00:00Suppose I want to make you angry and I know that if I utter a particular word to you, you
00:04get angry.
00:04Now it is so easy for me to control you, is it not?
00:07If I want to upset you, I just have to utter that word.
00:09You have become a machine and I know the trigger.
00:12Equally, let's say I want to make you happy, I want to please you.
00:14And that is something very frequently used, especially with women.
00:17I want to please you, I know what pleases you.
00:19I can come and say, oh, you're looking gorgeous.
00:20If I know what pleases you, I can enslave you.
00:23If I know what displeases you, I can again enslave you.
00:26And that is the great danger in being emotionally reactive.
00:31You are predictable.
00:32And if you are predictable, you are controllable.
00:34The more reactive and the more emotional you are, the more easily you will be enslaved.
00:38Because emotion is like a button and everybody knows where your buttons are.
00:42Anybody can come and press that button and get the desired output from you.
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