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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Oh my god, I'm so happy I see you.
00:00:05Why are you so dressed up?
00:00:06It's Melbourne Cup Day.
00:00:08Yep.
00:00:08And time is a factor, so.
00:00:10The last thing I thought was, one, to bring Chris,
00:00:14and two, to take me to a bar the second I landed at the airport.
00:00:19I'm here.
00:00:23Wonderful, mama.
00:00:25Nice to meet you.
00:00:26I know how many concerns my mom has about our relationship.
00:00:32So, mama, how do you feel that you finally met Javon?
00:00:35So, I just hope that things continue to go well.
00:00:44Birkan has admitted to me that he has a substantial amount of debt.
00:00:49He talks a lot about dambling.
00:00:52If you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:00:55I would really appreciate it if you would let me come out there
00:00:59and see him for myself.
00:01:01I don't know.
00:01:02I want to talk to him about it first.
00:01:05Okay.
00:01:07We should solve our problem in there.
00:01:09I will win.
00:01:10Oh, you will.
00:01:13So, you still want me to meet your dad?
00:01:16I already told my dad that we were here, so I cannot go back.
00:01:21I'm feeling more nervous about this meeting with her family.
00:01:26I mean, Trish is starting to warm up a little bit,
00:01:29but it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:01:35I've been married five times, and I am still married.
00:01:39Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:01:42They will banish you.
00:01:43I'm sorry.
00:01:44She caught in his camera.
00:01:46What?
00:01:47She's there is camera.
00:01:48You didn't just lie about the marriages.
00:01:51It's going to be destroyed by the women.
00:01:54I can't tell him that.
00:01:56You have to.
00:01:59So, you're breaking up with me because I was with the guy before you.
00:02:04Because you're lying to me, I can't move on with you.
00:02:08I make a lot of my energy to be with her, but I feel betrayed.
00:02:14You're just going to walk out and leave me here by myself?
00:02:16You can't enjoy it with the view.
00:02:19You're an asshole.
00:02:21I did all of this to try to be with someone,
00:02:24and, like, I get broken up with again.
00:02:32I'm done.
00:02:36I'm done.
00:02:38I'm done.
00:02:49I'm done.
00:02:53Come on.
00:02:58What are you feeling?
00:03:02Hungover.
00:03:11I couldn't sleep.
00:03:12I, um, I'm too worried about Daniel and what's going on with Daniel
00:03:17and what's going to happen next, and I don't, I don't know.
00:03:23I don't know.
00:03:26Last night, I told Daniel that I was married five times
00:03:30and I'm still married.
00:03:32He didn't react very well at all.
00:03:34So, I decided to get another room.
00:03:38I'm worried that I've lost Daniel.
00:03:40I've lost respect.
00:03:42I feel hopeless.
00:03:44What am I going to do now?
00:03:47Did you see Anna talking to him?
00:03:49I tried to call him, and then about 11.08 p.m.
00:03:52I said, I love you with all my heart.
00:03:54He says, I don't think you do.
00:03:57Then what stops you from telling me those things?
00:03:59I said so many fears.
00:04:01He's asking me fears of what?
00:04:03And I say fears of losing you.
00:04:05He has not said one word of I love you.
00:04:07He has not said, um, he wants to be with me.
00:04:11Um, so basically, yeah, he, I don't know.
00:04:16I don't, I don't, I don't know where he is right now,
00:04:19what he's thinking or what his feelings are.
00:04:29Daniel doesn't know that I have made plans
00:04:31to take him away for a few days,
00:04:33and we're supposed to leave today.
00:04:35Really bad timing for me to tell him all this
00:04:37when I've already paid, made plans
00:04:39to take him somewhere special,
00:04:40and he doesn't even know about it.
00:04:44So, what I'm hoping is seeing him,
00:04:47telling him that I made plans,
00:04:49it's already paid for,
00:04:50and hopefully, he'll come with me.
00:04:55And hopefully, we'll be able to work something out.
00:05:03Last night, I couldn't sleep
00:05:05because of what transferred.
00:05:08She was drunk.
00:05:11And she left the room,
00:05:13so I didn't go after her, I left her.
00:05:23She wanted to talk to me this morning.
00:05:26I would talk to her,
00:05:27but I have to let her know that she have gone wrong.
00:05:32I'm kind of like on a mission.
00:05:35I'm hoping for my happily ever after.
00:05:38And I think the fact that Daniel reacted this way
00:05:41shows that he's desperately in love with me,
00:05:43and he's heartbroken.
00:05:46So, I'm going to wipe the tears,
00:05:48and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
00:05:50I'm not giving up and walking away
00:05:52like I have every other relationship.
00:05:54This one is good,
00:05:56and I'm going to fight for what's good.
00:06:14I can't say it enough.
00:06:17I'm really, really sorry about not telling you everything.
00:06:25Do you know the time I slept last night?
00:06:28No.
00:06:30Around 5 a.m.
00:06:31Because I cried throughout the night.
00:06:34Because I never expected you to behave the way you did.
00:06:39I don't expect you to forgive me all at once.
00:06:42I'm not asking you to trust me all over again.
00:06:44I'm asking you to give me a chance.
00:06:46Just work with me and see if we can rebuild on things.
00:06:59I'm not rejecting you yet, okay?
00:07:04But we have to talk to my uncle.
00:07:11This is something that concerns tradition.
00:07:14You and I have defined the rules, the law,
00:07:17because I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:07:24I'm asking you to work with me.
00:07:27I don't understand why everybody has to be involved in everything
00:07:31because it's not going to end well.
00:07:33I'm asking you, you.
00:07:39I'm relieved that Daniel is willing to try to forgive me.
00:07:43But at the same time,
00:07:45I feel awful that the uncle has to be involved.
00:07:49I don't understand.
00:07:50It's like he wants to put a scarlet letter on me.
00:07:55We have to talk to my uncle.
00:07:57If I didn't talk to my uncle about this,
00:08:00the ancestors, they might come after me.
00:08:08Well, don't call your uncle just yet.
00:08:12I already planned for us to have a small romantic getaway,
00:08:16and I want to know if we can go on this trip together.
00:08:23Sir, when is the trip?
00:08:26Today.
00:08:32Is this a kind of a trap?
00:08:34I had already planned it.
00:08:36It wasn't...
00:08:37There's no agenda.
00:08:39It's just me and you together.
00:08:41I planned it.
00:08:42I paid for it.
00:08:43I'm going to lose all the money I put down on it,
00:08:45and I don't have much more money left, Daniel.
00:08:55Okay.
00:09:00I am upset about all her lies, all her stories.
00:09:04Why she love Lisa.
00:09:07She came to Nigeria to be with me.
00:09:09She spent the money,
00:09:11and she told me that she have not been with her ex
00:09:14for nine years.
00:09:16It's been a long time.
00:09:18So that's why I am trying to forgive her.
00:09:22You should start packing.
00:09:24The drive is two to three hours away.
00:09:28That's fine.
00:09:34Before his uncle knows about my lies,
00:09:37I need to tell Daniel the full truth about being with women.
00:09:41I don't want him to go and tell his uncle one thing,
00:09:43and then have to go back and tell him again.
00:09:45Let's go.
00:09:47Whether he forgives me or not,
00:09:49I have to finish telling him the truth.
00:10:10Oh, I love mountains.
00:10:12I do, too.
00:10:14This is the mountain by me.
00:10:16This is Mount St. Helens.
00:10:18I can literally see boobs here.
00:10:22From now on, I'm going to call here Mount Boobs.
00:10:26That's Mount Boobs.
00:10:28You do know that you're ridiculous, right?
00:10:31Boobs bounced.
00:10:40I love that you figured out all of the things
00:10:43that I really like and surprised me with them.
00:10:51So sweet of you.
00:10:52We are mixing everything.
00:10:53History, art, holiday, vacation, love,
00:10:57everything involved.
00:10:58Everything on this trip.
00:11:00It's fantastic.
00:11:02Last night, Birkan and I got back to Izmir
00:11:05after our romantic getaway in Cheshmay.
00:11:09And today, Birkan and I are going on a trip
00:11:12to go see the ancient ruins.
00:11:15Are you excited?
00:11:16I'm really excited.
00:11:18Are you excited?
00:11:19Yeah.
00:11:21Are you full of surprises all the time?
00:11:24So I am a walking surprise machine.
00:11:28I want to have fun and enjoy the culture with him
00:11:31as much as possible before I leave.
00:11:33But since my conversation with Michael,
00:11:36I've been feeling so torn on how to handle this situation.
00:11:40It's really weighing on my mind.
00:11:43And then something happened this morning
00:11:45that I need to tell Birkan about.
00:11:48And I know he's not going to be happy.
00:11:55Okay.
00:11:56Okay.
00:11:57Oh my God.
00:11:57This is amazing.
00:12:03Today we visit Ephesus.
00:12:06They have obsession with marble.
00:12:10It's like so peaceful through here too.
00:12:17It is one of the oldest places
00:12:20that Greek people built from Texas Central DC.
00:12:24Yeah.
00:12:25That's adorable.
00:12:28The Ephesus is one of the seven ancient
00:12:31historical places in the world.
00:12:35This place is huge.
00:12:36This place trying to talk.
00:12:40Nobody to listen.
00:12:42I love this place.
00:12:44I love this place too.
00:12:46Some of these ruins are over 3,000 years old,
00:12:49which is insane to think about.
00:12:51And being a teacher,
00:12:52I love seeing some of this history.
00:12:54So good.
00:12:56Every single surface is like carved or etched
00:12:59and just stunning.
00:13:02The detail in everything,
00:13:03even the floor is incredible.
00:13:05Let's take a picture.
00:13:07Okay.
00:13:08With the hearts.
00:13:09Well, it's mine's heart.
00:13:11Yeah, yours is heart.
00:13:12There it is.
00:13:12There's three hearts in one photo.
00:13:15Love it.
00:13:16That's adorable.
00:13:16I like it.
00:13:21Hey, kitty kitty.
00:13:26I believe these all are some protective spirits
00:13:30about this place.
00:13:31You know?
00:13:32Yeah.
00:13:32Chats.
00:13:33You want to have a seat?
00:13:34Okay.
00:13:36Okay.
00:13:38Okay, that's cold.
00:13:39It is a little chilly, but...
00:13:41Yeah.
00:13:43Ah.
00:13:46I hope you know
00:13:49that I really do
00:13:51want this relationship to work.
00:13:54Yeah.
00:13:55That makes you worse.
00:13:58But...
00:13:58I think I have...
00:14:01Way more concerns about it than you do.
00:14:06So...
00:14:07The other night,
00:14:08I called my friend Michael.
00:14:12Why?
00:14:13Because I wanted to get his opinion
00:14:16on my concerns
00:14:18and the things that I look at as red flags.
00:14:22You have concerns?
00:14:25Yeah.
00:14:26About our relationship?
00:14:28I have concerns.
00:14:29I have concerns.
00:14:29And now Michael has the same concerns.
00:14:31I have concerns
00:14:33because you...
00:14:34Because you are still communicating with Michael.
00:14:38And talking about our relationship.
00:14:42He has no place in our relationship.
00:14:48Well...
00:14:50He wants to come here.
00:14:54Perfect.
00:14:57There is no point.
00:15:02He already bought a flight.
00:15:08What?
00:15:12He's coming.
00:15:15Yeah.
00:15:18Without asking.
00:15:20Without telling anything.
00:15:23Nothing.
00:15:24This is ridiculous.
00:15:30You know how much
00:15:32I've been anticipating her coming.
00:15:34Yeah.
00:15:34But, um...
00:15:35You know, I'm glad you came
00:15:36because you're one of my best friends.
00:15:38Cheers.
00:15:39Cheers.
00:15:40I feel like that cheers
00:15:42was about Chris.
00:15:44Yeah, it was.
00:15:45Thank you for coming.
00:15:46You're welcome.
00:15:47I just flew around the world
00:15:48but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:15:50Who does that?
00:15:54So you ready to meet my family?
00:15:56I just want to make sure
00:15:57that I'm the man that you want
00:15:58to be introduced to your family.
00:16:00I told you.
00:16:01I told you yes.
00:16:02So what else do you want?
00:16:04It seems like you are hesitating.
00:16:06Just tell me.
00:16:19Thank God you guys are here
00:16:20Thank God you guys are here to do my luggage.
00:16:21Maybe put that little one in the bag.
00:16:23Yeah.
00:16:24Maybe you should offer to open the door for me
00:16:26so I can get in the car
00:16:27because I'm really full.
00:16:28You put her in I'll do the bag.
00:16:29I know how this is going to go actually.
00:16:31Jump in we'll get the rest.
00:16:35Thank you boys.
00:16:37That's why I have two of you.
00:16:39Two boyfriends.
00:16:40Chris you want to sit up here with me
00:16:41we could be a trio.
00:16:43Jesus Christ.
00:16:44You give give give me your heart
00:16:49You're pumping through my veins
00:16:51You make me feel alive
00:16:54Elise you're going to have to give me a horse number
00:16:56I'll back it for you.
00:16:57And I've got about a thousand dollars on the thing
00:16:59so I'm not not watching it.
00:17:01You're an idiot.
00:17:02What do you mean?
00:17:03I'm going to win.
00:17:04No one ever wins in the Melbourne Cup.
00:17:05Yeah I know except me.
00:17:06I'll give you the names and you tell me
00:17:08which one sounds the coolest.
00:17:09Oh wait that's so fun.
00:17:10Okay.
00:17:11What's the name?
00:17:11Chevalier Rose.
00:17:13Presage Nocturne.
00:17:14Middle Earth.
00:17:15Maidan.
00:17:16Al Riffa.
00:17:17No.
00:17:18Buckaroo.
00:17:18I like Buckaroo.
00:17:20That was cute.
00:17:21There's 24 of them.
00:17:21Do you want to hear the rest?
00:17:22Yes I do.
00:17:22Okay.
00:17:24It feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:17:28Not a sort of a dream anymore.
00:17:30I can touch and you know kiss and hug
00:17:32the girl that I've been speaking to for so long.
00:17:35I wanted to be excited about being here with me.
00:17:38So we're taking her out on the town
00:17:39to see the biggest event of the year.
00:17:41The Melbourne Cup.
00:17:43But unfortunately we're running quite late.
00:17:46Traffic today sucks.
00:17:48What do you think of Sydney so far?
00:17:51It's cute.
00:17:52Like oh wait you're going down the wrong way.
00:17:54You scared the **** out of me.
00:17:56No we're not.
00:17:57We're in Australia.
00:17:59Oh my God.
00:17:59**** hell.
00:18:00I thought you were on the wrong side of the road.
00:18:02Oh that scared me.
00:18:04At least 200 metres to our rise of the place that we're going to be living.
00:18:08What sweeters?
00:18:10Oh **** you guys working feet.
00:18:12**** I don't know.
00:18:14I'm excited.
00:18:16Pretty central.
00:18:16Not yet.
00:18:20You **** ding me.
00:18:22Oh we missed the Melbourne Cup race.
00:18:24Oh.
00:18:25Ah.
00:18:26But everyone will still be at the bar.
00:18:27Good.
00:18:29Well I'm down a thousand.
00:18:31I'm going to get drunk.
00:18:33We missed one of the biggest days of the year because of airport delays and traffic.
00:18:38We're here.
00:18:40But honestly I don't care.
00:18:43I have a lease with me so I'm happy exactly where I am.
00:18:49There'll be another one next year.
00:18:50Think about me for a moment.
00:18:52I lost money.
00:18:53I came to the airport for now.
00:18:54I missed the Melbourne Cup.
00:18:55Nah.
00:18:59Wait this is so bad.
00:19:00I literally am not even wearing underwear.
00:19:03That's a bold choice with that dress.
00:19:05I can do it.
00:19:06Like the games are very bullshit.
00:19:08Yeah.
00:19:09Perfect.
00:19:20Oh you guys have McDonald's here.
00:19:22Yep.
00:19:23We're not that down the line.
00:19:25We're not that third world.
00:19:25Third world?
00:19:26We have healthcare.
00:19:34Yeah.
00:19:34Y'all.
00:19:35Cheers.
00:19:36This is much needed.
00:19:38Y'all.
00:19:39Thanks.
00:19:40Thanks.
00:19:40Wait I think we need to make a cheer.
00:19:42Yeah my cheers is I was about to do it.
00:19:43So you know you know how much I've been anticipating her coming.
00:19:47Yeah.
00:19:48But um you know I'm glad you came.
00:19:51Because you're you're one of my best friends and you know as soon as you come I want you
00:19:58to meet my best most entertaining friend.
00:20:00And so let's say cheers to you getting here.
00:20:03Cheers.
00:20:04Cheers.
00:20:05Cheers.
00:20:08I feel like that cheers was about Chris.
00:20:19I just flew around the world but you're toasting to your buddy over me.
00:20:24I'm lost.
00:20:25Like who does that?
00:20:27Okay.
00:20:28I'll start again.
00:20:28I know how far you traveled what you've given up and you know what it's taken to get here.
00:20:34So I am so excited for the next three weeks.
00:20:38So this cheers is to you.
00:20:41To you.
00:20:44Thank you so much for letting me drag you out.
00:20:48I didn't realize it was just like such a big holiday.
00:20:50It's a national thing.
00:20:51We have to go out and get drunk on Melbourne Cup.
00:20:52It's the rules.
00:20:54I would imagine the Miami party scene is wild right?
00:20:56It is wild.
00:20:57I used to be out probably five nights a week.
00:20:59But like I would say like this past I don't know seven eight months I've slowed down.
00:21:04Don't get me wrong.
00:21:05Like I like a fun night but I'm definitely trying to chill out.
00:21:09Do you guys go out a lot here?
00:21:16We party a bit yeah.
00:21:18Like I socialize a lot.
00:21:20It's part of my job.
00:21:22He's out on boats most weekends.
00:21:25His job is to drive boats and often times this party is involved with that.
00:21:29Okay.
00:21:30I mean give me a reason to not want to go out.
00:21:33I think I've found it.
00:21:35Yeah?
00:21:36Yeah.
00:21:39Listen like there's nothing wrong with going out and having a good time.
00:21:43But I'm looking for a guy that's more ready to slow down.
00:21:45Like having nights in with me and my cat and snuggling.
00:21:49And I want Josh to be ready to change for himself.
00:21:52Not me, you know?
00:21:53On top of that, like it seems very weird to me that Josh was struggling financially.
00:21:59But he parties a lot.
00:22:01Like I'm concerned.
00:22:02Is he like really irresponsible?
00:22:04I just got here.
00:22:05I really just want to focus on the positives.
00:22:07But I worry about that.
00:22:09Yeah.
00:22:10Yeah, all right.
00:22:12Cheers.
00:22:12Cheers.
00:22:13To not party anymore.
00:22:16I'm not choosing that.
00:22:39How is he?
00:22:41He's okay.
00:22:42Hey, look at you standing, my baby boy.
00:22:52He seems better today.
00:22:55Oh, no, no, no, no, don't let him run.
00:22:57Hmm?
00:22:58Last night, Giovanni and I finally arrived to Cavite.
00:23:01A little dirty.
00:23:02We were supposed to have a nice dinner with my mom.
00:23:06But my cat, Mito, got sick.
00:23:09So we had to run him to the vet.
00:23:12I look at you and your cone.
00:23:14You don't like the cone.
00:23:16Nobody likes the cone.
00:23:17Yeah, obviously.
00:23:19Unless it's ice cream cone.
00:23:20I am so relieved that Mito is okay.
00:23:26And so today, my mom will come over to make us breakfast
00:23:31and finally get to know Giovanni more.
00:23:35Oh.
00:23:38Giovanni!
00:23:41What?
00:23:43Did you throw something in the toilet?
00:23:46It's clogged.
00:23:49What happened?
00:23:50What did I do wrong?
00:23:52No tissues in the toilet.
00:23:54It's not going to flush.
00:23:56I don't remember doing that.
00:23:58Like, maybe I did and I wasn't aware.
00:24:01I don't want to see it.
00:24:02Why?
00:24:03I don't want to keep looking at your big American poop.
00:24:07Are you crazy?
00:24:10Okay, my bad then.
00:24:11Aw.
00:24:12Here's the thing.
00:24:13The papers in the Philippines don't dissolve in water.
00:24:17Mm.
00:24:18Oh, that's why I put this here.
00:24:21I feel really weird throwing away toilet paper
00:24:24that I've already wiped with my butt into the garbage.
00:24:28That's why you have to use bidet first before you wipe.
00:24:31How do I do it?
00:24:32Like, I spread my ass cheeks like this,
00:24:36and then I just...
00:24:38Yes!
00:24:39That's the point of the water.
00:24:41Water was created to clean your butt.
00:24:46I'm going to go wash off Mama's house.
00:24:49All right.
00:24:49Okay.
00:25:02Oh, Ma, you cooked.
00:25:05Looks good.
00:25:08Morning.
00:25:09Yeah, good morning.
00:25:09Man, that's a lot of food.
00:25:12Are we going to be able to eat all this?
00:25:13Yes.
00:25:14Oh, okay.
00:25:15Ah.
00:25:17You have to tell me what everything is.
00:25:20Tilapia.
00:25:21Okay.
00:25:22And your favorite chicken adobo with boiled eggs.
00:25:28Oh, okay.
00:25:30And, of course, we have some rice.
00:25:31Okay.
00:25:32Dig it.
00:25:34This is definitely not the typical breakfast I'm used to.
00:25:37I was like, damn, is this breakfast or is this dinner?
00:25:40But the food is great,
00:25:42and I'm so happy to finally be getting some quality time
00:25:45with my mother-in-law.
00:25:46Well, you're gone.
00:25:48Hmm.
00:25:49Musta naman yung tulag mo kagabi.
00:25:51My mom's asking, how was your sleep last night?
00:25:55My sleep was okay.
00:25:56The cat was making a lot of noise.
00:25:59The rooster, the karaoke.
00:26:02There's so many things happening.
00:26:04Yeah.
00:26:04Yeah.
00:26:04It's a home.
00:26:05Yeah.
00:26:07But I'm so happy that you're here.
00:26:10She says she's happy that you're here.
00:26:12Okay.
00:26:13How long until you're here?
00:26:16Till when are you staying here?
00:26:19I'll probably be here like,
00:26:20I don't know, probably like two more weeks.
00:26:23It's so fast, right?
00:26:25She says it's too fast.
00:26:26I don't know.
00:26:28Why not one year?
00:26:31Yeah, I gotta go home sometime.
00:26:34I don't want to.
00:26:36It was about my daughter.
00:26:40It was about my daughter.
00:26:41Come on now.
00:26:45I'm happy that Gabon came here
00:26:48in our Philippines, in our home.
00:26:52But what I feel like
00:26:54is that it's been a long time
00:26:57when I came here in the Philippines
00:27:01that I was thinking
00:27:03about how my daughter has been waiting for me.
00:27:07In six years of waiting for my daughter,
00:27:11I don't know what I'm waiting for for her.
00:27:13She said for six years
00:27:15that my daughter has been waiting for you.
00:27:18I was so worried about her.
00:27:22Because she was, sometimes,
00:27:24I could see she was losing hope.
00:27:26And also me.
00:27:29I'm sorry it took so long though,
00:27:31but I'm gonna make it up.
00:27:32I'm gonna come back very soon.
00:27:34I promise, okay?
00:27:36All right?
00:27:52I understand why my mom is being skeptical.
00:27:56I mean, it took him six years to see me.
00:27:59And we've been married for three years
00:28:02and we still don't have
00:28:04a definite plan for the future.
00:28:08He didn't even apply for a spousal visa.
00:28:12What does that mean?
00:28:15We can't be going on
00:28:17with this long-distance relationship
00:28:19for the rest of our lives.
00:28:21I don't want to.
00:28:22Right now,
00:28:23I don't feel secure about the future.
00:28:31Can we just be done
00:28:33with the country of Morocco?
00:28:36Don't be mad,
00:28:39but don't be mad.
00:28:43Who is it?
00:28:45Mohammed.
00:28:46Oh, my God.
00:28:58I don't know.
00:29:00I don't know.
00:29:01I don't know.
00:29:02I don't know.
00:29:05I don't know.
00:29:07I don't know.
00:29:08I don't know.
00:29:10I don't know.
00:29:12I don't know.
00:29:13I don't know.
00:29:14I don't know.
00:29:15I don't know.
00:29:15I don't know.
00:29:21It's been a couple of days since I got dumped and left in the desert.
00:29:28I didn't want to go back to the same Riyadh that I was staying at with the Ed.
00:29:32It just felt too sad to go all the way back there by myself.
00:29:37Luckily I was able to make some calls.
00:29:41I'm looking for a Riyadh and I was wondering if your place is available for tonight.
00:29:50Just one person, I just got dumped.
00:29:56Thankfully the guy at the front desk helped me get a taxi back to Marrakesh.
00:30:08And somehow I made it back to the new Riyadh in one piece.
00:30:17But now I'm just not totally sure what I'm doing.
00:30:33Emma!
00:30:34Maddie!
00:30:35Hi!
00:30:36I miss you!
00:30:38You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
00:30:40I miss you so much!
00:30:43What's up?
00:30:44What's wrong?
00:30:45What, can you tell I'm sad today?
00:30:47Yeah, I can tell in your eyes.
00:30:49No, I'm like really sad.
00:30:51I like don't want to...
00:30:52Wait, I don't want to cry already.
00:30:53Hold up.
00:30:56Sorry.
00:30:57What happened?
00:30:58What happened?
00:30:59Um...
00:31:00So...
00:31:01Yesterday...
00:31:03Basically...
00:31:04I like told Zia everything about like Muhammad.
00:31:08And it literally Maddie went to s***.
00:31:11Like we got into a huge fight and it ended up with him like fully breaking up with me and
00:31:17leaving me alone in the desert by myself.
00:31:21This is odd.
00:31:22Yeah.
00:31:25Like I knew he...
00:31:26That one there is crazy behavior.
00:31:30To leave you alone in the desert in a country where you don't speak the language.
00:31:35Yeah.
00:31:36Like he obviously doesn't care about you.
00:31:38And he hasn't spoken to you since.
00:31:40He's been sending me like...
00:31:43Like rage texts.
00:31:45Like saying that I'm like a demon and like a liar.
00:31:50And like this horrible monster.
00:31:55And it's just like really annoying.
00:31:57Like I'm really upset about it.
00:32:00You know, it's like I did all this like again.
00:32:03And like just to get like treated like a piece of s***.
00:32:07Like what? Like no, I'm sorry.
00:32:10You're a catch.
00:32:11And for him to like act like you're a gremlin is crazy.
00:32:15Why does he act like he's just like Ryan Gosling as like Morocco?
00:32:22Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:32:29Don't be mad.
00:32:32But...
00:32:34Don't be mad.
00:32:35What?
00:32:36So I may have been texting...
00:32:41Muhammad.
00:32:43Emma.
00:32:44Emma.
00:32:44Maybe.
00:32:55Why are we doing this to yourself?
00:32:58I mean, I don't know.
00:33:00I think just because things got so bad with Zed,
00:33:02it's just making me like go back to Muhammad.
00:33:06Because...
00:33:06That was terrible.
00:33:07Because he was just as bad.
00:33:10Yeah.
00:33:11But like the last time I was here,
00:33:13like this was like a happy moment for us like when I was in Marrakesh.
00:33:16So it's kind of made me miss him a little bit.
00:33:20Are you going to go see him?
00:33:22If he wants me to.
00:33:24Oh my God.
00:33:26Okay.
00:33:26What are your intentions on seeing him?
00:33:29I mean, is your...
00:33:31Are you going there to get closure?
00:33:32Or are you going there with the intent of rekindling your relationship engagement?
00:33:39I don't know.
00:33:40My mind is like everywhere right now.
00:33:43I mean, I don't know.
00:33:44I'm like getting emotional for you.
00:33:47Stop, Maddie.
00:33:49Stop.
00:33:50Stop.
00:33:50Get hurt again.
00:33:52Like this happens to you all the time.
00:33:54Stop.
00:33:54I just don't get it.
00:33:55Like it makes it so sad.
00:33:58Like I just want you to feel so loved.
00:34:00You deserve that.
00:34:02Muhammad hasn't ever been any better to you.
00:34:04It's like I just...
00:34:05I just want you to come home.
00:34:08Please don't cry.
00:34:09I just don't know what you're going to gain out of this.
00:34:12Yeah.
00:34:13I don't know.
00:34:15I guess we'll see.
00:34:28Emma, interview.
00:34:29I'll take one.
00:34:31Who is it?
00:34:32Muhammad.
00:34:33Muhammad.
00:34:36I'm going to answer it just one second.
00:34:40Hello?
00:34:42Hey.
00:34:45No?
00:34:47I don't have a boyfriend.
00:34:51I swear I don't.
00:34:53Why? You want to see me?
00:34:56So do you want to talk?
00:34:57We can get like lunch or something?
00:35:02All right.
00:35:03Well, I'll call you when I'm there.
00:35:07You too. Bye.
00:35:13Bye.
00:35:15What did he say?
00:35:18So Muhammad just asked me...
00:35:20Oh my God, hearing his voice just is giving me anxiety.
00:35:24Really?
00:35:24I don't know because I haven't talked to him in a while so it's like...
00:35:30He sounded cute.
00:35:33He asked me if I was with a guy.
00:35:36I told him no.
00:35:37He asked if I have a boyfriend.
00:35:39I said no.
00:35:41He wants to see me.
00:35:43He told me to text him a place that we could meet.
00:35:48I don't know.
00:35:49It's just like a lot of old feelings are coming back.
00:35:53Me and Muhammad have been through a lot and we were madly in love for a lot of years.
00:36:00So that's something that doesn't just go away.
00:36:04And I think if I don't see him, I'm always going to regret it.
00:36:12I mean, you keep talking about your ex.
00:36:16You keep bringing him up after.
00:36:18I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:36:21I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex just to get back at me because of what I did.
00:36:27So it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:36:46So you ready to meet my family?
00:36:48I think I'm ready.
00:36:50I'm nervous, but I'm excited.
00:36:53Just relax.
00:36:55You have to show them that you are a good guy.
00:36:59It seems like you are not happy.
00:37:02Are you sure you want to go?
00:37:05Are you sure you want me to go?
00:37:07Yeah.
00:37:08I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:37:14I told you, yes.
00:37:16So what else do you want?
00:37:26It seems like you were hesitating. Just tell me.
00:37:29Make things clear, Rick.
00:37:31Please.
00:37:34I mean, you keep talking about, you keep talking about your ex. You keep bringing him up after. I thought
00:37:41that was, you know, the past.
00:37:46Tonight we're packing up to leave Nosey Bay to go to Trish's hometown to meet her family.
00:37:52But after the merengue fight, we were walking around and she gets to talking about this great place that her
00:37:59ex took her to when they were here.
00:38:01That upset me.
00:38:03I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex just to get back at me, you know, because of what
00:38:09I did.
00:38:12All you're trying to do is just make me jealous and it's a game for you.
00:38:18Shut up.
00:38:19No, see, that's exactly what you told me when I responded to you.
00:38:24Yeah, because you say like, oh, this is a place that your ex took you and this is cheap.
00:38:30I like it.
00:38:31I like the place.
00:38:33Why do you keep bringing it up?
00:38:34Because I like it.
00:38:36I love it.
00:38:37I enjoy.
00:38:38But do you think I want to hear that?
00:38:41Where's the problem with that?
00:38:42That means you appreciate what he has done for you more than what you appreciate what I've done.
00:38:48That's what it is.
00:38:49So it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:38:55I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:39:00I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:39:01Oh, OK.
00:39:01I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:39:03Because that's what you did.
00:39:06I'm not like you.
00:39:07I'm not.
00:39:07I will never be back to that ex.
00:39:10I'd rather.
00:39:11Then leave him alone.
00:39:13Then stop talking about him.
00:39:14I don't want to hear it.
00:39:16Because you had your ex?
00:39:17No.
00:39:17I don't want to talk about my ex and I don't want to hear about your ex.
00:39:21Because you hiding your ex.
00:39:22No, it's not that I'm hiding.
00:39:23Look what you did.
00:39:24You went to call him there for your ex.
00:39:25I just don't feel like it should be brought up.
00:39:28I'm trying to work on us.
00:39:30I want a relationship with you.
00:39:33That's the goal.
00:39:38You're getting far away from the finish line.
00:39:42You're running backwards when we should be running forwards.
00:39:47This is so ridiculous.
00:39:50I'm telling him I had a good experience to that place, to this place, and it was nice.
00:39:57That's it.
00:39:58It's not like something, oh, I'm talking with him or I'm still with my ex.
00:40:05I didn't cheat on him.
00:40:08That's his action, not me.
00:40:13So if you want to go, just let's go.
00:40:16If you want to stay, stay here.
00:40:20I want to go if you're going to be committed to this relationship.
00:40:26If I know that you're committed, I'm 100% on board with going to meet them.
00:40:38Okay.
00:40:43I love Trish so much, and I want this relationship to work more than anything.
00:40:49But I think all of this is just hitting me all at once.
00:40:55Maybe I'm, you know, in my head, but I'm afraid that Trish won't be able to fully trust me after
00:41:03what I did.
00:41:05And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me, it's just all too much.
00:41:12I'm feeling pressure, massive pressure.
00:41:16This meeting with her family is like make or break.
00:41:26I am miserable.
00:41:28Okay, do you want to talk about this?
00:41:32I just feel frustrated right now.
00:41:35She didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:41:38You don't respect me.
00:41:40That's not true at all.
00:41:41And now I have doubts.
00:41:43This, us, could be a mistake.
00:41:50Michael, he's coming.
00:41:53Yeah?
00:41:54Without asking, without telling anything, nothing.
00:42:09He cares about me and said he wants to protect me from making a bad decision.
00:42:19I told him, you know, that I would think about him coming.
00:42:22But I woke up this morning to a bunch of texts from him saying that he already booked a flight.
00:42:33The other night in Cheshmay, Michael offered to come to Turkey so he could give me his perspective on my
00:42:40relationship with Birkan.
00:42:42I had planned to talk to Birkan about it, but before I even had a chance to, Michael texted me
00:42:48and said he booked his flight.
00:42:52Given Birkan's very strong feelings about my friendship with Michael, I am concerned that this will complicate the progress that
00:43:00Birkan and I have made.
00:43:03But on the other hand, Michael is always the person that I'm going to turn to when I need advice.
00:43:09If Birkan and I are really going to move forward, I need my best friend's opinion.
00:43:16This is not normal.
00:43:19Something is wrong with him.
00:43:21Is he out of his mind?
00:43:22Is he out of his mind?
00:43:24Yeah.
00:43:24No, he wants to give me his opinion on this whole situation.
00:43:29Or some chance to blow this relationship so he can have it.
00:43:35Am I right?
00:43:37Michael and I have only ever been friends.
00:43:42He's very logical, he's very insightful, and I value his opinion.
00:43:48I see.
00:43:49Your friends have scoped me out, so why don't I get to have that same opportunity to have my friends
00:43:55meet you and have you get along with them?
00:43:58My friends?
00:43:58My friends doesn't want to f*** me.
00:44:02He made that move, it's over.
00:44:05He has no chance.
00:44:09Before she came here, Laura told me that she had an argument with Michael.
00:44:15And he said that I am the obstacle, those two having a relationship.
00:44:20I took it as a move.
00:44:23She said that it was meaning just friends, but I don't trust Michael.
00:44:29This is his opportunity to break us up.
00:44:33While she is confused about our relationship, this is a strategy.
00:44:40Look, I want this relationship to work with you.
00:44:47I would never let a third party come between me and you.
00:44:55Maybe you should try to, like, calm down and just meet him.
00:45:05I think that he just wants to see if everything is okay and that I'm not making a bad choice.
00:45:13Okay.
00:45:15Okay.
00:45:19I just feel frustrated right now.
00:45:24I feel like I have no choice.
00:45:27It's already f***ing coming.
00:45:28She didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:45:32I just hope that Michael doesn't f*** up my entire future and my relationship.
00:45:41Let's go.
00:45:42We have a reservation.
00:45:45Okay.
00:45:56You can speak Turkish.
00:45:57Oz, Oz, Turkish.
00:45:59Maybe I can speak English.
00:46:00Okay, thank you.
00:46:01You know what the Turkish say? Cheers.
00:46:03How?
00:46:04Cheers.
00:46:05Oh, just cheers.
00:46:06Sherefe.
00:46:07Yes, perfect. To your honor.
00:46:09Sherefe.
00:46:13Cheers.
00:46:18Oh, did you take the whole thing?
00:46:21Yeah.
00:46:22Up to today, I can drink everything inside.
00:46:27We had previous plans to do some wine tasting in this cute little town that's right near the ruins.
00:46:34But BeerCon's pissed and it feels so freaking awkward.
00:46:43You don't seem like you want to taste wine. You're like pounding it like a shot.
00:46:47Yeah.
00:46:48That's not a wine tasting.
00:46:50Yeah.
00:46:52I am miserable.
00:46:53You're miserable.
00:46:54I'm waiting for my best friend, Michael.
00:47:01This is 13.5% alcohol.
00:47:03This is 13.5% alcohol.
00:47:05This one is that.
00:47:06Three different to Turkish grape.
00:47:09Okay, let's try. Cheers.
00:47:11You're welcome.
00:47:13Okay, do you want to talk about this?
00:47:17Okay.
00:47:19There was no heads up.
00:47:22You declined my existence in this relationship.
00:47:28You just decide whatever you want.
00:47:31You are not respecting the person in your life.
00:47:37You don't respect me.
00:47:38That's not true at all.
00:47:39And now I have doubts.
00:47:43When we get married, it will only get worse.
00:47:48That could be my worst mistake.
00:47:51I don't know.
00:47:53What could be your worst mistake?
00:47:55This.
00:47:57Us.
00:48:01Here we are.
00:48:03It's a nice place, I hope.
00:48:05I have booked a resort.
00:48:07The pictures online looked really nice.
00:48:10So I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic
00:48:13and can help us reconnect.
00:48:14What is it?
00:48:16It's moving!
00:48:17Kill it.
00:48:19Step on it, get rid of it, take it outside.
00:48:22No!
00:48:24Daniel!
00:48:35Guys, where are we going?
00:48:36Left here and we're there.
00:48:38Just up here on the left.
00:48:40Here we are.
00:48:41Well, it looks super cute.
00:48:43Let's do it!
00:48:44Yeah, I really like that.
00:48:45Yeah, I really like that.
00:48:46Yeah, I really like that.
00:48:47Get what you see.
00:48:48Everybody like that.
00:48:51I'm so excited to see you guys' plays.
00:48:54We'll tell you the code in about a week once we trust you.
00:48:59Cute.
00:49:00Wow.
00:49:03At this point, it's been 40 hours that I've been up
00:49:06and I am completely delirious, completely foggy.
00:49:09I put a game face on, I went to the mother bar,
00:49:12and now I am beyond thankful we're at the rental
00:49:15and I'm going to be getting some rest soon.
00:49:17Guys, I really have to pee.
00:49:19Where's the bathroom?
00:49:20And then you can show me around.
00:49:21I'm really excited.
00:49:22Someone didn't make their bed.
00:49:23Joshua?
00:49:24Someone else?
00:49:26Oh!
00:49:27Oh, my God, this is a bathroom we're sharing?
00:49:30Oh, no.
00:49:31This is too small!
00:49:35I'm going to die here.
00:49:36You will not die.
00:49:38I'm trying to put my best foot forward and, like, be positive
00:49:40and show him that, like, I'm not a complainer.
00:49:43It's small as .
00:49:45Sounds positive.
00:49:47I'm super appreciative of, like, Josh getting the apartment
00:49:51in a nice location.
00:49:52Maybe a little more vanity space would be beneficial,
00:49:54and, like, I would have settled for a smaller place
00:49:57without a roommate.
00:49:58Like, no offense.
00:49:59Love you, Chris.
00:50:00This is your room.
00:50:01Oh!
00:50:04Wait, wait, wait, what?
00:50:06It's the Moaning Lisa, we call it.
00:50:08You wanted this picture.
00:50:09Chris thought it was hilarious.
00:50:11No, right.
00:50:11I put it up.
00:50:12You know?
00:50:12Yeah.
00:50:14Why would you let him do that?
00:50:17I didn't let him do that.
00:50:19But I thought it was quite hilarious.
00:50:20So, like, what?
00:50:21When we're having sex, we have to look at Chris?
00:50:23That's weird.
00:50:24When we have sex, it's pretty assumptuous of you.
00:50:29Yeah?
00:50:30Yeah.
00:50:33Excuse me.
00:50:34So, I'm really confused.
00:50:36Like, you could have put a picture of me.
00:50:38Didn't have one in such high def.
00:50:40I mean, all of my social media.
00:50:42It feels very surreal having Elise here with me in person.
00:50:46She's just been a voice on the other end of the phone,
00:50:48so it'll be interesting to see how, you know,
00:50:52we both react to living together.
00:50:55Where do I put everything?
00:50:57I'll find space.
00:50:59I asked you to get a steamer.
00:51:01Did you get a steamer?
00:51:02Steamer?
00:51:02Yeah.
00:51:04Do you think we should get, like, a closet organizer here?
00:51:08Do you not, do you just have a dryer?
00:51:13Um, it looks like it could be an adjustment.
00:51:17There's, like, literally only one towel in here.
00:51:21I'm gonna need more pillows.
00:51:24Uh, we can organize that.
00:51:26Pillows, steamer in the morning.
00:51:29We should maybe make a list so you don't forget.
00:51:31I'll ride it in.
00:51:32Set yourself up for success.
00:51:33I'll ride it in, promise.
00:51:34Okay.
00:51:35Let's go to bed.
00:51:36Okay.
00:51:36Come on.
00:51:37All right, guys.
00:51:39Good night.
00:51:40All right.
00:51:42This is your bed.
00:51:43Okay.
00:51:44I just want to get comfy clothes on.
00:51:46Yep, and go to bed.
00:51:47And we're...
00:51:47Okay, perfect.
00:51:48I'm on the couch.
00:51:49Okay.
00:51:51Before I got here, I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow,
00:51:54so he's gonna sleep on the couch.
00:51:56That way we're both avoiding temptation.
00:51:59Okay.
00:52:02Joshua gives me butterflies.
00:52:03Like, he's hot.
00:52:04Like, sending him away, it's hard.
00:52:06But, like, I came here wanting to do things differently,
00:52:09like, not leading with sex.
00:52:10But at the same time, I wanted to make him, you know,
00:52:13see a little glimpse of what he might be getting.
00:52:21Josh!
00:52:28Are you gonna come say goodnight?
00:52:30Absolutely.
00:52:32Why such a serious look?
00:52:34Because it's, uh...
00:52:36You know why?
00:52:38You look like someone killed you.
00:52:40Yeah, I'm getting killed inside.
00:52:42Painful.
00:52:43Right, well, come take a night to me.
00:52:57Goodnight.
00:52:58Goodnight.
00:53:00It's gonna be hard sleep on the couch.
00:53:02But, yeah.
00:53:03It's good to try and connect more on that emotional level
00:53:05than the sexual level off the bat.
00:53:07I think that probably, you know, that helps us.
00:53:11But would you want to have sex?
00:53:13In an ideal world, of course I would.
00:53:15As soon as I saw her, I would.
00:53:16Rolled on the airport floor, but, um, you know.
00:53:20I'm really happy that we have a really strong connection
00:53:23straight away from the moment we met.
00:53:26But, um, I haven't shared my whole life with Elise yet.
00:53:29I'm a bit worried that she might, you know,
00:53:31find out some things, you know, parts of my life
00:53:33that she's not exactly happy with.
00:53:35I just hope I can show her that I'm a good person,
00:53:37you know, with flaws, but a good person.
00:53:38And hopefully she falls in love with me.
00:53:57Okay, we have to pack.
00:54:09Daniel, are you sure you're okay going on this trip with me?
00:54:13Um, yeah.
00:54:15Yeah, sure.
00:54:17Since I'm not settled with Lisa,
00:54:20I'm still really hot with all the offence
00:54:22she have committed by telling lies.
00:54:26But I decided to go on this trip with her.
00:54:29I hope we didn't forget anything.
00:54:31I don't know.
00:54:32I don't know.
00:54:32I don't think so.
00:54:33I think we're good.
00:54:35This is going to be difficult,
00:54:37but I will try my best to have a good time.
00:54:49Long ride.
00:54:51We'll get there pretty late, so.
00:54:53What is the place like?
00:54:55It's a lake.
00:54:56Yeah, there will be a lot of nature in the area to look at,
00:54:59and lots of activities to do.
00:55:02So, I thought it would be enjoyable for us.
00:55:08You're welcome.
00:55:19You're thinking, where the hell is she taking me?
00:55:21You know what we call these in America?
00:55:24The boonies.
00:55:25What is she?
00:55:26The boondocks.
00:55:27Where there is no real civilization,
00:55:29it's just woods.
00:55:35Here we are.
00:55:37It's a nice place, I hope.
00:55:41I have booked a resort in Bagari, Nigeria.
00:55:45It's the western part of Lagos.
00:55:48The pictures online looked really nice,
00:55:50and it's in my price range.
00:55:53So, I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic
00:55:56and can help us reconnect.
00:55:59Oh, wow.
00:56:00I like it.
00:56:02What do you think?
00:56:05Nice little space, right?
00:56:07It's nice.
00:56:07It's fine, it's nice, huh?
00:56:09Oh, my God.
00:56:12What is it?
00:56:15No!
00:56:16That could be poisonous.
00:56:18I've not seen someone bitten by a spider before.
00:56:23I have.
00:56:25I'm not going to sleep in here with a spider.
00:56:27I'm terrified of this spider because I don't know what kind of spider it is.
00:56:31This thing is in Africa.
00:56:32This could be dangerous.
00:56:34Don't you dare fling it towards me.
00:56:40Is it dead?
00:56:41Just smash it.
00:56:42It's moving.
00:56:45Kill it.
00:56:46Step on it.
00:56:47Get rid of it.
00:56:48Take it outside.
00:56:49No!
00:56:52Daniel!
00:56:54All right, stop.
00:56:55Leave it.
00:56:55I will kill it myself.
00:56:58No, don't kick it again.
00:57:00Stop.
00:57:00Stop kicking it.
00:57:05Where'd it go?
00:57:06Daniel, get it off my shoe.
00:57:09Okay.
00:57:10You don't kick it at me.
00:57:12I have a phobia of spiders.
00:57:15It's just spider.
00:57:16No, it's not just a spider.
00:57:18It was huge.
00:57:19It was a tarantula-sized spider.
00:57:22You are so rude.
00:57:25I am terrified of spiders.
00:57:26I told you to kill the spider.
00:57:28Is that bad?
00:57:28Why didn't you kill the spider?
00:57:30Is that bad?
00:57:30Just spider.
00:57:31Ordinary spider.
00:57:32It's not an ordinary spider.
00:57:33It's a vicious spider.
00:57:35This is the room you paid for.
00:57:36You know where the spider's coming from.
00:57:38Kill the spider.
00:57:38Kill it.
00:57:39No, you kill it.
00:57:42We're here now, right?
00:57:45So, what are we here for?
00:57:49It's a romantic getaway.
00:57:51Romantic?
00:57:52Yes.
00:57:52Yes.
00:57:57She wants us to have a romantic trip,
00:58:01but it's very hard for me.
00:58:04I am feeling tense.
00:58:07Because I don't know what my uncle is going to do.
00:58:10Whether he will cancel this marriage.
00:58:13I don't like waiting, you know, to talk to him.
00:58:16You should enjoy it.
00:58:18You came.
00:58:19Why'd you come if you're not going to enjoy it?
00:58:21Honest.
00:58:22You know why I'm here, right?
00:58:23No, I have no idea why you decided to come.
00:58:26You don't have idea?
00:58:26No.
00:58:27I'm here because, um, I didn't want the money you paid to be, um, to be a West.
00:58:35That's the only reason why you came.
00:58:40So, no, um, no sex.
00:58:43No kissing.
00:58:45Auntie, I call my uncle.
00:58:47And I want him to consult, you know, the oracle, the ancestors.
00:58:50Why don't you just wait a couple days?
00:58:53Just a couple days.
00:58:54We can, we can make this work for a couple days.
00:58:58Daniel, I need a couple days.
00:58:59To do what?
00:59:00Just to get my head together.
00:59:02And then we call your uncle.
00:59:07I need a couple days because I have to come clean to Daniel about the rest of everything before he
00:59:12goes to his uncle.
00:59:14But he's already so angry with me.
00:59:18How am I going to get through it?
00:59:20I am terrified that Daniel's going to leave me forever once he finds out.
00:59:25I need a day or two.
00:59:27That's all I'm asking for.
00:59:29I want to have a day or two with you.
00:59:32Fine.
00:59:37This, this one never ends.
00:59:40Why do you do this?
00:59:41Is your mom always his bossy?
00:59:44You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
00:59:49I'm just done with this conversation.
00:59:51You know, you used to be a lot softer and sweeter.
00:59:54You don't want a bitchy wife.
00:59:56Don't be a asshole.
01:00:22Just give me a hug.
01:00:26I got it.
01:00:29I'll flip them along with the peaceful voice in her place.
01:00:30You know, I'm dying.
01:00:37what's wrong really yeah really you don't help me with anything like this laundry and this
01:00:47this one never ends why do you do this what the
01:00:55it's been nice having Javon in my house but I'm still thinking about my mom's concern about our
01:01:02long-distance relationship on top of that now that Javon and I are living together in one house
01:01:15I get to see how he is he's very messy and I just put the clothes and the towels everywhere
01:01:24I feel like I have a toddler and I always have to pick up stuff from male to male is
01:01:31your mom always
01:01:32just bossy what I heard we just haven't got time I heard that no me too loves me yeah well
01:01:44I love
01:01:44you too Nana I mean doesn't mean that you're not bossy what's wrong with telling your husband to pick
01:01:50up their socks there's nothing wrong with that Anna it's how you're delivering Anna what do you want
01:01:55from me instead of coming in the room say you know you can just say oh if you don't mind
01:02:03could
01:02:03you just pick up your stuff Javon yeah no matter how much I put it if you really would like
01:02:10to pick
01:02:11up that sucks you would have see you don't see that I do actually you do but you don't do
01:02:18it
01:02:18no and like every time I talk to you you leave the room
01:02:36we all we do is talk that's all we do all right well I'm gonna try a little action today
01:02:43would you like to go get our like a manicure like our feet done well you definitely need a pedicure
01:02:56okay
01:03:04I feel sorry for whoever's gonna clean your feet dang how bad do you think my feet is
01:03:12Anna's always complained that I'm not romantic enough but it's hard to be romantic when you're
01:03:18being nagged a lot still it thought it'd be a good idea to do something nice for Anna to show
01:03:26her
01:03:26you know what I appreciate what you do I just hope that she sees that I'm making a real effort
01:03:34here
01:03:37so it's like Barbie threw up in here so she's so well look at you yeah sitting like a queen
01:03:46it's all pink I like it I know you did
01:03:52here you go yeah yeah see I told you it just feels weird oh that's nice
01:04:05oh my god boo that's a lot you doing okay over there
01:04:12I'm so tired
01:04:17is this being romantic yeah did I pass the test today
01:04:22kind of okay yeah thank you some cool points I like that
01:04:29you still have to be nicer to me though and I'll do more nice things
01:04:35like if I leave like underwear or socks on the floor you know will you be nice
01:04:43no no I mean you can be nice to me but not by not dropping them on the floor
01:04:53I know but Anna you know you used to be a lot softer and sweeter and you know more patient
01:04:59with me
01:05:00you know what I think it is it's just I think that you knew I wasn't going anywhere and you
01:05:04got
01:05:04comfortable being too comfortable is not a good thing because you feel like okay well I got this
01:05:13person I don't have to try anymore you know he's always gonna be there no matter what don't ever get
01:05:21too comfortable ever I don't understand where did this come from you get it from those videos that
01:05:33you've been watching about masculinity and alpha thing no that's my that's that's that's all my idea
01:05:41I take full credit for that it's just odd because I feel like over the couple of years watching all
01:05:51these videos you've changed and I love who you are I know this is who I was when you first
01:05:59met me no
01:06:00you're not you're not that prideful before I feel like your idea of being a husband changed you see
01:06:09it's like a power I don't have any that's the problem like I feel like probably you need to feel
01:06:14powerful no I feel like I have all the responsibility with no authority because when I tell you to do
01:06:21something you don't listen to me so what are you talking about you want traditional roles when it
01:06:28applies to you I always have to take care of everything financially so as your husband I feel
01:06:35like having to say is nice you know it just means you're just respectful ah just done with this
01:06:44conversation why did you bring me here well I wanted you to have a good time yes but if you
01:06:55were
01:06:56do I look like I'm having a good time but you set me up you asked me questions and I
01:07:00just answered
01:07:00them honestly you ever heard the term you know you don't want to hear the answers so cease from
01:07:06asking dumbass questions you ever think about that and you don't want to bitch your wife don't be a
01:07:13asshole I can just sit here and get my feet done like I don't have to then just stay here
01:07:22okay don't come
01:07:22home you need to calm down I don't want to see you ever again don't come home ever church
01:07:40you're disgusting
01:07:44hey I will see you soon all right I cannot believe Michael is actually here in Turkey he said to
01:07:53tell
01:07:53you hi I'm not saying hi you want to open it hey hi friend oh my god
01:08:21I have a phone call
01:08:28hello
01:08:30good morning how are you
01:08:47it's totally fine with me I mean
01:08:51I was just gonna say I can drop you my location
01:08:54okay I will uh I will see you soon and wish for walking your direction
01:08:58all right be careful
01:09:02thanks bye bye
01:09:03bye
01:09:13I'm a little bit worried that Michael's here
01:09:15now now that this is real and he actually showed up in Turkey my stomach is about to explode on
01:09:24itself I'm incredibly nervous and feel like I'm about to die
01:09:33hey
01:09:34hey
01:09:36hey
01:09:36that was Michael
01:09:38what is he saying
01:09:41he said to tell you hi
01:09:43what
01:09:46why
01:09:47because
01:09:48I'm not saying hi
01:09:49well
01:09:52he's gonna be here
01:09:54at this apartment
01:09:55this apartment
01:09:57and about
01:09:58Turkey is okay but this apartment
01:10:0110 minutes
01:10:07I cannot believe that Michael is actually here in Turkey
01:10:12he dropped everything to get on a plane for me
01:10:15I mean it does feel pretty good that someone cares about me enough to do that
01:10:20but it is definitely wild
01:10:23but it is definitely wild
01:10:24and complicated
01:10:27so you think this is normal
01:10:32well
01:10:33I think he's just concerned about me
01:10:38yeah sure
01:10:41that's totally normal for friends to be concerned about each other
01:10:44yeah I believe him
01:10:47yeah I believe him
01:10:47he's such a good heart
01:10:54I'm not five years old
01:10:55I don't eat that
01:10:59your friend is trying to this connection
01:11:02and you're like yay
01:11:03yay
01:11:05okay
01:11:06it's like I don't get it
01:11:10I never wanted him to come
01:11:12and I still don't want him to come
01:11:15I think he's coming in Turkey
01:11:17to mix up Laura's mind
01:11:19maybe talk some about me
01:11:22give Laura more doubts
01:11:25but
01:11:26but
01:11:26if
01:11:27our relationship is
01:11:29gonna end
01:11:29because of Michael
01:11:30but
01:11:32I don't blame Michael
01:11:33I will blame Laura
01:11:40you wanna open it?
01:11:43yeah I do actually
01:11:44thank you
01:11:50hey
01:11:51hi friend
01:11:52oh my god
01:11:53I cannot believe you're in Turkey
01:11:56is it safe to come in?
01:11:58yes
01:11:58this is
01:11:59oh my god
01:11:59wild
01:12:00oh my god
01:12:01you're making a palatine
01:12:09I cannot believe you're in Turkey
01:12:11oh no
01:12:11this is amazing
01:12:13the most spontaneous thing I've ever done in my life
01:12:15I have
01:12:16and I do it for you
01:12:17I do it for you
01:12:20so
01:12:21oh my god
01:12:23absolutely
01:12:24wow
01:12:24oh wow
01:12:25yeah this is fantastic right?
01:12:28I hope my hotel room looks like this
01:12:29holy cow
01:12:31hi Michael
01:12:32nice to meet you finally
01:12:34I've heard so much about you
01:12:36yeah
01:12:37you probably heard
01:12:38I'm
01:12:40okay
01:12:44okay
01:12:49you want something to drink?
01:12:51tea?
01:12:51yeah anything like that?
01:12:53okay
01:12:53just have a seat right here
01:12:54I don't know how it works
01:12:55yeah that's my...
01:12:56do the women make tea here or do the boys do it?
01:12:59boys?
01:13:00the boys make the tea?
01:13:01they call men if they are grown up
01:13:04oh okay
01:13:08um
01:13:10would you like anything?
01:13:12nope
01:13:13I am perfect
01:13:14thank you
01:13:27so buddy what you watching?
01:13:31Scarface
01:13:32you like American classic movies?
01:13:39no
01:13:43no
01:13:43I like mob stuff
01:13:45I enjoy pretty much violence
01:13:54do you like?
01:13:55do I like this movie or?
01:13:58violence
01:14:03uh
01:14:05golly
01:14:05I
01:14:06I'll be honest with you
01:14:07I don't know what to make of beer con
01:14:09um
01:14:09I know I just kind of dropped it on him
01:14:11but
01:14:11he's talking about violence to me on the couch
01:14:13if that's truly who he is
01:14:15then
01:14:16I can't imagine that's healthy for Laura
01:14:19my first impression of beer con
01:14:21is that Laura and I are more compatible than I think uh
01:14:23than beer con and she are
01:14:24so
01:14:25I want to make sure that she makes the right choice
01:14:34I
01:14:35I love you so much
01:14:36but
01:14:36stop telling me that
01:14:37stop
01:14:38with hurting some secrets
01:14:40all I can think about
01:14:41is how there is more to tell him
01:14:44and I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle
01:14:47it has to be tonight
01:14:48so I have more to tell you then
01:14:51more to tell me?
01:14:57is this really how it ends?
01:15:01can we go back to where it all began?
01:15:07all I really want for this
01:15:10is to go back to where you love me again
01:15:15good morning
01:15:17good morning
01:15:17good morning
01:15:21i wanna sleep
01:15:22you gonna sleep or-
01:15:23you're gonna keep me awake or try tonight
01:15:25I know
01:15:26I didn't mean to keep you awake
01:15:28I couldn't help it I was sad
01:15:29now you almost went to bed with tears
01:15:37I feel bad about everything that transpired
01:15:43But I feel better this morning
01:15:56Last night I cried myself to sleep
01:15:58And all I can think about is how I have to tell Daniel my secret
01:16:02And I'm scared I'm going to lose him forever
01:16:04But Daniel held me all night
01:16:07So I'm waking up feeling a little hopeful
01:16:10Today is a new day
01:16:12And I'm hoping that we can explore and have some fun together
01:16:15So where are we, Brandon?
01:16:18I'd like to look at the lake
01:16:19And I'd like to walk around and see what else there is
01:16:22That's fine
01:16:23All right, let's get dressed
01:16:35Come on
01:16:35Let's go down towards the water
01:16:40Oh my gosh
01:16:43This is a whole resort and there's nobody here
01:16:53It's not like it's pictures
01:16:56It's pretty desolate, actually
01:17:00And it's a bit run down
01:17:03This is my little bit
01:17:06But maybe that it's desolate
01:17:08Is going to help me with Daniel
01:17:13Maybe it's a little bit more intimate for the two of us
01:17:19Water is so big
01:17:21Yeah, it's so big, the water
01:17:23Oh, look at this
01:17:27This is neat
01:17:28Let's have one
01:17:30Two, please
01:17:34I feel that things are going back to normal
01:17:36Like, Lisa is trying to rebuild our relationship
01:17:41Oh, wow
01:17:43Delicious
01:17:44Let's go for a bike ride
01:17:46Can you ride a bike?
01:17:48I don't know
01:17:49I will try
01:17:51To me, I welcomed it
01:17:53I want us to be together
01:17:54Because I love her
01:17:59You know, it takes muscle to pull this
01:18:01Yes, that's why you're doing the pedaling
01:18:03And I'm doing the steering
01:18:05Look at the pace
01:18:06No, not that fast
01:18:08I think you made me not that fast
01:18:12Don't go so fast
01:18:15I feel so light
01:18:17And so good in this moment with Daniel
01:18:19He is having fun
01:18:21And seeing the smile on his face
01:18:23As he's doing it
01:18:24I really feel like we're reconnecting
01:18:27Are you having fun?
01:18:29Yes, I am
01:18:30See, this is exactly what we needed
01:18:34I want to just enjoy myself
01:18:35But I can't
01:18:36Because all I can think about
01:18:38Is how there's more to tell him
01:18:40And I have to get it said
01:18:42Before he goes to his uncle
01:18:43It has to be tonight
01:19:06It's a bonfire, honey
01:19:08With dancers
01:19:10I'm enjoying the song
01:19:14This is beautiful
01:19:16Have a seat
01:19:17Let's watch them
01:19:18Let's enjoy it
01:19:22It's beautiful, isn't it?
01:19:27Thank you
01:19:28Thank you
01:19:32This is nice
01:19:34Are you glad you gave me one more day?
01:19:39I'm enjoying spending time with you
01:19:41This is what this few days is about
01:19:44Do you feel like you're reconnecting with me a little bit?
01:19:47Yeah
01:19:47I really want us to reconnect
01:19:50You know, I miss the way we used to be
01:19:54But I'm trying to respect our tradition
01:19:57We have to call my uncle
01:19:59When I call him, I will beg on our behalf
01:20:03I love you
01:20:04I love you, too
01:20:05I want to make you
01:20:07I want to, you know, love you forever
01:20:11But stop telling me that
01:20:12Stop with hurting some secrets
01:20:16Okay?
01:20:17I understand
01:20:18Okay
01:20:21So I have more to tell you then
01:20:24More to tell me?
01:20:29What do you mean?
01:20:32So, like, in Nigeria
01:20:34It's not legal for
01:20:37Men to marry men
01:20:38Or women to marry women, right?
01:20:40It's not legal
01:20:40It's not, yeah
01:20:41In America, it is
01:20:44Yes, I've had of that
01:20:48So
01:20:50My last marriage wasn't with a man
01:20:55I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel
01:20:59And I've been with more than one woman
01:21:04You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years
01:21:10Because, um
01:21:17It's not
01:21:19It's not as bad
01:21:20Don't come close to me
01:21:26Next time on Before the 90 Days
01:21:33Having female friends can be hard to juggle
01:21:35But I want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about
01:21:38Today I found out that he was living with you
01:21:40Yeah
01:21:40Yeah, I think that she has a financial hold on you
01:21:43That's making you feel some sort of way
01:21:45No, financial hold
01:21:46Big words
01:21:47Are you jealous of me?
01:21:49And our relationship?
01:21:54We're officially on the GP
01:21:56I only have a week left here in the Philippines
01:21:59And I don't want to waste any time
01:22:02In bringing Sheena to America
01:22:03So I have to be very clear here
01:22:06If you file today for the K-1 visa
01:22:10It will be denied
01:22:16I just feel really hopeless
01:22:19Because I'm putting in massive effort
01:22:22And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads
01:22:25I don't know how to move forward
01:22:32I'm excited to see my family
01:22:34Do you think they're going to be happy to see?
01:22:37Yeah, to see me
01:22:38What about me?
01:22:39I don't know
01:22:41I feel scared
01:22:43My family won't accept Rick
01:22:46When they don't like something
01:22:48They are really aggressive
01:22:51Rick doesn't know what he's in for
01:22:58They want babies
01:23:06You have a lot of secrets
01:23:07I have no more secrets
01:23:09Shut your mouth
01:23:10You don't have to
01:23:11You have been touched by a woman
01:23:12Not even women
01:23:13Women
01:23:16What do you range?
01:23:19Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am
01:23:22You know what?
01:23:23F*** him
01:23:24F*** him
01:23:27F*** him
01:23:28Jesus
01:23:29F***
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