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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé...
00:00:03Is this possibly the one?
00:00:04This is the one.
00:00:07Even though I work in bridal, my love life isn't a fairy tale.
00:00:11At first I was like, we're going to get married as soon as you get to the United States.
00:00:14But now, reality's setting in.
00:00:17An executive from New York meets a hotel entertainment worker.
00:00:23It's vast differences.
00:00:25Sometimes I feel like I have real life problems.
00:00:27And like, you know, he tells me about his problems and I'm like, that's not a problem.
00:00:32I have a lot more at stake here.
00:00:39We make out.
00:00:41I have intrusive thoughts as part of my OCD.
00:00:44And when I get drunk, I really want to make out with everyone I know.
00:00:48I was a little bit crazy the past two months.
00:00:51I like kissed people while drunk again.
00:00:55Josh says he can't see himself married to me if I keep doing this.
00:01:00Did you tell Josh about this?
00:01:05Yay!
00:01:06That's a great party last week.
00:01:08Oh, yeah.
00:01:08I don't tell my fiancé Annabelle every single thing that goes on at the parties.
00:01:14I was in bed with you when you were with Annabelle.
00:01:17It's not going to happen when she's here.
00:01:19You do know when she gets here, we are actually going to have a conversation.
00:01:22There's no way around that.
00:01:25Every prophetic word you spoke of my life is coming to pay.
00:01:30Thank you, God.
00:01:31God has given me multiple gifts.
00:01:34And Maxwell is the man I have been waiting for.
00:01:38But there's still that stereotype of Nigerians being scammers.
00:01:44Okay, sweetie, what'd they say?
00:01:47I'm not accepting it.
00:01:50I don't know how the devil snuck in, but I know one thing.
00:01:56He got to leave with that darn visa.
00:01:58And that's for sure.
00:02:04I took the wrong way, but I came back around.
00:02:10All of the hard days are over now.
00:02:15All right.
00:02:16Daddy's going to get Mommy Bell.
00:02:17Are you all excited?
00:02:19She'll be here.
00:02:20We got to finish cleaning up.
00:02:22Daddy'll be back tomorrow with Mommy Bell.
00:02:24Love is a fire burning in my heart.
00:02:27Got back my rhythm once I start.
00:02:29There ain't no stopping this train.
00:02:32Y'all are going to be lucky if you get to stay in the house.
00:02:35Yeah, she might throw y'all out.
00:02:37We're going to have to brush you more.
00:02:39We're going to have to knock.
00:02:40See?
00:02:40Come on.
00:02:41Get down.
00:02:42That's what I'm talking about.
00:02:44Annabelle does not like dog hair.
00:02:46My fiancee Annabelle literally is a clean freak.
00:02:50Get down.
00:02:50Stay off the couch, bud.
00:02:53I answer the phone.
00:02:54She's got a broom in her hand.
00:02:56You know, she's washing dishes.
00:02:57When I, you know, she's doing laundry.
00:02:59I mean, she keeps it immaculate.
00:03:01Golly.
00:03:03Look at all this hair y'all got.
00:03:05You're going to get me in trouble.
00:03:09It's just me and the dogs at my bachelor pad.
00:03:12And, you know, I'm more of a robo vac every now and then.
00:03:17And, you know, dust on really special occasions.
00:03:20And, you know, but Annabelle, it's like a daily thing for her.
00:03:25She even tells me she's allergic to dog hair.
00:03:28And she's not allergic to dog hair.
00:03:30She just doesn't want it everywhere in the house.
00:03:33Okay, I got to get going, guys.
00:03:35About time.
00:03:37Got to be back tomorrow.
00:03:41So, yeah, it's going to be an adjustment for both of us.
00:03:44But her plane arrived soon.
00:03:46So, the only cleaning I'm thinking about is her scrubbing me in the bathtub tonight.
00:03:50Ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:03:55Off to St. Louis.
00:04:01A couple hours.
00:04:02I'll be at the airport.
00:04:04You know, I don't know how it's going to go.
00:04:05It's definitely a long time coming.
00:04:08I'm still not feeling real good about the Nicole thing.
00:04:12I mean, that's my fear is me tell her that I cheated on her.
00:04:16And, you know, that's what Nicole's going to tell her, even though, you know, in my mind, it's not.
00:04:21But, you know, when that word comes out, you know, I don't know how she'll perceive it.
00:04:27Maybe at a party on the lake or something, I kissed a chick or had a few too many.
00:04:33We're just having fun.
00:04:34And to me, that's not cheating.
00:04:36That's having a good time.
00:04:42There's a lot going through my mind and a lot of what-ifs.
00:04:45Maybe my ex-wife, Nicole, is just bluffing and just trying to get my goat.
00:04:50But on the other hand, what if she's not and she's really trying to break up my marriage?
00:04:56This spot's kind of narrow.
00:04:59Let's see if I can get out.
00:05:01I've been married twice.
00:05:03This is going to be my third.
00:05:05And it's really hit my wallet.
00:05:08So, either Annabelle's going to be my partner forever or we're just not going to get married.
00:05:16I don't even know where the arrivals come in.
00:05:30Oh, 454.
00:05:32Okay, we're good.
00:05:34It's getting kind of hard to breathe.
00:05:36My stomach's hurting.
00:05:41I mean, she's changing her whole life to come be with me.
00:05:44So, you know, I'm excited.
00:05:46I'm going to say I'm sweating.
00:05:48It's very hot.
00:05:51I don't think it's that hot in here.
00:05:52I'm just trying.
00:06:20Oh, my God.
00:06:32I miss you so much, baby.
00:06:34I miss you, too.
00:06:42You okay, baby?
00:06:44You okay?
00:06:45Yeah.
00:06:46You okay?
00:06:47Mm-mm.
00:06:48You look pretty.
00:06:49Mm-mm.
00:06:50You don't look like you've been flying 30 hours.
00:06:53You know how bad I look when I get off the point, huh?
00:06:57Mm-mm.
00:07:00I am Annabelle.
00:07:02I am 54 years old from Iloilo, Philippines.
00:07:06Oh, Lord.
00:07:09I'm crying.
00:07:10I got you some flowers.
00:07:12Smell good.
00:07:14Yeah, thank you.
00:07:16I'm feeling emotional because it's been two years we didn't see each other.
00:07:21I feel very happy to see him.
00:07:23But I was surprised when I see him again.
00:07:26Oh, my God.
00:07:30His body is a little bit big again.
00:07:34We need to go for walking and Zumba together.
00:07:39God, I miss you so much, baby.
00:07:42I miss you, too.
00:07:44Oh, Lord.
00:07:46To get to this day, it's almost surreal.
00:07:48It's like, I got to pinch you and I got to pinch me because it almost feels like it's not
00:07:53real.
00:07:53This is the moment of truth.
00:07:54It just doesn't feel like it's real, baby.
00:07:56It's taken so long, right?
00:07:58Yeah.
00:07:58It's crazy, baby.
00:08:00It's crazy.
00:08:01It's crazy.
00:08:02I can't wait to...
00:08:04It's this...
00:08:06You're in the airport, baby.
00:08:09You want to go get your bags, man?
00:08:11Yeah.
00:08:12I can't wait tonight, baby, to get you to the room and get in the bed with you and love
00:08:18all over you.
00:08:19And I miss that so much for the last two years.
00:08:22I like that.
00:08:23I'm going to use this later.
00:08:26Okay.
00:08:28Well, we can definitely arrange that.
00:08:33Oh, my gosh.
00:08:34I can't believe it.
00:08:42Do you want to sing the national anthem with me?
00:08:45Um, yes.
00:08:47Oh, I can't wait to see my god tonight.
00:08:55What so proudly we hailed at the twilight's last gleaming.
00:09:10And a rocket ain't there.
00:09:13The monster's taking an air.
00:09:14Can't prove to the night that the flag was still there.
00:09:18Da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da.
00:09:23Sorry, you got bored.
00:09:24It's a remix version.
00:09:25Yeah, I was so excited to remix.
00:09:28So I arrived in the States and Katie's got a hotel room, which, frankly, I'm quite happy with.
00:09:35Because I was worried that we might be sleeping in the car or worse.
00:09:40So I'm really glad that we can just be us and kind of reconnect and be with each other.
00:09:50Oh, those Cheetos do not smell lovely.
00:09:54Okay, well, don't leave.
00:09:56You smell bad.
00:09:59I do.
00:09:59I definitely smell bad.
00:10:01My mouth smells bad, actually.
00:10:02My mouth smells bad.
00:10:03Yeah, like your breath.
00:10:05Oh, I'm going to clean my teeth.
00:10:06Good.
00:10:07My hands are Cheeto dust forever.
00:10:11Katie has, since I first met her, she was and continues to be as probably the bluntest person I know.
00:10:19I had this mental image of a Tasmanian devil, like, in the flesh.
00:10:27I'm thinking crazy.
00:10:29It's not bad though.
00:10:30It's just wild.
00:10:31Do you want to talk about him?
00:10:32No.
00:10:33I was just like, oh, we should be naked while driving.
00:10:36And I was like, wait, I think that's illegal.
00:10:38To be naked while driving?
00:10:40Is that a state law?
00:10:42I don't know.
00:10:43That's public nudity.
00:10:44That might be legal in the UK, but it's not legal here.
00:10:47There's no badness in Katie.
00:10:51She is a menace only in the most comical, ridiculous sense.
00:11:08Ooh.
00:11:11What are you doing?
00:11:12You menace.
00:11:14I'm scratching your beard.
00:11:15With your sweaty hands.
00:11:17You know, my hand is really sweaty.
00:11:19Sorry.
00:11:20Oh, to be fair, I put on a lot of hand sanitizer.
00:11:23Look.
00:11:24Surprise.
00:11:25We're at a hotel.
00:11:26It doesn't suck.
00:11:29Nice.
00:11:38Excited?
00:11:38Look, it's working here.
00:11:40Yes.
00:11:40It's colorful, isn't it?
00:11:41Yeah.
00:11:42I like it.
00:11:43It's very, like, Portland vibes.
00:11:46Oh.
00:11:47Here's the rooms.
00:11:48Here's the room.
00:11:51Look.
00:11:52Oh, this is lovely.
00:11:56This looks super comfortable.
00:11:59Do you want to see around?
00:12:00Do you want to see?
00:12:00I worked so hard on this this morning.
00:12:05But then I kind of gave up halfway.
00:12:07Oh, I love it.
00:12:08I was running out of time.
00:12:11Oh, you must be tired.
00:12:13Yeah, you must be tired too.
00:12:22Katie has this wonderful kind of ability
00:12:25to go from being quite blunt and brutal
00:12:29to being the sweetest, softest, sentimental person.
00:12:33And it comes out in things like decorating the hotel room
00:12:37or decorating me at the airport.
00:12:38And it just makes me melt inside.
00:12:41I'm just like, oh, I love you.
00:12:43I was so stressed out about us having sex.
00:12:47Now I'm tired.
00:12:48What are you stressed out?
00:12:50I was just stressed because I feel like we've had problems
00:12:53with me feeling wanted.
00:12:55And I was worried when you came here,
00:12:57you wouldn't want to have sex.
00:12:58And that would just, like, set the mood wrong.
00:13:00And then we'd just be awkward.
00:13:01And then our chemistry would be dead.
00:13:04Yeah, I mean, I feel like the main thing
00:13:08is getting rid of all, like, the stressy kind of work,
00:13:12kind of bull, you know,
00:13:13that wait until, like, we're settling down
00:13:16and really focus on us.
00:13:18I just was having a really hard trust
00:13:21and let that would actually happen when we get here.
00:13:23I just want to feel like you want me.
00:13:26I know I need to focus on you more.
00:13:30And should we both make commitments?
00:13:34And maybe one commitment you can make
00:13:37is to not keep kissing other people.
00:13:44I think that she makes out with people partly from insecurity
00:13:51and partly I think she gets a bit of an impulsive rush
00:13:56from playing with fire.
00:13:58I think she also knows that it's hurtful
00:14:01and I think she knows that it's not right.
00:14:03And that's why I'm patient
00:14:05because I think her heart's in the right place.
00:14:07But I could very well say,
00:14:09I don't like this and here's an ultimatum,
00:14:14stop it or I'm leaving.
00:14:15I don't know.
00:14:17I, like, I want to feel wanted.
00:14:19You know, we think in very different ways very often.
00:14:22And so if we can start out aligned,
00:14:27I think that's the best start we could kind of hope for.
00:14:33I think sex is an important part of what we're talking about.
00:14:36I think that it's intimacy and loving and...
00:14:39I don't feel loving if we're not having sex.
00:14:41I mean, I don't feel loving when you're playing with other guys.
00:14:47Like, I think that's...
00:14:48At least they want to have sex with me.
00:14:52Honestly, I'm, like, worried things won't change.
00:15:01Let's call Poppy.
00:15:03I'm here.
00:15:05Handsome.
00:15:06I'm Debbie.
00:15:07And my fiancé's name is Mido.
00:15:09And he's an Egyptian movie star.
00:15:11I love you.
00:15:14He's already asking if I would be willing to, like, move.
00:15:19Move where?
00:15:21Hollywood, New York.
00:15:23I can't help but worry that Mido's just coming over here to become a star.
00:15:29I really want to see what this attorney going to say if the appeal is an option.
00:15:33There's Nigerian men here in the United States.
00:15:36There are.
00:15:37But that's not the one for me.
00:15:40It's not a realistic relationship, but she thinks so.
00:15:44I'm worried about your safety.
00:15:45I mean, what if the embassy, they know something that we don't know?
00:16:05Oh, if I was a dog, wouldn't wear no button-up shirt.
00:16:11Morning.
00:16:12Good morning, Mallory.
00:16:13I'm good.
00:16:14How are you doing this morning?
00:16:15And I'd get all the plays I could fall.
00:16:19No, I'm just chasing my tail.
00:16:23Good girl, a little bit.
00:16:24And your spot.
00:16:25Honey, that's the life for me.
00:16:29That's a good girl.
00:16:31Okay.
00:16:33Hi, how can I help you?
00:16:35I'm Debbie.
00:16:36I'm 55 years old.
00:16:37And I'm from New Orleans, Louisiana.
00:16:39Come on.
00:16:41Good girl.
00:16:44I am an insurance agent.
00:16:46It's a pretty monotonous day in and day out career.
00:17:00I am in charge of writing new business.
00:17:04Good morning.
00:17:05Hi, this is Debbie.
00:17:07We have metrics that we have to hit every day.
00:17:10I was going over that quote that we did for your auto insurance.
00:17:14Walking someone through a claim, anything that you can think of in the course of an insurance policy.
00:17:20We want to make sure that you are absolutely covered with all of your coverages.
00:17:24Freezing your deductibles from $500 to $1,000.
00:17:27The state of Louisiana allows for a five-year interval for an accident.
00:17:31It would be very important for you to carry higher bodily injury coverages.
00:17:37But outside of work, my life is way more exciting.
00:17:41Six years ago, I decided that I was going to take a trip to Egypt with my daughter and ended
00:17:47up meeting the love of my life.
00:17:52My fiancé's name is Mido.
00:17:54He is 41 years old, and he's an Egyptian movie star.
00:18:01Mido is an actor and a model.
00:18:04I mean, look at him.
00:18:06He has a fantastic smile, an absolutely gorgeous face, and he has a charm and a wit about him that
00:18:13makes all his physical attributes electrifying.
00:18:18Mido is famous.
00:18:23On social media, he's got hundreds of thousands of followers.
00:18:27People know who he is in Egypt.
00:18:32So, what kinds of movies and TV has Mido done in Egypt?
00:18:39Mido's...
00:18:41Honestly, he doesn't show me his work.
00:18:44I don't know why.
00:18:45I've asked him to send me, like, reels of stuff that he's done.
00:18:51But he says, I'm not going to understand what they're saying.
00:18:54So, he keeps telling me, I'll show you when I arrive, and I'll explain to you what's going on.
00:19:01But he's got hundreds of thousands of followers.
00:19:03So, obviously, he's built up some sort of following.
00:19:15Let's call Poppy.
00:19:16Let's call Poppy.
00:19:17Come on.
00:19:21Hey, Bibi.
00:19:23I'm here.
00:19:25Handsome.
00:19:27Look where I am.
00:19:28Okay.
00:19:28Let me see.
00:19:32Oh, my gosh.
00:19:34No, my pyramid's not finished yet.
00:19:36Maybe next year.
00:19:37Your pyramid is not finished yet.
00:19:40Okay.
00:19:40Yes, I'm the last pyramid.
00:19:42You know that?
00:19:45The funnest thing about Mido is that we just have a really good banter.
00:19:50But at first, when I met Mido, he annoyed me.
00:19:56I was on a trip with my daughter, Devin, to Egypt, and he was our tour guide.
00:20:02He said probably one of the cheesiest things possible.
00:20:06He called me Cleopatra or some goddess.
00:20:10I don't remember which one, but it was enough that I was just like, oh, God.
00:20:17And then my daughter leans over, and she's like, he's flirting with you.
00:20:23And I went, no.
00:20:27She was like, Mom, he's flirting with you.
00:20:30And so we climbed into the Great Pyramid of Khufu, and when we were climbing down, he kissed me.
00:20:40And I was really kind of, like, shocked being single for so long.
00:20:45I kind of didn't know what to do with it.
00:20:48You know, he's younger than I am, very handsome.
00:20:52He's very charismatic.
00:20:54It was just something that I didn't know if it was real.
00:21:02Are you nervous for your trip?
00:21:05Little bit.
00:21:06Little bit?
00:21:08No, you know who will leave everything here.
00:21:10My friend is my career.
00:21:12So I will start from the beginning.
00:21:16What are you going to be packing?
00:21:18Tuna fish, tuna fish.
00:21:21Baby, we have tuna fish.
00:21:23You don't need to pack.
00:21:24Really?
00:21:25Really?
00:21:25Yes.
00:21:26I think your tuna fish speak English.
00:21:28My tuna fish speak Arabic.
00:21:30That's different.
00:21:32I miss you.
00:21:33I miss you too, Habibi.
00:21:35Can you print me headshots?
00:21:37Yeah, definitely.
00:21:39Send me some more of your modeling shots so I can print those.
00:21:44Okay, Habibi.
00:21:45I will do.
00:21:46Okay.
00:21:48When Mido gets to America, his expectation is he definitely wants to be an actor, and he
00:21:54wants to be a major actor.
00:21:56I love you.
00:21:59Bye-bye.
00:21:59And that's also a great fear, because what if he arrives here, and after two months realizes
00:22:07this is not going to be the place of opportunity?
00:22:10Is he going to be happy here?
00:22:28He's really photogenic.
00:22:30So he still wants to do the acting thing when he gets here?
00:22:32That's the plan.
00:22:34I don't know that the acting thing is really going to go anywhere, personally.
00:22:39I love this one.
00:22:42He's so photogenic.
00:22:44This looks like an amateur photo shoot thing for, like, Abercrombie and Fitch or something.
00:22:52What do you think of Mido's headshots?
00:22:56He knows how to find the light in pictures.
00:23:00To me, they don't really scream for, like, professional actor headshots.
00:23:04They look like Instagram model.
00:23:09I wish this one wouldn't have chopped his head off.
00:23:13I'm trying to be supportive, but he's already asking if I would be willing to, like, move.
00:23:21Move where?
00:23:24Hollywood, New York.
00:23:26He wants you to move to Hollywood with him.
00:23:31His first priority should be focus on the relationship with you.
00:23:36He's very talented.
00:23:39He loves the camera.
00:23:41The camera obviously loves him, too.
00:23:46He just needs a reality check, because I know that there has been a lot of weird sketchiness going on.
00:23:56Let's be real here.
00:23:58I know.
00:24:00Mido is semi-famous on social media, but he does not post me on social media at all.
00:24:09He says that social media is for work.
00:24:13And I don't get as upset that he doesn't post about me as when he posts with other women.
00:24:22That gets on my nerves.
00:24:25I need to hear him more and see him.
00:24:29Yeah.
00:24:30Act like, not acting acting, but see how he acts.
00:24:34Right, like how he behaves.
00:24:36The relationship is going to have to be more important than the dream.
00:24:39Like, if he walked it.
00:24:41Exactly.
00:24:42So, to me, I don't really care what you do, so long as what you do makes you happy.
00:24:49I know that, but I still, I'm still mom.
00:24:54I still want you and your brother to be able to look at me and say, I'm proud of my
00:25:00mom.
00:25:02We are.
00:25:05And I know y'all are grown, and I know that y'all are on your own.
00:25:11But at the end of it all, if I don't make y'all proud...
00:25:20My mom is a very strong woman, but that strength only goes so far.
00:25:25So, I really do genuinely hope that Mito's intentions are pure.
00:25:31I mean, this is already crazy enough.
00:25:35It's good.
00:25:37Well, it's okay.
00:25:38But it's true.
00:25:41She really, truly does deserve happiness and a good, healthy relationship.
00:25:46I can't help but worry that Mito's just coming over here to become a star.
00:25:57I'm out.
00:25:57My divorce with my ex-husband, Michael, was challenging for the kids.
00:26:02I don't want him to replace his dad.
00:26:05Yeah.
00:26:05If the kids tell me this is not what they want, then I'm going to have to call it quits.
00:26:12I know I've crossed some boundaries in the past while, like, drunk.
00:26:16And I just want to be really transparent with you.
00:26:19It's the respect thing.
00:26:21And, like, when it's people like Wasp who have been together, that's not cool.
00:26:35What gets me taken?
00:26:40I tried to find them in my dreams, but I thought, yeah.
00:26:47I'm coming in hell.
00:26:49You're staying up late.
00:26:51You don't have a girl.
00:26:55I got it.
00:26:56I am a ninja.
00:26:59So I have 50-50 custody with my ex-husband, Michael, for the boys.
00:27:04And that's what allows me to live in Pennsylvania and then work in New York City.
00:27:10I live as a high-powered career woman.
00:27:13And then I go home and, like, you know, I'm your basic baseball and football mom.
00:27:17And picking up the kids, cooking dinner, getting them to all their events.
00:27:21And I don't have time for Edward.
00:27:23And that's when he typically feels not paid attention to.
00:27:26And he gets angry.
00:27:26That's one of the fights that we really have on a frequent basis.
00:27:30And when he sees me in action, I hope that he understands why I have, you know, neglected to call
00:27:37him sometimes.
00:27:37Or I'm just too tired at the end of the night to get on a phone call.
00:27:43I'm very grateful for the opportunity to still get to spend some time in New York.
00:27:48But I personally don't like the hustle and bustle of every single day.
00:27:52Like, I'd rather, like, come back to Pennsylvania and relax.
00:28:00So this is my neighborhood.
00:28:01You could take a look around.
00:28:02I love the streets are tree-lined and the neighbors are really nice.
00:28:07But mostly that it's super quiet and it's quite a shift for me.
00:28:11But it's just like a, it's a happier place to be than New York City.
00:28:21Derek, Cole!
00:28:24I kind of separate my mom life versus my career life.
00:28:27Cole, what's my pig?
00:28:29I...
00:28:30Derek is the oldest and he is currently 11 years old.
00:28:34And Cole is the younger one and he's 10.
00:28:37All right, so...
00:28:38All right, I'll go first.
00:28:39Okay, go.
00:28:41They don't even look like brothers.
00:28:42They look completely opposite.
00:28:46Got it.
00:28:47Derek is my little athlete and Cole...
00:28:52No!
00:28:53...is more of my artistic child.
00:28:57Loves art, loves music, loves creating things.
00:29:01Wait, do I have a PI already?
00:29:02Yeah.
00:29:05I'm out.
00:29:06But for me, I love having the contrast in their personalities in my life.
00:29:12And Derek wins.
00:29:14I missed it on purpose, actually.
00:29:15I missed it on purpose, actually.
00:29:16Good game, good game, good game.
00:29:17Good game, good game, good game.
00:29:17Good game.
00:29:18Nice job.
00:29:19Prior to Edward, I've never let the kids meet a boyfriend in person.
00:29:27So, this is one of the biggest changes that we're ever going to experience, you know?
00:29:32It's been like a rollercoaster of emotions every single day.
00:29:37All right, so we know Edward's going to be here in a couple days, so I just want to lay
00:29:42out what's happening exactly, because our lives are changing.
00:29:45Yeah.
00:29:46So, how's everybody feeling about that?
00:29:50When you first told me that Edward was moving here, I was, like, super excited.
00:29:57Yeah?
00:29:58What excites you about having someone live here with us?
00:30:00Dog.
00:30:00Dog.
00:30:01Oh, because I promise you a dog when Edward gets here?
00:30:03Yes.
00:30:05Well, we'll see.
00:30:06We'll see.
00:30:07We've been talking about this for, like, six months.
00:30:10I keep promising we can keep pushing the date back.
00:30:13I didn't even know they were dating for, like, until, like, last year.
00:30:18So, it's only been, like, a year since I've known him, and he's just coming to live with us.
00:30:22So, it's just, like, oh, like a weird reaction in my body.
00:30:28Well, I have a question.
00:30:29Yeah.
00:30:30Like, when Edward comes, like, here, will he have, like, money?
00:30:34That's a good question.
00:30:36He had a job when he was there, right?
00:30:38Yeah.
00:30:38So, where did he work?
00:30:40He worked at a hotel.
00:30:42Fancy hotels?
00:30:43Like, resorts?
00:30:43Or just, like...
00:30:44Yeah, like a resort.
00:30:45But here, we don't have, like, all-inclusive resorts like they do over there.
00:30:48And, you know, that skill set isn't really useful here.
00:30:52Is he going to get an allowance?
00:30:55Probably.
00:30:56I mean, I'm going to have to, like, help pay for things for him while he gets settled here.
00:31:01But, you know, the paychecks there, like, let me put this into perspective.
00:31:05The amount of money that we would, like, a normal person maybe here would get for, like, one week is,
00:31:13like, what Edward would get in his country for, like, a whole month.
00:31:17Do you know what I mean?
00:31:18Mm-hmm.
00:31:20I'm, like, a bit, like, nervous.
00:31:23Yeah?
00:31:23Because, like, it's just going to be, like, another guy coming to live with us.
00:31:26Mm-hmm.
00:31:27Like, I'm not really ready because, like, I met him, but I don't know him.
00:31:31Yeah.
00:31:32That's, like...
00:31:32It's a little scary.
00:31:33Mm.
00:31:33Yeah.
00:31:34I mean, like, I don't want him to replace his dad.
00:31:39Yeah.
00:31:41I mean, I think that you have to remember, like, your dad's always going to be your dad, right?
00:31:45And nobody's ever going to replace him in life.
00:31:49And Edward is kind of just going to be here as, like, another adult to love you guys and play
00:31:53with you.
00:31:53I'm definitely going to say, take it slow.
00:31:57Not, like, coming in and, like, being, like, oh, hello, hello, my son.
00:32:04Mm-hmm.
00:32:04You know, I want to make sure that, like, you feel comfortable.
00:32:08So I'm going to have a conversation with Edward.
00:32:09Because if you're not happy in any way, then this isn't going to work out for all of us, you
00:32:13know?
00:32:13Mm-hmm.
00:32:15My divorce with Michael was challenging for the kids.
00:32:19Mostly for Derek.
00:32:20He was a little older than Cole.
00:32:22And because of that, the boys are the number one priority in my life.
00:32:27Making sure that they feel comfortable is critical to me.
00:32:34Nothing comes above them.
00:32:35And in the 90 days, if the kids tell me this is not what they want, then I'm going to
00:32:39have to call it quits.
00:32:41And that's just a lot of pressure on me to try to make a lot of things work in such
00:32:44a short amount of time.
00:32:47Well, let's stay positive.
00:32:49All right.
00:32:50All right?
00:32:51Mm-hmm.
00:32:58Is it your desire to fool me twice too many times?
00:33:06Did you want cream?
00:33:08Yeah.
00:33:09There's, like, heavy cream in the fridge.
00:33:11Can you just pour some in it?
00:33:13Thanks, babe.
00:33:14Rain on fire.
00:33:16You got me flying around in circles.
00:33:23How did you sleep?
00:33:26I slept so well.
00:33:29You woke up early.
00:33:30Yeah.
00:33:31Because we totally just passed out.
00:33:33I woke up at, like, 6 a.m.
00:33:35Was that about it?
00:33:35I did, too.
00:33:36I woke up when you woke up.
00:33:37Yeah.
00:33:38And then we were just kind of like...
00:33:43Well, that's...
00:33:45Sorry.
00:33:47Me and Josh had sex.
00:33:49We didn't have sex that night.
00:33:51We had sex in the morning because I was dead.
00:33:53And he was dead also.
00:33:54But, yeah, I just want to feel like this again.
00:33:59Last night, you were just like, I'm ready.
00:34:01Which made me happy that you...
00:34:03Yeah, you like that.
00:34:03I really like that you were...
00:34:04That's just what I like.
00:34:06That you're able to, like, tell me that you want me.
00:34:09Yeah.
00:34:09I think it's that kind of, like, open conversation that we just need to keep doing.
00:34:15And, like, it's on me and a big way to, like, say that to you.
00:34:19Because I know that you hearing that helps.
00:34:25I know that, like, with Katie and I, when we don't have sex, she closes up a bit.
00:34:30And I don't have that same reaction.
00:34:33But I know that sex is so important to her.
00:34:36So I feel that she's, I think, a bit more relaxed today.
00:34:41And that's good.
00:34:43I want my other half to feel relaxed.
00:34:46I felt, like, just totally different to how I felt over the past, like, however long.
00:34:53Why do you think that is?
00:34:55Just, like, a big thing is not having, like, immigration looming over.
00:35:00Because, like, pretty much every thought I've had over the past year has been, you know, whatever I'm thinking about.
00:35:09And then immigration.
00:35:11Like, it's just with you all the time.
00:35:13And now that it's happened and I'm here, it's just a massive weight that has gone.
00:35:18And I think that when I'm stressed, sex is, like, another thing on the to-do list now.
00:35:24It feels like something I want to run into because the stress is going away.
00:35:29Does that make sense?
00:35:30Yeah.
00:35:31I think that's good.
00:35:32Yeah?
00:35:35Love you.
00:35:36Love you.
00:35:39I definitely feel more connected to Josh after having sex.
00:35:43It feels like we're in a good place.
00:35:44And so, I'm hoping that in the next 90 days, we'll be more sexually compatible and ready for marriage.
00:35:52I've been feeding lies and my hands are tied by the secret that controls me.
00:35:59So, where are we going?
00:36:01Uh, this way.
00:36:04I'm excited to show you around the neighbourhood.
00:36:07Nice.
00:36:07I think Portland is just so beautiful from what I've seen.
00:36:11Ah!
00:36:15That's cute.
00:36:17There's a goat.
00:36:19Hello!
00:36:21Hi!
00:36:22This is very cute.
00:36:24Hi!
00:36:24I'm not feeding you.
00:36:26Aw!
00:36:28No donuts.
00:36:29No donuts!
00:36:31I love...
00:36:32We should watch a goat someday.
00:36:34Yeah.
00:36:35How's a collar, like a dog?
00:36:36I feel like that's very Portland.
00:36:39It's like urban goat father.
00:36:40Yeah.
00:36:40That's so cute.
00:36:43Okay.
00:36:43Anyways.
00:36:45So, what do you want to do tonight?
00:36:47Um, I have a surprise welcome party planned for you.
00:36:52Yeah.
00:36:53I wanted to tell you ahead of time.
00:36:54Yeah.
00:36:55Because surprise parties are weird, but...
00:36:56Yeah.
00:36:56Who's going to be there?
00:36:58Um, I think it's just, like, running club people.
00:37:01Christine, Claire, Danica, Eddie.
00:37:05Like, um, let me think.
00:37:06It's, like, Mark, you know, like how we're dated, like, casually dated for, like, two weeks.
00:37:11Well, I know the story of a talk.
00:37:14Okay.
00:37:14So you remember.
00:37:17I think I've made out with 90% of the single men at the run club.
00:37:25Have any of these makeouts happened after you were already in a relationship with Josh?
00:37:29Yeah.
00:37:30Some of the makeouts have happened after I met and was already in a relationship with Josh.
00:37:39I know I've done things that haven't been fair to you, like, in the past while, like, drunk and crossed
00:37:44some boundaries.
00:37:45So I just, like, wanted to, like, start off Portland.
00:37:48Just, I don't know.
00:37:50I just want to be really transparent with you.
00:37:52Like, I'm not really a jealous person.
00:37:54It's the respect thing.
00:37:55And, like, when it's people whilst we've been together, that's not cool.
00:38:01It's really hard for me to resist kissing other people.
00:38:04Like, the compulsion part of OCD is, like, you do a thing to, like, neutralize the obsession.
00:38:11But then when you do the compulsion, it actually makes it all worse.
00:38:14And then it turns into a time-consuming, stressful, useless cycle.
00:38:20I know that Josh forgives me when I make out with people.
00:38:24But I'm, sometimes I'm worried, oh, is this the last time?
00:38:27Like, I don't think I could do it every week or, I don't even want, I don't want to do
00:38:32it every week.
00:38:32But I don't think I could do it, like, for the next, like, few years and have him forgive me
00:38:37every time.
00:38:38I feel like I'm in a good headspace with us.
00:38:41Nice.
00:38:42Especially after last night.
00:38:43Because I know I've been particularly unhinged in London.
00:38:49Yeah.
00:38:49And I'll try to let you know before we start drinking what kind of headspace I am in, in the
00:38:54future.
00:38:55I feel like I've come to the U.S. willing to, like, have a new chapter with Katie and move
00:39:00forwards.
00:39:01And we've got these 90 days to prove to each other that we're here and we're here with, like, meaning
00:39:09and intent.
00:39:10Katie needs to settle down a bit and have some level of stability or this relationship, it won't work.
00:39:17And I think she just needs to curb the bull****.
00:39:35The love that you're laying down, it is a part of the other side's plan.
00:39:47We won't run, we won't hide, we won't live like a broken angel.
00:40:00All right, Mom.
00:40:02I'm about to go see that attorney about Maxwell.
00:40:06So, you think the attorney going to be able to work things out?
00:40:09I don't know.
00:40:09I hope so.
00:40:10How is Maxwell handling this situation?
00:40:12He devastated.
00:40:14You know, he already started the moving process.
00:40:18You know, he got his stuff ready to go.
00:40:20You know, he done made his plans, he done told his family.
00:40:22So right now, I'm just going to talk to his attorney and see what options they give us.
00:40:29It never crossed my mind for a second that that application would be denied because I have
00:40:34God on my side.
00:40:35I feel very upset, enraged, and angry.
00:40:40Well, if this attorney don't work, who would you do next?
00:40:43I don't know.
00:40:44We're going to have to get some advice from them.
00:40:46The appeal would be the best option, and we can get another person to interview them,
00:40:50and then hopefully we don't have to restart this process over again.
00:40:54So I guess I'm going to head on out.
00:40:56I don't want to be late, and then I got to pick up Rod.
00:40:59Where Rod at?
00:41:00At the coffee shop, honey.
00:41:01But I feel like he'll have good expertise on, you know, trying to help me navigate everything.
00:41:06Yeah.
00:41:06Yeah.
00:41:06He will.
00:41:10Rod is my godbrother, so we have a really close relationship, like, almost as if he was
00:41:17my real brother, and he treats me as so.
00:41:20Is Rod overly protective of you?
00:41:22Rod is crazy.
00:41:25So, I kid you not.
00:41:27Hey, Rod.
00:41:27I'm outside.
00:41:29I'm over here to the left, and I hope you got me some coffee.
00:41:31Okay.
00:41:32All right.
00:41:32Bye-bye.
00:41:34When I first told Rod about Maxwell, he was a little confused, I think, as far as, like,
00:41:42how did you meet this man?
00:41:44And then Rod is stuck on Nigerians or scammers, rather than looking at the one person who is
00:41:51Maxwell.
00:41:53What up, Rod?
00:41:54Hey.
00:41:55Hey.
00:41:55You okay?
00:41:57Hey.
00:41:58Yeah.
00:41:59Yeah.
00:42:03I'm glad you able to go with me today.
00:42:05I really want to see what this attorney going to say if the appeal is an option.
00:42:11Tell me, American men, you just gave up.
00:42:20No, I'm not saying I gave up on American men.
00:42:23There's Nigerian men here in the United States.
00:42:25There are, but that's not the one for me.
00:42:31But to go back to all the guys I tried to hook you up with, all these type of guys
00:42:36that
00:42:37wasn't, you had a big, tall list, and this guy is none of that, so...
00:42:42Oh, don't do that.
00:42:43Now, he's most of that.
00:42:46As far back as I can remember, I've had this list of characteristics I want my husband
00:42:52to have.
00:42:52I had an AOL account when I first made that list, so you know how old that was.
00:42:58Every time that I would come in contact with a guy that, like, had a flaw or something I
00:43:02didn't like, I'll just keep adding and adding to this list.
00:43:06Honey, that list was everywhere.
00:43:11Like, the list was everywhere.
00:43:13Do you have that list?
00:43:15It's on my phone.
00:43:16Oh, go get it.
00:43:17Go get that list.
00:43:18Oh, okay.
00:43:19Well, hold on, girl.
00:43:20It's stuff every man just about should possess.
00:43:25So here we go.
00:43:27First, no smoking, no drinking, no kids.
00:43:31Great job.
00:43:32Has ambition.
00:43:33I don't want him, like, just so diehard God that you can't have fun, you know?
00:43:37Understanding.
00:43:38Organized, because I'm not organized.
00:43:41Athletic built.
00:43:42Great lover.
00:43:43I don't like men with big feet.
00:43:48Wealthy.
00:43:49Knows his purpose.
00:43:50Good hygiene.
00:43:51Good hair.
00:43:52Pretty teeth.
00:43:53I put love God again, so I guess I just really want that to be on the list.
00:43:58But that's just part of it.
00:43:59It was long.
00:44:01It was long.
00:44:03Like, one of my friend's mom was like, girl, you need to burn that list.
00:44:07Like, get rid of that list.
00:44:08You'll never get a husband like this.
00:44:10You more worried about the list than me.
00:44:12Well, I'm worried about your safety.
00:44:15This is a scary situation for everybody.
00:44:18And then it may be...
00:44:18A scary situation for everybody, a scary situation for you.
00:44:23Let's just keep it real, you know?
00:44:25It should be a scary situation for everybody.
00:44:28Because there's so much unknown.
00:44:31It is a lot of unknown.
00:44:32I mean, what if the embassy, they know something that we don't know?
00:44:39Aisha, biological clock is ticking.
00:44:41And she thinks she should be married by now.
00:44:44And I think she's rushing into this.
00:44:47I don't really know the guy, so I don't want to say that he's a bad guy.
00:44:52But it's not a realistic relationship.
00:44:54But she thinks so.
00:44:57I'm just trying to protect you, but I don't know.
00:45:00I don't know.
00:45:01I feel like this ain't the time for protection.
00:45:04I feel like this is the time where it needs to be support.
00:45:07Looking out for your well-being is support.
00:45:13I feel like Rod has lost his mind by questioning my choices.
00:45:17It's hurtful that he does not think that I'm wise enough to make good decisions.
00:45:24And we already have enough problems with this denial.
00:45:28So the last thing I need is Rod saying nay, nay, nay.
00:45:32Are you determined to get your man to the U.S.?
00:45:35Oh, 100%, 110%.
00:45:39Maybe the way that I thought it was going to be done is different than what God had planned.
00:45:46But at the end of the day, I'm getting Maxwell to the U.S.A.
00:45:50I don't know.
00:45:51Everything is just a question mark for me.
00:45:53I mean, what is the rush?
00:45:54What is the rush?
00:46:00All the sugar slipped in my coffee cup
00:46:05You're the sweet, warm dough
00:46:07I can't get enough
00:46:10Hey, pretty precious.
00:46:11Hey, pretty girl.
00:46:13What's that little girl doing?
00:46:15Is she being snuggly?
00:46:16There you are.
00:46:18Poppy doesn't want you sleeping in the bed.
00:46:20Mito wants you sleeping out in your own spot.
00:46:23What?
00:46:24Okay.
00:46:25We're going to find a spot just for you.
00:46:27I'm your chicory mama
00:46:30I don't take long to brew
00:46:34Does your chicory mama
00:46:38Always have a girl
00:46:39Where's that big girl?
00:46:41Where's my pretty girl?
00:46:42All right, sweetheart.
00:46:43I'll be home in a little bit.
00:46:45Little bit.
00:46:47Mito has set rules for a little bit
00:46:49that she cannot sleep in the bed with him.
00:46:52Give me some loving
00:46:54I mean, in the Muslim faith
00:46:57dogs are not to be inside your home
00:47:01It's haram, is what they say
00:47:04They're looked at as dirty
00:47:07Little bit has spent every night of her life
00:47:09with me in my bed
00:47:12So I don't know how them two are going to fight that out
00:47:21But I mean, I have not shared a bed
00:47:24or lived with a man
00:47:26in almost 20 years
00:47:27So the dog is the least of our worries
00:47:31How are you?
00:47:34Good to see you
00:47:40Girl, how's it going?
00:47:42It's so good to see you
00:47:44I know, oh my gosh
00:47:45How's it going?
00:47:47It's going pretty good
00:47:47And how about you?
00:47:51What's going on, Tabby?
00:47:52When I tell you everything feels like it's coming
00:47:55150 miles per hour
00:47:57Well, because it is
00:47:59What's going to be like the sleeping arrangements
00:48:01in the apartment?
00:48:02Like is
00:48:02Devin's on the couch for now
00:48:04Does he know y'all are going to be sharing a bedroom?
00:48:06Yeah
00:48:06I think he does
00:48:09I mean, unless he wants to sleep on the air mattress
00:48:12So y'all have never slept in the same bed together?
00:48:15Him being Muslim
00:48:16There's like some pretty tight parameters
00:48:19of pre-marriage and post-marriage
00:48:22So what do Muslims believe
00:48:23that you're allowed to do before marriage?
00:48:26Nothing
00:48:26So you guys have straight up never had sex?
00:48:30Never
00:48:30Is he a virgin?
00:48:36Whoa
00:48:39Wow
00:48:42Mito is a 41-year-old virgin
00:48:45He's going to kill me for saying that
00:48:49I mean, have you ever, like, kissed?
00:48:52Yes
00:48:53Okay
00:48:54At first, because he abstained
00:48:57I didn't think that he was interested in me
00:49:00Until he explained to me
00:49:03He had never been with a woman before
00:49:05I just found the whole situation so bizarre
00:49:09Because how do you believe a 30-something-year-old
00:49:13that's telling you this
00:49:14From the U.S., where are you going to find that?
00:49:19Or at least you're not going to find somebody
00:49:21that's going to admit it
00:49:24How old is he?
00:49:2541
00:49:27Wow
00:49:29And I know, I've actually had people tell me
00:49:31I don't believe you
00:49:34Why were you surprised?
00:49:35Because I'm a slut
00:49:39Sorry
00:49:42When I hear that somebody is 40 years old
00:49:46in a virgin
00:49:48I'm kind of skeptical
00:49:49I mean, 40 years?
00:49:52Really?
00:49:54It's so unlikely that they even made a movie
00:49:56with that title
00:49:59I just want to make sure I have this straight
00:50:00You're going to be marrying somebody
00:50:02in like
00:50:03Two and a half months
00:50:04Two and a half months
00:50:06that you haven't physically seen
00:50:08or touched in three years
00:50:11And you're going to sleep in the same bed
00:50:13with him for 90 days
00:50:15and not have any sex?
00:50:17That's the goal
00:50:19Wow
00:50:19Is it attainable?
00:50:21I have no idea
00:50:23I give it up on the third date, girl
00:50:25I don't know how you're going to do it
00:50:27How do you feel about
00:50:29how stable your relationship has been
00:50:32over the last six years?
00:50:34Like, have you felt like
00:50:36Yep
00:50:36I mean, we're in it
00:50:38So, I mean, at this rate
00:50:39Yeah
00:50:41You guys had a rough patch
00:50:42I had a couple
00:50:44There were some times
00:50:45when y'all were not
00:50:46all lollipops and rainbows
00:50:48Yeah
00:50:48No?
00:50:49That damn social media
00:50:50With that girl
00:50:51That social media
00:50:52That girl
00:50:53Yep
00:50:53That girl
00:50:56I can't believe
00:50:57I got to talk about this bitch
00:50:59Um
00:51:00I'm, like, grinding teeth
00:51:03to even have to bring her up
00:51:07And she's not
00:51:08anywhere near him anymore?
00:51:10Not that I know of
00:51:11And it's been over a year
00:51:14So we actually broke up
00:51:16for a while
00:51:17He was posting
00:51:19with this one Egyptian actress
00:51:21that's very famous
00:51:24He thinks that I'm being ridiculous
00:51:26and that this is just work
00:51:28And that's his friend
00:51:31I'm not dumb
00:51:33I can definitely read a situation
00:51:36pretty well
00:51:37And if something doesn't feel right
00:51:41Something's not right
00:51:43I mean, I'm not deluding myself
00:51:46to think any of this
00:51:47is gonna be an easy walk
00:51:49I'm worried
00:51:50The biggest thing
00:51:52that I'm worried about
00:51:52is you getting hurt
00:51:53We know that you're in this
00:51:55for love
00:51:56But we don't know him
00:51:57Yeah
00:51:58At all
00:51:59So we have no idea
00:52:00what his, like, agenda is
00:52:04I think from the beginning
00:52:06it's been a lot of blind faith
00:52:08with the acting
00:52:10with the
00:52:11the abstaining
00:52:13with the social media battle
00:52:15So I really
00:52:16really, really
00:52:18really am concerned
00:52:19But then people write books
00:52:21about stuff like this
00:52:23I may get lucky enough
00:52:25and have the dream
00:52:27May not
00:52:31But I also might
00:52:33And why not
00:52:34take that chance
00:52:37This is gonna be
00:52:37a real trip
00:52:39It's gonna be
00:52:40a real trip
00:52:41It's gonna be
00:52:42a hard one
00:52:51A clean man
00:52:53is a sexy man for me
00:52:54Okay
00:52:55Let's clean your ass
00:52:57Even if I take a poop
00:52:59Annabelle is
00:53:00trying to
00:53:01get me in the shower
00:53:02You get this one
00:53:04I'm excited
00:53:05Tonight
00:53:05I just like
00:53:07his penis
00:53:08a bad smell
00:53:21I think I'm right up here, babe
00:53:22I think that's one
00:53:23That's not it, no
00:53:25Okay
00:53:26But it's over here somewhere
00:53:27In the Philippines
00:53:28it's very different
00:53:29They're all little trucks
00:53:30or anything, baby
00:53:31Everybody here's got big trucks
00:53:32Philippines, little
00:53:33This one, babe?
00:53:34Your truck?
00:53:35Yeah, right here, baby
00:53:38Thank you
00:53:39You're welcome
00:53:50It's my first time
00:53:51to ride in the big truck
00:53:54Very nice to ride in
00:53:55the big truck
00:53:57Smooth, right?
00:53:58Very smooth
00:54:00In the Philippines
00:54:01We're
00:54:01Bang, bang, bang, bang
00:54:03Oh, so you see the left
00:54:08That's the St. Louis Arch
00:54:11They call that
00:54:12the gateway to the west
00:54:13because
00:54:14coming from our way
00:54:16all the settlers
00:54:17would cross Mississippi River
00:54:19and they'd go west
00:54:20It looks amazing
00:54:22It is
00:54:23It's like your gateway
00:54:24to your new life
00:54:25in America
00:54:28All right
00:54:29I think this is it, baby
00:54:31Looks kind of like
00:54:32a church or a castle
00:54:33doesn't it?
00:54:34Mm-hmm
00:54:34Very nice
00:54:36I don't know if I got
00:54:37in the parking spot
00:54:38right or not
00:54:45Wow
00:54:46This looks amazing
00:54:49Wow
00:54:50Hi
00:54:51Welcome to Gothic Heights Inn
00:54:52How's it going?
00:54:53What's your name?
00:54:53I'm Shay
00:54:54Hi, I'm Ken
00:54:54Welcome
00:54:55Nice to meet you
00:54:55This is Annabelle
00:54:56Hi, nice to meet you
00:54:58Welcome
00:54:58This is a former
00:55:00Methodist church
00:55:01that's been converted
00:55:01to a four-bedroom inn
00:55:03Wow
00:55:05I wanted Annabelle
00:55:06to feel special
00:55:07the first night
00:55:09So I, you know
00:55:10I got this room
00:55:11and I just wanted
00:55:12to show her
00:55:12how excited I was
00:55:13for her to get here
00:55:15I like
00:55:16It looks like
00:55:16old charts
00:55:18I knew you'd like
00:55:19the stained glass
00:55:21It's my first time
00:55:22to see a hotel
00:55:23with charts
00:55:25So you guys are staying
00:55:26in our botanical suite?
00:55:28Let's go
00:55:29Can I show you?
00:55:29Yeah, sure
00:55:30We'll just follow you, sir
00:55:31But I think
00:55:32the things we might do
00:55:34tonight
00:55:34aren't really appropriate
00:55:36for a church
00:55:36So
00:55:37we might have to
00:55:38turn the Jesus
00:55:39pictures around
00:55:40so he's not looking
00:55:41at you
00:55:41You do it
00:55:49Wow
00:55:51Mmm
00:55:52Mmm
00:55:52Oh
00:55:54Dang
00:55:55Look at the bath
00:55:56Look how big the tub is
00:55:58Wow
00:55:59Big bath
00:56:00I need you to make
00:56:02it
00:56:02Get the water going
00:56:04A clean man
00:56:05is a sexy man for me
00:56:07I'm not going to touch him
00:56:09if he's dirty
00:56:10I can't wait to scrub
00:56:12Are you ready?
00:56:14Oh
00:56:15I clean it good
00:56:17His ass
00:56:18His ball
00:56:20His eggs
00:56:20What can I call it
00:56:22Egg na ball
00:56:22Okay, let's go
00:56:24Alright
00:56:25I clean his penis
00:56:27and I rub it good inside
00:56:29I don't like his penis
00:56:32a bad smell
00:56:33Hold on
00:56:34We're not
00:56:36Tsunami here
00:56:37Tsunami
00:56:38No, it's good
00:56:40It's hot?
00:56:41Yeah
00:56:44I started from here
00:56:45at the back
00:56:47Oh
00:56:48Good?
00:56:49Yeah
00:56:49And the armpit
00:56:52And it's in the chest
00:56:55Especially here
00:56:58This reminds me
00:56:59in the Philippines
00:56:59Yeah
00:57:00You're with me right
00:57:01when I met you
00:57:02the first time
00:57:03That's why you fall
00:57:04in love with me
00:57:05You this one
00:57:07Mmm
00:57:08I will not do this
00:57:10That's true
00:57:12Get the
00:57:13Keep scrubbing down
00:57:14everybody
00:57:15You have to get in
00:57:15with me
00:57:17What?
00:57:18Yeah
00:57:19I'm excited
00:57:20Tonight
00:57:22I'll have to admit
00:57:23it was kind of a turn on
00:57:24First time I met her
00:57:25but she's since then
00:57:27she's got a little
00:57:27more comfortable with it
00:57:28and you know
00:57:29I have to tell her
00:57:30just calm down
00:57:31and you get real fast
00:57:35She scratched me
00:57:36several times
00:57:37like where it hurt
00:57:38and left a mark
00:57:41Okay
00:57:42Let's clean your ass
00:57:44and you're gonna
00:57:44get me your ass
00:57:45Even if I take a poop
00:57:47Annabelle is
00:57:48trying to
00:57:49get me in the shower
00:57:51or wet rag
00:57:52and I'm like
00:57:53that's not
00:57:53that's not
00:57:54what we do here
00:57:55The Philippines
00:57:56after you poop
00:57:57you wash
00:57:58with water
00:57:59Toilet paper works
00:58:00good too
00:58:01but we can't
00:58:02take a bath
00:58:03every time
00:58:03we use a restroom
00:58:04baby
00:58:06Can I check your
00:58:07toenail babe?
00:58:08Oh yeah
00:58:10Okay
00:58:11How do they look
00:58:12babe?
00:58:13Long but
00:58:14still can't
00:58:15be there
00:58:16Toonails
00:58:17is very important
00:58:18to cut it
00:58:19If his toenails
00:58:21get too long
00:58:22he scratch
00:58:22touch on my legs
00:58:23They look good?
00:58:25Yeah
00:58:25I don't mind
00:58:26you clipping
00:58:27my toenails
00:58:28because it's
00:58:28definitely something
00:58:29I don't enjoy doing
00:58:33I want to try
00:58:34some champagne
00:58:34baby
00:58:35Oh
00:58:36Oh
00:58:37baby
00:58:40It's my first
00:58:42in America
00:58:42but you want
00:58:43to get my face
00:58:44enough baby
00:58:46thank you
00:58:47Okay
00:58:47Bottle back in there
00:58:53Okay
00:58:54Yeah
00:58:55Very good taste
00:58:55baby
00:58:56Yeah
00:58:58Mmm
00:59:02Tastes good
00:59:03Let me taste
00:59:04the champagne
00:59:04baby
00:59:04Mmm
00:59:07Mmm
00:59:07When it comes
00:59:08to sex
00:59:09usually Annabelle
00:59:10tells me
00:59:11what to do
00:59:12what she wants
00:59:13Yeah
00:59:14Yum yum
00:59:20I am 54 years old
00:59:22but
00:59:23my sex drive
00:59:25is like
00:59:25a 25 years old
00:59:27woman
00:59:27Of course
00:59:29It's been two years
00:59:31I did not
00:59:32make love
00:59:32to Shea
00:59:33It's time
00:59:35to get dirty
00:59:35Mmm
00:59:36Sounds interesting
00:59:37man
00:59:45I miss you
00:59:46too much
00:59:46baby
00:59:56Oh baby
00:59:57Baby
00:59:58Mmm
00:59:59Yum yum
01:00:03Every able body
01:00:05says
01:00:06Amen
01:00:08And Amen
01:00:10Thank you
01:00:15Hello
01:00:15Hello
01:00:16How are you
01:00:17Doing well
01:00:18Asha
01:00:19I do not
01:00:20take no
01:00:21for an answer
01:00:21at all
01:00:22If there is
01:00:23a solution
01:00:24Oh I'm gonna
01:00:25find it
01:00:25Another option
01:00:27would be
01:00:27you could get
01:00:28married
01:00:29She do not
01:00:30need to like
01:00:30go get married
01:00:31to try to
01:00:32rush this thing
01:00:32or anything
01:00:33that she
01:00:33If you gonna
01:00:34be on the board
01:00:35and be support
01:00:35be support
01:00:36I'm being
01:00:36supportive
01:00:37Nah not really
01:01:00Oh wow
01:01:01Love
01:01:02Immigration
01:01:03You look at it
01:01:03I have love
01:01:04sticking out
01:01:04right there
01:01:05Yeah
01:01:05I'm already
01:01:06I'm not impressed
01:01:08I feel some type
01:01:09of way already
01:01:09You better get
01:01:10some love
01:01:11in your heart
01:01:11I feel like
01:01:11this is a marketing
01:01:12scheme here
01:01:13with the word
01:01:14love
01:01:15I love it
01:01:16I think it's cute
01:01:18Alright
01:01:19Cool
01:01:24Ready
01:01:30Hello
01:01:31Good morning
01:01:32How can I help
01:01:33you today?
01:01:33Yes
01:01:34I had an appointment
01:01:34If you fall after me
01:01:36I can show you
01:01:37where that's at
01:01:37Okay
01:01:38Thank you
01:01:38Yeah
01:01:40I'm the type
01:01:41of person
01:01:41I do not take
01:01:42no for an answer
01:01:44at all
01:01:44because if there
01:01:46is a solution
01:01:47oh I'm gonna
01:01:48find it
01:01:48Right this way
01:01:51Hello
01:01:51Hello
01:01:52How are you?
01:01:53Doing well
01:01:54Asha
01:01:54Jeremy
01:01:54Ideally
01:01:55I would love
01:01:56for this attorney
01:01:58to say
01:01:59it's a possibility
01:02:00that this case
01:02:01can go back
01:02:02to the embassy
01:02:02that I do not
01:02:03have to restart
01:02:04this process
01:02:04because I just
01:02:05feel like
01:02:06this case
01:02:06went before
01:02:07the right person
01:02:08then it could
01:02:09convince anybody
01:02:10that the relationship
01:02:11is real
01:02:11because the relationship
01:02:12is real
01:02:12How are y'all doing today?
01:02:14We're doing good
01:02:14Good
01:02:15Good
01:02:15Well
01:02:16I know a little bit
01:02:17about the situation
01:02:17from when the appointment
01:02:18was made
01:02:19but I'll let you start
01:02:20how can I help you?
01:02:21I really do hope
01:02:22you can help us
01:02:23because I feel like
01:02:24my story is more special
01:02:25than any story
01:02:26because it was God
01:02:27our day
01:02:27Wow
01:02:28Okay
01:02:30So my fiance's name
01:02:31is Maxwell
01:02:31and I introduced
01:02:33my best friend
01:02:34to his best friend
01:02:35Right
01:02:35And so we did
01:02:37the entire
01:02:37K-1 visa process
01:02:39together
01:02:39Right
01:02:40So when
01:02:41they went in
01:02:42for their interview
01:02:43the guy was like
01:02:45there's no way
01:02:46two friends
01:02:47are engaged
01:02:48to two friends
01:02:48so he felt like
01:02:49we were helping them
01:02:50get to America
01:02:52so they denied it
01:02:53So I just want to know
01:02:55about the appeal process
01:02:56Have you ever done an appeal?
01:02:58There's not really
01:02:59an appeal process
01:03:00that we could go through
01:03:03Without a shadow of a doubt
01:03:05there's no possibility
01:03:06of an appeal
01:03:07Not in this situation
01:03:11Applying for this visa
01:03:12is taking almost
01:03:13two years
01:03:14of our lives away
01:03:15and literally
01:03:16me, him
01:03:17his family
01:03:18has spent
01:03:19thousands of dollars
01:03:20on this visa
01:03:21and then for what?
01:03:22I was hoping
01:03:23for an appeal
01:03:24The attorney is saying
01:03:26that's not an option
01:03:27and I just feel
01:03:29you know
01:03:29defeated
01:03:30disgusted
01:03:31irritated
01:03:31like this is unreal
01:03:35The options that I see
01:03:36going forward
01:03:37is that you could file
01:03:38another K-1 petition
01:03:40Another option would be
01:03:41you could get married
01:03:44and you could file
01:03:45the CR-1
01:03:46spousal petition
01:03:47so you'd have to go there
01:03:48and get married
01:03:49and you could file a petition
01:03:50as a spouse
01:03:52she do not need to
01:03:53like go get married
01:03:54to try to arrest
01:03:55this thing
01:03:55or anything
01:03:56does she
01:03:56No, she definitely
01:03:58does not have to
01:03:58go get married
01:03:59in order to get
01:03:59this case approved
01:04:00to get him here
01:04:01So you would recommend
01:04:02to her that
01:04:04she don't need to
01:04:04Don't coach him
01:04:05No, you're good
01:04:06My job is to let you know
01:04:07what your options are
01:04:08and then y'all
01:04:09make the decision
01:04:12If you gonna be on the board
01:04:13and be support
01:04:13be support
01:04:14I'm being supportive
01:04:15No, not really
01:04:15Yeah, I'm supportive
01:04:17but supportive
01:04:19is you first
01:04:22I'm sorry
01:04:23attorney love
01:04:23I'm sorry
01:04:24I'm just making sure
01:04:26I'm just making sure
01:04:29I don't want Aisha
01:04:31to go over
01:04:31and marry this guy
01:04:33in Nigeria at all
01:04:34It doesn't give me
01:04:37an opportunity
01:04:37to really see
01:04:39who this guy
01:04:39really is
01:04:40I'm her protector
01:04:42I don't want her
01:04:42to be scammed
01:04:44or I don't want her
01:04:45to be heard either
01:04:47What would you say
01:04:48the K1
01:04:49like how long
01:04:50do you think
01:04:50versus the CR1
01:04:52So the K1
01:04:53right now
01:04:53it really varies
01:04:54but you're looking
01:04:55at probably around
01:04:56a year and a half
01:04:57Okay
01:04:58Now if we do
01:04:59the other process
01:05:00the CR1
01:05:01you're looking at
01:05:01probably around
01:05:02two years or so
01:05:03I would
01:05:04not what I would think
01:05:04If I go through
01:05:06this process
01:05:06and you're saying
01:05:07a year to two
01:05:08is there a possibility
01:05:09that it might be denied
01:05:11for any reason
01:05:13It's possible
01:05:14Oh that ain't
01:05:15what I want to hear
01:05:19Because there were
01:05:20some immigration
01:05:21issues in the past
01:05:22where there was
01:05:24actually findings
01:05:25of fraud
01:05:25or misrepresentation
01:05:26they could still
01:05:27find that again
01:05:29I mean so
01:05:30what options
01:05:31are they leaving us
01:05:32literally for me
01:05:32to marry Maxwell
01:05:34live thousands
01:05:35of miles away
01:05:36and continue
01:05:37life like that
01:05:38that doesn't even
01:05:39make sense
01:05:39I'm 38
01:05:40my biological clock
01:05:42is ticking
01:05:42I do not have
01:05:43time for this
01:05:44I literally came
01:05:45to this meeting
01:05:46looking for answers
01:05:46and at the end
01:05:48of the day
01:05:48I'm left with
01:05:49more questions
01:05:50Well I have a lot
01:05:51of things to think
01:05:52about
01:05:52of course we'll
01:05:53discuss and hopefully
01:05:55we can get them
01:05:56here
01:05:57I truly believe
01:05:58you know
01:05:59and I stand on it
01:06:00and I have faith
01:06:01in God
01:06:01that this relationship
01:06:02is going to work
01:06:04but I just don't
01:06:05know how
01:06:16I don't know
01:06:17if they'll look
01:06:18at me just like
01:06:19like I'm
01:06:20an idiot
01:06:21or
01:06:22we've known Katie
01:06:23for a while
01:06:23she does come
01:06:24with that level
01:06:25of craziness
01:06:26where you're like
01:06:26okay hold on
01:06:27like let's slow down
01:06:28like what are you
01:06:29doing here
01:06:29I'm not sure
01:06:30whether it's one
01:06:31of those situations
01:06:32where everyone else
01:06:33in the room
01:06:34knows something
01:06:35and they don't
01:06:36want to tell me
01:06:49okay
01:06:56is this the place
01:06:57yes it is
01:06:58are you excited
01:06:59yes
01:07:06I'm so good
01:07:08to see everyone
01:07:08oh wow
01:07:10you've got me
01:07:12like oh my god
01:07:14hey
01:07:17hey
01:07:17hey
01:07:18welcome back
01:07:23hey
01:07:23hey
01:07:25look out
01:07:26look out
01:07:27nice
01:07:27I actually
01:07:30wore it
01:07:30through the
01:07:30immigration
01:07:31I'm joking
01:07:32do you feel
01:07:33like an American
01:07:34now
01:07:35I'm going there
01:07:37like I feel
01:07:37less British
01:07:38every day
01:07:41tonight Katie's
01:07:42throwing me
01:07:43a welcome
01:07:44party
01:07:44which is
01:07:44such a
01:07:45lovely gesture
01:07:46but there
01:07:48are a couple
01:07:49of people
01:07:50that she
01:07:51has made
01:07:52out with
01:07:52before
01:07:52and
01:07:54that might
01:07:55be really
01:07:55awkward
01:07:55I don't
01:07:56know
01:07:56I don't
01:07:57know
01:07:57if they'll
01:07:58look at
01:07:58me
01:07:58just like
01:07:59like I'm
01:08:00an idiot
01:08:01or
01:08:04hey
01:08:12so Katie's
01:08:13obviously
01:08:13going to
01:08:13have a
01:08:13few
01:08:14drinks
01:08:16she
01:08:16thinks she
01:08:17can drink
01:08:17anyone under
01:08:18the table
01:08:19and she
01:08:19can't
01:08:22so I
01:08:23need Katie
01:08:24to just show
01:08:25me that she's
01:08:25getting her act
01:08:26together
01:08:26and that
01:08:27being here
01:08:28and getting
01:08:29into marriage
01:08:29is not going
01:08:30to be the same
01:08:30story that
01:08:31we've had
01:08:33I don't
01:08:34think Katie
01:08:34should think
01:08:35that
01:08:36my forgiveness
01:08:37is unlimited
01:08:38what's going on
01:08:42girl
01:08:42how are you
01:08:43doing
01:08:43I'm doing great
01:08:44what about you
01:08:46Josh is here
01:08:47yeah did you like
01:08:48his new look
01:08:49I like the new look
01:08:53I knew Katie
01:08:54all of a week
01:08:55before we hooked
01:08:56up and
01:08:58she's a
01:08:59she's a lioness
01:09:00on the prowl
01:09:01if you're just
01:09:02close enough
01:09:03she'll just like
01:09:03go in that
01:09:04extra step
01:09:04for the kiss
01:09:05made out with me
01:09:07Katie is made out
01:09:08with my roommate
01:09:10at this party
01:09:11that I'm aware
01:09:12of
01:09:13myself
01:09:14she's kissed me
01:09:15she's kissed
01:09:16Bella
01:09:17Fred
01:09:18and
01:09:18our Josh
01:09:20British Josh
01:09:21like I had to
01:09:22ban her from
01:09:22sticking her tongue
01:09:23in my mouth
01:09:23because I
01:09:23that's too much
01:09:25that's yeah
01:09:28dude it's your
01:09:29turn
01:09:29for darts
01:09:30oh boy
01:09:31okay
01:09:32we will chat
01:09:33later
01:09:34can I steal you
01:09:35for a second
01:09:36can I steal you
01:09:37for a sec
01:09:40nice
01:09:42well that's good
01:09:43like that
01:09:44wait really
01:09:45like I'm not
01:09:46gonna hurt anyone
01:09:47like
01:09:48I mean
01:09:49no no no
01:09:50like
01:09:51oh yeah
01:09:55this is actually
01:09:56fun
01:09:56how was picking
01:09:58him up
01:09:58I surprised him
01:09:59with the America
01:10:00decorations
01:10:00yes I love that
01:10:01he's into that
01:10:02what's the biggest
01:10:03culture shock
01:10:03when you first
01:10:04visit Portland
01:10:05oh
01:10:06that's I mean
01:10:07just generally
01:10:08how people
01:10:09communicate
01:10:10like I've been
01:10:11trying very hard
01:10:12to be less
01:10:12like
01:10:13closed and reserved
01:10:15because I think
01:10:16Americans are quite
01:10:17you know
01:10:18you say what
01:10:19you think
01:10:20yeah
01:10:21when we went home
01:10:22we like got ready
01:10:23for bed
01:10:24and we
01:10:25were gonna
01:10:26we did not have
01:10:27sex in the night
01:10:28but
01:10:29in the morning
01:10:30we had sex
01:10:33for you guys
01:10:34how does it feel
01:10:35to see Katie
01:10:35after I don't know
01:10:36when you'd last
01:10:36for the scene
01:10:37oh it's different
01:10:38she's had like
01:10:39these quick in and
01:10:40outs you know
01:10:41over the time
01:10:41yeah and
01:10:42like we've known
01:10:43Katie for a while
01:10:44she's
01:10:45she's built
01:10:45a bit of a loose
01:10:46cannon right
01:10:47like what does
01:10:48that mean
01:10:50well she was
01:10:51just so
01:10:52like loose
01:10:54before just
01:10:55like very much
01:10:56just like everything
01:10:57was a party
01:10:58yes
01:11:00100% like
01:11:01she was just
01:11:02going off the
01:11:02rest
01:11:05so I'm not sure
01:11:06whether it's
01:11:07one of those
01:11:08situations where
01:11:09everyone else
01:11:10in the room
01:11:10knows something
01:11:12and they don't
01:11:13want to tell me
01:11:13on the other
01:11:15hand
01:11:15we excluded
01:11:16everyone
01:11:16that Katie's
01:11:17kissed
01:11:18from being
01:11:18friends
01:11:19then we would
01:11:20have a friendship
01:11:21of two
01:11:22which would be
01:11:22Katie and I
01:11:24we had some
01:11:25good conversations
01:11:26about like
01:11:27how what I need
01:11:29versus what he
01:11:29needs
01:11:30and that
01:11:31like he said
01:11:32he'll be like
01:11:33more sexually
01:11:33available and
01:11:34like more open
01:11:35to that
01:11:35and I promise
01:11:36like I'm going
01:11:37to stop
01:11:38like get too
01:11:39drunk and
01:11:39seek out
01:11:40attention
01:11:41when she's
01:11:42going about
01:11:42all these
01:11:43wild crazy
01:11:43stunts
01:11:44like how have
01:11:44you dealt
01:11:45with that
01:11:46as in like
01:11:46why am I
01:11:47like what
01:11:48like you're
01:11:50moving halfway
01:11:50around the world
01:11:51like that's a
01:11:52huge change
01:11:53for me to make
01:11:53this commitment
01:11:54of kind of
01:11:55leaving my
01:11:55home country
01:11:56I need to
01:11:57know it's
01:11:57going somewhere
01:12:00and I feel
01:12:01that with Katie
01:12:02but she does
01:12:03come with that
01:12:04level of craziness
01:12:05where you're like
01:12:06okay hold on
01:12:07like let's
01:12:07slow down
01:12:08like what are you
01:12:08doing here
01:12:09type thing
01:12:09I don't know
01:12:10I think you
01:12:11just you
01:12:11you roll
01:12:12through those
01:12:13punches way
01:12:13better than
01:12:14I ever could
01:12:17what stuck out
01:12:18about Josh
01:12:19tonight was
01:12:21his that
01:12:22he's he's
01:12:23all in
01:12:24let's go get
01:12:25another drink
01:12:25yes I'd love
01:12:26that
01:12:26he's got his
01:12:28his heart and
01:12:29his mind you
01:12:30know just in
01:12:30the correct
01:12:31place but I
01:12:32am worried that
01:12:33she will make
01:12:34big mistakes
01:12:35okay
01:12:36hey babe
01:12:37Katie can be
01:12:38wild you know
01:12:39she'll drive the
01:12:40crowd you know
01:12:41just push everybody
01:12:42to like you know
01:12:43let's all go
01:12:44karaoke you know
01:12:45let's all make
01:12:45out once she's
01:12:46been drinking a
01:12:47certain amount
01:12:48I mean that
01:12:48definitely gets
01:12:50cranked up
01:12:53we saw you and
01:12:54Mark and Josh
01:12:54talking I saw
01:12:56the label
01:12:56the ex-lovers
01:12:57chat I guess
01:12:59you're not my
01:12:59ex-lover
01:13:00what were you
01:13:01guys talking
01:13:02about
01:13:02they were
01:13:03like essentially
01:13:04like checking
01:13:04checking in
01:13:05with me
01:13:06like seeing
01:13:08how I'm
01:13:08doing
01:13:08like
01:13:10why or
01:13:11like how
01:13:11did it go
01:13:12it went
01:13:14great
01:13:14it doesn't
01:13:17bug you
01:13:19that we
01:13:19banged
01:13:20before
01:13:21I banged
01:13:22both Josh
01:13:23and Mark
01:13:23one time
01:13:25not one time
01:13:26like three
01:13:26times
01:13:27no
01:13:30you're not
01:13:30insecure
01:13:31I mean
01:13:32like do you
01:13:33want to be
01:13:33with me
01:13:33yeah
01:13:36I feel like
01:13:37sometimes I
01:13:38feel like
01:13:38oh
01:13:40maybe I'll
01:13:40think about
01:13:41like the
01:13:42chemistry I
01:13:43used to have
01:13:44or like a
01:13:45brief thought
01:13:45will cross my
01:13:46mind
01:13:47sorry
01:13:48but it's
01:13:49more of like
01:13:49oh I know
01:13:52that didn't
01:13:52work out
01:13:53like
01:13:53yeah
01:13:54yeah
01:13:56well I hope
01:13:57you guys can
01:13:58like hang out
01:13:59yeah
01:13:59yeah
01:13:59I was
01:13:59planning to
01:14:01ah yeah
01:14:02that's good
01:14:05sometimes
01:14:05Katie
01:14:06can
01:14:08say something
01:14:09in the hope
01:14:09that it will
01:14:10become true
01:14:11and I hope
01:14:12that this isn't
01:14:13one of those
01:14:14situations
01:14:14and I don't
01:14:15want to
01:14:16be living
01:14:18in a relationship
01:14:19where I'm
01:14:19second guessing
01:14:19things
01:14:21this would
01:14:22have been a
01:14:22massive waste
01:14:23of my time
01:14:23and money
01:14:24and emotions
01:14:25to come here
01:14:27for me to be
01:14:29made a fool of
01:14:30Katie needs to
01:14:31prove her
01:14:32commitment to me
01:14:33and to us
01:14:34or this
01:14:35relationship
01:14:35it won't work
01:14:37should we go
01:14:38that way
01:14:38how do you feel
01:14:39I feel like
01:14:40it's time to
01:14:40go that way
01:14:42can you have
01:14:42a good night
01:14:43tonight
01:14:57there's a
01:14:57strong possibility
01:14:58that this is
01:15:00all going to
01:15:00fall apart
01:15:03baby you know
01:15:04you understand
01:15:04what's wrong
01:15:05I need
01:15:0710 days
01:15:09I'm really
01:15:10worried
01:15:11it's just
01:15:11maybe too much
01:15:38I've been
01:15:39trying to get
01:15:39in touch
01:15:40with Mido
01:15:41and haven't
01:15:42been able
01:15:43to get
01:15:43through
01:15:45Mido's
01:15:45flight is
01:15:46tomorrow
01:15:47there's a
01:15:48strong possibility
01:15:49that he's
01:15:51not going
01:15:51to be
01:15:51on that
01:15:51flight
01:15:53and this
01:15:53is all
01:15:54going to
01:15:54fall apart
01:16:02sudden
01:16:03night
01:16:03because you
01:16:04made me
01:16:05lose my
01:16:06mind
01:16:21it's been a
01:16:22couple days
01:16:23since I heard
01:16:24from Mido
01:16:26it's been
01:16:27tough
01:16:30his father's
01:16:31not well
01:16:32we don't know
01:16:34what the
01:16:36diagnosis
01:16:36may be
01:16:37his father's
01:16:39going through
01:16:39a series of
01:16:40tests
01:16:40but there's
01:16:41still
01:16:42ways to go
01:16:43before we
01:16:44have any
01:16:44idea of
01:16:45what this
01:16:45is actually
01:16:46going to
01:16:46be
01:16:47I know
01:16:48he's
01:16:48stressed
01:16:49I know
01:16:49he's got
01:16:50a million
01:16:50and one
01:16:51things going
01:16:51on
01:16:52at the
01:16:52same
01:16:52point
01:16:53I'm not
01:16:53getting
01:16:54much
01:16:54communication
01:16:57I definitely
01:16:58go times
01:16:58without hearing
01:16:59from Mido
01:17:00because he
01:17:01is just
01:17:01the type
01:17:02of person
01:17:02that he
01:17:04needs
01:17:04that break
01:17:05from people
01:17:07when Mido
01:17:08goes silent
01:17:09it can last
01:17:09a couple
01:17:10of days
01:17:10two three
01:17:11days
01:17:11that part
01:17:12of his
01:17:13personality
01:17:13was hard
01:17:14to become
01:17:14accustomed
01:17:15to
01:17:15and when
01:17:17he is
01:17:18in his
01:17:18mode
01:17:19of no
01:17:20contact
01:17:20it becomes
01:17:21frustrating
01:17:25we're about
01:17:2620 something
01:17:27hours away
01:17:28from the
01:17:28flight
01:17:29so him
01:17:30changing
01:17:30that ticket
01:17:31at this
01:17:31point in
01:17:32the game
01:17:32I don't
01:17:33think it's
01:17:35logical
01:17:38there's a lot
01:17:39of unknowns
01:17:39going on
01:17:40at the
01:17:40moment
01:18:08I don't
01:18:16How are you doing, baby?
01:18:19Not good.
01:18:24What's wrong?
01:18:26Baby, you know, you understand what's wrong.
01:18:29I just, I'm trying to be there, baby.
01:18:32I don't know what to say.
01:18:35Did you talk with the doctor?
01:18:42I'm not trying to, like, aggravate you.
01:18:45I'm just trying to be there.
01:18:55Why do you, what will, baby, what will be done in 10 days that it's not done now?
01:19:02When he's talking to me, he will come.
01:19:05Mito, what do you want me to do?
01:19:07I told you, I told you.
01:19:10I told you need just two weeks.
01:19:13If something happens, not you to return back.
01:19:17I told you that.
01:19:20Do you want me to check the airlines to find out how much the ticket would be for you to
01:19:25go later?
01:19:26You can do that?
01:19:27I don't know what I can do.
01:19:33Take me to send.
01:19:35I hope to find something after two weeks.
01:19:38Okay.
01:19:40Mito's extremely agitated at the moment, and I definitely am concerned that he's getting cold feet about coming to America.
01:19:48It just feels to me like it's just always something, and I'm tired.
01:19:56Bye-bye.
01:19:57Bye-bye.
01:20:03At what point do you decide on a journey or on a decision what's a test of a commitment, and
01:20:13what's a sign of something that's just not meant to be?
01:20:19And I'm not sure where to put that anymore.
01:20:24I'm really worried that Mito's not going to get on that flight.
01:20:30I'm really worried when it's going to be time.
01:20:56I'm really worried it's just made me too much.
01:21:06Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:21:09This is my miniatures.
01:21:11I like to collect tiny things.
01:21:14They are a tool for manifestation.
01:21:16It's a toilet.
01:21:18It's a toilet.
01:21:18There's a poop here.
01:21:19I always wanted to get married with a gringo.
01:21:24The universe introduced me, Thomas.
01:21:27Welcome to my city!
01:21:34Holly gives the universe way too much credit.
01:21:38I'm so happy.
01:21:40I love you so much.
01:21:41Especially when it's me.
01:21:45When I'll be there, I can't work.
01:21:47For a little bit, yeah.
01:21:49We are now on our way to America.
01:21:52If my mom called me, like, Rashid, can you send me like 10,000 Turkish Liru?
01:22:00People think Americans are so rich.
01:22:03But my parents need to help.
01:22:06I don't make that much money.
01:22:10Oh, hey, guys!
01:22:13When I walk in, I can't believe that it's a mess.
01:22:17We're probably going to head on home.
01:22:19Can we get a couple of dollars?
01:22:22Here you go.
01:22:24Okay, bye, guys!
01:22:25It should be the children taking of the parents, not the parents who are taking care of the children.
01:22:34It's just a few dollars.
01:22:36You need to fix.
01:22:38But that's my daughter.
01:22:40I don't care.
01:22:44I'm worried about how the dynamic of our family is going to change.
01:22:48I'm going to keep it real.
01:22:50She's 32 years old, and she's about to be 46 years old.
01:22:54I just want to make sure that, you know, she's not being taken advantage of, and the boys don't get
01:22:58hurt.
01:22:59Especially when it comes to my kids, I'll bite someone's face off of my kids.
01:23:06My thoughts are racing.
01:23:07I can't even put words to exactly how I'm feeling.
01:23:12Today is the day that Mito is supposed to arrive.
01:23:16Either he is coming over, and we are going to build a life, or there's no place left to go.
01:23:24I've never been at all.
01:23:26I have never been at all.
01:23:31I don't know why it's saying racism.
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