:42So, when I went out of my exercise, I saw Josh sitting on a bike.
05:49And I was just standing looking.
05:51I was not wanting to approach by the Josh face how he looked at me, that he's not happy
05:57to see me, and he was talking about me.
05:59And I was right.
06:01Your intuition was kicking in.
06:02I think if he would care, he would support me.
06:04He would say good stuff about me.
06:06He goes and spread around some nasty stuff.
06:08I'm going to let you guys enjoy your workout.
06:11I'm out of here.
06:13You always say some .
06:20Look at you.
06:21What the is wrong with you?
06:24Like, what the is going on right now?
06:27Look at you.
06:29Well, that was the only gym in the whole area.
06:32And like, I had planned to be there for like an hour and a half.
06:36And so, they were blocking the entrance to the gym, so I couldn't go back up.
06:41So, I was like sitting on the stairs.
06:43I was just overwhelmed.
06:44And I was like, can I just get a moment?
06:47I want to go work out.
06:48But, you know.
06:49I was stuck there for a good 30 minutes.
06:51Yeah.
06:52I was sitting there.
06:53I was like, I wonder if they're just going to be done with this.
06:55And then they just kept talking.
06:56So, didn't get my workout in.
07:06All right.
07:07The next clip we're going to watch is Ari and Vinny's therapy with James and Sarah.
07:12And it includes some never before seen footage.
07:14Oh, .
07:16Now, this is some unseen .
07:18Roll the clip, please.
07:20At this point, it feels like I'm still pretty uncomfortable to be around Vinny.
07:24And then like, I don't want to sit here and be like, you did this, you did that.
07:28But like, that was a big reason why I wanted to come here.
07:30Because I wanted him to be held accountable for the things that he's done that are not okay.
07:38So, if I'm hearing this right, she just came here to like, be like, you're a mother .
07:43I just want everybody else to know that.
07:45Yes.
07:45That's exactly what she just said.
07:48She only came here to basically villainize him.
07:51Mm-hmm.
07:52Seems like he's the only one who has done maybe worse than anyone else here.
07:56And he gets to just skate off.
07:59Look at him smiling.
08:01Wipe that smirk off your face, Vinny.
08:06It's a joke for him.
08:08I'm curious real quick.
08:08You're bringing up an important topic or something that's bothering you.
08:12And you're laughing.
08:13So, what's going through your brain?
08:14For me, it is not true.
08:18I remember that.
08:19I could see we all process in different ways.
08:22And sometimes it could be, you know, an uncomfortable laughter.
08:25Sometimes it could be a nervous laughter.
08:27For Vinny, in those moments, it was that he was checked out.
08:31You know, this moment of, I've heard this.
08:34Put a fork in it.
08:35I'm done.
08:35I'm checked out.
08:37Emotionally, what else can I do?
08:39What else can I say?
08:40It's almost like this is a joke.
08:42What are you guys thinking with all this?
08:44Let's just hear from you now.
08:46I think it's better for us maybe not to be together.
08:50This is hard to watch.
09:03It's always sad when a relationship ends, but at some point, you know, you have to realize
09:07that it's over.
09:08I didn't have any romantic feelings for Vinny for a long time because it's hard to feel romantically
09:13about someone who is just acts so awfully.
09:17And I felt like he had wanted to end it, but he wouldn't say those words.
09:22So, it's kind of a relief for him to say it.
09:23It's still frustrating.
09:25You know, the whole experience was frustrating.
09:27I'm hearing that this will not be moving forward in a romantic marriage relationship.
09:33Yes.
09:34Yeah.
09:36That's how I feel.
09:38It brought back, like, a lot of memories for me because I'd been there.
09:41I'd been through divorce with small children at the time.
09:44I feel like that's their blessing.
09:47God blessed them, you know, to be married so that they could have Avi.
09:50And God blessed me with two amazing sons from my first marriage.
09:54And although it ended in divorce, you know, I wouldn't have changed it for the world because
09:59I have two amazing sons.
10:02What are you doing?
10:04He loves to see us together.
10:06Yeah.
10:08Who's that?
10:10Hi.
10:14Oh, my baby.
10:16I want to tell you, no matter what, we're always a family.
10:19And you can always count on us to love you and be there for you.
10:23Yes, we are family.
10:26It's very hard for watching this clip.
10:35I actually hold my hand.
10:37Maybe she wants shows for Avi, like, you know, still we are friends.
10:41Still we are together, you know.
10:43I don't have a wish, like, a different thing, like, for save this marriage.
10:47But at the same time, we have a son.
10:49And that's why just we need to be, like, friends.
10:52And then we need to be involved, both of them, like, for our son.
10:55Maybe that's a step one, like, building for friendship strong.
11:01Avi, we're leaving, okay?
11:03I'm going hugs to you.
11:05Yeah, hug us.
11:06Hug together.
11:06Hug.
11:07Yeah, together.
11:09Okay.
11:11Bye.
11:14At the end of the day, I didn't get the vibe that he was 100% really wanting to work
11:20on their relationship.
11:21And that's why he was so happy.
11:23And he was messaging me.
11:24Benny was messaging you?
11:25Well, yeah.
11:27A few days after Benny left the retreat, I got a message from him.
11:30Like, he ordered me to his friends and he put likes on my pictures.
11:33And after he started, like, hey, something like this.
11:36So it was definitely some other reasons.
11:38And he was, like, checking the ground, like, maybe I'm single and I'm, like, I don't know.
11:43Welcome to my world.
11:44Yeah.
11:46Wow.
11:49I have this, um, weird connection with nature.
11:54Uh, I'm going to show you how, actually, I hugged the tree when I was younger.
11:59Okay.
11:59There are no trees, but you definitely have, uh, something great here, like this.
12:05Um, this is my tree.
12:07I'm going to hug it.
12:09Hey.
12:11Oh, hello.
12:12My friend.
12:14My love.
12:17Thank you for support.
12:22Okay.
12:26Good?
12:27Sounds like a zit.
12:29All right, you guys.
12:30This next clip is actually Stacy waking up the next morning after her fight with Darcy.
12:35Ooh.
12:36Uh-oh.
12:43Florian looks hungover, doesn't he?
12:45Stacy don't look too good either.
12:47Mm-hmm.
12:48Oh, God.
12:49My head.
12:50Any something to drink?
12:53Medicine.
12:54Mm-hmm.
12:57It's not over.
12:59It's hilarious, to be honest.
13:00Like, you're waking up all in a dress, you know, like, you're all glum, you know, like...
13:05Usually I sleep butt-naked.
13:07Oh, me too.
13:08Because I get...
13:09But I get hot flashes.
13:10That's why.
13:12Sexy.
13:13Just give me food.
13:13Just give me food.
13:14I need food.
13:15I need, like, hangover food.
13:16Like, I want empanadas.
13:18Can you...
13:18Can you...
13:19Can you get me empanadas?
13:20Don't have empanadas.
13:23I want empanadas so bad.
13:25I woke up craving, like, you know, when you're hungover, you want, like, greasy food.
13:29I saw some really good empanadas at the retreat.
13:32Some little cafe, and I was like, oh, my God, I was craving those so bad.
13:36I'm just, like, salivating.
13:37Think about them.
13:41A little good.
13:45It's not empanada.
13:47No, it's crucial.
13:49When I hungover, all what I want is ramen and soda.
13:54Isn't it, like, dry noodles?
13:56It's dry, but you put water, hot water there, and mixing, and it's best.
14:01Yeah.
14:01I mean, in England, I'd have a full English breakfast when I'm hungover.
14:05That's the best.
14:05Oh, it's fancy.
14:07It's like beans, toast, baked.
14:10It's so good.
14:12In America...
14:15Probably...
14:17I'm sorry.
14:18What did you say?
14:20Did you say what I think you said?
14:24You switched it up a little bit.
14:27I'm gonna get a shower.
14:28Go get the shower.
14:29Cool off.
14:30Oh, God.
14:31I gotta take a dump.
14:32Feel dirty when you make...
14:32You make...
14:33You make...
14:35You make a little mess in your bed, like, dirty.
14:38A dump in a shower.
14:39Dump, dump, dump there in a shower.
14:42Oh, God.
14:44What you gonna do?
14:47That does not seem like Stacy to me.
14:49I know that everybody, like...
14:52Everybody does it.
14:53I'm gonna go take a dump.
14:54A dump?
14:56I'd rather you say, I'm gonna go take a .
14:59It does sound trashy, right?
15:01It sounds crazy.
15:01It sounds like a 17-year-old boy.
15:04Are you a trucker?
15:04What are you doing?
15:05I don't wanna take a dump.
15:05I don't wanna take a dump.
15:07What the hell?
15:09Okay, we are now gonna watch Jasmine's Therapy with Reba.
15:13Hmm.
15:14Uh-oh.
15:17Have you been intimate at all during your stay here?
15:20No.
15:22He wouldn't.
15:23I cannot see myself in a sexless marriage.
15:30I understand where Jasmine's coming from.
15:34Because she is screaming from, like, the tip of the earth of, like,
15:39somebody please me.
15:44And, uh, and, you know, I love Gino to death.
15:48He's my boy.
15:48But, like, I gotta say he's probably at fault for how this relationship is going.
15:56I am a person who practices ethical non-monogamy.
16:00And I am married.
16:01What?
16:02Yes.
16:03My husband and I have been married for nine years.
16:05You look so calm, so happy.
16:09Gino is a very analytical person.
16:12He's an engineer, and that's the way he thinks.
16:14So it was like, okay, if I'm giving him, like, a strong evidence
16:17that it had worked for someone,
16:20and what better person than Reba, our sex therapist, you know,
16:24he is gonna feel comforted about it.
16:27So it gives me hopes.
16:29I felt, at the moment, so freaking hopeful.
16:32Gino's gonna die.
16:35Gino's gonna die.
16:39The way that our, like, agreement started is not the way that it is now.
16:44Right?
16:44We've gone through many iterations of what it looks like for us to be ethically non-monogamous.
16:50I had a lot of anxiety about sharing this with Jasmine, especially because I'm putting myself out there.
16:57But I think it was necessary.
16:59And so ultimately, me kind of coming out in this way was my attempt at representing ethical non-monogamy and
17:08polyamory in a positive way.
17:10It was not my intent for Jasmine and Gino to pursue polyamory.
17:15What I wanted was for them to have these conversations about, okay, well, if you won't have sex with her,
17:22you don't want to be alone, you guys don't want to end this, what is the other option?
17:26And that's how we begin to explore non-monogamy to begin with.
17:30It's not all, like, sunshine and rainbows, right?
17:33It takes a lot of conversations.
17:36It takes really good conflict resolution skills.
17:40And it does take a lot of self-awareness.
17:44It could be Gino and me.
17:46It could be.
17:48I think Reba was being a bad influence.
17:50That's terrible advice to tell Jasmine, because Jasmine is not you and Gino is not your man.
17:57I'm curious, when you did hear that Reba was an open marriage, were you shocked?
18:01There's people out there, I mean, I had to be, I eventually was going to know one of them, you
18:05know?
18:06Yeah, it's a lot of those people out there that are doing that nowadays.
18:10A sex therapist sure makes of anybody, I guess.
18:13Mm-hmm.
18:14Makes sense, right?
18:15Yeah.
18:15Like, oh yeah, it's not going to be the librarian, likely.
18:18Although you'd be surprised.
18:20Oh, hell yeah.
18:20Librarians.
18:22You know?
18:22You never heard old wives say about that?
18:25That's true.
18:25Yeah, yeah.
18:26I've never heard of the preacher's daughter.
18:27Those, uh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
18:29The quiet ones, right?
18:31I'm not going to tell you to blow up your life or your marriage for ethical non-monogamy.
18:36To have a open marriage.
18:38This is a conversation that you and Gino need to have before you guys decide to recommit.
18:44What I was trying to convey to Jasmine is polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, it works when there's a strong, solid
18:53foundation of trusting communication.
18:56And I think she didn't hear that part.
18:58I think that completely went over her head and she was like, oh, you're doing it so I can do
19:02it.
19:02Let's do it now.
19:04And I think Jasmine was hearing only what she wanted to hear.
19:08And I think that's really dangerous for her and Gino.
19:14Guess what, guys?
19:16Hmm?
19:16You already had to see some...
19:18Never before scenes!
19:20Whoa!
19:22I can't believe this!
19:25This is Josh and Natalie's therapy with Gini.
19:28Oh, boy.
19:29I never saw that.
19:31I don't know if you want to.
19:34So, why don't you just let Natalie know where you are, what's been going through your mind?
19:39My time here with you hasn't been great for me.
19:43And I feel like I'm continuing to try to build a relationship.
19:49And I'm constantly getting cut down.
19:51I'm constantly getting called names.
19:53It's just a constant battle for me.
19:57You flipped me off.
19:59You spit at my feet.
20:00You've been calling me trash.
20:01Where did you spit?
20:02At my feet.
20:04And I'm losing hope and faith that this can work.
20:12Listen to me.
20:13Like, how you started, like, oh, you did this to me, you did to me, you did that to me,
20:17you did that to me.
20:18Once again, you know?
20:19Like, that Harry's going to blame again.
20:22And you're going to blame it.
20:24Like, back and forth, back and forth, you're not going to figure out nothing, basically.
20:27You want me to bottle it up and not tell her what's bothering me?
20:31See, like, hey, me and you, lately, we've basically, like, been fighting so much.
20:36Like, short and cute and...
20:38You want me to be a little softer?
20:40Are you, are you, you're the king of soft, huh?
20:43All of a sudden, Eastern European man, strong feelings, sharp with the tongue.
20:48Oh, .
20:50What do you mean?
20:52Oh, boop, boop, boop, boop, boop.
20:54I think we need to answer the question right now, in this moment, with all of the hurt, all of
20:58the pain, where are you right now?
21:01What Josh did, we came together happy.
21:08After, he will speak to Julia, like, Natalie, I used to have feelings for her, but she is a person
21:16who takes from each man, she's in the relationship, something.
21:19And I'm afraid that if I get into serious relationship with her and get married, she will take my business
21:25and my money.
21:25I didn't say anything like that.
21:27She did.
21:28That's nothing like I said.
21:29And I know exactly, I know exactly what I said.
21:33I'm not sure if we're going to even focus on tools, right?
21:36We're all talking over one another, and I'm going to give you guys space.
21:39So I think, at this point, let's just take a break, and we'll reconvene.
21:42I'd like to meet with each of you individually.
21:45I remember this.
21:47I think that would be best.
21:48I think that's going to be the most productive.
21:50I can't anymore.
21:52For me personally, if I'm keeping it real, in my brain, I was like, this is a **** show.
21:56I mean, it was a lot.
21:58Talk about being in the frying pan.
22:00We were in the heat of it.
22:02What makes couples therapy difficult is when you're not aligned, when you're both not on the same page.
22:08So I think needing to back up and decide, what are our goals here?
22:12You know, how are we moving forward together?
22:14And I think that was the piece for them that we really needed to solidify.
22:18I mean, if I'm honestly speaking, it felt like they were never going to align.
22:23It's making it difficult for us to move forward.
22:26Okay, guys, I'll talk to you soon.
22:27Thank you, James.
22:32All right, ladies.
22:33Game time.
22:34Yeah.
22:35We had everyone send in their baby pictures.
22:39Oh, my God.
22:42Oh.
22:49I want to see if you can figure out who is you.
22:53That is nice.
22:54That is a good game.
22:55Do you have baby pictures?
22:57What do you think?
22:57I'm born like this?
22:58I don't know.
22:59I mean, this is going to be easy for everybody but the white guys.
23:04Everyone looks so similar.
23:09Maybe Julia.
23:10I think number two is Julia.
23:12Yeah.
23:13Which one do you think is 10?
23:14I think that's Sophie.
23:15Mine's so obvious because of the hair.
23:18Yeah.
23:18Like no one else.
23:19No, your eyes.
23:20That's the number one is you.
23:21Yeah, you're right.
23:22Yeah.
23:23Number one is me.
23:23That's cute little, dumb little boy.
23:26Look, me and Rob look the same.
23:28Look how cute our babies look be.
23:31Okay.
23:32Okay.
23:32Number six is Natalie.
23:34I think...
23:34Number six is Natalie.
23:36Look, you can see by her eyes.
23:37She's like piercing through the screen already.
23:40Which one is Jasmine?
23:43Wait.
23:44Who's her big boobs?
23:45Yes.
23:47Benny is number eight and it's so easy because Benny doesn't like to bottom his shirts and look at him.
23:55Yeah.
23:56Like I always show it.
23:57That's Benny always being like, you know, the center of attention.
24:00Who's number five?
24:01I don't know who that is.
24:03I'm sort of letting him know.
24:05That's Ari.
24:06Yeah, that's fine.
24:06I can tell by them big old eyes.
24:08Yeah.
24:08That's Ari.
24:09Eleven is you?
24:11Yeah.
24:13Josh is nine.
24:14That is so Josh.
24:16That is the most Josh baby I've ever seen in my life.
24:18Josh man.
24:20Who is that with the like...
24:22Seven?
24:22Yeah.
24:23Seven.
24:26That says that Gino.
24:28Gino just put a bowl on his head and cut like this.
24:31This has bowl cut.
24:32Since he was a kid, he was wearing a hat.
24:37Number three is a photo from the 1930s.
24:41Just look like a Florian shaped head.
24:43Oh my God.
24:44That's you?
24:45That's you?
24:49They didn't have color photos in Albania?
24:52I grew up in communism.
24:53What the ?
24:54Oh.
24:55You're lucky I get pictures.
24:57Wait, so where's Jasmine?
24:59What is Jasmine?
25:00She didn't have a baby photo.
25:02I set my room on fire when I was 10 years old and my photo album was there and I
25:07destroyed
25:07all my pictures.
25:08Oh no.
25:09Yeah.
25:10Oh.
25:11Who's number four with a cowboy hat?
25:14Who is this kid?
25:16Is that a boy or is that a girl?
25:18Hey girl, I have never seen before.
25:19I don't know.
25:21What?
25:24That is a Brenda.
25:26No.
25:29Shut the .
25:34It's a boy.
25:37You did that purpose because we knew you looked like a little girl in that photo.
25:41That's crazy.
25:42That's not grandma.
25:43His mom wanted girls so bad.
25:47So he had a long, blonde, long, curly hair when he asked.
25:53My gosh.
25:53I thought that was a girl.
25:55She went so bad.
25:57Oh my God.
25:58Well, Brandon could have been a beautiful girl.
26:02Yeah.
26:03You're gonna watch some never before scene footage right now.
26:06This is a bonus scene and it is a fight between Stacy and Darcy.
26:12Oh no.
26:13No, not that.
26:15Last night was crazy.
26:17I mean, I appreciate you coming.
26:19I know we all need to work on our relationship.
26:22I'm obviously here to work on my marriage.
26:24I want it to work out.
26:25That's why you're here because I feel like in a weird way you're part of the issue too.
26:31I think it happens with both of our relationships.
26:33Exactly.
26:33So I can't be the one blamed being a part of the issue.
26:36I never blamed you.
26:38We're not here to argue and fight.
26:40We need to squash this right now.
26:41There's a lot of issues.
26:42This is exactly what we need to fix.
26:45It's the same person.
26:47It's the same person working themselves into it.
26:51Right?
26:51Have you ever seen like a movie where like the character's talking to themself and like the angle still switches
26:57but it's the same person talking.
26:59And that's just what that reminds me of.
27:01I wanted to come in here calm and cool and collected.
27:03And that's what we're trying to do.
27:04So let's just take a moment.
27:06Let's breathe.
27:06This is what happens.
27:07We both get fired up.
27:08So let's just have a moment.
27:10Actually we did.
27:11I did learn a lot of breathing exercises since I've been here.
27:13So.
27:13I've had therapy in the past so I know exactly what to do.
27:16Let's just take a minute.
27:17Like 30 seconds.
27:22I want to get back to our powerful twin-ness.
27:27You know the relationship that Florian and I have is totally different than what you're thinking of here.
27:31But when you guys meet up it's always to talk me, talk Georgie.
27:35So.
27:35Who tells me this?
27:36I don't talk to you Stacy.
27:38I don't talk to you.
27:38I asked how you're doing.
27:40Let me talk sometimes because you don't let me talk.
27:44This trip is about you and Florian but I am here too.
27:47Do not take that away from me.
27:48You will not push me away.
27:50I think Darcy's wrong to show up to Stacy's couples therapy talking about this is about you and your husband
27:55doing therapy but I'm here now.
27:58Yeah.
27:59Which is defeating the whole you're here to focus on you and your man.
28:02Mm-hmm.
28:03And it actually reaffirms the fact that she is a distraction because why are you here?
28:07I guess I feel like they couldn't get to the root of the problem if they didn't bring her in
28:11there and talk to her too.
28:12You sit up drinking late at night with my husband.
28:15I don't drink with your husband late at night.
28:17We're not smoking.
28:18What the ?
28:18We're out together.
28:21I don't do that Stacy.
28:23That's a lie.
28:23We all go out together.
28:25Oh you never had a drink before?
28:26Yeah I do.
28:27Yeah you get ripped and get put to bed you low life.
28:31Look at yourself you trashy ass.
28:35You're the biggest flush.
28:37Uh oh.
28:38You are.
28:38You're the biggest flush.
28:39Stacy was, I've never seen her like that.
28:42I have never seen.
28:44Either of them actually.
28:45I was completely shocked how Stacy and Darcy were talking to each other and what they were saying to each
28:50other.
28:50I've always seen them so kind to each other and laughing and being funny and I've never seen them going
28:58at their throats like that.
29:00That was so crazy.
29:01Yeah that was a bit wild man.
29:04I have no problem.
29:05Just to up blaming for what my husband does.
29:10At that moment it was like really scary for me and for her too because I feel like we didn't
29:16know where to go from there.
29:19Now we run a business together.
29:20We're twins.
29:20We're family.
29:21We do everything together.
29:23And I really thought that fight was going to be like the fight that ends everything.
29:30Bye.
29:31Bye.
29:33Wow.
29:35**** more.
29:37Either of you have a good impression of like Stacy or Darcy.
29:41Yeah you know.
29:42I need things to like.
29:43I know.
29:43No you have to do this.
29:44You have to do this.
29:45And then you have to be overly nice too.
29:47Like oh you know I know Natalie just threw a softball at my eye and she broke my eye socket.
29:54But she's really going through a rough time right now.
29:57Eyes on the prize.
29:59Got it in the bias.
30:00That's Darcy right?
30:02Yes.
30:05Next up we are going to watch Brandon and Julia's family therapy and it includes some never before seen footage.
30:12Oh ****.
30:14Hi Betty.
30:15Hi Ron.
30:16Mom and Dad.
30:17Hello.
30:18How are you?
30:19Your parents look alike.
30:20Why do they look alike?
30:22They look alike.
30:22My parents?
30:23Yes.
30:24Like each other?
30:25No way.
30:25They look alike.
30:26Uh-uh.
30:28I guess just tell me what's it like with mom and dad in your world?
30:34Brandon always say how horrible I am.
30:37How we have like arguments in the home.
30:40And them only listen to his side but they never listen to my side.
30:43I'm never going to have support like that.
30:46Because Brandon number one.
30:50Ron trying to support me but Betty cut off every time when he trying to support me.
30:54Because when I call and say hey Brandon spend time more with computer not with me.
31:00Ron immediately get aggressive and says let me talk with him.
31:03What the hell?
31:04He have wife.
31:04But Betty shut this down and immediately walk away and tell him like shush, shush, shush.
31:09Everything like stop.
31:10So.
31:11I want my parents here.
31:13I want to have my support side.
31:15And I think that I have a great news today.
31:19I apply documents for my parents without telling anybody.
31:26And I have a day for interview for my parents to come here for a visit.
31:32What?
31:33Wow.
31:33And Joy, you didn't share this with him?
31:35Guys, it's not about you.
31:37It's about your son.
31:38What about me?
31:39You didn't include me in this.
31:40I tried to.
31:41This is it.
31:42This is another lie.
31:43It's another lie.
31:44This is.
31:45She cheated on me.
31:47You know that?
31:47What?
31:48What are you talking about?
31:49Yeah, in Russia.
31:50What?
31:50Yeah, you bring that up?
31:52I mean that is your son.
31:53That is your son.
31:55You always slay me for every single thing.
32:01She did tell you about her whole thing with her parents and she did cheat on you.
32:06So why is this?
32:07Oh my God.
32:09I hate watching the double standard.
32:12You having an issue with her lying and cheating and you getting up and walking away is this
32:17is your son.
32:18He's always blaming me for stuff.
32:20What?
32:20What?
32:21Do you think there's a reason that Julia never wants to talk about these things when it's
32:24like, it's like a one on one or, or just you guys in the therapist.
32:28Yeah.
32:28It's like always other people around when she brings these, this particular topic up.
32:32My guess is that I'm less likely to freak out on her.
32:37Because she's not, hey, I lied to you.
32:39Oh, okay.
32:40Like I'm not supposed to be angry.
32:42So that's my guess.
32:45Did you ever even go back in to finish that session with your parents and Julia?
32:48Nope.
32:48Too angry.
32:49I had to walk away.
32:51Brandon, can I talk to you for a sec?
32:55I'm scared because-
32:57It's okay.
32:58They're not the same as my family.
33:00They're, they're a nightmare and it becomes a nightmare for me because she gets mad because
33:03she plays the middleman in all their like drama.
33:07I get it.
33:07That's not easy.
33:08And then she gets so pissed off and then she takes it out on me.
33:11And I don't want to deal with that.
33:13I get it.
33:14You know, I think the first step-
33:15I don't want to be the punching bag for her when she takes her frustration out on.
33:20It's okay.
33:21It's another lie.
33:22I'm sorry.
33:24I was crying.
33:25Some men deal with things differently, you know.
33:29I love him.
33:29I'm crying.
33:30Oh!
33:31I don't know what's happening.
33:32I don't know what's happening.
33:34Oh!
33:36What the is wrong with him?
33:39Oh my God.
33:41This is why we come here to this therapy.
33:43And I say open.
33:44I open.
33:45Open for me.
33:46He just shut down every single time.
33:48But you don't hurt our son.
33:50You died of him, please.
33:51Shut the f*** up.
33:54Please don't give up on this.
33:58Death problems between husband and wife should remain between husband and wife.
34:04You know, some people can make that distinction and be like, I'm going to be neutral.
34:09Yes.
34:09But that's not the case of Brandon's parents.
34:12They are...
34:12This is our baby.
34:14You're hurting our baby.
34:16What are you doing?
34:17You cussed this b***h.
34:19Because no b***h is good enough for Brandon.
34:22He's perfect.
34:23How you dare?
34:24I'm like, oh my God, you're lucky because you live so nice.
34:29I would be like, f*** you.
34:31Okay?
34:32You created this.
34:34You raised this.
34:36It's your f***ing fault.
34:38Respectfully, I would say that.
34:41Are these okay?
34:42That's...
34:43I'll take these.
34:43These are fine.
34:44Just take me two seconds here.
34:46First, I fold it over.
34:48I make with the squares.
34:49And then I put the middle of this in the middle of my arm so that I don't sweat on
34:57my shirt.
34:59And that's what we call a man-paw.
35:03All right, ladies.
35:05We're now going to watch Ari and Binnie leaving the retreat.
35:07And it includes some never-before-seen footage, including Binnie packing to leave.
35:12I never saw that!
35:14I mean, I'm sorry.
35:40You want a hug?
35:44To me, this shows no matter the outcome, there's still growth in this moment.
35:50This was for the best.
36:01I felt like Ari put in the work.
36:04And she was there to fight for this marriage and for her family, almost to the detriment of herself.
36:11So Ari taking herself out of this unhealthy loop, she was doing herself a big favor.
36:17Actually, not just for herself, for her family as a whole, for her son.
36:21So I think we're seeing a good step forward for all of them.
36:32For me, I'm all right.
36:34I'm happy for my decision.
36:36But I miss everybody.
36:44Affection.
36:46Because she doesn't let it go.
36:48Now she has to let it go.
36:50No more affection.
36:53I got when I saw that bar, okay?
36:57His reaction was very careless.
37:01Thinking about like, okay, love is sure.
37:04I came to this world to be happy.
37:06I'm gonna be happy.
37:08Okay.
37:08Affection.
37:10It, you know, I don't have to do this anymore.
37:12I'm also not sure he knows what the word affection means.
37:15But it's a language thing, or is he just a bitch, or it's both?
37:18It's both.
37:19I feel so bad because I was supporting him.
37:23And now I can clearly see, where were you coming from?
37:27And why you were so frustrated.
37:29You wanted to bond with him.
37:30You wanted to reconnect to him.
37:32And he was focused on all the wrong things.
37:34And I wanted to say, I'm sorry.
37:37No, that's okay.
37:38I mean, I don't take it personally.
37:39I know that the time will tell.
37:42That's right.
37:43Time will show the reality of the situation.
37:45Absolutely.
37:45I love you big time.
37:49What's going on?
37:50What's happening?
37:51What's up, Benny?
37:52What you got your bags for?
37:53Benny?
37:53Me and Ari, we finished the therapy.
37:57Now we're going to divorce.
37:59Like, that's, we, we, we, we, we gone.
38:02It's done?
38:03Like, it's done.
38:04Just, yeah.
38:06You're going home?
38:07Yeah, it's better.
38:08Otherwise, just every time you're fighting.
38:12Thank you so much.
38:13I love you guys.
38:13Please contact me.
38:14God bless you.
38:15I love you guys.
38:16You know, like the Mike doesn't.
38:18Yeah.
38:19He just did a moonwalk.
38:20He seems really sad.
38:22Okay.
38:25Be so for real.
38:28We wish you and Ari and your son the best.
38:31Yeah.
38:31Bye, guys.
38:32Good luck.
38:33Good luck.
38:34Okay.
38:36I wasn't there.
38:37So this is the first time watching it.
38:39But it seems kind of disrespectful.
38:42I mean, he's just like, hey guys, I'm leaving.
38:43We're getting a divorce.
38:45Now I'm going to moonwalk.
38:46Now I'm going to do this little weird hat thing.
38:47Like, you know, it just seemed like he could care less that he's about to get divorced.
38:52And that is the mother of his kid.
38:55Like, there was no emotion.
38:58There was just like, he got his passwords.
39:00He's happy.
39:00Like, bye guys.
39:03How are you, my friend?
39:07Okay, let's go.
39:09Hmm.
39:14For years, I'm fighting for my son's happiness.
39:17But if you have the worst marriage, it is not good for my son too.
39:21Like, me and her will split.
39:24I think it's the best thing for my son.
39:28I try my best for trying to fix it.
39:31But I think now what I understand, I think it's better for me.
39:38I mean, I want to be like happy.
39:41That's why I decided.
39:45It's painful.
39:49That's sad.
39:52I do believe that when you marry someone, you commit to them.
39:57And even when it's hard, you're not supposed to give up.
40:00And I feel like I've failed.
40:02And I have to forgive myself.
40:07I do deserve happiness.
40:09And that's only going to come from inside myself.
40:16In hindsight, I never had an image of me and Vinyam growing old together.
40:20And I always assumed that he would cheat on me.
40:23Not because of anything I did wrong.
40:26Just because I saw that as a pattern for him and his past relationships.
40:29And I believe that unless you actively try to change something,
40:33you're going to just keep doing the same thing over and over again.
40:35So in a way, I did get my closure.
40:37But it just wasn't the way that I wanted it to be.
40:39I wanted it to just be like, yes, I did these things.
40:41These things are bad.
40:42And I'm sorry.
40:43And I would have been like, oh, great.
40:44But at the end of the day, you can't force anyone to give you the things that you need.
40:49The main important thing now is obviously my son.
40:51And my hope for the future was that Vinyam would now focus entirely on being the best father to Avi.
40:58And that's what I'm doing every day.
41:04Next time on Between the Sheets.
41:06I'm going to take you tonight.
41:09Better be careful.
41:11Toss you.
41:12What was going on in the backseat of the van?
41:14It might look like a cross, but it was kind of spell sync.
41:18Oh.
41:20She just found out you could be cheating on her and you're getting angry at her for what?
41:23I'm so mean.
41:24She has the right to be upset.
41:25Maybe standing up for Stacey how I would have liked someone to stand up for me when Rob would talk
41:29to me like that.
41:29Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice.
41:33Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice.
41:35Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice.
41:37Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice.
41:39Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice.
41:39Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice.
41:41Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice.
41:44Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice.
41:46Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop raising your voice. Stop
41:59There was two hot blonde chicks, okay,
42:03that Darcy saw you leave the club with.
42:05One of them saw Georgie tonight,
42:06and you know what she told Georgie?
42:09Tell Florian, thank you for taking me home that night.
42:12He's got a lot of numbers on his phone
42:14that I don't know who they are.
42:15I even think he puts, like, guys' numbers,
42:17but it's, like, really a girl's number.
42:19Like, I feel like he's learning the tricks of the trade.
42:23Stays. Stays.
42:24So all that work we did at the retreat at that point,
42:26flushed it down the toilet.
42:29So all that work we did at that point,
42:30we're going to be able to do it.
42:30Bye.
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